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@MikeNYNYC What are some things in charts that show soulmate connections?
One of the strongest aspects of soulmate is when person B’s moon is the same planet as person A’s sun (called ‘conjunct’) if both have this, it’s what’s called a “double whammy” effect.
Also, if someone’s Mars is the other’s sun, moon or Venus.
Those are for the personal planets. There are many ways to analyze the generational planets.
Lastly, and most importantly, are the nodes of your moon. If your north node is conjunct any person B’s personal planets, and vice versa. Same with the south node.
Then you have to look at life path no., and eastern astrology to confirm those aspects are harmonious.
With all personal planets, they should either be two signs or four signs apart.
Thanks for your answer!
I have the sun-moon double whammy with a male friend of mine -- tight orb. I had always wondered what it would be like to know someone who aspected my chart that way, then finally a few years ago I met my friend. Definitely very good for helping with understanding. We're both the same Lifepath (5) too. We're different in many ways, but there is a kinship that is special.
The Trinity conjunction
Ie scorp sun Taurus moon cap rising
Them cap sun Scorpio moon Taurus rising
So they conduct interchangeable between same sign also when you have two of the same elements between sun moon and rising and the other the same ie two earth on water. I’ve done my research after 8 years of this twin flame dance
Thanks, interesting! I have not had that trinity with anyone yet so I wonder if I will one day. I am Scorpio sun, Gemini moon, Taurus rising, so 1 water, 1 air, 1 earth.
Does he have one of each too
But I still don’t believe these limits.
My friend has 2 air and 1 water, so it's different. I've been thinking of all of my exes and also my friends and wow, no one has one each like I have! In some cases, I don't know their rising, but they have fire sun and/or moon so that means no for them.
I wouldn’t limit connections based on the above .click to expand
I agree, but I am intrigued now because I don't have this with anyone I know. I'm determined to find someone! lol I mean, either with Scorpio, Gemini and Taurus or 1 water, 1 air, one earth. A special often maddening spiritual connection that matches some of what is said about twin flames I may already have with someone, but there isn't this trinity in their chart.
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I do, and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
It's definitely not for the faint of heart or constitution.
so you have had a strong connection with someone?
I can write a fucking book on the subject. And believe it or not, a new chapter is being written right now. 😑
well get writing it man.
No, people who are currently going through the hard phase know that it fucking sucks.
I do not recommend it if you are not emotionally stable to begin with, before it happens.
to late. if he is a twin flame this has been going on since 6th grade. 😆
If you suspect, be sure to do as much research as you can so that you can limit the damage it causes to your psyche. Make no mistake, it will fuck with you on multiple levels...
Thank God I took the right path through the storm.
my psyche was fucked before he came into the picture.
Then you really only have two options: take the high road and you will be rewarded with great compassion and understanding of fellow human beings.
If you take the low road, I suspect you will do something completely opposite of your soul mission and probably end up in jail because you killed the motherfucker. 😂
If it's true, you are on this road now about to take the fork. Good luck! 🙏🏼click to expand
i am not doing anything right now about. i just hope him happiest. if all he wants is just to be chat buddies then fine. he knows how i feel about it and he was like i am sorry. i told him they are my feelings that i just have to deal with. lol
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by ImpulsvPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Impulsv
Today I came across this video an explanation on 500 days of summer.
“This movie isn’t about the one but the one you learn from “
That was feakin stinkin great. thank you
Honestly what I’ve been guided to learn is the tf is your catalyst to question everything you thought you knew and through that increíble pain get you closer to god. To wake you up to your true soul self.
well one thing i have learned it was my low self esteem that kept us from getting together when we were kids. i am still trying to workout what the past 2 years was all about. i really thought it was just a huge crush when we were kids or that is what i told myself all these years. when i saw his name when he facebook friend me. all i know i was hit hard with an overwhelming emotion and a excitement so strong i have never felt in my life. at first i thought maybe life was giving another chance but the timing was really bad. i was soo not wanting to be in love at that moment because i decided love was a bad thing for me. i give to much of myself to the ones i love. that it was a huge distraction getting in the way of my dreams.
So you got healing to do and dreams to accomplish. Did you push him away?click to expand
at times i think i was but he says we will be friends forever. he says he is my daddy and i should fight it. 😆 but he never comes see me when he says he is going to.
well whatever happens happens, i still got to keep on living.
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I am not sure i really believe in twin flames.
Post the birthdays, years as well.
i forget how to upload the birth charts
I’m going to do the charts with the birthdays you give me.
dont you need the places too? I was born in Norwich New york and he was born in chihuahua mexico
Place of origin matters for your ascendant and houses. Other than that, the chart comes out the same everywhere. Houses are very important, but to figure them out I’d need not only places of birth but birth times. However, with only birthdays I can tell you if you’re twin flames or soulmates.
How about 3rd of April-1992 and 27th of May-1985? I'm not sure I want to know this...
I only know my own birth time, and I'm a cancer rising. I can't know for sure, but I feel like he's a Leo moon and possibly pisces rising (the moon switches on that day, so it's either virgo or Leo moon. Leo seems more like him).
We also have a weird numbers thing imo... My birthday is 4+3=7, I was born 7 days after due date (3/27), we are 7 years apart, we met 7 years ago this year, and a few years ago I got this kind of intuitive message that I couldn't move to another city (I was planning on moving, to try and move on from my feelings for him), because we'll get together when I'm 27. I'm 27 now, he was 27 when we met 7 years ago. My parents' age difference is also 7 years. The streets we grew up on have the same names, even though we grew up across the country from each other. There could be more.click to expand
This is not a soulmate matching, and pretty incompatible as well. You’re a triple Aries, sun moon, Mercury, the other has a Virgo moon, fussy, pokes all your flaws out, very investigicative, his communication is slow and yours is fast. Your love type is exhausted
In Pisces. His is quick and rough in Aries. He might also seem like a user to you; his north and south nodes are Taurus and Scorpio. Yours are cancer and Capricorn, softer strokes. Your sun signs get along great, but due to your chart differences I’d keep it at a friendship level. Also, Chinese zodiac, you’re a monkey and he’s an ox. He’s very stubborn and set in his ways, can almost be boring about his routine. You’re much more lively.
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I am not sure i really believe in twin flames.
Post the birthdays, years as well.
i forget how to upload the birth charts
I’m going to do the charts with the birthdays you give me.
dont you need the places too? I was born in Norwich New york and he was born in chihuahua mexico
Place of origin matters for your ascendant and houses. Other than that, the chart comes out the same everywhere. Houses are very important, but to figure them out I’d need not only places of birth but birth times. However, with only birthdays I can tell you if you’re twin flames or soulmates.
How about 3rd of April-1992 and 27th of May-1985? I'm not sure I want to know this...
I only know my own birth time, and I'm a cancer rising. I can't know for sure, but I feel like he's a Leo moon and possibly pisces rising (the moon switches on that day, so it's either virgo or Leo moon. Leo seems more like him).
We also have a weird numbers thing imo... My birthday is 4+3=7, I was born 7 days after due date (3/27), we are 7 years apart, we met 7 years ago this year, and a few years ago I got this kind of intuitive message that I couldn't move to another city (I was planning on moving, to try and move on from my feelings for him), because we'll get together when I'm 27. I'm 27 now, he was 27 when we met 7 years ago. My parents' age difference is also 7 years. The streets we grew up on have the same names, even though we grew up across the country from each other. There could be more.
This is not a soulmate matching, and pretty incompatible as well. You’re a triple Aries, sun moon, Mercury, the other has a Virgo moon, fussy, pokes all your flaws out, very investigicative, his communication is slow and yours is fast. Your love type is exhausted
In Pisces. His is quick and rough in Aries. He might also seem like a user to you; his north and south nodes are Taurus and Scorpio. Yours are cancer and Capricorn, softer strokes. Your sun signs get along great, but due to your chart differences I’d keep it at a friendship level. Also, Chinese zodiac, you’re a monkey and he’s an ox. He’s very stubborn and set in his ways, can almost be boring about his routine. You’re much more lively.click to expand
I meant to say your love style is *exhalted in Pisces, supreme, bonding, mutable to the other’s fancy. His is quick quick quick
@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.click to expand
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by WitchmitchAries
@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.click to expand
that was soo sweet of you to say. "Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. " my self esteem needed it. but now i just need to believe it. 😆 thank you so much
I believe in them. An intense connection. I have never felt anything like it before x
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.click to expand
I’ve run into soulmates before; about
4 or 5 in the last ten years. Someone that I’ve known for over 17 years i discovered is a soulmate only about two yes or so ago. Until then I found it interesting how after the fourth or fifth fight to divide us for two yrs or so keeps making one or the other return; my sun is conjunct my Jupiter which makes me more susceptible to either identifying or fully coming Into contact with soulmates. The point, is that oftentimes, the relationship is so light and easy, that one or both take it for granted. Or, they sense what a strong bond it is and one or both get petty and find amusement in testing the bond, to see who cares more. **It’s a child’s game but as people with yes of broken experiences relating to people were either conditioned to do this or so unfamiliar with a more natural was of maintaining flow. The term, “soulmate rejection” is actually quite popular. Sometimes people aren’t ready for a relationship too. With this guy, stick to your guns. Send him a picture once a wk of you having an amazing time with female friends, on your own, always looking amazing. Mention your goals, but don’t press conversation. Keep it consistent every week. See if he cracks. The relationship may be taken so lightly by him because of the ease of flow. Do not compromise your morals, or he will forever hold it over your head.
