In a relationship, who is the most confusing? Man or Woman?

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Posted by OceanBoy88
Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shit right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
Stop dating leo moon girls...?😉 jk

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Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shit right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
The irony...I had a similar problem with a Gemini sun/Gemini moon.

Only difference is in the response, "You should know me better than that."

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Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shit right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
Stop dating leo moon girls...?😉 jk


Fawk it, next one that likes the snacks i bring home.. Daas wifey
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So the next one, period? Since you bring home the whole store, an'all...😄

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They real reason this happens is lack of communication.
This.

Also, I've dated both, and I've found that women tend to read too much into or overthink things more often than men.
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I definitely believe that but I do have air planet's so that maybe the culprits. I am still fixed in some ways and slow approaching, and other times I know what exactly I need to say when I need to. Other times I process it and let it go alot.
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Posted by OceanBoy88
Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
lol

Best remedy is always to be a great cook so there's no way they can complain.

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Posted by OceanBoy88
Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
Sounds like something I do with my brother before he comes home from work. Haha.and he does it to me too when I'm out. The nerve.
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Really? I thought these girls only existed in the movies.
NO THEY ARE REAL!!! So i learned to buy apology gifts ahead of time and keep them in my trunk for later use ! Drives a man insane!
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Omfg! I'm just staring in front of myself in disbelief, right now. I honestly thought they were exaggerated characters in movies where they are extremely hormonal, or something. You know, for laughs...

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Really? I thought these girls only existed in the movies.
NO THEY ARE REAL!!! So i learned to buy apology gifts ahead of time and keep them in my trunk for later use ! Drives a man insane!
Omfg! I'm just staring in front of myself in disbelief, right now. I honestly thought they were exaggerated characters in movies where they are extremely hormonal, or something. You know, for laughs...

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They are exaggerated in the movies though. In my description everything seems OK on the surface, I'm asked to do something, and then boom! Her Virgo rising gives me a slap across the face for making a mistake 😭
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Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
Sounds like something I do with my brother before he comes home from work. Haha.and he does it to me too when I'm out. The nerve.
Even siblings confuse eachother! Ahh such a struggle to know what kind of candy y'all want!
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Not only candies....but movies, clothes, the list goes on.

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Posted by OceanBoy88
Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
I feel it's time to sit her down and tell her the expression was bring home the bacon for centuries and no one went "why the bacon? I want something else"

But seriously, that would stress me out.

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Really? I thought these girls only existed in the movies.
NO THEY ARE REAL!!! So i learned to buy apology gifts ahead of time and keep them in my trunk for later use ! Drives a man insane!
Omfg! I'm just staring in front of myself in disbelief, right now. I honestly thought they were exaggerated characters in movies where they are extremely hormonal, or something. You know, for laughs...


They are exaggerated in the movies though. In my description everything seems OK on the surface, I'm asked to do something, and then boom! Her Virgo rising gives me a slap across the face for making a mistake 😭

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Omg! And if you tell her that you're not a mindreader...? What then? Craves more (of the RIGHT) candy for you to pick up?😄

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Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.



I can't stop laughing out loud 😉
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Really? I thought these girls only existed in the movies.
NO THEY ARE REAL!!! So i learned to buy apology gifts ahead of time and keep them in my trunk for later use ! Drives a man insane!
Omfg! I'm just staring in front of myself in disbelief, right now. I honestly thought they were exaggerated characters in movies where they are extremely hormonal, or something. You know, for laughs...


They are exaggerated in the movies though. In my description everything seems OK on the surface, I'm asked to do something, and then boom! Her Virgo rising gives me a slap across the face for making a mistake 😭


Omg! And if you tell her that you're not a mindreader...? What then? Craves more (of the RIGHT) candy for you to pick up?😄

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I've tried the "I'm not a mindreader" bit before.

She'll just keep repeating that I should know her better 😢

Thankfully we're not seeing each other anymore.
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Really? I thought these girls only existed in the movies.
NO THEY ARE REAL!!! So i learned to buy apology gifts ahead of time and keep them in my trunk for later use ! Drives a man insane!
Omfg! I'm just staring in front of myself in disbelief, right now. I honestly thought they were exaggerated characters in movies where they are extremely hormonal, or something. You know, for laughs...


Sounds like you know what kinda candy you want. What's your ring finger size? xD
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LOL Not only that. I can buy my own candy. Mhmm.😄

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Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
I feel it's time to sit her down and tell her the expression was bring home the bacon for centuries and no one went "why the bacon? I want something else"

But seriously, that would stress me out.


