How compatible are we?

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Im getting to know a gemini guy and i like him but so far as a friend only.. but he developed feelings for me and im at a phase where i dont know what i feel for him bec. i just got out of a relationship a few months ago.

I tried reading into our placements and i am concerned with our love compatibility.. so far i already have some thoughts about our mental compatibility/communication eventhough there are a lot of misunderstandings bec. he analyzes too much and i dont always say all that i mean (i usuall say half what i want to say).. but we always work it out.

I dont know about the love/sex compatibility and i will never know before i get into a relationship with him (not anytime soon) and im very curious to know that now cause its so important to me.. n i read that gemini has a casual approach to sex (which i cant get my head around, but i already feel its true)

so your input please? hope i find someone here with close enough placements ๐Ÿ™‚

Me
Sun Taurus 18
Moon Scorpio 15
Mercury Taurus 9
Venus Aries 6
Mars Pisces 13

Him:
Sun Gemini 27
Moon Taurus 9
Mercury Gemini 12
Venus Taurus 23
Mars Aries 13
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Posted by TrueFantasy
His moon and Venus are good for your sun and Mercury so that's a good start.

Your moon signs are polar opposite so there could be some attraction or friction, depends.
His Mars is will understand your Venus so another good sign.

That's what I understand from these placements. Usually astrologists use synastry charts which you can do on Astro.com which should analyse the relationship between the two.
Thanks for sharing this.. I'll show our charts
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Mercury in Gemini vs Mercury in Taurus - You don't speak in the same channel.
You are hard to make a decision while his is waiting for you to decide cause he can't decide because has to many things to think.
When he decides, you have to follow only to know he decides badly.

Even what both pursue in life is very different.
What makes him ground to home and family is his moon
You can cuddle him. His moon likes that but his sun may feel suffocated and try to run away while your moon gets upset.
Nice meals and soft wine with a touch of love can makes him soft but also makes him nervous.
Also, his mars wants action while yours wants peace for everyone. Your moon will suffer from that "action"

Ascendant and houses are also important. Get that info too if you can.

Good luck!
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Posted by nando2002
Mercury in Gemini vs Mercury in Taurus - You don't speak in the same channel.
You are hard to make a decision while his is waiting for you to decide cause he can't decide because has to many things to think.
When he decides, you have to follow only to know he decides badly.

Even what both pursue in life is very different.
What makes him ground to home and family is his moon
You can cuddle him. His moon likes that but his sun may feel suffocated and try to run away while your moon gets upset.
Nice meals and soft wine with a touch of love can makes him soft but also makes him nervous.
Also, his mars wants action while yours wants peace for everyone. Your moon will suffer from that "action"

Ascendant and houses are also important. Get that info too if you can.

Good luck!
mmm... that is all interesting.. it's funny he says we seem identical not just have similarities in our characters. But, I'm thinking otherwise.. I just find comfort in talking with him, maybe for his moon
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Yikes I'm sorry. Wish you luck in your journeys.
lol whats so repulsive?

there might be no journeys though... :/
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I was thinking that if you having some concerns look to the chart when all else fails. Lol. But if they are no journeys how do you experience it without experiencing it. Got to stick it out until you have both tried. At least if it doesn't work out its not the whole chart thing to make the decision better for you.
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Yikes I'm sorry. Wish you luck in your journeys.
lol whats so repulsive?

there might be no journeys though... :/
I was thinking that if you having some concerns look to the chart when all else fails. Lol. But if they are no journeys how do you experience it without experiencing it. Got to stick it out until you have both tried. At least if it doesn't work out its not the whole chart thing to make the decision better for you.
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yeh tbh im afraid of it ... my guts are telling me no ... not sure why. I like him alot but something tells me its not going to be ok and better stay friends. So probably i'll stick with that ...

it feels like im missing out thats why im checking the chart lol
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Like what kind of words

you know I have asked questions just on a whim. And it was true but only to get lied to for months until I say I already asked you that. Damn I fucking knew it comes out my mouth.

You know and we still think they change but it keeps building those wonderful words and I keep asking wonderful questions bam get lied or lead on or somewhere down the line hurt.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Like what kind of words

you know I have asked questions just on a whim. And it was true but only to get lied to for months until I say I already asked you that. Damn I fucking knew it comes out my mouth.