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.
I’ve run into soulmates before; about
4 or 5 in the last ten years. Someone that I’ve known for over 17 years i discovered is a soulmate only about two yes or so ago. Until then I found it interesting how after the fourth or fifth fight to divide us for two yrs or so keeps making one or the other return; my sun is conjunct my Jupiter which makes me more susceptible to either identifying or fully coming Into contact with soulmates. The point, is that oftentimes, the relationship is so light and easy, that one or both take it for granted. Or, they sense what a strong bond it is and one or both get petty and find amusement in testing the bond, to see who cares more. **It’s a child’s game but as people with yes of broken experiences relating to people were either conditioned to do this or so unfamiliar with a more natural was of maintaining flow. The term, “soulmate rejection” is actually quite popular. Sometimes people aren’t ready for a relationship too. With this guy, stick to your guns. Send him a picture once a wk of you having an amazing time with female friends, on your own, always looking amazing. Mention your goals, but don’t press conversation. Keep it consistent every week. See if he cracks. The relationship may be taken so lightly by him because of the ease of flow. Do not compromise your morals, or he will forever hold it over your head.click to expand
😆 i so wish i had gotten that advice a long ass time ago, but then i never did like that game. he is married anyways. we just had a chat and it didnt go well. i wish i had friends to go out with. i am not big on playing mind games either. if people want to know what i am about then they should grow some balls or tits and ask. if he wants to keep his stupid secret about how he feels about me to himself so be it. tell me that is how he rolls. please. sorry him and i just had a chat before i read your reply. i didnt like how it went. keep me hooked just because he thinks its fun, please. yes he pissed me off just a little bit. i must be asking to much by wanting to know where i stand.
Nope but I do believe when 2 people are meant to meet.
I started meeting this Saggie when I was 15 first overseas trip. 3 years later at our 'prom' if you wanna call it that. 2 years later again overseas, a year after that, two following that and yeah I've lost count.
I know nothing about her life she knows nothing about mine. Life just have this weird way of saying "hey you two should meet each other" but we never made the effort lmao. We call ourselves friends for shits and giggles her entire family knows me and my family knows her.
Like shit man if god existed he'd be facepalming so hard in heaven.
I started meeting this Saggie when I was 15 first overseas trip. 3 years later at our 'prom' if you wanna call it that. 2 years later again overseas, a year after that, two following that and yeah I've lost count.
I know nothing about her life she knows nothing about mine. Life just have this weird way of saying "hey you two should meet each other" but we never made the effort lmao. We call ourselves friends for shits and giggles her entire family knows me and my family knows her.
Like shit man if god existed he'd be facepalming so hard in heaven.
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Nope but I do believe when 2 people are meant to meet.
I started meeting this Saggie when I was 15 first overseas trip. 3 years later at our 'prom' if you wanna call it that. 2 years later again overseas, a year after that, two following that and yeah I've lost count.
I know nothing about her life she knows nothing about mine. Life just have this weird way of saying "hey you two should meet each other" but we never made the effort lmao. We call ourselves friends for shits and giggles her entire family knows me and my family knows her.
Like shit man if god existed he'd be facepalming so hard in heaven.
mine makes me feel like i am not worth his time. when i first told him i likes him back in 6th grade he laughed at me.
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.
I’ve run into soulmates before; about
4 or 5 in the last ten years. Someone that I’ve known for over 17 years i discovered is a soulmate only about two yes or so ago. Until then I found it interesting how after the fourth or fifth fight to divide us for two yrs or so keeps making one or the other return; my sun is conjunct my Jupiter which makes me more susceptible to either identifying or fully coming Into contact with soulmates. The point, is that oftentimes, the relationship is so light and easy, that one or both take it for granted. Or, they sense what a strong bond it is and one or both get petty and find amusement in testing the bond, to see who cares more. **It’s a child’s game but as people with yes of broken experiences relating to people were either conditioned to do this or so unfamiliar with a more natural was of maintaining flow. The term, “soulmate rejection” is actually quite popular. Sometimes people aren’t ready for a relationship too. With this guy, stick to your guns. Send him a picture once a wk of you having an amazing time with female friends, on your own, always looking amazing. Mention your goals, but don’t press conversation. Keep it consistent every week. See if he cracks. The relationship may be taken so lightly by him because of the ease of flow. Do not compromise your morals, or he will forever hold it over your head.
😆 i so wish i had gotten that advice a long ass time ago, but then i never did like that game. he is married anyways. we just had a chat and it didnt go well. i wish i had friends to go out with. i am not big on playing mind games either. if people want to know what i am about then they should grow some balls or tits and ask. if he wants to keep his stupid secret about how he feels about me to himself so be it. tell me that is how he rolls. please. sorry him and i just had a chat before i read your reply. i didnt like how it went. keep me hooked just because he thinks its fun, please. yes he pissed me off just a little bit. i must be asking to much by wanting to know where i stand.click to expand
Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.
I’ve run into soulmates before; about
4 or 5 in the last ten years. Someone that I’ve known for over 17 years i discovered is a soulmate only about two yes or so ago. Until then I found it interesting how after the fourth or fifth fight to divide us for two yrs or so keeps making one or the other return; my sun is conjunct my Jupiter which makes me more susceptible to either identifying or fully coming Into contact with soulmates. The point, is that oftentimes, the relationship is so light and easy, that one or both take it for granted. Or, they sense what a strong bond it is and one or both get petty and find amusement in testing the bond, to see who cares more. **It’s a child’s game but as people with yes of broken experiences relating to people were either conditioned to do this or so unfamiliar with a more natural was of maintaining flow. The term, “soulmate rejection” is actually quite popular. Sometimes people aren’t ready for a relationship too. With this guy, stick to your guns. Send him a picture once a wk of you having an amazing time with female friends, on your own, always looking amazing. Mention your goals, but don’t press conversation. Keep it consistent every week. See if he cracks. The relationship may be taken so lightly by him because of the ease of flow. Do not compromise your morals, or he will forever hold it over your head.
😆 i so wish i had gotten that advice a long ass time ago, but then i never did like that game. he is married anyways. we just had a chat and it didnt go well. i wish i had friends to go out with. i am not big on playing mind games either. if people want to know what i am about then they should grow some balls or tits and ask. if he wants to keep his stupid secret about how he feels about me to himself so be it. tell me that is how he rolls. please. sorry him and i just had a chat before i read your reply. i didnt like how it went. keep me hooked just because he thinks its fun, please. yes he pissed me off just a little bit. i must be asking to much by wanting to know where i stand.click to expand
if you were telling me something it did not show it. just to let you know
YES!! Met mine.. was crazy. he was literally the male version of me. All our traumatic events in our lives mirrored each other.
we were born days apart. It was beautiful but it was also terrifying. It threw my entire hormone system off. skin broke out from being in constant fight or flight mode. Learnt a lot about myself including that I do not want to end up with my twin flame. The constant lows and highs made me feel crazy. I still have so much love for him, but it is in my best interest to not be with him. When we made love, it was like our spirits left our bodies. love of my life but not meant for this lifetime. I'm not sad about it, because I understand and believe that your not supposed to end up together. twin flames are here to re-introduce you to yourself, teach you things and develop for the next stage of your life journey.
we were born days apart. It was beautiful but it was also terrifying. It threw my entire hormone system off. skin broke out from being in constant fight or flight mode. Learnt a lot about myself including that I do not want to end up with my twin flame. The constant lows and highs made me feel crazy. I still have so much love for him, but it is in my best interest to not be with him. When we made love, it was like our spirits left our bodies. love of my life but not meant for this lifetime. I'm not sad about it, because I understand and believe that your not supposed to end up together. twin flames are here to re-introduce you to yourself, teach you things and develop for the next stage of your life journey.
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YES!! Met mine.. was crazy. he was literally the male version of me. All our traumatic events in our lives mirrored each other.
we were born days apart. It was beautiful but it was also terrifying. It threw my entire hormone system off. skin broke out from being in constant fight or flight mode. Learnt a lot about myself including that I do not want to end up with my twin flame. The constant lows and highs made me feel crazy. I still have so much love for him, but it is in my best interest to not be with him. When we made love, it was like our spirits left our bodies. love of my life but not meant for this lifetime. I'm not sad about it, because I understand and believe that your not supposed to end up together. twin flames are here to re-introduce you to yourself, teach you things and develop for the next stage of your life journey.
I also meant to say. I awakened him. and he knows I am his twin flame. he didn't believe any of this stuff before he met me. And now he wishes I would come back, but I can't it wasn't healthy for me. I nearly lost my mind. SERIOUSLY!