I can't sit her down, she's an ex now lol xD
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I had the feeling it was the Virgo but I put my fingers in my ears and went lalalalalala.
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Really? I thought these girls only existed in the movies.
NO THEY ARE REAL!!! So i learned to buy apology gifts ahead of time and keep them in my trunk for later use ! Drives a man insane!
Omfg! I'm just staring in front of myself in disbelief, right now. I honestly thought they were exaggerated characters in movies where they are extremely hormonal, or something. You know, for laughs...


They are exaggerated in the movies though. In my description everything seems OK on the surface, I'm asked to do something, and then boom! Her Virgo rising gives me a slap across the face for making a mistake 😭


Omg! And if you tell her that you're not a mindreader...? What then? Craves more (of the RIGHT) candy for you to pick up?😄


I've tried the "I'm not a mindreader" bit before.

She'll just keep repeating that I should know her better 😢

Thankfully we're not seeing each other anymore.
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I just keep shaking my head with my jaw about knee level.

I'm not shocked as to why... Good you got rid of her!

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Really? I thought these girls only existed in the movies.
NO THEY ARE REAL!!! So i learned to buy apology gifts ahead of time and keep them in my trunk for later use ! Drives a man insane!
Omfg! I'm just staring in front of myself in disbelief, right now. I honestly thought they were exaggerated characters in movies where they are extremely hormonal, or something. You know, for laughs...


Sounds like you know what kinda candy you want. What's your ring finger size? xD
LOL Not only that. I can buy my own candy. Mhmm.😄


Ooo she's independent too??! I was just sent an angel. That can pick her own candies. LOL 😄
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Well, ya know... *tosses hair*

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Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
Sounds like something I do with my brother before he comes home from work. Haha.and he does it to me too when I'm out. The nerve.
Even siblings confuse eachother! Ahh such a struggle to know what kind of candy y'all want!
Not only candies....but movies, clothes, the list goes on.

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But hm I can be indecisive like lets say at a fast food restaurant and I have been there a million times. I think I get frustrated when I ask and just got everything else but the one thing I desperately needed.
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Guy : Hey Babe im busy today.

Girl : Oh maybe he doesnt want to hang out with me.

Guy : I miss you. Talk to you later.

Girl : why cant you talk right now ?

Guy: Im not ready for a relationship.

Girl: Oh maybe he doesnt want to committ and just date other woman.

Another one that made me laugh out loud; ) Yeah we women sometimes over analyzed.

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Haha typical response for younger people.
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I think once women figure out the difference between emotional bonding and commitment, it's smoother sailing from then on for both. But both men and women tell me that women complicate things.
Woman are biologically timed of course when the man above shows it to us. We hope and believe that all people that come into out lives is for purpose.

But it is also the man downstairs that wants a challenge on a daily basis.

I feel it is a tug of war between your subconscious and consciousness of good and evil. And when to actually know oh okay this is the one I want to spend some time with. And get to know better. Lucky there's lots of people on earth to weed through..
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Print this out my fellow man friends. Attack the problem at the root of its source! No to indecisive women! We're so sick of getting it wrong!! >😢

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1. Ice cream aka chocolate chip cookie dough..

2. Yes I check expiration date, and see if there are any recalls lately, and I smh everytime I see half air and half chip bag really expensive.

3. Yes.

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I think once women figure out the difference between emotional bonding and commitment, it's smoother sailing from then on for both.
This is interesting. For me to commit, I need the actual words that say there's a relationship. But if I'm in a relationship and have checked out emotionally, I don't feel committed anymore, whether it's said or not. So I know with myself that I have to really voice these things directly. I've been a good girl so far, and I doubt I would ever cheat, but I know how I work and it's dangerous, so I know what I need to do.

I blame my sag venus.

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Both are confusing.

She doesn't understand what he doesn't understand and vice-versa.

To avoid more confusion he stop replying to her which makes her confusing why he stop replying to the conversation which turn him upset about having to reply when he has no meaning to reply.

She start thinking he is a confusing person and start a monologue about the way the relationship goes and if it really matters.

He hear her and start thinking she is a confusing person because she start talking about the relationship when the previous conversation has noting to do with the relationship.

He start arguing her monologue which start a new conversation about the relationship direction.

The chat gets louder and louder with arguments/accusation from both side.

Both gets really upset and the talk is over.

