Cancer friend hurt me and became a coward about it!!

Ok so I’ve known this cancer since I was like 5yrs old. Im 25 and he’s 21. I’ll be honest we had sex once back in May. Before that we were hella close... talking, texting, FaceTimed every day. Then afterwards he cut me out of his life. I didn’t react bc we were just friends and he told me I was the only one that didn’t react when he cut everyone off. He apologized, to forgave him and then he did it again. I got pissed because you started noticing a pattern. I yelled at him through text. He apologized, constantly asked to see me even wanted to take me to work. I declined all offers. A few weeks went by and I missed his friendship. I reached back out to him and apologized for yelling because even though he disappeared I can’t get mad because he isn’t my boyfriend. He apologized too and we continued talking every day like before. He was eager to see me and I wanted to see him. But before I saw him I told him that I didn’t want to have sex with him and just a friendship. Sex gets me in my feelings and I just want to share that with someone who really means something to me beyond a friendship. He said he was fine with that. So when I went to his house the whole time he tried to force me to have sex to the point where he pinned me down and tried to stick it in. He never got the chance. We didn’t end up having sex sex but gave in and I let him give me head. I didn’t give him any. I did this only out of spite cuz I was angry he was trying to force me. I told him why would he want to have sex with me when he doesn’t even like me. And he was like you’re right I don’t like no one. And he rolled over and left me alone. So I got up to leave. Then he asked me to buy him food. I said no because I felt like he didn’t deserve it cuz he didn’t respect my no. So he stopped talking to me all because I didn’t have sex with him. The FaceTimes, daily texts all of that stopped so I called him on it. He apologized and blamed it on work. Then I let him have it. I cursed and yelled at him because he basically was trying to use me. I told him I never wanted anything to do with him in my life. He unfollowed me on IG and blocked my number. I feel like he should be begging and pleading instead of being a coward. Why isn’t he? Cancer men feel free to comment

Ok so I’ve known this cancer since I was like 5yrs old. Im 25 and he’s 21. I’ll be honest we had sex once back in May. Before that we were hella close... talking, texting, FaceTimed every day. Then afterwards he cut me out of his life. I didn’t react bc we were just friends and he told me I was the only one that didn’t react when he cut everyone off. He apologized, to forgave him and then he did it again. I got pissed because you started noticing a pattern. I yelled at him through text. He apologized, constantly asked to see me even wanted to take me to work. I declined all offers. A few weeks went by and I missed his friendship. I reached back out to him and apologized for yelling because even though he disappeared I can’t get mad because he isn’t my boyfriend. He apologized too and we continued talking every day like before. He was eager to see me and I wanted to see him. But before I saw him I told him that I didn’t want to have sex with him and just a friendship. Sex gets me in my feelings and I just want to share that with someone who really means something to me beyond a friendship. He said he was fine with that. So when I went to his house the whole time he tried to force me to have sex to the point where he pinned me down and tried to stick it in. He never got the chance. We didn’t end up having sex sex but gave in and I let him give me head. I didn’t give him any. I did this only out of spite cuz I was angry he was trying to force me. I told him why would he want to have sex with me when he doesn’t even like me. And he was like you’re right I don’t like no one. And he rolled over and left me alone. So I got up to leave. Then he asked me to buy him food. I said no because I felt like he didn’t deserve it cuz he didn’t respect my no. So he stopped talking to me all because I didn’t have sex with him. The FaceTimes, daily texts all of that stopped so I called him on it. He apologized and blamed it on work. Then I let him have it. I cursed and yelled at him because he basically was trying to use me. I told him I never wanted anything to do with him in my life. He unfollowed me on IG and blocked my number. I feel like he should be begging and pleading instead of being a coward. Why isn’t he? Cancer men feel free to comment

Ok so I’ve known this cancer since I was like 5yrs old. Im 25 and he’s 21. I’ll be honest we had sex once back in May. Before that we were hella close... talking, texting, FaceTimed every day. Then afterwards he cut me out of his life. I didn’t react bc we were just friends and he told me I was the only one that didn’t react when he cut everyone off. He apologized, to forgave him and then he did it again. I got pissed because you started noticing a pattern. I yelled at him through text. He apologized, constantly asked to see me even wanted to take me to work. I declined all offers. A few weeks went by and I missed his friendship. I reached back out to him and apologized for yelling because even though he disappeared I can’t get mad because he isn’t my boyfriend. He apologized too and we continued talking every day like before. He was eager to see me and I wanted to see him. But before I saw him I told him that I didn’t want to have sex with him and just a friendship. Sex gets me in my feelings and I just want to share that with someone who really means something to me beyond a friendship. He said he was fine with that. So when I went to his house the whole time he tried to force me to have sex to the point where he pinned me down and tried to stick it in. He never got the chance. We didn’t end up having sex sex but gave in and I let him give me head. I didn’t give him any. I did this only out of spite cuz I was angry he was trying to force me. I told him why would he want to have sex with me when he doesn’t even like me. And he was like you’re right I don’t like no one. And he rolled over and left me alone. So I got up to leave. Then he asked me to buy him food. I said no because I felt like he didn’t deserve it cuz he didn’t respect my no. So he stopped talking to me all because I didn’t have sex with him. The FaceTimes, daily texts all of that stopped so I called him on it. He apologized and blamed it on work. Then I let him have it. I cursed and yelled at him because he basically was trying to use me. I told him I never wanted anything to do with him in my life. He unfollowed me on IG and blocked my number. I feel like he should be begging and pleading instead of being a coward. Why isn’t he? Cancer men feel free to comment

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Hold up, so you're basically saying he should be "begging and pleading"

For what actually? You already said "I never wanted anything to do with him in my life."

