
longafternoonnaps
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts
Comments: 5390 Ā· Posts: 10885 Ā· Topics: 287


Posted by GammaArietis
Idk but when I feel like I messed up I just go silent to make them feel insecure about the interaction too 𤣠now we both feel weird and they need to fix it


Posted by Krabss
Is this the slipknot guy or something? Why do you care about it, he is a human too. Maybe even boring and dumb.
Idk. Leos usually like outgoing women, but can be attracted to shyness too. I think he should be aware of that. Not a bad thing.
Just wait and bleed. Jk!
Wait and see, soon you will know. He'll call you in no time if interested. Tho not sure about that cancer moon.

Posted by -Capriquarius
Just wait until he text you. And try not to be so shy next time š


Posted by KimboSlice
Movie wasnāt a bad choice
You method acting as an aspie was the culprit.

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by KimboSlice
Movie wasnāt a bad choice
You method acting as an aspie was the culprit.
i'm not always this excessively neurotic but i've never dated anyone this much older than me and now i know that it makes me feel insecure. i feel like i was just always at the receiving end and like some kinda smooch/user.
this makes me so uncomfortable but i really want him. i just don't know how to express it. he hugged me during the movie and i can't even look at him and it was DARK. i felt like crying at home coz i feel so embarrassed.click to expand

Posted by Bumboklaat
This seems like every Virgo date I went on. Except for the one I ruined myself š


Posted by BumboklaatPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Bumboklaat
This seems like every Virgo date I went on. Except for the one I ruined myself š
Virgo ... the shy sign š
My Virgo rising makes me seem shy but I'm mostly avoidant, efficient and selective
The girls I dated were definitely not shy either lol but they do entertain a good date at the beginning and spaz out at the end.click to expand

Posted by GammaArietis
Idk but when I feel like I messed up I just go silent to make them feel insecure about the interaction too 𤣠now we both feel weird and they need to fix it


Posted by 51R60
Yeah. Vape some cbd with a low dose of thc if any while hanging out with him. I'd say take a valium, but he might be determined to get you drunk. Maybe you should just drink with him or turn up already a little buzzed lol. What relaxes you?

Posted by GammaArietis
Idk but when I feel like I messed up I just go silent to make them feel insecure about the interaction too 𤣠now we both feel weird and they need to fix it

Posted by KrabssPosted by GammaArietis
Idk but when I feel like I messed up I just go silent to make them feel insecure about the interaction too 𤣠now we both feel weird and they need to fix it
Good tactic ššš, will remember.click to expand

Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo men donāt do well with the rejection. He probably feels a bit awkward and unsure. Like why didnāt you kiss him passionately? š

Posted by KimboSlicePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by KimboSlice
Movie wasnāt a bad choice
You method acting as an aspie was the culprit.
i'm not always this excessively neurotic but i've never dated anyone this much older than me and now i know that it makes me feel insecure. i feel like i was just always at the receiving end and like some kinda smooch/user.
this makes me so uncomfortable but i really want him. i just don't know how to express it. he hugged me during the movie and i can't even look at him and it was DARK. i felt like crying at home coz i feel so embarrassed.
Leo suns are understanding people, even with people who donāt communicate their issues.
My Leo friend dated this bipolar Pisces moon chick who wasnāt worth the trouble, yet he took pity on her because her wealthy parents pretty much disowned her. She would throw flowers he got her on the highway, run out of restaurants, yell at his family, etc. All unprovoked. She felt she could Dempsey roll him like that because he was a genuine gentleman to her.
My advice to you is donāt take advantage of his patience because of your own shortcomings. Leave your Winnie the Pooh plushie at home and put on your big girl pants.click to expand



Posted by SeaLion
@virgooppp
Do you compliment him ever? Or does your shyness keep you from giving compliments?

Posted by GemiMayPosted by KimboSlicePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by KimboSlice
Movie wasnāt a bad choice
You method acting as an aspie was the culprit.
i'm not always this excessively neurotic but i've never dated anyone this much older than me and now i know that it makes me feel insecure. i feel like i was just always at the receiving end and like some kinda smooch/user.
this makes me so uncomfortable but i really want him. i just don't know how to express it. he hugged me during the movie and i can't even look at him and it was DARK. i felt like crying at home coz i feel so embarrassed.
Leo suns are understanding people, even with people who donāt communicate their issues.
My Leo friend dated this bipolar Pisces moon chick who wasnāt worth the trouble, yet he took pity on her because her wealthy parents pretty much disowned her. She would throw flowers he got her on the highway, run out of restaurants, yell at his family, etc. All unprovoked. She felt she could Dempsey roll him like that because he was a genuine gentleman to her.
My advice to you is donāt take advantage of his patience because of your own shortcomings. Leave your Winnie the Pooh plushie at home and put on your big girl pants.
Great post!
And as I was happy that finally somebody made a smart post - here OP is shitting her baby diaper again (down below):
the idea of hanging out with his friends makes me even more nervous
šš¤¦āāļøš»click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SeaLion
@virgooppp
Do you compliment him ever? Or does your shyness keep you from giving compliments?
i tell him that it's impressive how he's done different kinds of work and how amazingly shocked i am that he thinks of his band as just some hobby lol
when he brought me to that place, it's like everywhere he pointed he was somehow involved in. he is super extroverted. i told him he lived so much life ššclick to expand