You have to demonstrate class. Cut off contact all together and find someone worthy of your time. Don’t take this the wrong way, but because of what you told me about your past, you might be conditioned to feel you need an element of abuse or neglect in a relationship for it to feel “familiar”. They say it takes about two years to break a bad habit and replace it with a good one. Watch self realization videos on YouTube; at least two a night, pamper yourself in your favorite Scorpio moon way and think about it. If you need good sex, go to sex toy conventions! no shame; hit bdsm clubs and work your way up to becoming a dominitrix; do something fun, safe but unhinged and get this loser out of your mind; there’s no future with him.—I’m deleting this post after 12am tonight for personal reasons so soak it in!
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
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You have to demonstrate class. Cut off contact all together and find someone worthy of your time. Don’t take this the wrong way, but because of what you told me about your past, you might be conditioned to feel you need an element of abuse or neglect in a relationship for it to feel “familiar”. They say it takes about two years to break a bad habit and replace it with a good one. Watch self realization videos on YouTube; at least two a night, pamper yourself in your favorite Scorpio moon way and think about it. If you need good sex, go to sex toy conventions! no shame; hit bdsm clubs and work your way up to becoming a dominitrix; do something fun, safe but unhinged and get this loser out of your mind; there’s no future with him.—I’m deleting this post after 12am tonight for personal reasons so soak it in!
thank you. i do have toys so i am all good there. but your right i need to brake the conditioning from my past. that i agree with. i will work on it. i dont know how i am going to cut contact but i will work on that too. thank you again
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I’m a twin flame but I’m not here to convince anyone it’s real or not real. I don’t really care who believes it’s real or who doesn’t. What I do know is it’s not in your best interest to take advice from people who aren’t one or haven’t experienced this phenomenon. Not because there’s anything wrong with them, but they just can’t relate lol. I will say separating and coming together happens a lot. I’ll also say I think Quora has pretty good insight on this journey I found and that may help you get some insight. Twin flames aren’t about romantic lovey dovey stuff. It’s about a spiritually awakening and finding your true self. It’s also about unconditional love but not the stuff you see in movies. I don’t wanna write a book, but only you can know if you are a twin.
TF is a wierd phanonama.
When it comes to things like this, I like to come at it from every angle. Try to disprove and find alternative explanations and see what sticks/works. A few things I'm on the fence about.
I've read quite a bit. A few dedicated sites and YouTubers as well. Only came across a few YouTubers pairs though. 1 lesbian pair, 1 couple, and a pair of woman who are both married to someone else. They "seem" genuinely happy about that setup. A lot of what I read implies a romantic relationship isn't always possible or even the goal. Even siblings are a noted possibility and It's more about cause and effect with each other.
The mirroring thing is interesting.what I got from what I read is, what keeps you apart are issues with yourself and attachments rather then actually problems. Say trust issues, negative thought patterns and behaviors, and the inability to let go of your current mindset/thought patterns(ego). You reflect each others bullshit back towards each other basically. Without actually experiencing this and confirming it first hand, I'm not willing to believe this to be the case. What others have said about why they are not with them personally has been vague and sounded like excuses rather then the truth. "Oh I can't because of this and that real life problem..." Excuses. I'm a firm believer of if you really want something you can hash it out and make it work like any other relationship.
All I know is there is this person you care for a rediculous amount that brings something out in you that is hard to describe. Seriously how awesome and rare is that?
What's your personal experience so far?click to expand
or is all just in our heads? a fantasy. making that tragic love story or star cross lovers come true...
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I am not sure i really believe in twin flames.
Post the birthdays, years as well.
i forget how to upload the birth charts
I’m going to do the charts with the birthdays you give me.
dont you need the places too? I was born in Norwich New york and he was born in chihuahua mexico
Place of origin matters for your ascendant and houses. Other than that, the chart comes out the same everywhere. Houses are very important, but to figure them out I’d need not only places of birth but birth times. However, with only birthdays I can tell you if you’re twin flames or soulmates.
well he doesnt know what time he was born. i was born at 8:08 am. lol i know that because my mother said she was in labor with me for seven days. 😆
What a charmer. Are you passing along the birthdays or not?
oh i did. i guess they didnt post. his is April 8 1971 and mine is april 13 1971. sorry
I wouldn't call you soulmates, but you have an incredibly compatible chart. Let me explain. Your charts don't show many features of soulmate charts, but being that you two are born only days apart, you have practically the same chart. Let me explain. Each planet is a certain amount of space fro the sun. Therefore, it takes per planet a certain amount of time to orbit enough to a degree to change signs. The sun sign, moon sign, mercury and venus aspects change most frequently. Re: your two charts, the only different planet literally, is your moon signs, and those two moon s happen to be one of the most compatible matches. You're a scorpio moon. You feel everything deeply and almost have ESP just by looking at people. He's a virgo moon. Your best match is always either two signs apart or four signs apart. Four signs over just 'gets' you, but two signs over "completes" you. An earthy virgo moon is balanced, structures and helps even our your temperament. You have the same mercury, so you communicate verbally the same, as well as learn new things in the same manner. Your mars is the same, so you problem solve in the same manner (an exhalted state; capricorn in mars for the of you is the best planet to have there). Venus is pisces is love in an exhalted state, very romantic and loving, an ultimate bonding experience--just what a scorpio moon had in mind! What you're feeling between you, is a complete similarity in temperament (due to being born just days apart on the same year and having essentially the same planets in your chart), and that's where the familiarity and comfort is weighing in. **Also, both being airies, direct, fiery and sexual, an exhalted state of problem solving in capricorn and an exhalted state of love making in venus, plus you being a scorpio moon, this hits everything you need right on the money.
Numerology wise, you're born on the thirteenth, an unlucky day. you tent to repeat your mistakes in life. Life path wise, your number is 44, not only a master number, but the greatest life path number one could have. Look it up and read more in it. his numerology is 8, known for balance, harmony and powerful leadership. His life path no. is 3, which deals with all aspects of communicating.
Eastern astrology wise, you're both pigs, the equivalent to scorpio in the western zodiac. Easy going, honest, laid back extremely, but double cross a pig just once and they'll never see you the same way again.
Two pigs together are incredibly compatible, and so are you two. Don't let go of him. While not a soulmate in the traditional sense, very very hard to find. You're very lucky.
Also, I just diud another frequency biocompatibility test, and you two score an 84% compatibility on physical, emotional and intellectual. Lastly, your specific sun sign days you're both best off as family, and worse in love. Together you're daring, social and outgoing, but you're also too outspoken, selfish and superficial.
But trust me, you can make this happen--
lol well i guess we will see if he ever decides to see me. all he says is someday he going to bang the hell out of me someday. but he has been saying that for 2 years now. 😆 someday never comes. just saying. yes i am a smart ass
When your bring a smart ass, what are you trying to do by saying things that way?click to expand
it is a way i get a point across to someone. doing it in a smart ass way gets their attention. depend on the subject it can be fun like a comedian. their jokes are on the line of being a smart ass. but doing when i really need to be heard, it is more a shock factor, when they take things to far with me. it stops them in their tracks.
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I am not sure i really believe in twin flames.
Post the birthdays, years as well.
i forget how to upload the birth charts
I’m going to do the charts with the birthdays you give me.
dont you need the places too? I was born in Norwich New york and he was born in chihuahua mexico
Place of origin matters for your ascendant and houses. Other than that, the chart comes out the same everywhere. Houses are very important, but to figure them out I’d need not only places of birth but birth times. However, with only birthdays I can tell you if you’re twin flames or soulmates.
well he doesnt know what time he was born. i was born at 8:08 am. lol i know that because my mother said she was in labor with me for seven days. 😆
What a charmer. Are you passing along the birthdays or not?
oh i did. i guess they didnt post. his is April 8 1971 and mine is april 13 1971. sorry
I wouldn't call you soulmates, but you have an incredibly compatible chart. Let me explain. Your charts don't show many features of soulmate charts, but being that you two are born only days apart, you have practically the same chart. Let me explain. Each planet is a certain amount of space fro the sun. Therefore, it takes per planet a certain amount of time to orbit enough to a degree to change signs. The sun sign, moon sign, mercury and venus aspects change most frequently. Re: your two charts, the only different planet literally, is your moon signs, and those two moon s happen to be one of the most compatible matches. You're a scorpio moon. You feel everything deeply and almost have ESP just by looking at people. He's a virgo moon. Your best match is always either two signs apart or four signs apart. Four signs over just 'gets' you, but two signs over "completes" you. An earthy virgo moon is balanced, structures and helps even our your temperament. You have the same mercury, so you communicate verbally the same, as well as learn new things in the same manner. Your mars is the same, so you problem solve in the same manner (an exhalted state; capricorn in mars for the of you is the best planet to have there). Venus is pisces is love in an exhalted state, very romantic and loving, an ultimate bonding experience--just what a scorpio moon had in mind! What you're feeling between you, is a complete similarity in temperament (due to being born just days apart on the same year and having essentially the same planets in your chart), and that's where the familiarity and comfort is weighing in. **Also, both being airies, direct, fiery and sexual, an exhalted state of problem solving in capricorn and an exhalted state of love making in venus, plus you being a scorpio moon, this hits everything you need right on the money.
