Is This Reason Ok For Women for Why A Guy is a 40 Yr Old Virgin (REPOST)...

Sorry if this is a double post but my original post wasnt showing on website for some reason -

I have a unusual reason of why I am still a virgin at 40 years old. I have been on dates gotten as far as kissing and fingering.

Almost was even in a committed relationship without sleeping with the girl.

So, heres what happened with that girl This was back in my 20's. We were about to get intimate for the first time but as soon as she saw my neither regions it was downhill from there. All of a sudden her mood changed and told me she had to bounce.

For a few days I heard nothing from her and assumed I got ghosted. Then I got an apologetic email from her explaining she couldnt date me as I was too small for her. Which was obvious from when she looked at it. And she cant be in a relationship with someone that has that kind of size.



It was brutal but honest which I respected. After that I measured my size when erect and it was 5 inches barely.

I got interest from other girls but would panic when we would get intimate and break it off. Assuming they would with me when seeing it. Fretting over my size pretty much screwed up dating to where I stopped and assumed I was going to be alone forever due to my size.

For whatever misguided reason I've decided to try dating again, but I am very anxious. I feel like now if I get physically intimate with a girl I need to do a confessional regarding my size a head of time.



Is that too awkward to do even if you already kissed? I am really reluctant to get what remaining self esteem I have ripped to shreds.

I am getting interest from attractive younger women but have been reluctant to seal the deal for getting a date

I dont want to end up being a subject of a joke like Ali Wong did about a guy she dated who was smaller.

Im starting to wonder if using an escort who wont judge me and just be resolved to a life of no dating is the best way to go.

the right woman wont judge you at all

how about using escort until you up your game physically and mentally and then go for it out in the real world - having a bigger boat doesn't mean you're a good sailor

Usually men who are small will compensate in other ways but that takes experience in order to do so.

Your size is average and I can't believe you had a chance with just 1 girl and let her shape the next 20 years for you. You need to work on your confidence.

I think practicing with tinder hookups or prostitutes would be a great start to get your foot in the door, since you mentioned it. But can you hook up with a stranger? It would seem like if you could, you wouldn't have waited this long, being a virgin.

You do need some sexual practice within some type of relationship, but you also need to get your confidence back and date more girls, even if they reject you. Even if you date 20 women in 2 months. Not all of them are going to reject you.

Rejection is usually what will build up your tolerance for it. It needs to not be such a big deal to you. Rejection is a reflection of someone else's needs. It has nothing to do with you as a person, so you shouldn't think of it like that. Usually a person knows what they like or want, and if that isn't you, don't take it personally. Find someone who will accept you. There is someone out there.



ALSO,

I will kill you if you're a troll and made me write all this for nothing. ❤️ I know where you live 🤡

@7s-

No troll thread. Just posting anonmously online because I am afraid my friends wouldnt understand and just mess with me about it.

I wish I could have surgery, but dont have insurance and I dont think they cover that as it is considered cosmetic.

I hate using a escort when I have options. But since I find most (NOT ALL) women to be super dismissive regarding this, I have to take it into consideration.

Do you think a women who has a similar situation going on as far as the size for her private regions may be more open to me?

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@7s-

No troll thread. Just posting anonmously online because I am afraid my friends wouldnt understand and just mess with me about it.

I wish I could have surgery, but dont have insurance and I dont think they cover that as it is considered cosmetic.

I hate using a escort when I have options. But since I find most (NOT ALL) women to be super dismissive regarding this, I have to take it into consideration.

Do you think a women who has a similar situation going on as far as the size for her private regions may be more open to me?

A women having a huge hole would not be a good fit.

You just need to have practice and do lots of foreplay. Get your fingering and mouth game right and maybe get comfortable with a few vibrating toys as well, for her clit area. Play it all the way up, and have sex in the dark.

But again, you need to not be a virgin and get a few notches under your belt.

You should put up a tinder profile letting them know you're a virgin looking for experience. Sometimes teaching can turn a woman on or she will want to, because she doesn't have any experience as well and needs the practice.

Either way it's a win to be honest. Just don't put your size in the profile. If they are interested it would be the virgin aspect, so they will end up being fine with the size.

Average looking women will have to be an open option though for you. You can't just want a bunch of hot girls with tons of skill.