Both goes to the bed. Their faces are upset. They look each other.

She doesn't understand why he doesn't understand and vice-versa.

She think that's the way life is and goes on. He think she is that way and life goes on.

The make love and go to sleep.
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I think once women figure out the difference between emotional bonding and commitment, it's smoother sailing from then on for both.
This is interesting. For me to commit, I need the actual words that say there's a relationship. But if I'm in a relationship and have checked out emotionally, I don't feel committed anymore, whether it's said or not. So I know with myself that I have to really voice these things directly. I've been a good girl so far, and I doubt I would ever cheat, but I know how I work and it's dangerous, so I know what I need to do.

I blame my sag venus.


Do you feel you voice what you need directly, while in the relationship, too?

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I know what candy I want...😉

No, seriously. I think I do most of the time, but I think that I may have been too mild at times, when breaking things that the other person didn't really want to hear. I know I've been clear, but should have been more blunt since people tend to not wanting to really register things they don't want to hear.

I'm not sure if that answered your question, though...?

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I think once women figure out the difference between emotional bonding and commitment, it's smoother sailing from then on for both.
This is interesting. For me to commit, I need the actual words that say there's a relationship. But if I'm in a relationship and have checked out emotionally, I don't feel committed anymore, whether it's said or not. So I know with myself that I have to really voice these things directly. I've been a good girl so far, and I doubt I would ever cheat, but I know how I work and it's dangerous, so I know what I need to do.

I blame my sag venus.


Do you feel you voice what you need directly, while in the relationship, too?


I know what candy I want...😉

No, seriously. I think I do most of the time, but I think that I may have been too mild at times, when breaking things that the other person didn't really want to hear. I know I've been clear, but should have been more blunt since people tend to not wanting to really register things they don't want to hear.

I'm not sure if that answered your question, though...?


It did. Heartbreaker venus types, smh. lol

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Pfft! I would nevvva! *gasps*

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Print this out my fellow man friends. Attack the problem at the root of its source! No to indecisive women! We're so sick of getting it wrong!! >😢

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1. Ice cream aka chocolate chip cookie dough..

2. Yes I check expiration date, and see if there are any recalls lately, and I smh everytime I see half air and half chip bag really expensive.

3. Yes.


Speaking of chip bags of air.... they have much more air now then before !!! Back in my days, it was only 10% air and the small bag was todays mediums ! And a dollar got you a good bag of chips!
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I love chips just so expensive usually I get the 2 for 5 Stater brother's has for sale. Well I can make my own chips and salsa for 5 bucks. I usually just fry in canola oil about half of corn tortillas package. Season with salt and pepper..
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I blame yer sag venus too
You should. *nods*


I think this applies to aries venus too though.
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Not entirely impossible. I was thinking of gem venus as well, but I don't think I have experienced this with the gem venus guy I was with. Maybe I was out the door too fast to know...? 😉

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Women. I especially hate it when she calls me when im heading home to say,

"Buy me something at the store on your way back, something sweet"

"Ok, what do you want?"

"Something good!"

" Skittles?"

"No! Something good! Fawk!"

"Snickers??"

"Never mind you never know what i want" ::Hangs up phone::

-i come back with oreos, twinkies, powdered donuts, danishes, rice crispies, beef jerky, chips, snapple, Rolos and M&M's-

Her - "Man you never get shiet right!" ::she takes the beef jerky::

Wtf—!

This happens soooooo much i just expect it from all my future girlfriends.
😆 Kit Kat, Reeces(cups or pieces), or peanut butter Twix and we are golden! Altho, I would have been happy with the powdered donuts too! My husband got this. He'd just show up with one of the above with out me asking and I'd be like "ooo, you read my mind!"

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Now we are talking. Omg chocolate. The best types out now.
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The only reason people are "confusing" is because one refuses to see what's really going on with the other. People are so self absorbed that they don't LISTEN and PAY ATTENTION to what the other person is actually saying/doing and replace that with their own reality of the situation.

Then they wonder why they get knocked on their ass.

Emotional selfishness needs to go.
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Posted by tiziani

Seems like a wise choice.


For real. How do you expect someone to know what you want when you can't even decide what you want? If it's important to me, I'll speak up. If not, then I won't fuss about it.

That said, some women don't expect you to read their minds. They do, however, hope you are paying attention. So while I won't expect him to remember what kind of chocolate I like, I do expect him to remember I like chocolate. (chocolate's important, you know!)





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