If you liked someone, how far would you be willing to go the first night alone together? What if you were friends before? And what if that person was already in a relationship?
How far would you go...?

If they were already in a relationship, I'd leave them be, and go after them when their single. Or maybe look for somebody else.
Basically, I wouldn't make any stupid decisions and make them cheat, like most of my little sisters ex-boyfriends did.
And if I was alone with them, I'd probably just to "friend" things, you know. Tell jokes, play video games, gossip about whatever, maybe play some sports, but nothing drastic.
Basically, I wouldn't make any stupid decisions and make them cheat, like most of my little sisters ex-boyfriends did.
And if I was alone with them, I'd probably just to "friend" things, you know. Tell jokes, play video games, gossip about whatever, maybe play some sports, but nothing drastic.
Ditto, Ditto, Ditto, Ditto to the above!
A woman never needs to be second in a relationship...if she does, she must be DESPERATE. 😉
A definate "fly by" for this Bird!
A woman never needs to be second in a relationship...if she does, she must be DESPERATE. 😉
A definate "fly by" for this Bird!

It depends on the situation .. sometimes, people are really unhappy in a relationship and want out, but, don't do it for whatever reasons, and need to find a way out.
If I had a friend who I knew was in a relationship, yet, was attracted to me and wanted to spend alone time with me .. the thought of how far to go with him wouldn't even cross my mind .. for this would be a clear indication to me that he's wanting out of his relationship and is trying to find the strength to get out, by making himself feel wanted by another woman. People do this all the time .. to feel attractive to another gives us the boost we need to our egos, to part ways. A "Pre-rebound" sort of thing.
So, that's not real .. those aren't real feelings towards YOU .. you are just the tool.
If I had a friend who I knew was in a relationship, yet, was attracted to me and wanted to spend alone time with me .. the thought of how far to go with him wouldn't even cross my mind .. for this would be a clear indication to me that he's wanting out of his relationship and is trying to find the strength to get out, by making himself feel wanted by another woman. People do this all the time .. to feel attractive to another gives us the boost we need to our egos, to part ways. A "Pre-rebound" sort of thing.
So, that's not real .. those aren't real feelings towards YOU .. you are just the tool.
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