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Being asked "Why are you single?" (Page 3)
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Posted by Arielle83you really are outgoing. lol
I consider myself single right now cuz he's in Melbourne all week!
I'm baking cakes and dancing to prince in my undies.
Going clubbing booooyaaa
Mimosa's for breakfast!!
Posted by lisabethur8Yes and i agreePosted by Arielle83you really are outgoing. lol
I consider myself single right now cuz he's in Melbourne all week!
I'm baking cakes and dancing to prince in my undies.
Going clubbing booooyaaa
Mimosa's for breakfast!!click to expand
She is outgoing to say she's married.
Posted by veryimportantpersonthis.Posted by AriesLoveYou know tbh with you I think it's the opposite.Posted by veryimportantpersonThere is something wrong with that. If that's your business or trade and you are providing services...but to just ramble about nothing all day everyday something is off.Posted by AriesLoveMy sister posts comments on YouTube all the time and she's happily married.Posted by veryimportantpersonYes you can post online...but ALL the time!
You can be happily married and still posts on this site too all you single people.
There will be times you will get bored even while happily married and want to go on line too.
Have you single folks ever think about that?
Well I suggest thinking about it before getting down married people's neck.
I was not like this when I was married. My mind was elsewhere.
I see nothing wrong with married people posting on a public forum all the time.
Even the ones that claim to have relationships pop on and off. Especially the men.
I would think there's something wrong with single people who has nobody to be here all the time.
When single there's plenty to do other than stay home playing on the internets.
When married and settled, you free to stay home and post on line all you want.click to expand
when single, it is lonely. and you want to go out and meet people, hang out with your friends.
when married, as I am, my husband works at home most weeks, sometimes ALL week he is here working. and this week he is working at home. So if I come online for a few hours after I finish my work, ect. you all get on my ass over it like I should be out gallivanting the world with him. He never chose a woman who is like that. He doesn't like "outgoing" women. It's our "core" values. that's the point of finding compatibility.
well not all single peeps want to go hang out with people, btw. many are introverts. So you try the online dating. and hopefully meet another introvert.
wow, I didn't know that was a kind of "strategy" ...hm
now that I think of it, it COULD be a STRATEGY of sorts for women to exude this kind of "confidence" that I don't need a man, when deeply they do.
it's the same when a woman brags that she's GOOD IN BED, to a man, challenging him, and the man is supposed to get that she's a super HOTTIE in bed and make the man salivate.
now that I think of it, it COULD be a STRATEGY of sorts for women to exude this kind of "confidence" that I don't need a man, when deeply they do.
it's the same when a woman brags that she's GOOD IN BED, to a man, challenging him, and the man is supposed to get that she's a super HOTTIE in bed and make the man salivate.
this thread isn't about why a woman is single ... it is about informing dxp that other people have asked the OP why she is.
this is about attention ... not a life choice.
The OP wanted us to know that she's a sought after commodity, in her opinion .....
Posted by Arielle83😆Posted by AriesLoveI'm single this week!!!
Being asked "Why are you single?"
All bored married women still responding
Haiiiii
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Posted by AriesLove😆
I can't entertain these housewives anymore.
It's obvious their husbands have locked them in a room somewhere.
yay!!! AriesLove is back.
Posted by Nevermoreaw this is the sweetest thing to say.
But reading throughout of this..
I'm single because its my choice to learn & evaluated myself before I'm ready to have the relationship with someone.
And why not let them show how much happy they are? If they are happy, then I'm happy too.click to expand
@Op- I ask that to guys on line all the time why are you single? Usually it because they have been hurt 90 percent of them, has 2-3 kids the least, and not interested in long term right now because just got divorced or in the process and separated...or fwb and open relationships only.
I asked myself why am I single that is why I can't deal with all that especially because I do know what I want and I want no baggage, drama or bullshit at this age.
Posted by lisabethur8
when married, as I am, my husband works at home most weeks, sometimes ALL week he is here working. and this week he is working at home. So if I come online for a few hours after I finish my work, ect. you all get on my ass over it like I should be out gallivanting the world with him. He never chose a woman who is like that. He doesn't like "outgoing" women. It's our "core" values. that's the point of finding compatibility.
Why are you explaining yourself to the people who taunt and bully you?
Clearly, the people you are talking to, are looking for opportunities to attack you ... and you continue to give them ammunition.
why?
at any rate, this isn't what this topic is about. It's about this bitch trying to get attention by claiming to be prize status in the eyes of the viewing audience.
@xxaliciaxxx,
I guess we just don't see "EYE to EYE"
because, when I see you all posting asking for LOVE relationships/who is compatible....
i'd never want to be single again.
