Sleeping on the couch

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by brianafay on Saturday, September 7, 2019 and has 24 replies.

Does Sleeping on the Couch Indicate Passive Aggression

Sleeping on the couch after a disagreement can be a way to signal upset or give space, but it is not necessarily passive aggressive. It often depends on the context and communication between partners. Addressing the underlying issue directly is usually more effective than silent treatment.

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@brianafay
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I mean if I’m so mad at him I don’t want to sleep next to him I’ll just relentlessly bitch at him until he has no choice but to sleep on the couch if he wants to get any peace 😂

I’m most definitely NOT sleeping on the couch ! I’m not getting a crick in my neck to prove a point he doesn’t care to accept anyway

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Or the Scorpio moon is trying to find a reason to cuddle up with the old ratty ass blanket that the Leo moon tried to throw out. But the Scorpio moon really took it out of the trash and hid it.

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But nah he’s not sleeping on the couch, not tonight at least

He mistakenly thought I was because I took my pillow out there to watch Netflix

I was like oh Hunnay don’t play yourself 😂 I am not going to cause myself discomfort to spite you...that’s something YOU would do

He has definitely slept on the couch before by his own choice

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Posted by nikkistar

Or the Scorpio moon is trying to find a reason to cuddle up with the old ratty ass blanket that the Leo moon tried to throw out. But the Scorpio moon really took it out of the trash and hid it.

😂 omg I forgot about that blanket

No, that thing is long gone

Now he’s tried to take over my favorite couch blankie with the pom poms 😒

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@nikkistar
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Posted by brianafay

Posted by nikkistar

Or the Scorpio moon is trying to find a reason to cuddle up with the old ratty ass blanket that the Leo moon tried to throw out. But the Scorpio moon really took it out of the trash and hid it.

😂 omg I forgot about that blanket

No, that thing is long gone

Now he’s tried to take over my favorite couch blankie with the pom poms 😒

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Sure, it's "gone".

Speaking of that, poophead steals my new gel pillows I bought, after throwing a fit about me having too many pillows on our bed. Now I wake up to him completely taking it over. 🙄

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Posted by -Damous

I think it’s stupid but done it myself. Sometimes you really don’t wanna be/can’t be next to them

I felt so stupid when seeing me not sleeping but sitting all pissed off on the couch drinking coffee and texting...he just walked by me like I wasn’t even there...

So I had to re-evaluate my stupidity. And apologize🤦‍♀️For his atrocious behavior...which happened to be ME taking what HE said in a wei g way! 😳😂😂😂

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Posted by Ram416

Need some time and space to myself for the night. Like a self imposed time out

I once left the bed and went to the couch because we have different sleeping times and dog slept on my pillow so I merely went and slept on the couch happily...so when he woke up at 5am and saw me on the couch he had lectures me on ‘whatever happens I would NEVER want you to sleep on the couch because there isn’t shit bad enough for me to kick you out of the bed...’ and I was giggling quietly thinking I am taking shower and dragging dog off my pillow and fucking his brains out!

That worked!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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@_Dazed
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You know what to do..

Him: *sleeping on the couch*

You: *stand next to his face and fart*

You: "Eat my ass!"

Him: *eats your ass than makes late night breakfast*

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It's being petty 😂.

I've done it and I made that couch the most comfortable fucking thing in the house just to piss off a scorp moon even more. I planned on living on that damn couch just for spite...the looks I got were priceless.

You know what he did to me one time...bought an air mattress and put it in the living room...I'm like damn, well played sir 😂.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

It's being petty 😂.

I've done it and I made that couch the most comfortable fucking thing in the house just to piss off a scorp moon even more. I planned on living on that damn couch just for spite...the looks I got were priceless.

You know what he did to me one time...bought an air mattress and put it in the living room...I'm like damn, well played sir 😂.

Omg you guys don’t play lmao 🤣

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by LostinmyMind11

It's being petty 😂.

I've done it and I made that couch the most comfortable fucking thing in the house just to piss off a scorp moon even more. I planned on living on that damn couch just for spite...the looks I got were priceless.

You know what he did to me one time...bought an air mattress and put it in the living room...I'm like damn, well played sir 😂.

Omg you guys don’t play lmao 🤣

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I have a pic of him sleeping on the damn thing and was gonna post it but I can't find it....funniest shit ever lol.

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There was a time many years ago that my dear Cancer Moon slept on the couch in the den for about a month. I didn't know why, he wouldn't tell me. I'm a Gem Moon, I let him be.

The strange thing about it, is he would make love to me, lay with me for a while, then sleep on the couch. I would take a look at him watching TV, trying to examine him mentally. But, I let him be. I loved the depth of him in all of it, to have parts of him still unknown.