Numerology wise, you're born on the thirteenth, an unlucky day. you tent to repeat your mistakes in life. Life path wise, your number is 44, not only a master number, but the greatest life path number one could have. Look it up and read more in it. his numerology is 8, known for balance, harmony and powerful leadership. His life path no. is 3, which deals with all aspects of communicating.
Eastern astrology wise, you're both pigs, the equivalent to scorpio in the western zodiac. Easy going, honest, laid back extremely, but double cross a pig just once and they'll never see you the same way again.
Two pigs together are incredibly compatible, and so are you two. Don't let go of him. While not a soulmate in the traditional sense, very very hard to find. You're very lucky.
Also, I just diud another frequency biocompatibility test, and you two score an 84% compatibility on physical, emotional and intellectual. Lastly, your specific sun sign days you're both best off as family, and worse in love. Together you're daring, social and outgoing, but you're also too outspoken, selfish and superficial.
But trust me, you can make this happen--
lol well i guess we will see if he ever decides to see me. all he says is someday he going to bang the hell out of me someday. but he has been saying that for 2 years now. 😆 someday never comes. just saying. yes i am a smart ass
When your bring a smart ass, what are you trying to do by saying things that way?
it is a way i get a point across to someone. doing it in a smart ass way gets their attention. depend on the subject it can be fun like a comedian. their jokes are on the line of being a smart ass. but doing when i really need to be heard, it is more a shock factor, when they take things to far with me. it stops them in their tracks.
I did that once with the gem, and sure I got my point across, and he corrected his behavior from there. But he also got pissed off, I could tell. I tried to find other ways to communicate my issues with him, and the response I got then was so much better! I even got an explanation for his behavior. Just saying.
Maybe it works different with your guy. But being an aries yourself, you probably know that ‘pushing’ him like that often will have the opposite effect? :p I mean, if someone acts like a smart ass with me, I will likely hold off on doing what they want me to do (even if I want the same thing as them), because I want to initiate it myselfclick to expand
i am not always a smart ass with him, plus he said he likes a smart ass. i have been straight with him. there has been times he laughs at my smart ass. it doesnt matter anymore. his actions say more then enough.
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.click to expand
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.click to expand
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.click to expand
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.click to expand
Think about this—why even wonder if you and him are “good” for each other? If it’s just sex, than that’s the end goal; not life partnership, not emotional bonding because if you’re just another woman he’s not gonna invest..why even the questions, “ are we good together, are we meant to be..”
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.
Think about this—why even wonder if you and him are “good” for each other? If it’s just sex, than that’s the end goal; not life partnership, not emotional bonding because if you’re just another woman he’s not gonna invest..why even the questions, “ are we good together, are we meant to be..”click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYC
Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.click to expand
here is the thing. when we were kids he was the only guy who didnt care i was a girl when it came to sports. i was a girl who was a geeky/tomboy. i was great at math and sports. most boy either took it to easy on me or got really mad that i was better then them. this guy was the only who was not like that. he never took it easy on me or if i did better then him he would just up his game and not be a whinny bitch. lol when we played on the same team we worked great together. when he grabbed my hand and lead me out on the dance floor it felt right and very good. but that was soo long ago. we were so young. he never asked me to hang out then. but there were times i would find him watching but passed it off as wishful thinking stuff. the hooked was already there when i first met him in 6th grade. i just didnt know it was still there after all these years and that it was soo strong. i am fighting a very young girls dream. that is very strong.
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYC
Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.
Think about this—why even wonder if you and him are “good” for each other? If it’s just sex, than that’s the end goal; not life partnership, not emotional bonding because if you’re just another woman he’s not gonna invest..why even the questions, “ are we good together, are we meant to be..”click to expand
that is the young girl in me wanting to know. it doesnt matter anymore. i was not even worth a booty call. 😆
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.
I’ve run into soulmates before; about
4 or 5 in the last ten years. Someone that I’ve known for over 17 years i discovered is a soulmate only about two yes or so ago. Until then I found it interesting how after the fourth or fifth fight to divide us for two yrs or so keeps making one or the other return; my sun is conjunct my Jupiter which makes me more susceptible to either identifying or fully coming Into contact with soulmates. The point, is that oftentimes, the relationship is so light and easy, that one or both take it for granted. Or, they sense what a strong bond it is and one or both get petty and find amusement in testing the bond, to see who cares more. **It’s a child’s game but as people with yes of broken experiences relating to people were either conditioned to do this or so unfamiliar with a more natural was of maintaining flow. The term, “soulmate rejection” is actually quite popular. Sometimes people aren’t ready for a relationship too. With this guy, stick to your guns. Send him a picture once a wk of you having an amazing time with female friends, on your own, always looking amazing. Mention your goals, but don’t press conversation. Keep it consistent every week. See if he cracks. The relationship may be taken so lightly by him because of the ease of flow. Do not compromise your morals, or he will forever hold it over your head.
😆 i so wish i had gotten that advice a long ass time ago, but then i never did like that game. he is married anyways. we just had a chat and it didnt go well. i wish i had friends to go out with. i am not big on playing mind games either. if people want to know what i am about then they should grow some balls or tits and ask. if he wants to keep his stupid secret about how he feels about me to himself so be it. tell me that is how he rolls. please. sorry him and i just had a chat before i read your reply. i didnt like how it went. keep me hooked just because he thinks its fun, please. yes he pissed me off just a little bit. i must be asking to much by wanting to know where i stand.
if you were telling me something it did not show it. just to let you knowclick to expand
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@MikeNYNYC i reread the stuff you said about us again. thank you for your help. it did give me a lot to think about. but one thing you talked about is how great he is for me and not if i am great for him. well the one thing i am dealing with and working on is that my parents and ex husband did was make me feel worthless or not worth it. I was even told that i was not worth so many times through out my life. make story short i have had a very bad abusive life, really bad when i was a child. I was conceived in violence, born into violence and spent my childhood in violence. my ex was very verbally and emotional abusive but i kept telling myself at less he is not hitting me. So i am running into the problem is this guy i have had a thing for so all doesn't think i am worth it. that is why he never takes it to the next level. So does our charts say i am good for him?
I spoke from the perspective of who was asking me, but yes, since your personal and generational planets are I long so tightly, he reaps the same benefits that you do. Scorpio moons are very desirable. Beautiful. Raw and magnetic. They can have basically anyone they want. A nit picky Virgo moon would love that you chose him. Since his sex drive is in Pisces as well, you’re going to fulfill him in ways he might not have forgotten he even needed he’s gone so long without fulfillment. You’re a master number 44 life path. Anyone you choose to be with would benefit being with you. Traumatized from the past? Go have sex. Seduce and gratify. I’ve heard scorpios cleanse their traumas through sex.
😆 i will say sex does help a lot. but i have not been getting good sex with the guys i have been dating sadly. they are good company but that is all. i think his ego like that i have it bad for him. He even said he love to keep me hooked.
I’ve run into soulmates before; about
4 or 5 in the last ten years. Someone that I’ve known for over 17 years i discovered is a soulmate only about two yes or so ago. Until then I found it interesting how after the fourth or fifth fight to divide us for two yrs or so keeps making one or the other return; my sun is conjunct my Jupiter which makes me more susceptible to either identifying or fully coming Into contact with soulmates. The point, is that oftentimes, the relationship is so light and easy, that one or both take it for granted. Or, they sense what a strong bond it is and one or both get petty and find amusement in testing the bond, to see who cares more. **It’s a child’s game but as people with yes of broken experiences relating to people were either conditioned to do this or so unfamiliar with a more natural was of maintaining flow. The term, “soulmate rejection” is actually quite popular. Sometimes people aren’t ready for a relationship too. With this guy, stick to your guns. Send him a picture once a wk of you having an amazing time with female friends, on your own, always looking amazing. Mention your goals, but don’t press conversation. Keep it consistent every week. See if he cracks. The relationship may be taken so lightly by him because of the ease of flow. Do not compromise your morals, or he will forever hold it over your head.
😆 i so wish i had gotten that advice a long ass time ago, but then i never did like that game. he is married anyways. we just had a chat and it didnt go well. i wish i had friends to go out with. i am not big on playing mind games either. if people want to know what i am about then they should grow some balls or tits and ask. if he wants to keep his stupid secret about how he feels about me to himself so be it. tell me that is how he rolls. please. sorry him and i just had a chat before i read your reply. i didnt like how it went. keep me hooked just because he thinks its fun, please. yes he pissed me off just a little bit. i must be asking to much by wanting to know where i stand.
if you were telling me something it did not show it. just to let you know
Now I have a question for you;click to expand
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No, I don't believe in twin flames. I think it is a bunch of mumbo jumbo for putting up with shitty treatment. It's a lot like people asking "Is he testing me?"
lol i think i have to agree with that.