Posted by SeaLionPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SeaLion
@virgooppp
Do you compliment him ever? Or does your shyness keep you from giving compliments?
i tell him that it's impressive how he's done different kinds of work and how amazingly shocked i am that he thinks of his band as just some hobby lol
when he brought me to that place, it's like everywhere he pointed he was somehow involved in. he is super extroverted. i told him he lived so much life šš
Do you focus on anything other than his music? What else does he do?click to expand

Posted by KimboSlicePosted by GemiMayPosted by KimboSlicePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by KimboSlice
Movie wasnāt a bad choice
You method acting as an aspie was the culprit.
i'm not always this excessively neurotic but i've never dated anyone this much older than me and now i know that it makes me feel insecure. i feel like i was just always at the receiving end and like some kinda smooch/user.
this makes me so uncomfortable but i really want him. i just don't know how to express it. he hugged me during the movie and i can't even look at him and it was DARK. i felt like crying at home coz i feel so embarrassed.
Leo suns are understanding people, even with people who donāt communicate their issues.
My Leo friend dated this bipolar Pisces moon chick who wasnāt worth the trouble, yet he took pity on her because her wealthy parents pretty much disowned her. She would throw flowers he got her on the highway, run out of restaurants, yell at his family, etc. All unprovoked. She felt she could Dempsey roll him like that because he was a genuine gentleman to her.
My advice to you is donāt take advantage of his patience because of your own shortcomings. Leave your Winnie the Pooh plushie at home and put on your big girl pants.
Great post!
And as I was happy that finally somebody made a smart post - here OP is shitting her baby diaper again (down below):
the idea of hanging out with his friends makes me even more nervous
šš¤¦āāļøš»
Shut up Gemilongtittiesclick to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SeaLionPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SeaLion
@virgooppp
Do you compliment him ever? Or does your shyness keep you from giving compliments?
i tell him that it's impressive how he's done different kinds of work and how amazingly shocked i am that he thinks of his band as just some hobby lol
when he brought me to that place, it's like everywhere he pointed he was somehow involved in. he is super extroverted. i told him he lived so much life šš
Do you focus on anything other than his music? What else does he do?
yeah he was casted in theater too for a musical, he's also worked in some hospital records place for couple years, he's taught ice skating to kids on his off days and a lot of artistic pieces he helped in creating hangs all over that part of the city we went to.click to expand


Posted by Hypnotoad
Joey jordison died last year dude

Posted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.
You donāt know that. Letās say you went for drinks, got drunk quickly (like a true Asian), then took a taxi to his place for drunken sex. Next morning, he ignored your messages. Would this scenario make you feel better?click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.
Leoās who donāt pursue you, is a bad sign. Usually when they want you, youāll know. You are facing the icy Leo now and it is not pleasant after so much hot pursue. If he wants you, he will come again. If not, thatās it. Maybe his pride and ego is wounded, who knows.
But yeah, if he wants it, heāll come and get it!click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.
You donāt know that. Letās say you went for drinks, got drunk quickly (like a true Asian), then took a taxi to his place for drunken sex. Next morning, he ignored your messages. Would this scenario make you feel better?
i'm not good with my drinks. and my driving is just as bad. i used to have a driver in the past coz i used to park anywhere and fall asleep on the wheel.
the place he chose was halfway between us. but i thought he really liked me š¢click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPP
so this leo sun/cancer moon brought me to this place he hasn't been to in 10 years and he did most of the talking. we had dinner, coffee and watched a movie. but i felt so awkward, nervous and shy that i can barely look at him. i remember conversing in return about astrology, my rabbit, our planned beach trip and thailand trip. i must've looked really uninterested like always šš he didn't seem deterred yet at the end of the movie, he asked if maybe we can get drinks? in a panic, i quickly said: "not really." but if he wanted to then maybe but i quickly excused myself coz i felt like throwing up from the nerves. he walked me to my car, gave him a quick peck supposedly on the cheek but he turned his mouth and i all but ran to my car wtf is that thing i do. like why do i exist just to suffer? i felt so embarrassed and awkward.
and my phone was dead so i got to text him only after i got home. i said i had a pleasant night and asked him if he got home safe too. then a little lol at how he always stays up until 3am coz i'm lame at flirting wtf is that thing i do. his only reply was: "got home safe too."
and that's it he's still online and nothing šš you gotta understand that i felt a bit insecure coz he's a kinda famous musician and much older that i just kinda built the panic in my head šš but then he used to say this about our texts to each other: "it's okay to have this comfortable silence sometimes too." this was when i felt apologetic coz i felt boring and like i wasn't texting him enough.

Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.
You donāt know that. Letās say you went for drinks, got drunk quickly (like a true Asian), then took a taxi to his place for drunken sex. Next morning, he ignored your messages. Would this scenario make you feel better?
i'm not good with my drinks. and my driving is just as bad. i used to have a driver in the past coz i used to park anywhere and fall asleep on the wheel.
the place he chose was halfway between us. but i thought he really liked me š¢
Oh yes! I remember your ex wanting to borrow (or claim?) your chauffeur! Congrats to becoming more independent and driving yourself.
Yeah, feeling rejected after one date sucks for a few days. Never happened to me but I really wish it didā¦.would have wasted less time and dated someone more compatible or enthusiastic šclick to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.
You donāt know that. Letās say you went for drinks, got drunk quickly (like a true Asian), then took a taxi to his place for drunken sex. Next morning, he ignored your messages. Would this scenario make you feel better?
i'm not good with my drinks. and my driving is just as bad. i used to have a driver in the past coz i used to park anywhere and fall asleep on the wheel.
the place he chose was halfway between us. but i thought he really liked me š¢
Oh yes! I remember your ex wanting to borrow (or claim?) your chauffeur! Congrats to becoming more independent and driving yourself.
Yeah, feeling rejected after one date sucks for a few days. Never happened to me but I really wish it didā¦.would have wasted less time and dated someone more compatible or enthusiastic š
fire sign men seem so child-like too like it's so cute.
he dragged me to a drugstore to look for a drug testing kit. and gleefully told me that if we had the same blood type, we can drink red wine together for health benefits šš
he was talking about it like a kid in a candy store. it was adorable šš
the one time i dated someone cool and it's over ššclick to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.
You donāt know that. Letās say you went for drinks, got drunk quickly (like a true Asian), then took a taxi to his place for drunken sex. Next morning, he ignored your messages. Would this scenario make you feel better?
i'm not good with my drinks. and my driving is just as bad. i used to have a driver in the past coz i used to park anywhere and fall asleep on the wheel.
the place he chose was halfway between us. but i thought he really liked me š¢
Oh yes! I remember your ex wanting to borrow (or claim?) your chauffeur! Congrats to becoming more independent and driving yourself.
Yeah, feeling rejected after one date sucks for a few days. Never happened to me but I really wish it didā¦.would have wasted less time and dated someone more compatible or enthusiastic š
fire sign men seem so child-like too like it's so cute.
he dragged me to a drugstore to look for a drug testing kit. and gleefully told me that if we had the same blood type, we can drink red wine together for health benefits šš
he was talking about it like a kid in a candy store. it was adorable šš
the one time i dated someone cool and it's over šš
Was that an alcohol tolerance patch test? Heās looking for a drink partner šclick to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by UndinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Undine
As opposed to a woman talking incessantly, before grabbing someoneās cock and ending the first date with what will be a ONSā¦.I think you behaved admirably!
Also, it takes two to have meaningful conversations or to break the iceā¦a man of his age should know how to initiate anything or make yourself feel comfortable in his presenceā¦.donāt blame yourself for what is his failure as well.
we've held hands. but i can see he's been online a couple times on and off now but still no reply to any of my usual messages. hasn't even opened them from what i can see- maybe intentionally avoiding them.
maybe he wanted more, like he was offended that i didn't get drinks with him. maybe he's used to not being turned down for anything. or maybe i was just too awkward that he felt he didn't like me anymore. oh well i messed it up but nothing i can do about it.
You donāt know that. Letās say you went for drinks, got drunk quickly (like a true Asian), then took a taxi to his place for drunken sex. Next morning, he ignored your messages. Would this scenario make you feel better?
i'm not good with my drinks. and my driving is just as bad. i used to have a driver in the past coz i used to park anywhere and fall asleep on the wheel.
the place he chose was halfway between us. but i thought he really liked me š¢
Oh yes! I remember your ex wanting to borrow (or claim?) your chauffeur! Congrats to becoming more independent and driving yourself.
Yeah, feeling rejected after one date sucks for a few days. Never happened to me but I really wish it didā¦.would have wasted less time and dated someone more compatible or enthusiastic š
fire sign men seem so child-like too like it's so cute.
he dragged me to a drugstore to look for a drug testing kit. and gleefully told me that if we had the same blood type, we can drink red wine together for health benefits šš
he was talking about it like a kid in a candy store. it was adorable šš
the one time i dated someone cool and it's over šš
Was that an alcohol tolerance patch test? Heās looking for a drink partner š
is that what it is? š¤š¤
he said it's a blood testing kit but unfortunately, they weren't selling it in that specific drugstore.
i just thought it was some weird goth thing with the blood lol. he centers his whole nutritional plan around his blood type.click to expand
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account ā
and my phone was dead so i got to text him only after i got home. i said i had a pleasant night and asked him if he got home safe too. then a little lol at how he always stays up until 3am coz i'm lame at flirting wtf is that thing i do. his only reply was: "got home safe too."
and that's it he's still online and nothing šš you gotta understand that i felt a bit insecure coz he's a kinda famous musician and much older that i just kinda built the panic in my head šš but then he used to say this about our texts to each other: "it's okay to have this comfortable silence sometimes too." this was when i felt apologetic coz i felt boring and like i wasn't texting him enough.