Flirting

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by 777 on Monday, July 8, 2019 and has 13 replies.

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Why do some people take it the wrong way, even though it's a nice gesture? Even giving compliments can be taken wrong way. Just cause u flirt doesn't mean u want a relationship with someone. Why do people have these kinds of expectations when ur only trying to have fun & spice things up

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@Brittnie
9 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by 777

Why do some people take it the wrong way, even though it's a nice gesture? Even giving compliments can be taken wrong way. Just cause u flirt doesn't mean u want a relationship with someone. Why do people have these kinds of expectations when ur only trying to have fun & spice things up

Thank you for the self awareness. I know a Leo Mars that flirts a lot and I get so mad because I like him, we aren't a thing either and I even flirt a lot as well (Sag Mars) I don't want to be jealous but I can't help it 😩

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@saggurl88
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Depends on if flirting leads to sex.

I always flirt. I don't think people can tell whether I am just flirty or just nice. The only way to tell is if a guy makes a move and I either curve it or accept it. If I curve it, I know not to ever flirt with you again, cause you take it seriously. #MyFakeLibraRisingCharm

@777

Are you a Virgo? I have a question, if so. There are so may 7 names I get you guys confused.

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@777
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Posted by saggurl88

Depends on if flirting leads to sex.

I always flirt. I don't think people can tell whether I am just flirty or just nice. The only way to tell is if a guy makes a move and I either curve it or accept it. If I curve it, I know not to ever flirt with you again, cause you take it seriously. #MyFakeLibraRisingCharm

@777

Are you a Virgo? I have a question, if so. There are so may 7 names I get you guys confused.

Theres only one original 777. I am him.

Yea I'm virgo, what's ur question?

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@saggurl88
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Posted by 777

Posted by saggurl88

Depends on if flirting leads to sex.

I always flirt. I don't think people can tell whether I am just flirty or just nice. The only way to tell is if a guy makes a move and I either curve it or accept it. If I curve it, I know not to ever flirt with you again, cause you take it seriously. #MyFakeLibraRisingCharm

@777

Are you a Virgo? I have a question, if so. There are so may 7 names I get you guys confused.

Theres only one original 777. I am him.

Yea I'm virgo, what's ur question?

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I'll PM you after I get off work. 😄

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Some people don’t really flirt ‘for fun’ or to pass the time. They only do it if they are interested so I guess they are confused when people do it for fun.

Like me. I sometimes do it to test the waters to see if there is compatibility or with friends for fun. I'm not comfortable with the idea of stringing someone on.

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Wow. So this is actually a real thing. So ur saying that if I flirt with an elderly woman about looking good for her age, I am essentially leading her on, and it is rude to make people feel good, if my intentions aren't serious. I wish @arielle was here to tell u how selfish & privileged u guys sound,

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Compliments and flirting aren't the same thing are they? I compliment people, but don't want to get off with them...still I live in a country where banter is a big part of the culture

It's fun.....🙃

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

My post man.....Gemini sun is a huge flirt....sings to people, shouts "hello darling" and laughs a lot. Nobody gets offended, he is just being himself....there's no deep analysis "why is he doing this"...it's just him

He is very charismatic🌟🌞

👍😀

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Posted by 777

Why do some people take it the wrong way, even though it's a nice gesture? Even giving compliments can be taken wrong way. Just cause u flirt doesn't mean u want a relationship with someone. Why do people have these kinds of expectations when ur only trying to have fun & spice things up

Me personally don't like to be bothered. I like intellectual chat so its boring tbh. Yea yea everyone's heard it, lets talk about something interesting 😄

Plus they are probably not interested. You ever thought about that— Not that people don't like flirting they don't fancy you. If I fancied someone when single I wasted no time to see if they were worth dating 😄

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by nyx100

Posted by 777

Why do some people take it the wrong way, even though it's a nice gesture? Even giving compliments can be taken wrong way. Just cause u flirt doesn't mean u want a relationship with someone. Why do people have these kinds of expectations when ur only trying to have fun & spice things up

Me personally don't like to be bothered. I like intellectual chat so its boring tbh. Yea yea everyone's heard it, lets talk about something interesting 😄

Plus they are probably not interested. You ever thought about that— Not that people don't like flirting they don't fancy you. If I fancied someone when single I wasted no time to see if they were worth dating 😄

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Welcome to 2019, where eveyone thinks they're intellectual. Flirting is more fun than fake Intellectualism

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@besarlalluvia
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by 777

Posted by nyx100

Posted by 777

Why do some people take it the wrong way, even though it's a nice gesture? Even giving compliments can be taken wrong way. Just cause u flirt doesn't mean u want a relationship with someone. Why do people have these kinds of expectations when ur only trying to have fun & spice things up

Me personally don't like to be bothered. I like intellectual chat so its boring tbh. Yea yea everyone's heard it, lets talk about something interesting 😄

Plus they are probably not interested. You ever thought about that— Not that people don't like flirting they don't fancy you. If I fancied someone when single I wasted no time to see if they were worth dating 😄

Welcome to 2019, where eveyone thinks they're intellectual. Flirting is more fun than fake Intellectualism

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LOL. intellectual convo is not as intellectual as the sapiosexual thinks