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I’m a twin flame but I’m not here to convince anyone it’s real or not real. I don’t really care who believes it’s real or who doesn’t. What I do know is it’s not in your best interest to take advice from people who aren’t one or haven’t experienced this phenomenon. Not because there’s anything wrong with them, but they just can’t relate lol. I will say separating and coming together happens a lot. I’ll also say I think Quora has pretty good insight on this journey I found and that may help you get some insight. Twin flames aren’t about romantic lovey dovey stuff. It’s about a spiritually awakening and finding your true self. It’s also about unconditional love but not the stuff you see in movies. I don’t wanna write a book, but only you can know if you are a twin.
TF is a wierd phanonama.
When it comes to things like this, I like to come at it from every angle. Try to disprove and find alternative explanations and see what sticks/works. A few things I'm on the fence about.
I've read quite a bit. A few dedicated sites and YouTubers as well. Only came across a few YouTubers pairs though. 1 lesbian pair, 1 couple, and a pair of woman who are both married to someone else. They "seem" genuinely happy about that setup. A lot of what I read implies a romantic relationship isn't always possible or even the goal. Even siblings are a noted possibility and It's more about cause and effect with each other.
The mirroring thing is interesting.what I got from what I read is, what keeps you apart are issues with yourself and attachments rather then actually problems. Say trust issues, negative thought patterns and behaviors, and the inability to let go of your current mindset/thought patterns(ego). You reflect each others bullshit back towards each other basically. Without actually experiencing this and confirming it first hand, I'm not willing to believe this to be the case. What others have said about why they are not with them personally has been vague and sounded like excuses rather then the truth. "Oh I can't because of this and that real life problem..." Excuses. I'm a firm believer of if you really want something you can hash it out and make it work like any other relationship.
All I know is there is this person you care for a rediculous amount that brings something out in you that is hard to describe. Seriously how awesome and rare is that?
What's your personal experience so far?click to expand
I appreciate your response. Hmm this would be soo much to type to discuss my case but like lots of what you wrote is a lot of what happens and a lot of how people try to explain it. It’s a phenomenon that people are experiencing and are trying to put into words to make it make sense. Sometimes honey, it just doesn’t make sense and that’s something sometimes we have to accept. The ideal perception is that yes people would be fearless and fight for love and come together because they’ve just experienced the greatest love of all time BUT people are human and they have wounds and fears and all of that and they hold themselves back. There’s also being awake and unawakened. If you don’t know wtf is going on how can you yield to an experience? That was me. He knew before I knew because I’m what they named “the Matrix twin” basically my twin has a shit ton of spiritual gifts and I have none at all. But anyway it took me awhile to figure out what we were and then when I realized after researching, it all resonated with me. Undoubtedly. I couldn’t deny it. But that’s why I say only you can know it’ll just resonate with your soul. Sometimes there’s doubts because of the push and pull but you see this happens because twin flames are rules by energy so it’s science. When they’re in a negative energetic space they repel each other. The more and more they come into energetic alignment the closer they become. At least that’s what happens with my twin and I. He can feel my energy no matter where I am so I do my best to keep my vibration high. Anyway I could go on about the topic for awhile since I’ve been on the journey for a little over 2 years. The mirror thing js just about basically your twin can trigger you in ways that no one else can because you’re sensitive to them like ultra sensitive to them lol. So something that may be nothing with someone else would effect you deeply when it comes to your twin. Their job is to trigger you until you heal your inner wounds and get closer to loving unconditionally. And that’s where the finding yourself comes in play the triggers are about you and then you learn from them and you become a better person. It’s ultimately about surrendering to the connection and the process and releasing attachments to outcomes & loving your twin for who they are and not what you project on to them. I’m not even regurgitating information, all of this has worked for me and keeps me and my twin close today.
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I am not sure i really believe in twin flames.
Post the birthdays, years as well.
i forget how to upload the birth charts
I’m going to do the charts with the birthdays you give me.
dont you need the places too? I was born in Norwich New york and he was born in chihuahua mexico
Place of origin matters for your ascendant and houses. Other than that, the chart comes out the same everywhere. Houses are very important, but to figure them out I’d need not only places of birth but birth times. However, with only birthdays I can tell you if you’re twin flames or soulmates.
well he doesnt know what time he was born. i was born at 8:08 am. lol i know that because my mother said she was in labor with me for seven days. 😆
What a charmer. Are you passing along the birthdays or not?
oh i did. i guess they didnt post. his is April 8 1971 and mine is april 13 1971. sorry
I wouldn't call you soulmates, but you have an incredibly compatible chart. Let me explain. Your charts don't show many features of soulmate charts, but being that you two are born only days apart, you have practically the same chart. Let me explain. Each planet is a certain amount of space fro the sun. Therefore, it takes per planet a certain amount of time to orbit enough to a degree to change signs. The sun sign, moon sign, mercury and venus aspects change most frequently. Re: your two charts, the only different planet literally, is your moon signs, and those two moon s happen to be one of the most compatible matches. You're a scorpio moon. You feel everything deeply and almost have ESP just by looking at people. He's a virgo moon. Your best match is always either two signs apart or four signs apart. Four signs over just 'gets' you, but two signs over "completes" you. An earthy virgo moon is balanced, structures and helps even our your temperament. You have the same mercury, so you communicate verbally the same, as well as learn new things in the same manner. Your mars is the same, so you problem solve in the same manner (an exhalted state; capricorn in mars for the of you is the best planet to have there). Venus is pisces is love in an exhalted state, very romantic and loving, an ultimate bonding experience--just what a scorpio moon had in mind! What you're feeling between you, is a complete similarity in temperament (due to being born just days apart on the same year and having essentially the same planets in your chart), and that's where the familiarity and comfort is weighing in. **Also, both being airies, direct, fiery and sexual, an exhalted state of problem solving in capricorn and an exhalted state of love making in venus, plus you being a scorpio moon, this hits everything you need right on the money.
Numerology wise, you're born on the thirteenth, an unlucky day. you tent to repeat your mistakes in life. Life path wise, your number is 44, not only a master number, but the greatest life path number one could have. Look it up and read more in it. his numerology is 8, known for balance, harmony and powerful leadership. His life path no. is 3, which deals with all aspects of communicating.
Eastern astrology wise, you're both pigs, the equivalent to scorpio in the western zodiac. Easy going, honest, laid back extremely, but double cross a pig just once and they'll never see you the same way again.
Two pigs together are incredibly compatible, and so are you two. Don't let go of him. While not a soulmate in the traditional sense, very very hard to find. You're very lucky.
Also, I just diud another frequency biocompatibility test, and you two score an 84% compatibility on physical, emotional and intellectual. Lastly, your specific sun sign days you're both best off as family, and worse in love. Together you're daring, social and outgoing, but you're also too outspoken, selfish and superficial.
But trust me, you can make this happen--
lol well i guess we will see if he ever decides to see me. all he says is someday he going to bang the hell out of me someday. but he has been saying that for 2 years now. 😆 someday never comes. just saying. yes i am a smart ass
When your bring a smart ass, what are you trying to do by saying things that way?
it is a way i get a point across to someone. doing it in a smart ass way gets their attention. depend on the subject it can be fun like a comedian. their jokes are on the line of being a smart ass. but doing when i really need to be heard, it is more a shock factor, when they take things to far with me. it stops them in their tracks.
I like humour. You can say serious things while taking the edge off of it. Sounds like you like your doing the same thing and also "shock factor"? Your using it as a defensive mechanism?
Star crossed lovers or fantasy? I don't know. I Didn't even think something like that was even possible. It scared the shit out of me.
All I know is there is someone I care for a rediculous amount. Like anyone else I care about, I'm going to be there for them and support them. Look out for there best interest. Even if they are not in my life the way I would like them to be. That's is there deal and choice. I'm going be myself and do me. That is what real love is about right?
I also noticed you have Mars 8th like myself. Be careful about over indulges. The consequences are worse for us the other people. It literally drains you and holds you back. A lot of great posts on this thread too. There is also some that made my skin crawl. Some very negative perspectives that are half baked.
I peeked at your synastry chart as well. Nothing I saw changes what I suggested to you. Infact it reinforces it. If you really are "twin flames" negative thoughts and feelings will get passed back and worth between you. With synastry like that it will anyway. Please reread and consider my advice.click to expand
i will. thank you.
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.
Think about this—why even wonder if you and him are “good” for each other? If it’s just sex, than that’s the end goal; not life partnership, not emotional bonding because if you’re just another woman he’s not gonna invest..why even the questions, “ are we good together, are we meant to be..”
that is the young girl in me wanting to know. it doesnt matter anymore. i was not even worth a booty call. 😆click to expand
You’re worth a booty call and then some just FYI. But now, here’s my question. I had this Scorpio moon flirting with me. Hardly ever spoke a word. But during a few non-verbal flirting encounters (passing me by in halls) the most incredible thing happened. I saw images. Like he was capable of projecting spiritual imagery towards me! It happened a total of 4 times. I’ve never had an experience like that. This is one of the soulmates. Now scorpios have deep abilities. Is this something you’re capable of doing?
