First Night Over

So, Caps are often considered to be "too judgemental". Guilty. Whatever.

I know I'm not the only one evaluating a romantic prospect's home environment the first night I come over.

So, spill! What are the things you look at in someone's home when you're over for the first time?

Check to see if there are hidden cameras.

I check for odor, first and foremost 😂 No, really. I do 🤷

Cleanliness or Nastiness.

Posted by sweetpea2977

I check for odor, first and foremost 😂 No, really. I do 🤷

Cleanliness or Nastiness.

+1

Dirty dishes and a messy kitchen will turn me off immediately. If his kitchen is spotless and he has kitchen appliances he actually uses?? 😍 Stainless steel— He's getting banged the fuck out.

My Cap ex used to evaluate/inspect for dust and people's carpet, if they had it.

Posted by Reciprocity8

Posted by sweetpea2977

I check for odor, first and foremost 😂 No, really. I do 🤷

Cleanliness or Nastiness.

+1

Dirty dishes and a messy kitchen will turn me off immediately. If his kitchen is spotless and he has kitchen appliances he actually uses?? 😍 Stainless steel— He's getting banged the fuck out.

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🤣🤣🤣🤣

Cleanliness of the room and the fridge.

Posted by DeadInside

i dont know

Then why the fuck do you even post?

If I had a chancleta, I'd chuck it at you, dude.

Posted by DeadInside

Posted by Reciprocity8

Posted by DeadInside

i dont know

Then why the fuck do you even post?

If I had a chancleta, I'd chuck it at you, dude.

each time i post i dont know, then i admit the fact that i dont know, the fact that i cant know everything. i feel more humble and more blessed. i'm a true libra rising

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Ah, got it. My bad.

Carry on.

Posted by DeadInside

Posted by Reciprocity8

Posted by DeadInside

i dont know

Then why the fuck do you even post?

If I had a chancleta, I'd chuck it at you, dude.

each time i post i dont know, then i admit the fact that i dont know, the fact that i cant know everything. i feel more humble and more blessed. i'm a true libra rising

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lol

Posted by Antiochus

Books.

about?

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Posted by Antiochus

Books.

about?

That is the question.

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Ah ha. I actually misread the question. I was thinking it said what would someone bring. I've been out of sorts today 🙂

I look to see where the sex toys are.

Posted by Reciprocity8

So, Caps are often considered to be "too judgemental". Guilty. Whatever.

I know I'm not the only one evaluating a romantic prospect's home environment the first night I come over.

So, spill! What are the things you look at in someone's home when you're over for the first time?

I don't be looking at shit. Cause I didn't give a fuck.

But, they sure be examining the shit outta mine. Pretty presumptuous makes me laugh. But, I guess the suspense n' all. Long time before I invite someone inside.

Probably smell her panties too.

And make sure she doesn't buy single ply toilet paper.

Looking for heaps of laundry in corners 👀

Posted by Leeta

Another chick's stuff.

Yep! And I was gone with Maker's Mark, but I had enough sense to look around while I was in the bathroom. 😂

"Try to explain some long hairs, mf. I'll wait."

Posted by _Dazed

Probably smell her panties too.

I was actually wondering about this. My laundry bin is in my bathroom and I started wondering if he'd be the type to go through it. 🤔 Better hide my granny panties.

Posted by Reciprocity8

Posted by _Dazed

Probably smell her panties too.

I was actually wondering about this. My laundry bin is in my bathroom and I started wondering if he'd be the type to go through it. 🤔 Better hide my granny panties.

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Granny panties get all the good smells on them.

Posted by Reciprocity8

My Cap ex used to evaluate/inspect for dust and people's carpet, if they had it.

My ex Cap forgot to empty his room trash with used wipes and condoms in it 3 times I have visited his place in 2 weeks. Even left himself a reminder, and forgot. When he hosted people for boardgame night, too. And back then it was a cleenex box - he finally bought actual trash bucket later, after we broke up lol.

I literally licked my place spotless clean when it was his turn to come over.

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Reciprocity8

My Cap ex used to evaluate/inspect for dust and people's carpet, if they had it.

My ex Cap forgot to empty his room trash with used wipes and condoms in it 3 times I have visited his place in 2 weeks. Even left himself a reminder, and forgot. When he hosted people for boardgame night, too. And back then it was a cleenex box - he finally bought actual trash bucket later, after we broke up lol.

I literally licked my place spotless clean when it was his turn to come over.

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What's sad is that he was probably still critiquing the cleanliness of your place. Friggin' Caps!