i hate when people (Page 2)

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Posted by aries9118
lastly, lemme say this is HOW I FEEL and no one has to agree. IF one is not labeling his/her significant other as such, then rest assured the "significant other" is screwing others. i do not believe there is such a thing as no labels. if there is no label, then it is nothing to no one in my opinion. i mean, it just sounds silly to me....that someone would be accepting of this. for example, convo goes like this...hi babe. you haven't called in three days. what's up?----- oh, hi, i was out screwing this hot chick and forgot about you, but today i would like to hang out with you becuz you are so great---- oh really?-----yes, forget about me sleeping with someone hrs ago..don't label this. just be.

WTF—

I think the living in the moment part *excludes* actually bringing up the banging the hot someone else, if we want to technical about having a relationship with no labels.

Carry on. lol

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oster to come in and make a thread like this ....

Posted by Maries101
Hello!
Had been seeing a Pisces for over a year and recently broke up mutually/amicably due to distance and him sorting out his career. We decided to remain friends but for the past 2 weeks straight since the break up, he's been sending daily texts letting me know what he's been up to and what's going on with him. He's NEVER once gone more than 24hours without some contact updating me (and I don't inquire). 90% of the time he initiates contact and whenever he sees me online, he's quick to start up conversation. If anything, we seem to be closer than ever.

It feels like we are still together but I don't want to corner him and confront him as to what he's feeling or thinking. I get a strange sense that he still wants us to be together, but I don't want to make assumptions, although actions can speak louder than words...

Any insight to his possible thought/emotions would be helpful and as to how I should proceed would be much appreciated. Thanks so much!

Isn't stating, nor implying that he is contacting her against her desire for him, or want of him.

It's not stating, nor implying that there was a final breakup, in where the two of them had any intentions of stop communicating with each other.

She has stated that he needs to sort out his career, and so needed some space .... that isn't stating, nor implying that this space has anything to do with not wanting to communicate with her.

Posted by Nemesis
you people should try to stop putting labels on situations and rather just BE in the moment....

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That ^^^^^^^^^ is actually a very good response to the situation. It is stating and implying that at this moment in time, as you realize he needs to sort out his shit ... that you shouldn't pressure him with a label of (whatever) and just go with the flow, being in the moment ... and letting both of you live until the time is right that he has figured his career out.

There was absolutely no malice in her response .... nor was it intended to mean anything near what the OP is complaining about.

Posted by P-Angel

Are you that ^^^^^ poster with a different name?

That comes from the Pisces board, in where you were told about living in the moment AND the only other thread you've created was on the Pisces board, in which you closed down.

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Go take a looksy at the Pisces board..another coward just landed there too. lol ..Ya just gotta laugh at these nut jobs. This beats Survivor on dxp any time any day! 😄

Posted by aries9118

obviously this girl is wanting this to be more than what he is currently willing to commit to...so y tell her to just "be in the moment"? shouldnt we encourage her to move on...being friends is ok, but we all know how hard that can be if you had deep feelings for a person. why is it not ok for someone to be cornered or confronted about what they are feeling if the other person in the relationship has a need to know??

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by aries9118

obviously this girl is wanting this to be more than what he is currently willing to commit to...so y tell her to just "be in the moment"? shouldnt we encourage her to move on...being friends is ok, but we all know how hard that can be if you had deep feelings for a person. why is it not ok for someone to be cornered or confronted about what they are feeling if the other person in the relationship has a need to know??

Stand by whatever the fuck you want to stand by .... but, your assumptions STILL don't mean what you implied by making this thread.

The real truth to your motives is that you felt like bitching ... and so chose this one, likely because you are currently suffering from the same delusional dependency stemming from you being emotional weak.

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