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I’m a twin flame but I’m not here to convince anyone it’s real or not real. I don’t really care who believes it’s real or who doesn’t. What I do know is it’s not in your best interest to take advice from people who aren’t one or haven’t experienced this phenomenon. Not because there’s anything wrong with them, but they just can’t relate lol. I will say separating and coming together happens a lot. I’ll also say I think Quora has pretty good insight on this journey I found and that may help you get some insight. Twin flames aren’t about romantic lovey dovey stuff. It’s about a spiritually awakening and finding your true self. It’s also about unconditional love but not the stuff you see in movies. I don’t wanna write a book, but only you can know if you are a twin.
TF is a wierd phanonama.
When it comes to things like this, I like to come at it from every angle. Try to disprove and find alternative explanations and see what sticks/works. A few things I'm on the fence about.
I've read quite a bit. A few dedicated sites and YouTubers as well. Only came across a few YouTubers pairs though. 1 lesbian pair, 1 couple, and a pair of woman who are both married to someone else. They "seem" genuinely happy about that setup. A lot of what I read implies a romantic relationship isn't always possible or even the goal. Even siblings are a noted possibility and It's more about cause and effect with each other.
The mirroring thing is interesting.what I got from what I read is, what keeps you apart are issues with yourself and attachments rather then actually problems. Say trust issues, negative thought patterns and behaviors, and the inability to let go of your current mindset/thought patterns(ego). You reflect each others bullshit back towards each other basically. Without actually experiencing this and confirming it first hand, I'm not willing to believe this to be the case. What others have said about why they are not with them personally has been vague and sounded like excuses rather then the truth. "Oh I can't because of this and that real life problem..." Excuses. I'm a firm believer of if you really want something you can hash it out and make it work like any other relationship.
All I know is there is this person you care for a rediculous amount that brings something out in you that is hard to describe. Seriously how awesome and rare is that?
What's your personal experience so far?
I appreciate your response. Hmm this would be soo much to type to discuss my case but like lots of what you wrote is a lot of what happens and a lot of how people try to explain it. It’s a phenomenon that people are experiencing and are trying to put into words to make it make sense. Sometimes honey, it just doesn’t make sense and that’s something sometimes we have to accept. The ideal perception is that yes people would be fearless and fight for love and come together because they’ve just experienced the greatest love of all time BUT people are human and they have wounds and fears and all of that and they hold themselves back. There’s also being awake and unawakened. If you don’t know wtf is going on how can you yield to an experience? That was me. He knew before I knew because I’m what they named “the Matrix twin” basically my twin has a shit ton of spiritual gifts and I have none at all. But anyway it took me awhile to figure out what we were and then when I realized after researching, it all resonated with me. Undoubtedly. I couldn’t deny it. But that’s why I say only you can know it’ll just resonate with your soul. Sometimes there’s doubts because of the push and pull but you see this happens because twin flames are rules by energy so it’s science. When they’re in a negative energetic space they repel each other. The more and more they come into energetic alignment the closer they become. At least that’s what happens with my twin and I. He can feel my energy no matter where I am so I do my best to keep my vibration high. Anyway I could go on about the topic for awhile since I’ve been on the journey for a little over 2 years. The mirror thing js just about basically your twin can trigger you in ways that no one else can because you’re sensitive to them like ultra sensitive to them lol. So something that may be nothing with someone else would effect you deeply when it comes to your twin. Their job is to trigger you until you heal your inner wounds and get closer to loving unconditionally. And that’s where the finding yourself comes in play the triggers are about you and then you learn from them and you become a better person. It’s ultimately about surrendering to the connection and the process and releasing attachments to outcomes & loving your twin for who they are and not what you project on to them. I’m not even regurgitating information, all of this has worked for me and keeps me and my twin close today.
I think I’m the more spiritual twin, and I wasn’t sure if my twin would ever understand what this connection is. I’m still not sure. But in the last few months he’s actually been sending me telepathic messages! Like I was sad one day, and he sent me ‘I love you, [my name]’. It made me feel better.click to expand
Well if he can send you telepathic messages then maybe it’s more mutual than you think. Not all twins are categorized in the spiritual/matrix category. Some are on the same page gift wise or 5D wise etc. My twin and I fit the first one though. Lucky for him I like to research and learn stuff or I would still not have known wtf he was trying to tell me all this time 😅 lmao. But the more you come into energetic alignment the closer you come and there won’t be any need to convince or whatever. He’ll come around. Just be patient and hold space for him.
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I’m a twin flame but I’m not here to convince anyone it’s real or not real. I don’t really care who believes it’s real or who doesn’t. What I do know is it’s not in your best interest to take advice from people who aren’t one or haven’t experienced this phenomenon. Not because there’s anything wrong with them, but they just can’t relate lol. I will say separating and coming together happens a lot. I’ll also say I think Quora has pretty good insight on this journey I found and that may help you get some insight. Twin flames aren’t about romantic lovey dovey stuff. It’s about a spiritually awakening and finding your true self. It’s also about unconditional love but not the stuff you see in movies. I don’t wanna write a book, but only you can know if you are a twin.
TF is a wierd phanonama.
When it comes to things like this, I like to come at it from every angle. Try to disprove and find alternative explanations and see what sticks/works. A few things I'm on the fence about.
I've read quite a bit. A few dedicated sites and YouTubers as well. Only came across a few YouTubers pairs though. 1 lesbian pair, 1 couple, and a pair of woman who are both married to someone else. They "seem" genuinely happy about that setup. A lot of what I read implies a romantic relationship isn't always possible or even the goal. Even siblings are a noted possibility and It's more about cause and effect with each other.
The mirroring thing is interesting.what I got from what I read is, what keeps you apart are issues with yourself and attachments rather then actually problems. Say trust issues, negative thought patterns and behaviors, and the inability to let go of your current mindset/thought patterns(ego). You reflect each others bullshit back towards each other basically. Without actually experiencing this and confirming it first hand, I'm not willing to believe this to be the case. What others have said about why they are not with them personally has been vague and sounded like excuses rather then the truth. "Oh I can't because of this and that real life problem..." Excuses. I'm a firm believer of if you really want something you can hash it out and make it work like any other relationship.
All I know is there is this person you care for a rediculous amount that brings something out in you that is hard to describe. Seriously how awesome and rare is that?
What's your personal experience so far?
I appreciate your response. Hmm this would be soo much to type to discuss my case but like lots of what you wrote is a lot of what happens and a lot of how people try to explain it. It’s a phenomenon that people are experiencing and are trying to put into words to make it make sense. Sometimes honey, it just doesn’t make sense and that’s something sometimes we have to accept. The ideal perception is that yes people would be fearless and fight for love and come together because they’ve just experienced the greatest love of all time BUT people are human and they have wounds and fears and all of that and they hold themselves back. There’s also being awake and unawakened. If you don’t know wtf is going on how can you yield to an experience? That was me. He knew before I knew because I’m what they named “the Matrix twin” basically my twin has a shit ton of spiritual gifts and I have none at all. But anyway it took me awhile to figure out what we were and then when I realized after researching, it all resonated with me. Undoubtedly. I couldn’t deny it. But that’s why I say only you can know it’ll just resonate with your soul. Sometimes there’s doubts because of the push and pull but you see this happens because twin flames are rules by energy so it’s science. When they’re in a negative energetic space they repel each other. The more and more they come into energetic alignment the closer they become. At least that’s what happens with my twin and I. He can feel my energy no matter where I am so I do my best to keep my vibration high. Anyway I could go on about the topic for awhile since I’ve been on the journey for a little over 2 years. The mirror thing js just about basically your twin can trigger you in ways that no one else can because you’re sensitive to them like ultra sensitive to them lol. So something that may be nothing with someone else would effect you deeply when it comes to your twin. Their job is to trigger you until you heal your inner wounds and get closer to loving unconditionally. And that’s where the finding yourself comes in play the triggers are about you and then you learn from them and you become a better person. It’s ultimately about surrendering to the connection and the process and releasing attachments to outcomes & loving your twin for who they are and not what you project on to them. I’m not even regurgitating information, all of this has worked for me and keeps me and my twin close today.
I think I’m the more spiritual twin, and I wasn’t sure if my twin would ever understand what this connection is. I’m still not sure. But in the last few months he’s actually been sending me telepathic messages! Like I was sad one day, and he sent me ‘I love you, [my name]’. It made me feel better.
Well if he can send you telepathic messages then maybe it’s more mutual than you think. Not all twins are categorized in the spiritual/matrix category. Some are on the same page gift wise or 5D wise etc. My twin and I fit the first one though. Lucky for him I like to research and learn stuff or I would still not have known wtf he was trying to tell me all this time 😅 lmao. But the more you come into energetic alignment the closer you come and there won’t be any need to convince or whatever. He’ll come around. Just be patient and hold space for him.
I have no idea if he’s a spiritual person or not (it’s not something we talk about). I know he’s generally open and in touch with his emotions, so I guess it’s not impossible. I would send telepathic messages before, but he didn’t really start to respond until July this year, and now he’s even initiating! Before that I would feel his presence a lot during ‘seperations’, though, but I don’t know if he was aware of it himself. Thank you.click to expand
It’s harder for guys to talk about this stuff. The only reason I know about my twin’s gifts is because I asked him a shit ton of questions lmao. Especially after reading his chart. I’m the only one who knows he has these gifts. He never spoke about it because he thinks ppl will think he’s crazy. And I don’t blame him lol. I’m happy he can at least tell me now and I won’t judge him. You can start by asking him questions but if he resists, don’t press leave it be and maybe since you opened the door he’ll bring it up on his own in the future.
