First time dating a cancer... is she done with me? (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by guywithabeard881 on Friday, June 28, 2019 and has 65 replies.

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@guywithabeard881
7 Years

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

JFC texting good morning and night to someone you’ve dated once. I’d DTB immediately.

Ya way to red flag clingy/possessive

You aren’t helping bitch! 😂😂🧟‍♀️

Wut

Read again! 😂😂😂👍

Not helping at all!

It was actually sweet to see that side of her. They are nurturers aren’t they?

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Who? 🤔

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@guywithabeard881
7 Years

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

JFC texting good morning and night to someone you’ve dated once. I’d DTB immediately.

Ya way to red flag clingy/possessive

You aren’t helping bitch! 😂😂🧟‍♀️

Wut

Read again! 😂😂😂👍

Not helping at all!

It was actually sweet to see that side of her. They are nurturers aren’t they?

Who? 🤔

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Cancer women

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@Sjess
7 Years500+ Posts

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

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Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

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@guywithabeard881
7 Years

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

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I’ll skip a few lines, but “...ever since the day after the game, I noticed you went into your shell again like when we first started talking. You’re one person I would wait for to get to know better whenever you’re comfortable. You grabbed my attention with your personality, passion, vision and drive. You’re quality...”

not word for word, but VERY close.

She read it, but didn’t respond. We whatsap and she hasn’t looked at her phone since. I feel like she just goes into this zone where she just works and focuses on her goal.

Haha let me hear your opinion in the text...

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@Sjess
7 Years500+ Posts

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

I’ll skip a few lines, but “...ever since the day after the game, I noticed you went into your shell again like when we first started talking. You’re one person I would wait for to get to know better whenever you’re comfortable. You grabbed my attention with your personality, passion, vision and drive. You’re quality...”

not word for word, but VERY close.

She read it, but didn’t respond. We whatsap and she hasn’t looked at her phone since. I feel like she just goes into this zone where she just works and focuses on her goal.

Haha let me hear your opinion in the text...

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Move on. She isn’t interested.

MOVE. ON.

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@guywithabeard881
7 Years

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

I’ll skip a few lines, but “...ever since the day after the game, I noticed you went into your shell again like when we first started talking. You’re one person I would wait for to get to know better whenever you’re comfortable. You grabbed my attention with your personality, passion, vision and drive. You’re quality...”

not word for word, but VERY close.

She read it, but didn’t respond. We whatsap and she hasn’t looked at her phone since. I feel like she just goes into this zone where she just works and focuses on her goal.

Haha let me hear your opinion in the text...

Move on. She isn’t interested.

MOVE. ON.

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I should have probably said earlier... she did this once before and came back 3 or 4 days later.

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@Sjess
7 Years500+ Posts

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

I’ll skip a few lines, but “...ever since the day after the game, I noticed you went into your shell again like when we first started talking. You’re one person I would wait for to get to know better whenever you’re comfortable. You grabbed my attention with your personality, passion, vision and drive. You’re quality...”

not word for word, but VERY close.

She read it, but didn’t respond. We whatsap and she hasn’t looked at her phone since. I feel like she just goes into this zone where she just works and focuses on her goal.

Haha let me hear your opinion in the text...

Move on. She isn’t interested.

MOVE. ON.

I should have probably said earlier... she did this once before and came back 3 or 4 days later.

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Who cares. You could die tomorrow ffs

At this rate it will be 2021 before a fluid convo.

I’m done with this thread my dear. This situation feels toxic to me. I’m out!

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@guywithabeard881
7 Years

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

I’ll skip a few lines, but “...ever since the day after the game, I noticed you went into your shell again like when we first started talking. You’re one person I would wait for to get to know better whenever you’re comfortable. You grabbed my attention with your personality, passion, vision and drive. You’re quality...”

not word for word, but VERY close.

She read it, but didn’t respond. We whatsap and she hasn’t looked at her phone since. I feel like she just goes into this zone where she just works and focuses on her goal.

Haha let me hear your opinion in the text...

Move on. She isn’t interested.

MOVE. ON.

I should have probably said earlier... she did this once before and came back 3 or 4 days later.

Who cares. You could die tomorrow ffs

At this rate it will be 2021 before a fluid convo.

I’m done with this thread my dear. This situation feels toxic to me. I’m out!

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RIP to my soul.

Thanks for all your input!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

JFC texting good morning and night to someone you’ve dated once. I’d DTB immediately.

Ya way to red flag clingy/possessive

You aren’t helping bitch! 😂😂🧟‍♀️

Wut

Read again! 😂😂😂👍

Ditto for you

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Do you mean:

Anglicized form of a French Huguenot name of unexplained etymology

OR

Italian: from a short form of the personal name Benedetto.

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@guywithabeard881
7 Years

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

I’ll skip a few lines, but “...ever since the day after the game, I noticed you went into your shell again like when we first started talking. You’re one person I would wait for to get to know better whenever you’re comfortable. You grabbed my attention with your personality, passion, vision and drive. You’re quality...”

not word for word, but VERY close.

She read it, but didn’t respond. We whatsap and she hasn’t looked at her phone since. I feel like she just goes into this zone where she just works and focuses on her goal.

Haha let me hear your opinion in the text...

Move on. She isn’t interested.

MOVE. ON.

I should have probably said earlier... she did this once before and came back 3 or 4 days later.

Because it’s too much and she thinks it’s insincere since she probably thinks you don’t know her and have put her on a pedestal.

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I have you’re right.

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@nyx100
8 Years

She is observing you. Take your time, Make sure its her you want. DO not date others or try to ease your emotional turmoil. It will backfire. She will judge you correctly so watch it LOL

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@nyx100
8 Years

She is observing you. Take your time, Make sure its her you want. Dn not date others or try to ease your emotional turmoil by sleeping around. It will backfire. She will judge you correctly so watch it LOL

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8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Posted by guywithabeard881

Posted by Sjess

Well did you text her or not?

I did!

I’m telling you though, I don’t know why I fell for this girl. Probably because I wanted someone that’s difficult to get, but my dream as always been to get a go-getter and that’s what she is.

Cancers are just hard though!

Do they like sincere honesty?

Well what did you say, what she say etc etc etc...?

I’ll skip a few lines, but “...ever since the day after the game, I noticed you went into your shell again like when we first started talking. You’re one person I would wait for to get to know better whenever you’re comfortable. You grabbed my attention with your personality, passion, vision and drive. You’re quality...”

not word for word, but VERY close.

She read it, but didn’t respond. We whatsap and she hasn’t looked at her phone since. I feel like she just goes into this zone where she just works and focuses on her goal.

Haha let me hear your opinion in the text...

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You sound sweet but your message to her makes you sound like a player. When dudes go this hard after knowing me for a week I'll say "but you don't even know me"

I like saying that 😅

You need to show her your feelings for her in the beginning especially if she's focused on not being in a relationship. Save all that lovely dovey texting ish for when you got her.

Also she could be letting you down easy because..

A. She just got out of a relationship and her heart can't take anyone new right now.

B.. she's into someone else

C.. she doesn't really like you.

Or

D.. she in player mode because of options A (some crabs sulk.. others date around)

You sound sweet so I'd say hang in there but still keep your options open.