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How do you know if there's a genuine interest or if the person is looking for a rebound? (Page 2)
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Posted by tiziani
Actually I don't see why sex should be a sign.Guys who just want to hug and don't even really acknowledge you as a woman can be just as insidiously tied to memories of their ex. And when I say "guys" I really mean me, because I was like that - there was a time I would have paid for hugs.
This is very interesting. I guess this quality of you prob makes girls want you even more, especially since 95% of the guys still get horny even if they are not over an ex... I would imagine that some girls will want to conqure you to prove that they are attractive 😆
LOL maybe so, but those are exactly the kind of women (or men, if you're a woman) that you want to avoid unless you like headaches.
And back then when I would have paid for hugs, I think that was around 2011-ish? I'm pretty sure I would walk around and most people could smell the desperation for comfort all over me. I was mostly shunned.
In my twenties, whenever I had money I'd never been as openly pursued by women as when I've been dead broke. Weird phenomenon.
Anyway I really don't think sex says much about a person's long term interest. You may not want to be used for sex only, but you also don't want to wind up with someone who's incapable of making you feel sexually attractive.
Yea, I actually had an ex bf who only wanted sex every other month... I didn't feel sexy at all in front of him 😭
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That's the same thing that happend with me. My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because of our differences but not having enough sex was a problem for me it was like he didn't even want to have sex with me and I'm very attractive. I wish that I would have known from the get go that our relationship wasn't going to involve sex because I would have been dipped out of it a long time ago.
Posted by littlenanobyte
If you just get a "fuckboy" feeling about himTrust me, it's a strong and nauseating sensation, you'll insta-know
I avoid those types, but I was screwed over by a Virgo guy who appeared to be very sweet and down-to-earth 😭
Virgo male/Gemini female hardly makes the cut in the long run
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I am not Gemini but the Virgo I met chose the Gemini ex over me 😭
He told me after all the fights and rollercoaster fights, he realized that she's the one....
Posted by tiziani
Actually I don't see why sex should be a sign.Guys who just want to hug and don't even really acknowledge you as a woman can be just as insidiously tied to memories of their ex. And when I say "guys" I really mean me, because I was like that - there was a time I would have paid for hugs.
This is very interesting. I guess this quality of you prob makes girls want you even more, especially since 95% of the guys still get horny even if they are not over an ex... I would imagine that some girls will want to conqure you to prove that they are attractive 😆
LOL maybe so, but those are exactly the kind of women (or men, if you're a woman) that you want to avoid unless you like headaches.
And back then when I would have paid for hugs, I think that was around 2011-ish? I'm pretty sure I would walk around and most people could smell the desperation for comfort all over me. I was mostly shunned.
In my twenties, whenever I had money I'd never been as openly pursued by women as when I've been dead broke. Weird phenomenon.
Anyway I really don't think sex says much about a person's long term interest. You may not want to be used for sex only, but you also don't want to wind up with someone who's incapable of making you feel sexually attractive.
Yea, I actually had an ex bf who only wanted sex every other month... I didn't feel sexy at all in front of him 😭
Was it a Virgo male? 🙂)
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a Pisces (maybe he had his fix from somewhere else...he's quite a lady's guy)
Posted by littlenanobyte
If you just get a "fuckboy" feeling about himTrust me, it's a strong and nauseating sensation, you'll insta-know
Like when he says, "I'm lonely hahaha" or "send me dick pics jkjkjkjk"
The lack of punctuation in texts is such a turn off, ESPECIALLY when the guy uses a lot of emojis or "hahaha"s . ?
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I also don't like poor spelling... even though it is prob not relevant.
Posted by aquarius_beauty
When they tell you they just became available in the marketSo how much time would you say that they should have been single/not in a serious relationship before you'd consider the person is "safe" to date? 🙂
This is very difficult to answer. There are guys who never move on from an ex and just want random sex.
But the way he treats you and the way you feel around =should give you a fair idea.