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.
Think about this—why even wonder if you and him are “good” for each other? If it’s just sex, than that’s the end goal; not life partnership, not emotional bonding because if you’re just another woman he’s not gonna invest..why even the questions, “ are we good together, are we meant to be..”
that is the young girl in me wanting to know. it doesnt matter anymore. i was not even worth a booty call. 😆
You’re worth a booty call and then some just FYI. But now, here’s my question. I had this Scorpio moon flirting with me. Hardly ever spoke a word. But during a few non-verbal flirting encounters (passing me by in halls) the most incredible thing happened. I saw images. Like he was capable of projecting spiritual imagery towards me! It happened a total of 4 times. I’ve never had an experience like that. This is one of the soulmates. Now scorpios have deep abilities. Is this something you’re capable of doing?click to expand
wow it is funny you bring that up. i was in a womens group year back. I was doing therapy because i though i was going crazy, it was just i had a tumor in my thyroid. long story. Well the therapist had us doing a image exercise. I have always had this thing where images and memories are so strong it is like i am really there. in my head it feels like a moving theater and i get pulled into what i am see. like a VR game. real as hell. i have not been able to do it since the infection in my face after i lost my game shop. long story there. well during this image exercise we were all suppose to image what animals we were. well i could feel the other women. empathy stuff. an image to me. i was a tiger in a small field with a line of trees around it. one of the women in the group was a friend and i was very focused on her. she always reminded me of a trapped tiger so that is what i image. I just was pulling the others into my image field. i knew what the other women picked for animals before they started making noises. they were just in the field being them. one woman bothering the other woman. me i was a tiger laying under a tree. that was how i felt relaxed and something less which i have no words for. something very strong. sorry dont know how to put it. i put all my focus on my friend who was a trapped in a cage. a tiger in a cage saying over and over again brake it the cage. the trapped cage was not in the field but deep in the forest. the image in my head would switch from me in the field under the tree and seeing the other two women in the field. one was a horse the other an elephant. the horse was brother the elephant. then i would have my all seeing eye i guess you would call it travel through the forest to my trapped friend. saying over and over again her name and that she can brake the cage door. She did i saw it. saw her run through the forest to me in the field like i was along side her but was not really. i was still in the field under the tree. then i saw another tiger come from out of the field. roaming around the field. when the therapist stop us asked us what about our image and talked about. i did not say a word. the other women say there stuff which they all said they were in a field. my friend say she was in a trapped caged. the therapist did it to. 😆 get this she said for some reason she kept picturing herself as a tree and didnt want to be a tree. the therapist wanted to be an animal in the field playing with the horse and the elephant who were not playing. the horse and elephant are friends but the horse like way to much to get into the elephants space and the elephant loves her space. my friend describe her cage and breaking it just like i picture. the elephant didnt say this in group because she didnt want to hurt the horse that the horse was bother her. she wanted her image to be different. when i listen to all these woman i was like WHAT? i really tripped about the therapist trying to be an animal but she kept imaging herself as a tree. 😆 i hope you enjoy the story. i know it tripped me out a little bit wondering if i did that.
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Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.
Think about this—why even wonder if you and him are “good” for each other? If it’s just sex, than that’s the end goal; not life partnership, not emotional bonding because if you’re just another woman he’s not gonna invest..why even the questions, “ are we good together, are we meant to be..”
that is the young girl in me wanting to know. it doesnt matter anymore. i was not even worth a booty call. 😆
You’re worth a booty call and then some just FYI. But now, here’s my question. I had this Scorpio moon flirting with me. Hardly ever spoke a word. But during a few non-verbal flirting encounters (passing me by in halls) the most incredible thing happened. I saw images. Like he was capable of projecting spiritual imagery towards me! It happened a total of 4 times. I’ve never had an experience like that. This is one of the soulmates. Now scorpios have deep abilities. Is this something you’re capable of doing?
wow it is funny you bring that up. i was in a womens group year back. I was doing therapy because i though i was going crazy, it was just i had a tumor in my thyroid. long story. Well the therapist had us doing a image exercise. I have always had this thing where images and memories are so strong it is like i am really there. in my head it feels like a moving theater and i get pulled into what i am see. like a VR game. real as hell. i have not been able to do it since the infection in my face after i lost my game shop. long story there. well during this image exercise we were all suppose to image what animals we were. well i could feel the other women. empathy stuff. an image to me. i was a tiger in a small field with a line of trees around it. one of the women in the group was a friend and i was very focused on her. she always reminded me of a trapped tiger so that is what i image. I just was pulling the others into my image field. i knew what the other women picked for animals before they started making noises. they were just in the field being them. one woman bothering the other woman. me i was a tiger laying under a tree. that was how i felt relaxed and something less which i have no words for. something very strong. sorry dont know how to put it. i put all my focus on my friend who was a trapped in a cage. a tiger in a cage saying over and over again brake it the cage. the trapped cage was not in the field but deep in the forest. the image in my head would switch from me in the field under the tree and seeing the other two women in the field. one was a horse the other an elephant. the horse was brother the elephant. then i would have my all seeing eye i guess you would call it travel through the forest to my trapped friend. saying over and over again her name and that she can brake the cage door. She did i saw it. saw her run through the forest to me in the field like i was along side her but was not really. i was still in the field under the tree. then i saw another tiger come from out of the field. roaming around the field. when the therapist stop us asked us what about our image and talked about. i did not say a word. the other women say there stuff which they all said they were in a field. my friend say she was in a trapped caged. the therapist did it to. 😆 get this she said for some reason she kept picturing herself as a tree and didnt want to be a tree. the therapist wanted to be an animal in the field playing with the horse and the elephant who were not playing. the horse and elephant are friends but the horse like way to much to get into the elephants space and the elephant loves her space. my friend describe her cage and breaking it just like i picture. the elephant didnt say this in group because she didnt want to hurt the horse that the horse was bother her. she wanted her image to be different. when i listen to all these woman i was like WHAT? i really tripped about the therapist trying to be an animal but she kept imaging herself as a tree. 😆 i hope you enjoy the story. i know it tripped me out a little bit wondering if i did that.click to expand
you will get a kick out of this too. i have dont the out of body thing as well. one time during sex i went into my ex's body and saw his what we call the soul. so not what people think a soul is. i have not been able to do the out of body since the tumor in my thyroid. i miss it. it is like a break from feelings. we before my divorce i wanted to understand more the out body so i started teaching myself physics. but i have not got back to it since the divorce because of all the shit i was dealing with. The guy we been talking about like took up my whole mind and my feeling or emotions were really out of control plus just trying to get on my feet. it was a huge storm, very huge. weird too.
Someone asked how can I move on from this twin flame back and forth. Well start from a logical perspective by acknowledging that the tf dynamics are synonymous with codependency. This is the hardest thing to accept. Me codependent? No way! That’s what we all say, but if you put the same effort in studying codependency as you do twin flames it will sink in eventually.
Now attraction is the product of the subconscious mind. The strong connection to the tf comes from our subconscious mind. I’ll explain this as briefly as I can. The subconscious mind which is the inner brain has stored every second of life from the time you are born till you die (is like a hard drive). Everything you’ve ever seen, heard, touch, smell, felt…..all the good and bad experiences are store there. When the tf comes along this person resonates and actives all the good and bad from your subconscious mind like no one else, creating that phenomenal connection. You think about the tf nonstop, you dream about the tf, you feel a euphoric mental-psychic connection that is hard to explain (is like a drug).
The best way to move on is to think of this as an unhealthy addiction. Set a quit date and stick with it.
For some people this can take a couple of years, many years, or a lifetime.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Is ok to acknowledge the pain of abandonment but don’t well in the suffering by looking for excuses to continue this. Take it from someone who finally broke free after more than 10 years of this back and forth. I will always care for tf person as a friend but refuse to do this ever again.
Only you can decide when enough is enough. It may take many years, but is doable. To me this was the main lesson I learn from the twin flame connection, don’t be codependent. Hope this helps.
Now astrology wise we had the following synastry. Me Neptune in Scorpio conjunct my tf moon, Venus, and ascendant (all in scorpio). Me South Node in Scoprio conjuct tf moon in scoprio at 1 degree, and many north node, south node square to inner planets (total of five).
Would anyone like to share your tf synastry?
Now attraction is the product of the subconscious mind. The strong connection to the tf comes from our subconscious mind. I’ll explain this as briefly as I can. The subconscious mind which is the inner brain has stored every second of life from the time you are born till you die (is like a hard drive). Everything you’ve ever seen, heard, touch, smell, felt…..all the good and bad experiences are store there. When the tf comes along this person resonates and actives all the good and bad from your subconscious mind like no one else, creating that phenomenal connection. You think about the tf nonstop, you dream about the tf, you feel a euphoric mental-psychic connection that is hard to explain (is like a drug).
