I need help please..Scorpio girl and Gemini boy

I need help figuring out a Gemini boy. ??Me and him have been going out for two months. We talked about being exclusive meaning not seeing and having sex with ??other people. My concern is, he doesn't want to put a label yet on what we have. He said I needed to be patience and he wants to move slow but I think two months is enough time to know if you want to be with someone or not. I'm thinking of dropping him cause I don't want to waste time and I dont want to get hurt if he's not serious. We see each other twice a week, one weekend and one weekday and I spend the night at his place. When we're together he gives me his attention and treats me well, he takes me out to nice places and pays for it. But when we're apart I barely hear from him. We don't talk on the phone or text often. We usually communicate in person. At first, I felt it was weird cause I'm used to guys calling and texting everyday but I got used to not hearing from him . I notice too that when I pull away and he thinks that hes loosing me thats when he steps up to get me back. If I ignore him, he wants my attention..if he has it he pulls away. It only happens when were apart.. When im with him hes very attentive.Please I need some advice. Should I cut ??him loose for not committing? Do Gemini men don't like phone communication? is this guy a player? Are we compatible? I think the reason im asking is i heard bad stuff about Gemini men that most of them are players and cheaters. I dont know alot of gemini men personally so I have no Idea if its true or not. Im not being impatient. I can push him to commit but i dont want to do that. If this guy is a player and will cheat I rather dump him now to save me from getting hurt. I dont multi date so I want to end one first then date another. Our charts are below. I dont know hes time of birth so I put unknown when I looked it up. Thanks for everyone who will reply.
ME:
Sun Scorpio 29.45 ??
Moon Aries 20.11 ??
Mercury Sagittarius 18.12 ??
Venus Scorpio 15.03 ??
Mars Leo 8.58 ??
Jupiter Cancer 4.47 R ??
Saturn Virgo 0.12
Uranus Scorpio 13.12 ??
Neptune Sagittarius 15.17 ??
Pluto Libra 15.46 ??
Lilith Gemini 23.44 ??
Asc node Libra 14.10 ??


HIM:

Sun Gemini 19.55 ?? ??
Moon Scorpio 29.57 ?? ??
??Mercury Taurus 27.43 ?? ??
Venus Gemini 17.53 ?? ??
Mars Leo 14.25 ?? ??
Jupiter Taurus 17.52 ?? ??
Saturn Leo 0.35 ?? ??
Uranus Scorpio 3.25 R ?? ??
Neptune Sagittarius 12.24 R ?? ??
Pluto Libra 8.58 R

My bday is Nov 22 I'm Scorp-sagg cusp btw.

Posted by DG
Oh, ok...here you are. Are you anymore enlightened then when you first got here?

Hi someone suggested to post it on this section I may get more male perspective. Anyway, I'm actually more confuse at this point.

He sent me a text message lat night but I was asleep so I havent replied yet. He pushes and pulls, do Geminis do such a thing to keep someone interested?

My relationship with my Gemini guy is exactly the same as your @saggirlius. He says the same thing about labels. Our relationship has been a 10 month stretch??_no labels. Once he said I was thinking we should be together but I told him to be sure so I wouldn't be ignored the next day and he??d say never mind. That was four months ago. Of course knowing more about him and Gemini men now I shouldn't have even asked him to make sure because that sent him into a long thought journey which he hasn't come back from. Gemini already think about all sides of an issue I should have just said sure let's do it. Anyway we've talked about marriage and where we want to live which I find odd since we still aren't officially girlfriend and boyfriend. He always comes back to me at night, tells me his feelings, and family problems. We are really close. I know he loves me so I??ll wait and be patient like he says. I think you should wait for him. The good thing about Gemini being known for their indecisiveness and wandering eye is that when they choose you they really choose you. They have already thought about you over and over and what you mean to them. They know they have many options and can sleep around or be with another person but they chose to try to be with you. They are so deeply caring and loving. Absolutely worth it.

Don't want to be the wet blanket or anything but I waited over a decade for no result.

Of course I am just one of those impatient demanding Arieses who want everything right now, this minute dammit.
Why wasn't I a bit more patient———