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That's true. I have a cancer friend who's forever in love with his leo ex.
Posted by tiziani
Actually I don't see why sex should be a sign.Guys who just want to hug and don't even really acknowledge you as a woman can be just as insidiously tied to memories of their ex. And when I say "guys" I really mean me, because I was like that - there was a time I would have paid for hugs.
This is very interesting. I guess this quality of you prob makes girls want you even more, especially since 95% of the guys still get horny even if they are not over an ex... I would imagine that some girls will want to conqure you to prove that they are attractive 😆
LOL maybe so, but those are exactly the kind of women (or men, if you're a woman) that you want to avoid unless you like headaches.
And back then when I would have paid for hugs, I think that was around 2011-ish? I'm pretty sure I would walk around and most people could smell the desperation for comfort all over me. I was mostly shunned.
In my twenties, whenever I had money I'd never been as openly pursued by women as when I've been dead broke. Weird phenomenon.
Anyway I really don't think sex says much about a person's long term interest. You may not want to be used for sex only, but you also don't want to wind up with someone who's incapable of making you feel sexually attractive.
Yea, I actually had an ex bf who only wanted sex every other month... I didn't feel sexy at all in front of him 😭
That's the same thing that happend with me. My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because of our differences but not having enough sex was a problem for me it was like he didn't even want to have sex with me and I'm very attractive. I wish that I would have known from the get go that our relationship wasn't going to involve sex because I would have been dipped out of it a long time ago.
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was he a Pisces? :p
Posted by tiziani
Actually I don't see why sex should be a sign.Guys who just want to hug and don't even really acknowledge you as a woman can be just as insidiously tied to memories of their ex. And when I say "guys" I really mean me, because I was like that - there was a time I would have paid for hugs.
This is very interesting. I guess this quality of you prob makes girls want you even more, especially since 95% of the guys still get horny even if they are not over an ex... I would imagine that some girls will want to conqure you to prove that they are attractive 😆
LOL maybe so, but those are exactly the kind of women (or men, if you're a woman) that you want to avoid unless you like headaches.
And back then when I would have paid for hugs, I think that was around 2011-ish? I'm pretty sure I would walk around and most people could smell the desperation for comfort all over me. I was mostly shunned.
In my twenties, whenever I had money I'd never been as openly pursued by women as when I've been dead broke. Weird phenomenon.
Anyway I really don't think sex says much about a person's long term interest. You may not want to be used for sex only, but you also don't want to wind up with someone who's incapable of making you feel sexually attractive.
Yea, I actually had an ex bf who only wanted sex every other month... I didn't feel sexy at all in front of him 😭
That's the same thing that happend with me. My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because of our differences but not having enough sex was a problem for me it was like he didn't even want to have sex with me and I'm very attractive. I wish that I would have known from the get go that our relationship wasn't going to involve sex because I would have been dipped out of it a long time ago.
was he a Pisces? :p
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no he was an Aquarius, supposedly leos and aquarius are suppose to go together. But i've dated two so far and I don't like how "busy body" they are. It like they constantly have to be doing something. I like to do things too but at the same time I also like to chill. Plus I feel like aquarius' attention is always on something else and not on me. (lmao that's such a leo thing to say) but forreal tho, my virgo gives me plenty of attention, he's not always with his friends or he doesn't constantly have to be doing something.
Posted by tiziani
Actually I don't see why sex should be a sign.Guys who just want to hug and don't even really acknowledge you as a woman can be just as insidiously tied to memories of their ex. And when I say "guys" I really mean me, because I was like that - there was a time I would have paid for hugs.
This is very interesting. I guess this quality of you prob makes girls want you even more, especially since 95% of the guys still get horny even if they are not over an ex... I would imagine that some girls will want to conqure you to prove that they are attractive 😆
LOL maybe so, but those are exactly the kind of women (or men, if you're a woman) that you want to avoid unless you like headaches.