You know and we still think they change but it keeps building those wonderful words and I keep asking wonderful questions bam get lied or lead on or somewhere down the line hurt.
its not really what you call wonderful words... but it got me thinking..

a couple of days ago he told me hes so confused and doesnt know how to act around me ..like im traveling in a couple of days for a month and he wanted to see me but i told him ill be very busy.. he says he doesnt know what to tell me and that all he wanted to say by then is that he is missing me so much and wants to see me but hes even not able to say that cause hes afraid that he will push me away.. (cause he asked me several times if he can see me shortly after we went out twice)

i told him before to give it time (if this would be something).. he already knows im not ready for any relationship.. its funny hes not even asking for a relationship yet..he just wants to know if i see theres potential like he does.. cause he already feels something for me .. anyway he cant wait it seems.. it hurts him if he finds other guys flirting with me.. hurts him that he doesnt have the right to say anything yet cant win me over

ok maybe when i heal from my past relationship, i can feel him out but really now i cant feel anything, its out of my hands.. he even understands that and said he knows he doesnt want to be a rebound and its better when i think clearly about it ... yet he cant act as a friend only .. which pushed me to thinking before that i should friendzone him
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Don't you know the tob?
If your Asc is Virgo, your chart ruler is on his moon.
He may feel it easy to talk things out with you. To show you his emotions. I agree there are some nice conjunctions, but without accurate tob a Synastry is not worth looking into.
Plus, follow your instincts and your heart. Astrology is a tool, it shouldn't validate our feelings.

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yeh ur right ... mm my rising is virgo but i dont know his
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Well I am that type if I am going to school or planning to move and I know it and planned it then I wouldn't lead anyone on like that. I'm not selfish. If when I get my shit together soon like settle in my classes or settle in my new home then if you are relatively close distance and good friends I'll invite you just because we click like that.

I swear though if there's problems that just seem he's not the one or is more demanding or anything that cause stress I will evaluate and decide what's best. Or just leave and see you when I see you. I hope it does work out in the future but hey if they don't have the patience is a virtue thing I won't be selfish and let it go.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Well I am that type if I am going to school or planning to move and I know it and planned it then I wouldn't lead anyone on like that. I'm not selfish. If when I get my shit together soon like settle in my classes or settle in my new home then if you are relatively close distance and good friends I'll invite you just because we click like that.

I swear though if there's problems that just seem he's not the one or is more demanding or anything that cause stress I will evaluate and decide what's best. Or just leave and see you when I see you. I hope it does work out in the future but hey if they don't have the patience is a virtue thing I won't be selfish and let it go.
mm.... yeh i know it seems like im leading him on.. luckily he understands n said he knows im confused.... your words make sense, if i already feel something isnt right, i should back away...

to be honest its all about a dream i had when i first knew about his feelings.. that dream gave me the idea of "hes not the one for you" and its just stuck in my head it seems..
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Well I am that type if I am going to school or planning to move and I know it and planned it then I wouldn't lead anyone on like that. I'm not selfish. If when I get my shit together soon like settle in my classes or settle in my new home then if you are relatively close distance and good friends I'll invite you just because we click like that.

I swear though if there's problems that just seem he's not the one or is more demanding or anything that cause stress I will evaluate and decide what's best. Or just leave and see you when I see you. I hope it does work out in the future but hey if they don't have the patience is a virtue thing I won't be selfish and let it go.
mm.... yeh i know it seems like im leading him on.. luckily he understands n said he knows im confused.... your words make sense, if i already feel something isnt right, i should back away...

to be honest its all about a dream i had when i first knew about his feelings.. that dream gave me the idea of "hes not the one for you" and its just stuck in my head it seems..
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I had a dream no lie about a guy I thought was the one but too many red flags of inconsistent or unpredictable behavior and words.
I had a dream about him which was really bad. Well I type it up on dream interpretation and it said the reason I dreamt that was I was insecure, stressed, or its a fear of getting hurt because I fear that dreadful scenario where if it's not happening now it will later in my future be unpredictable and I can't take that chance.

I had a dream my ex bff was cheating too and low and behold all that stress, and anxiety, and unpredictable behavior and inconsistent lies happening it was true. He was.



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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 im glad u didnt take the dream part lightly ...

sometimes dreams are a way of what our subconscious tries to tell us .. i dreamt of my ex being intimate with a blonde before i get into a relationship with him... and later i knew from him that he was in a relationship with a girl i know (shes blonde) .. that dream had no effect though and didnt change anything ..

maybe there are other signs with the gemini that im not brave enough to think about or dont want to admit .. i know im in denial at times

guess ill pass ...