Dates forever. Broke up...married another

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Gemitati on Friday, November 30, 2018 and has 24 replies.

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@Gemitati
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For a longest time I’ve been wondering seeing it happenning just too often.

People are dating for years. Then all of a sudden they break up and one of them get married to someone whom they barely know...

How this is happenning and where all this past go?

Have anyone here been there?

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I don't believe that they "barely know" them.

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Posted by Majin

I don't believe that they "barely know" them.

Let’s trust me. It’s been proven because one couple I knew dates in CA. Broke up. She moved back Waar Coast. 2 months...BOOM! Wedding!

Not pregnant and haven’t met the guy ever before. Loved CA bf to pieces...

My bff kid. Dated 6 years since she was 18. We all were treating him as family member. Broke up.

Had met a guy she never knew before. Married. Within a year.

And many more and NO they weren’t going behind their LTR backs. Just take my word!

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Posted by Gemitati

For a longest time I’ve been wondering seeing it happenning just too often.

People are dating for years. Then all of a sudden they break up and one of them get married to someone whom they barely know...

How this is happenning and where all this past go?

Have anyone here been there?

all i can say is that i was married for 30 years. Told him in june of 2017 i want a divorce. He tried to change my mind all the way to Dec then gave up. he got online and started to see other woman and met a woman in march and just married her 3 weeks ago. He had a fear of being a lone.

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Another one. Dates since college. About 7-8 years. Broke up. Sheve met guy from another country while in med school. Dates briefly. Broke up. Married someone who is not here not there. No profession. No nothing. Voila!

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Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Gemitati

For a longest time I’ve been wondering seeing it happenning just too often.

People are dating for years. Then all of a sudden they break up and one of them get married to someone whom they barely know...

How this is happenning and where all this past go?

Have anyone here been there?

all i can say is that i was married for 30 years. Told him in june of 2017 i want a divorce. He tried to change my mind all the way to Dec then gave up. he got online and started to see other woman and met a woman in march and just married her 3 weeks ago. He had a fear of being a lone.

wtf i thought you are 25 or around?

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😆 well thank you. but no i am 47 born 1971. i even have 2 grandchildren.

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Gemitati

For a longest time I’ve been wondering seeing it happenning just too often.

People are dating for years. Then all of a sudden they break up and one of them get married to someone whom they barely know...

How this is happenning and where all this past go?

Have anyone here been there?

all i can say is that i was married for 30 years. Told him in june of 2017 i want a divorce. He tried to change my mind all the way to Dec then gave up. he got online and started to see other woman and met a woman in march and just married her 3 weeks ago. He had a fear of being a lone.

wtf i thought you are 25 or around?

😆 well thank you. but no i am 47 born 1971. i even have 2 grandchildren.

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Aren’t you in NY yet? 😍

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by MissKrabs

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Gemitati

For a longest time I’ve been wondering seeing it happenning just too often.

People are dating for years. Then all of a sudden they break up and one of them get married to someone whom they barely know...

How this is happenning and where all this past go?

Have anyone here been there?

all i can say is that i was married for 30 years. Told him in june of 2017 i want a divorce. He tried to change my mind all the way to Dec then gave up. he got online and started to see other woman and met a woman in march and just married her 3 weeks ago. He had a fear of being a lone.

wtf i thought you are 25 or around?

😆 well thank you. but no i am 47 born 1971. i even have 2 grandchildren.

Aren’t you in NY yet? 😍

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my brother just brought it up yesterday. 😆 we decide to wait till after xmas. he is looking into tickets for me and how we get my stuff there. i am going to spend the year with my girls

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Posted by Majin

I don't believe that they "barely know" them.

you dont really know someone till you live with them

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True dat

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@Gemitati
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Posted by RooSagicorn

Rebound!! Hate to admit I did it.

WHAT are you doing here? 👿

I was just about make a thread about your date!

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Massive overreaction to the previous relationship probably.

This is it. The rebound marriage only lasted 2 years.. met him 8 months after my heart was destroyed & the guy I was supposed to marry decided not to. Engaged after a month and a half 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳 omg so stupid.

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See...I am talking about marriages that lasting until now. They all my friends kids...so I know for sure!

Rebound I understand! You want to show ‘him’ that he was wrong and stupid...but after all...you get hurt again...😭

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by RooSagicorn

Rebound!! Hate to admit I did it.

WHAT are you doing here? 👿

I was just about make a thread about your date!

Lol!!! It’s in 3 hours I’m on the west coast 😂

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Why can’t you live in a ‘normal’ time zone? Lmao

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Posted by Gemitati.I am talking about marriages that lasting until now. They all my friends kids...so I know for sure!

Lasting marriage doesn't mean shit.

Just look at your farce of a marriage.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati.I am talking about marriages that lasting until now. They all my friends kids...so I know for sure!

Lasting marriage doesn't mean shit.

Just look at your farce of a marriage.

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Nothing means shit for you.

I am done with you. Bye.

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Eh maybe their long term relationship ended up being more about comfort, and not liking change.

Then they go out, and at the first sign of "passion", they become illogical idiots, that rush shit. Only to later want to kick themselves in the ass.

Everyone gets deluded by the honeymoon period.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati.I am talking about marriages that lasting until now. They all my friends kids...so I know for sure!

Lasting marriage doesn't mean shit.

Just look at your farce of a marriage.

Nothing means shit for you.

I am done with you. Bye.

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Until my name comes out of your mouth tomorrow.

Don't lie, you love me.

You can't stay away forever.

One two three GO

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Posted by starlord

Posted by Gemitati

For a longest time I’ve been wondering seeing it happenning just too often.

People are dating for years. Then all of a sudden they break up and one of them get married to someone whom they barely know...

How this is happenning and where all this past go?

Have anyone here been there?

This is going to be my faith. I'm gonna be the one he dates forever before getting married very suddenly.

Some of us women are ... How can I say it. I think I represent a kind of woman and sexuality that is not politically correct on this day and age, it's kind of animalistic and pre-civilisation. Guys reeeeeeeally want that. They really want to experience that. But they can't marry it, because it doesn't fit into modern society. If they do marry it, they most likely end up being violent, unfulfilled men. So they have this experience right before to satisfy their own animalistic need and to try it. And then marry someone else.

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You just blew my mind!

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Massive overreaction to the previous relationship probably.

Ding ding ding ding ding

That’s exactly what a Taurus man I once knew did. He had his heart broken on a Monday and was in the registry office three Monday’s later.

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is called karma, nothing sweeter than seeing your ex making the dumbest decision of their life after wasting so much of yours 😊 is like destiny is forcing them to fuck up 😁

just needing some popcorn now

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they suddenly realized they were forcing themselves in a bad relationship and they instinctively chose the first person that wouldn't take them down the same path.

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They learned from their mistakes!

The best chances to marry someone are within 1-2 years of seriously dating them. Date them for longer, you reach the point when passionate love is replaced by friendly love. The chances he will propose are going down, down, down....