And back then when I would have paid for hugs, I think that was around 2011-ish? I'm pretty sure I would walk around and most people could smell the desperation for comfort all over me. I was mostly shunned.
In my twenties, whenever I had money I'd never been as openly pursued by women as when I've been dead broke. Weird phenomenon.
Anyway I really don't think sex says much about a person's long term interest. You may not want to be used for sex only, but you also don't want to wind up with someone who's incapable of making you feel sexually attractive.
Yea, I actually had an ex bf who only wanted sex every other month... I didn't feel sexy at all in front of him 😭
That's the same thing that happend with me. My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because of our differences but not having enough sex was a problem for me it was like he didn't even want to have sex with me and I'm very attractive. I wish that I would have known from the get go that our relationship wasn't going to involve sex because I would have been dipped out of it a long time ago.
was he a Pisces? :p
no he was an Aquarius, supposedly leos and aquarius are suppose to go together. But i've dated two so far and I don't like how "busy body" they are. It like they constantly have to be doing something. I like to do things too but at the same time I also like to chill. Plus I feel like aquarius' attention is always on something else and not on me. (lmao that's such a leo thing to say) but forreal tho, my virgo gives me plenty of attention, he's not always with his friends or he doesn't constantly have to be doing something.
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Oh yes, most aquas I know seem to have ADD lol
Sometimes it is not the easiest to follow their train of thoughts, even in an every day conversation.
Posted by tiziani
Actually I don't see why sex should be a sign.Guys who just want to hug and don't even really acknowledge you as a woman can be just as insidiously tied to memories of their ex. And when I say "guys" I really mean me, because I was like that - there was a time I would have paid for hugs.
This is very interesting. I guess this quality of you prob makes girls want you even more, especially since 95% of the guys still get horny even if they are not over an ex... I would imagine that some girls will want to conqure you to prove that they are attractive 😆
LOL maybe so, but those are exactly the kind of women (or men, if you're a woman) that you want to avoid unless you like headaches.
And back then when I would have paid for hugs, I think that was around 2011-ish? I'm pretty sure I would walk around and most people could smell the desperation for comfort all over me. I was mostly shunned.
In my twenties, whenever I had money I'd never been as openly pursued by women as when I've been dead broke. Weird phenomenon.
Anyway I really don't think sex says much about a person's long term interest. You may not want to be used for sex only, but you also don't want to wind up with someone who's incapable of making you feel sexually attractive.
Yea, I actually had an ex bf who only wanted sex every other month... I didn't feel sexy at all in front of him 😭
That's the same thing that happend with me. My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because of our differences but not having enough sex was a problem for me it was like he didn't even want to have sex with me and I'm very attractive. I wish that I would have known from the get go that our relationship wasn't going to involve sex because I would have been dipped out of it a long time ago.
was he a Pisces? :p
no he was an Aquarius, supposedly leos and aquarius are suppose to go together. But i've dated two so far and I don't like how "busy body" they are. It like they constantly have to be doing something. I like to do things too but at the same time I also like to chill. Plus I feel like aquarius' attention is always on something else and not on me. (lmao that's such a leo thing to say) but forreal tho, my virgo gives me plenty of attention, he's not always with his friends or he doesn't constantly have to be doing something.
Oh yes, most aquas I know seem to have ADD lol
Sometimes it is not the easiest to follow their train of thoughts, even in an every day conversation.
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Yes they are too over the place for me !
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Signs? Tips? How do you protect your heart? I just don't want to end up being that rebound girl.Thanks in advance!
Sex on the first date or Pushing for sex asap
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So only men on rebound do this?
Lol
Posted by whatisthisallabout
Signs? Tips? How do you protect your heart? I just don't want to end up being that rebound girl.Thanks in advance!
Sex on the first date or Pushing for sex asap
Thanks!
It is def a turn off when someoen pushes for sex on the first date =.=
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I am married to one who did for 23 years!
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