The best way to move on is to think of this as an unhealthy addiction. Set a quit date and stick with it.
For some people this can take a couple of years, many years, or a lifetime.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Is ok to acknowledge the pain of abandonment but don’t well in the suffering by looking for excuses to continue this. Take it from someone who finally broke free after more than 10 years of this back and forth. I will always care for tf person as a friend but refuse to do this ever again.
Only you can decide when enough is enough. It may take many years, but is doable. To me this was the main lesson I learn from the twin flame connection, don’t be codependent. Hope this helps.
Now astrology wise we had the following synastry. Me Neptune in Scorpio conjunct my tf moon, Venus, and ascendant (all in scorpio). Me South Node in Scoprio conjuct tf moon in scoprio at 1 degree, and many north node, south node square to inner planets (total of five).
Would anyone like to share your tf synastry?
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MikeNYNYC
Think about what you’re looking for in a relationship. Monogomy and stability? You can’t build that on top of a foundation of being a mistress. Hypothetically speaking, eventually, he’ll cheat on you without second thought; because he knows you’re ok with cheating—that’s how you originally got access into his life. And you were okay with it then. **this is how us men think**
You’re infatuated possibly because you’re not dating as much as you think and letting in enough options to focus on other people. Guys do this to girls all the time. They find girls they can lead on and sometimes never even meet up. The sheer fact that they could hit it if they want, boosts their self-esteem and keeps them confident in their “skills”—this is a low vibration guy..
Lastly, there’s an old saying, “how can there be room for a mr. right in your life if the space is being occupied by a hack?”
you have some great points for someone looking for a relationship. i dont care what he thinks or feels about other women. he can fuck as many has he wants. i would even watched if he let me. what i care about is that he makes real time for me and not say he will then back out. he should do what he says. a man's word kinda stuff. i already know i boost his ego. i can tell that much. i just having a hard time braking this connection so i will stop acting like a stupid school girl. i am 48 years old. i went out with 20 guys before my ex. because i was stupid about romance and just had no problem walking way from them and go to the next one. i stayed with my ex mostly for my daughters. yes he got me prego at 17 and he had me where he wanted me. long story there. after the divorce i have been with 11 guys so far. i have strong needs. what can i say. i have been in construction most of my life so have had many guy friends. i so get what guys think and what their needs are. but this aries guys, well the connection was made when i was very young, 6th grade. for some stupid reason have thirty some reason it got stronger. that should have not happen. he even said he enjoys keeping me hooked. i need to brake the stupid hook. what is so weird he still makes me smile even though i am pissed off at him. now that only happens with him. why? he is a brat.
He’s got you hooked because he played the classic guy game; probably came into you strong and then backed off. Left you wondering why he did this. Puts you on the spot to try and fill in the awkward void where stimulating conversation used to be, by confirming how sexy he is and possibly even seeing what type of favors he can get of you. He trained you and now only needs put in minimal effort to keep you desiring him. The romantic term is called “breadcrumbing” a woman. Give her little doses of attn to stimulate her to tyrn tricks and solicite more of his time. Behind the scenes he’s just like every other guy; farts, blows blows up the toilet, does. It lead an exciting life just makes it look like it.
i was hooked before the game began. a girls fantasy. he did come in strong and hard when we first started chatting. i have never felt that alive before. lol i was just being a stupid school girl all over again. 😆 oh i so know all what you say. i so know how to play that game very well. it is the young girl fantasy that put me in a bad spot. i have had a hard time getting out of that spot.
Think about this—why even wonder if you and him are “good” for each other? If it’s just sex, than that’s the end goal; not life partnership, not emotional bonding because if you’re just another woman he’s not gonna invest..why even the questions, “ are we good together, are we meant to be..”
that is the young girl in me wanting to know. it doesnt matter anymore. i was not even worth a booty call. 😆
You’re worth a booty call and then some just FYI. But now, here’s my question. I had this Scorpio moon flirting with me. Hardly ever spoke a word. But during a few non-verbal flirting encounters (passing me by in halls) the most incredible thing happened. I saw images. Like he was capable of projecting spiritual imagery towards me! It happened a total of 4 times. I’ve never had an experience like that. This is one of the soulmates. Now scorpios have deep abilities. Is this something you’re capable of doing?
wow it is funny you bring that up. i was in a womens group year back. I was doing therapy because i though i was going crazy, it was just i had a tumor in my thyroid. long story. Well the therapist had us doing a image exercise. I have always had this thing where images and memories are so strong it is like i am really there. in my head it feels like a moving theater and i get pulled into what i am see. like a VR game. real as hell. i have not been able to do it since the infection in my face after i lost my game shop. long story there. well during this image exercise we were all suppose to image what animals we were. well i could feel the other women. empathy stuff. an image to me. i was a tiger in a small field with a line of trees around it. one of the women in the group was a friend and i was very focused on her. she always reminded me of a trapped tiger so that is what i image. I just was pulling the others into my image field. i knew what the other women picked for animals before they started making noises. they were just in the field being them. one woman bothering the other woman. me i was a tiger laying under a tree. that was how i felt relaxed and something less which i have no words for. something very strong. sorry dont know how to put it. i put all my focus on my friend who was a trapped in a cage. a tiger in a cage saying over and over again brake it the cage. the trapped cage was not in the field but deep in the forest. the image in my head would switch from me in the field under the tree and seeing the other two women in the field. one was a horse the other an elephant. the horse was brother the elephant. then i would have my all seeing eye i guess you would call it travel through the forest to my trapped friend. saying over and over again her name and that she can brake the cage door. She did i saw it. saw her run through the forest to me in the field like i was along side her but was not really. i was still in the field under the tree. then i saw another tiger come from out of the field. roaming around the field. when the therapist stop us asked us what about our image and talked about. i did not say a word. the other women say there stuff which they all said they were in a field. my friend say she was in a trapped caged. the therapist did it to. 😆 get this she said for some reason she kept picturing herself as a tree and didnt want to be a tree. the therapist wanted to be an animal in the field playing with the horse and the elephant who were not playing. the horse and elephant are friends but the horse like way to much to get into the elephants space and the elephant loves her space. my friend describe her cage and breaking it just like i picture. the elephant didnt say this in group because she didnt want to hurt the horse that the horse was bother her. she wanted her image to be different. when i listen to all these woman i was like WHAT? i really tripped about the therapist trying to be an animal but she kept imaging herself as a tree. 😆 i hope you enjoy the story. i know it tripped me out a little bit wondering if i did that.
you will get a kick out of this too. i have dont the out of body thing as well. one time during sex i went into my ex's body and saw his what we call the soul. so not what people think a soul is. i have not been able to do the out of body since the tumor in my thyroid. i miss it. it is like a break from feelings. we before my divorce i wanted to understand more the out body so i started teaching myself physics. but i have not got back to it since the divorce because of all the shit i was dealing with. The guy we been talking about like took up my whole mind and my feeling or emotions were really out of control plus just trying to get on my feet. it was a huge storm, very huge. weird too.click to expand
i have so many stories i could tell you about weird things and other images. i even remember things from when i was 2 years old which my mother was like how do you remember that kind of stuff.
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@WitchmitchAries .....please don't take MikeNYNYC seriously. Talking out of her/his ass.
it is all good. it matter not where people are talking from. they just want to be heard. it is all good.
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Someone asked how can I move on from this twin flame back and forth. Well start from a logical perspective by acknowledging that the tf dynamics are synonymous with codependency. This is the hardest thing to accept. Me codependent? No way! That’s what we all say, but if you put the same effort in studying codependency as you do twin flames it will sink in eventually.
Now attraction is the product of the subconscious mind. The strong connection to the tf comes from our subconscious mind. I’ll explain this as briefly as I can. The subconscious mind which is the inner brain has stored every second of life from the time you are born till you die (is like a hard drive). Everything you’ve ever seen, heard, touch, smell, felt…..all the good and bad experiences are store there. When the tf comes along this person resonates and actives all the good and bad from your subconscious mind like no one else, creating that phenomenal connection. You think about the tf nonstop, you dream about the tf, you feel a euphoric mental-psychic connection that is hard to explain (is like a drug).
The best way to move on is to think of this as an unhealthy addiction. Set a quit date and stick with it.
For some people this can take a couple of years, many years, or a lifetime.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Is ok to acknowledge the pain of abandonment but don’t well in the suffering by looking for excuses to continue this. Take it from someone who finally broke free after more than 10 years of this back and forth. I will always care for tf person as a friend but refuse to do this ever again.
Only you can decide when enough is enough. It may take many years, but is doable. To me this was the main lesson I learn from the twin flame connection, don’t be codependent. Hope this helps.
Now astrology wise we had the following synastry. Me Neptune in Scorpio conjunct my tf moon, Venus, and ascendant (all in scorpio). Me South Node in Scoprio conjuct tf moon in scoprio at 1 degree, and many north node, south node square to inner planets (total of five).
Would anyone like to share your tf synastry?
i dont know anything about the tf. this is the first i have heard of it in this forum.
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