How to know Virgo man likes me

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Yoctapra
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I know 😢 but what is bothering me that i always saw him online on everywhere like whatsapp n fb messenger when i know he is done working,like today he's been online all the time till 1am and didnt even text me once.i texted him once today just asked about how was he doing n said that he must be busy and he only answer with "ya".so i answered him that is no problem n just take his time.he responsed me with 3 kiss emoticons and he said he wud text me later.and then he kept being online but didnt text me again.he makes me assume that he might be busy texting with his friends (i know he got many friends came from his country atm) but if he is busy with them he shud meet them up instead of texting them,right?or he might dating another girl n busy texting with her?i dont know what i have to do now with his "online all the times but not sending me any text" 😢((((
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Bcz i like him so much and he is different when we meet up.and i still expect him to miss me 😢 i know its stupid but what can i do?

After what he did yesterday,suddenly he sent me text said good morning n have a good day this morning.i didnt reply untill mid day and he texted me n asked why i didnt even say good morning.

Wow didnt expect he wud said that when i itried to ignore his message.So i asked him why he ignored me n then upset when i didnt reply his message,i asked him if he is dating another girl.and he said no he didnt.and he doesnt want n doesnt need.he said he missed me..i told him why cudnt he at least let me know if he is busy n cant reply me so i wont wonder.and he apologized! He said sorry n next time he wud tell me..wow seriously this Virgo man is so confusing.
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Yoctapra
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Maybe i am.but do u know how it feels we spent so much time together even on new year's eve i was with him and all his friends,n i saw him often been online eveywhere but he so rarely text me .and if i text him first always takes long time for him to answer with short answer.he makes me wondering who he is texting with .i asked him once about that n he got upset he said dont make him crazy by asking that.thats why this morning i tried to ignore him as he did to me but he got a bit upset.but i was pretty shock that he apologized this time.why virgo man doing like this?he said he was going somewhere with his friends,wud be back today evening n wud text me but now i just saw him online but didnt text me.is it really me that impatient or its him that doesnt want to contact me??
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Posted by Yoctapra
I know 😢 but what is bothering me that i always saw him online on everywhere like whatsapp n fb messenger when i know he is done working,like today he's been online all the time till 1am and didnt even text me once.i texted him once today just asked about how was he doing n said that he must be busy and he only answer with "ya".so i answered him that is no problem n just take his time.he responsed me with 3 kiss emoticons and he said he wud text me later.and then he kept being online but didnt text me again.he makes me assume that he might be busy texting with his friends (i know he got many friends came from his country atm) but if he is busy with them he shud meet them up instead of texting them,right?or he might dating another girl n busy texting with her?i dont know what i have to do now with his "online all the times but not sending me any text" 😢((((

You're projecting and getting too worried.
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Posted by Yoctapra
He is normally online on whatsapp n fb messenger.seems like he texting alot.when i asked about this first time,he said he only text about job n with friends.he rarely posting somethings but normally he likes everything i posted on fb n instagram.

Honestly im assuming that he is busy working n spending time with his russian friends.but im feeling ignored 😢 i am libra
He could be texting on the go. I text on Whatsapp even when I'm out with friends. If they text me I text back. And since he has a lot of friends, that's what he's doing.
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Yoctapra
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I guessed so but from the begining we met he wws such a nice person,made me laugh n sweet.we spent times together almost everyday even just doing simple things.then i dont know whats going on he start to withdraw from me.i think i did something that changed her mind.bcz last time i was with him i saw him starred at one girl in starbuck,i was lil but un happy with that and he notice i became quiet.he asked me why i didnt tell him in the beginning bcz i knew i was not his gf anyway so i told him i just cudnt tell him.he got a bit upset he said why didnt tell him,n why i didnt trust him by not tellimg him the problem.in the end i was honest with him that i didnt like the way he starred at that girl.he said he didnt mean that he starred at that girl bcz she got something on her hands.he said that girl was not beautiful,he said im so much more beautiful.he tried to convience me that he didnt mean that starre at the girl and asked me to forget about that.so i said ok.n we never talked about that.but since then i think he changed,or maybe its just on my mind?oh Gosh i hate feeling like this
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Maybe bcz i am libra,,im always worried n overthinking and i dont like to be alone 😢

And Virgo man seems very independent.and im always be there for him whenever he need me,and i expect him to do the same but i know Virgo n Libra are different..
Woah why did you do that after he explained himself? You let your insecurities get the best of you and pushed him away. Why not just relax and let him lead? Please what ever you do don't go back and say you made a mistake and start over messaging him again. What is the rush?
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Yoctapra
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Hi,,yeah u were right! Why did i do that?feeling so stupid.

Today finally he wanted to meet up with me n he explained everything and yes u were right he asked why did i push him all the time?and i didnt know how to explain bcz im a Libra,i like to stay in touch.i dont need reasons to call or text,i just want to say hello n see how things are going.

And if he didnt reply i always thought its bcz he didnt want to talk with me.but actually he told me he still likes me anyways,he is just busy with his work n seeing friends and always end up super tired n want to sleep early,and he has no time for a relationship now so he wants everything easy at the moment.i felt so stupid but also happy he still made time to see me today just to explain it.he is so sweet.so yeah now i have to learn to be more lay back n relax.bcx he also said that he is only dating me,there is no other girls. Xx
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There you go...now the ball is in your court. He made it very clear he is not looking for a girlfriend but doesn't mind sleeping with you. Judging from the way you handled everything you want a relationship and this is not something you're willing to give him so it is best that you stay away.

In the future take your time and get to know someone before you sleep with them because most guys feel what is the point in putting in anymore effort if you already got the goods? Wait for the right one and you wont need to blow someone's phone up for attention they would be eager to give.
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Yoctapra
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Wow Everyounce u are always right!i know im stupid just following my heart but not my brain.

Maybe thats what makes he acts n treat me that way bcz he knows i wud always be there for him he doesnt need any effort 😢

This is so me im into somebody so quickly n easy to get hurt all the times.

So do u think i shud stay away from this Virgo man?

Whats ur star sign anyway?are u also Virgo?

I just cant understand how this Virgo man cud be so sweet n warm when he is with me,i mean its all not just about sex bcz he still wants to meet me even just for lunch,cinema,sunset or just chill together in his place with no sex.

But he cud be so flat n cold when we are away..

Sometimes i cud feel he is like hiding his feeling from me..i know he likes me more than he told me,i mean his eyes cant lie.the way he starres!but with all of his condition makes him cant have any relationship like his job is kinda exhausting he has to work so hard n has no day off,and he told me that his life now is not stable yet.He can only support himself,he is not enough to support someone in his life.

He said he wants to get married n have a familly if he meet right one n his life is more stable.

Feeling sorry for him..sometimes i cud see how exhausting he is from his work n he still make times to spend times with me even just laying next to him sleeping..maybe thats what makes me want to care about him..bcz i am a Libra i dont need any reason to care about somebody..but im so fragile,easy to get hurt.