how many have got their happy ending since after..

getting on DXP? some folks have been on here for years looks like. have any of you finally found your true love and are happily married and settled?

did DXP help you in any way? or all advice given here falls on deaf ears?

DXP is a sounding board when I am in a relationship...a couple of people here give great advice and I haven't listened because I didn't want to hear...and it turned out they were on the button!

All in all, we will live our lives regardless of the advice we are given because we are caught up in it and hold out hope for that happy ending.

But it is great to be able to say things here that we don't necessarily want to tell people in RL...and in saying that because I have been around for sometime on this site, there are things I wouldn't freely say here either!

DXP'ers seem to be very anti-romance. the default advice is leave him (always)/leave her (alone) 😛.

Posted by sweethearts
DXP is a sounding board when I am in a relationship...a couple of people here give great advice and I haven't listened because I didn't want to hear...and it turned out they were on the button!

All in all, we will live our lives regardless of the advice we are given because we are caught up in it and hold out hope for that happy ending.

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Posted by sweethearts

But it is great to be able to say things here that we don't necessarily want to tell people in RL...and in saying that because I have been around for sometime on this site, there are things I wouldn't freely say here either!

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this place makes for a great venting board, and even more interesting reading board.. what always amazes me is being able to see how people think/act. it's great to know what goes on is someone else's head.

I think it's great to have a place like this where everyone has an opposing opinion, or avenues of thought that a person might never consider.

In the RW, people group together of the same clothe ... meaning, your friends probably are of the same mind on most things ... afterall, that's how a community is started. It's unlikely that one of your friends in the RW would give you information contrary to what you want to hear.

In here, people are all different, and of different mind-sets, so many angles are brought to the table.

I wouldn't say I've gotten my happy ending - yet. But I do know that without all the aquas and others on here I would have given up on my aquarius a long time ago. I will be forever grateful to those who have offered advice, support and opposition, even if I didn't like what they have had to say. They have helped me to try to understand that confusing aquarius frame of mind. Bless those who have listened to me ask questions, vent, whine and complain and tried to help.

Even on other matters, I have received such a variety of opinions that I wouldn't have gotten from my inner circle. I will be forever grateful to having a place to go to vent, discuss and learn.