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How would you feel about this... (quick question)
Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷
I'd be put off......seems like he isn't up for asserting himself...."anything for a quiet life" vibe ...
If he said it like that, yeah, I'd be turned off.
If he said it like that, yeah, I'd be turned off.
It reminds me of an old married man who gives in for peace at any cost.....no 🔥
Don't sound like they think it's worth the fight. Just trying to avoid confrontation now and probably planning an escape.
give more detail...
what is their sign?
Did they say it in a sarcastic way?
After saying that was there still tension in the room and silence or did they feel lovable and open?
Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷
Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive
Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷
Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive
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Yeah, ultimatums usually never work but when you've had enough of the bs...it's the go to but I think at that point you don't even really care the outcome either way...imo
If you were dating someone on-and-off , and finally just wanted shit to be clearly defined. So, you said "We're either doing this, or we arent. I'm not hooking up with you causally anymore.".... You end up getting into a little argument over it because of differing viewpoints, and the person says "I give in.... whatever you want, I'll do."
Would you be turned off by that response?
Just curious. haha
I probably wouldn't be offended, but ofcours I'd say: I want this to happen (assuming I do), but I don't want you to do it, just because I say so. If you want it, let's go, if not, then that's how you feel.
Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷
Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive
Yeah, ultimatums usually never work but when you've had enough of the bs...it's the go to but I think at that point you don't even really care the outcome either way...imo
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Very true if the relationship has ran its course either outcome will work to get stronger or break. Sometimes people just meet at the wrong time n life.
I'd use that as an opportunity to pay off my student loans
Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷
Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive
Yeah, ultimatums usually never work but when you've had enough of the bs...it's the go to but I think at that point you don't even really care the outcome either way...imo
Very true if the relationship has ran its course either outcome will work to get stronger or break. Sometimes people just meet at the wrong time n life.
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Damn story of my life 😂
Nope cause I like getting my way. I’d like it.
If you were dating someone on-and-off , and finally just wanted shit to be clearly defined. So, you said "We're either doing this, or we arent. I'm not hooking up with you causally anymore.".... You end up getting into a little argument over it because of differing viewpoints, and the person says "I give in.... whatever you want, I'll do."
Would you be turned off by that response?
Just curious. haha
Ew.
I’d walk. That’s baloney.
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If you were dating someone on-and-off , and finally just wanted shit to be clearly defined. So, you said "We're either doing this, or we arent. I'm not hooking up with you causally anymore.".... You end up getting into a little argument over it because of differing viewpoints, and the person says "I give in.... whatever you want, I'll do."
Would you be turned off by that response?
Just curious. haha