ONLY if I were with a rotten man, then i'd desire to be single.
but i'm not.
so, there you go.
I guess we just don't see "EYE to EYE"
because, when I see you all posting asking for LOVE relationships/who is compatible....
i'd never want to be single again.
ONLY if I were with a rotten man, then i'd desire to be single.
but i'm not.
so, there you go.
Posted by P-Angelit's alright, P,Posted by lisabethur8
when married, as I am, my husband works at home most weeks, sometimes ALL week he is here working. and this week he is working at home. So if I come online for a few hours after I finish my work, ect. you all get on my ass over it like I should be out gallivanting the world with him. He never chose a woman who is like that. He doesn't like "outgoing" women. It's our "core" values. that's the point of finding compatibility.
Why are you explaining yourself to the people who taunt and bully you?
Clearly, the people you are talking to, are looking for opportunities to attack you ... and you continue to give them ammunition.
why?
at any rate, this isn't what this topic is about. It's about this bitch trying to get attention by claiming like a prize in the eyes of the view audience.click to expand
i don't really mind if they want to attack and have at it.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX😄Posted by AriesLoveIt's obvious that lisabethur8 is envious. That's why she feels the need to prove something to all of us. She's more than likely miserable in her marriage.
I can't entertain these housewives anymore.
It's obvious their husbands have locked them in a room somewhere.
Seeing a bunch of happily single women on a forum makes her feel bad about herself and her current situation. So she must convince us that theres something wrong with us in order to avoid the fact that there's actually something wrong with her. Its self projection to the fullest.click to expand
Isn't it obvious that both parties have gone all female cattiness on this?
I mean...it's puzzling to me to see people taking sides when the attacks went both ways and the shade is everywhere.
But sure, maybe one party is "more" justified. lol
*shrugs*
I mean...it's puzzling to me to see people taking sides when the attacks went both ways and the shade is everywhere.
But sure, maybe one party is "more" justified. lol
*shrugs*
Posted by Nevermoreallright. i'll bow out.
Plus @lisabethur8 , I do agree with P-angel though. It's the way to attack you even more just like right now.
Spare with it and know that they don't know you and your husband in personally anyway.
I enjoyed the sparring and fun though. 😄 😄
aw, you ladies, someday you'll find a man who'll suit your needs.
better to be single and stress-free than to be with a rotten guy and full of stress and unhappiness.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXThe whole point is that this was a topic that got derailed with petty bullshit from ALL sides.Posted by DamnataExactly. Lisa started with the cattiness and people came back with cattiness.
Isn't it obvious that both parties have gone all female cattiness on this?
I mean...it's puzzling to me to see people taking sides when the attacks went both ways and the shade is everywhere.
But sure, maybe one party is "more" justified. lol
*shrugs*
Both sides are guilty, but Lisa did start the entire situation.
But when certain people are biased, they will take sides and ignore the other people in the situation. Typical DXP drama.click to expand
It doesn't matter who started it because when you look at dxp in its entirety, I've seen posters both attack and be attacked without provocation.
Same for all of us on dxp, no matter how much anyone denies it. There are topics that rile us up...topics where we rile others up.
But the inability to quit..like a dog with a bone is...ugh.
I mean the irony in it all is that all women relate to single/married through the absence/presence of a man ...and where are men in this topic? Not bothering with women anymore when they sit back and watch the drama unfold and just shake their head at it...it immediately goes from "this person is my equal" to "forget about it...women are erratic and delusional with each other, let alone with us". To not even bring into discussion how a woman's value should never be tied to a man (and no, this shouldn't be read by single women as "we get it! that's our whole point!" or married women as "I agree but I made a partnership work and I have higher standing based on that alone").
You're single and happy? Great, there is no need to be defensive when you're happy and go to lengths to defend a choice that applies to you and you alone.
You're married and happy? Great, there is no need to be defensive when you're happy and go to lengths to defend a choice that applies to you and you alone.
Point blank.
Fuck all your moral high horses.
*exits topic on a pony*
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXomg.Posted by lisabethur8Hopefully never, but enjoy your husband doormat. I mean, Lisa! 😄Posted by Nevermoreallright. i'll bow out.
Plus @lisabethur8 , I do agree with P-angel though. It's the way to attack you even more just like right now.
Spare with it and know that they don't know you and your husband in personally anyway.
I enjoyed the sparring and fun though. 😄 😄
aw, you ladies, someday you'll find a man who'll suit your needs.
better to be single and stress-free than to be with a rotten guy and full of stress and unhappiness.
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