That's already claiming to get out of your life for good.

You want him to beg for your friendship back or to have sex with you? That's one of the options suggested.

This shit is weird.

You put a part in there, that sounds much like an attempted sexual assault, and then go on to say "NO SEX" but you let him eat your shit. Then you get pissed cause he just wants a piece of ass. And then you end it with an ego driven comment that comes off as he should be grateful and act like you want him to.

Fucking weird.

Posted by nikkistar

This shit is weird.

You put a part in there, that sounds much like an attempted sexual assault, and then go on to say "NO SEX" but you let him eat your shit. Then you get pissed cause he just wants a piece of ass. And then you end it with an ego driven comment that comes off as he should be grateful and act like you want him to.

Fucking weird.

Hence why I asked WUT in the other thread.

Posted by Tur

#friendsdontforcefuckotherfriends

Is that too long? I feel like my hashtags are always too long to be catchy.

#unstaybull

I only did it so he could see how it feels to be the naive one. Guys always try to force women to to do stuff. He took advantage so I said f it imma take advantage... eat it and you won’t get anything else from me. It wasn’t even for pleasure it was to prove a point . That I can be sick twisted and not give a rats ass about what he wanted to. He wanted more than to just eat me out... I wanted more than just hear say...

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#friendsdontforcefuckotherfriends

Is that too long? I feel like my hashtags are always too long to be catchy.

#unstaybull

#rockymountainoysters

I did it again!

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#cowlivesmatter

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus

I only did it so he could see how it feels to be the naive one. Guys always try to force women to to do stuff. He took advantage so I said f it imma take advantage... eat it and you won’t get anything else from me. It wasn’t even for pleasure it was to prove a point . That I can be sick twisted and not give a rats ass about what he wanted to. He wanted more than to just eat me out... I wanted more than just hear say...

So you're teaching him a lesson for being a horny 21 year old dude, tryna get his nut off, and not falling at your feet and being grateful you are allowing him to date you like you want.

Got it.

Bull balls isn’t something to mess around with... well neither is not respecting my no that I told him BEFORE going to his house ... oh well

I was with you until the part where you want him to crawl on his knees for forgiveness. He sexually assaulted you. He doesn't gaf about your hurt feels or gaining your forgiveness. He is not your friend.

Cut him out of your life and move tf on.

Future rapist damnnnnn

Yall keep playing games with each other. Leave us out. You're doing just fine.

Hes a man who wants to have as much sex as possible. You knew/know the deal.

Actually no because I thought we had an understanding so I went there under the impression that he would actually respect me and he didn’t soooo

If I knew he was still going to try to force me I wouldn’t have gone at all. I viewed him differently but he’s just like other guys... only wants what he wants with no regards for others so I showed him what it was like and left

#unbelieveabull

@black mamba... I don’t have herpes if that’s what you’re implying fuckin jerk

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus

So when I went to his house the whole time he tried to force me to have sex to the point where he pinned me down and tried to stick it in. He never got the chance. We didn’t end up having sex sex but gave in and I let him give me head. I didn’t give him any.

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus

So when I went to his house the whole time he tried to force me to have sex to the point where he pinned me down and tried to stick it in. He never got the chance. We didn’t end up having sex sex but gave in and I let him give me head. I didn’t give him any

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus

I only did it so he could see how it feels to be the naive one. Guys always try to force women to to do stuff. He took advantage so I said f it imma take advantage... eat it and you won’t get anything else from me. It wasn’t even for pleasure it was to prove a point . That I can be sick twisted and not give a rats ass about what he wanted to. He wanted more than to just eat me out... I wanted more than just hear say...

You knew him since you were like 5 years old? He was a baby when you were five years old.

There is no such thing as victims just volunteers. He told you repeatedly he's a prick who gets his rocks off of "ghosting" people and using them for sex. You have strong feelings for him which is allowing you to see this situation with blinders on.

Cancers, like most Cardinal signs prefer challenges. Judging from your actions, and the women before you...never challenged his juvenile behavior. Just complained about it....but yet decided to put up with it.

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Posted by Raakac

LOL , complaining about him trying to use him but you were the one using him for geting head. Talking tough like that, yet complaining, what a weak mindset...Hate such manipulation, whatever he did to you, well deserved.

Head can be forced just like penetration.

That said, I don't know what the fuck this shit-show is about.

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@_Dazed bumped this thread because I outed the OP in her other "Scorpio loves Drama" thread last week, or something like this. I referenced this thread of hers.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpio-loves-drama-13153350/

She has another with a Leo, that she claimed she knew was stalking her IG for months, even after blocking her

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/how-can-i-get-my-leo-man-back-11491375/

She does this goofy stuff. lol

alrighty then - I guess we're done here

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Posted by Raakac

LOL , complaining about him trying to use him but you were the one using him for geting head. Talking tough like that, yet complaining, what a weak mindset...Hate such manipulation, whatever he did to you, well deserved.

Head can be forced just like penetration.

That said, I don't know what the fuck this shit-show is about.

@_Dazed bumped this thread because I outed the OP in her other "Scorpio loves Drama" thread last week, or something like this. I referenced this thread of hers.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpio-loves-drama-13153350/

She has another with a Leo, that she claimed she knew was stalking her IG for months, even after blocking her

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/how-can-i-get-my-leo-man-back-11491375/

She does this goofy stuff. lol

Ah, yes. The Scorpio loves drama lady.

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Yea, she's a looney tunes. lol