5.6 inches is the average size of an erect penis

Find a woman with a tighter vagina and you'll be fine......

@Saggurl -

While I appreciate what you are trying to convey, the part about letting that experience shape me and not tough it out is perplexing.

Imagine its you at a younger and have a guy you really like say "hey I like you, but your special area is the size of a baby and I just cant do it"

That is very traumatic for someone young.

I really wish there was a show where they could put special effects makeup on a girl to have them look like a guy. And then go out and approach and date women.

I think women would have a better understanding of what men struggle with in regards to approaching and dating.

I am trying again, but I do wonder if I am a fool given most women are size queens

Maybe that first girl had a pussy that was loose af but she couldn't say that so she pinned an issue on you instead and bailed but left you traumatized for life. Because with that size it should be able to accommodate an average woman unless she's loose. Girth is also a factor. If you just go out there and throw yourself to the world without giving a damn what others think, I'm sure you'll find that perfect hole ❤️

I think you probably need to find deeper connections, and also work on your non-penetration game. There are ways of bridging the gap so to speak if you do end up really liking a woman who is size conscious and doesn’t want to even try your other game—closed minded in my book, I mean you could have the best oral game out there and she missed out!! It’s not all about size and it really sucks that someone made you feel so self conscious about it. I would appreciate the honesty too if it’s just not going to lead to something, but don’t expect because one woman acted one way that every one will. Start focusing on all the great things you have to offer and put sex off the table until someone earns that from you. Best wishes. You gotta be willing to take the rejection to find the right one.... a lot of times many because if finding the right one were easy... let’s be honest, it takes time and trial and error.

It really annoys me when women put men down for the size of their penis. How would they feel if men slagged them off for having big vaginas. I've never had a lover with a big one, but always felt satisfied..

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@Saggurl -

While I appreciate what you are trying to convey, the part about letting that experience shape me and not tough it out is perplexing.

Imagine its you at a younger and have a guy you really like say "hey I like you, but your special area is the size of a baby and I just cant do it"

That is very traumatic for someone young.

I really wish there was a show where they could put special effects makeup on a girl to have them look like a guy. And then go out and approach and date women.

I think women would have a better understanding of what men struggle with in regards to approaching and dating.

I am trying again, but I do wonder if I am a fool given most women are size queens

I just don’t have low self esteem like that so I actually can’t understand it. And there’s nothing wrong with how you handled it but you should get some type of help with your self esteem to build it to where it’s supposed to be.

I’ve had guys tell me the size of my boobs is disgusting. I don’t care. I was born like this and if they prefer smaller sizes, then I know they aren’t for me.

Women deal with this issue of rejection in lots of things. Including the size of their vaginas. It’s not only the mans size that matters. Huge ass vaginas are an issue as well, so it shouldn’t just be put on your shoulders.

I have been with a man that was 3 inches and he was extremely good at sex. He knew he was small and didn’t care. He actually wouldn’t even let me touch his dick at first. He told me he wanted me to be comfortable first. He did a lot of eating and making out first before I got frustrated with him and told him I didn’t give a crap about his size and just wanted him to fuck already 😈

Things were fine.

Posted by Portishead99

@Saggurl -

While I appreciate what you are trying to convey, the part about letting that experience shape me and not tough it out is perplexing.

Imagine its you at a younger and have a guy you really like say "hey I like you, but your special area is the size of a baby and I just cant do it"

That is very traumatic for someone young.

I really wish there was a show where they could put special effects makeup on a girl to have them look like a guy. And then go out and approach and date women.

I think women would have a better understanding of what men struggle with in regards to approaching and dating.

I am trying again, but I do wonder if I am a fool given most women are size queens

If I was a guy, I’d be a male whore, trying to run through girls or trying to convince them that my small size would be perfect for their ass or mouth. Women are beautiful, I would love to see what they looked like naked and how they react to me touching them.

Just get out there and start dating again. Confidence is seriously all that’s needed. Women can smell weakness and insecurities and it’s a turn off.

Watch videos on YouTube about fake confidence when dating to get yourself familiar with it. Fake confidence will lead to real confidence.

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@Saggurl -

While I appreciate what you are trying to convey, the part about letting that experience shape me and not tough it out is perplexing.

Imagine its you at a younger and have a guy you really like say "hey I like you, but your special area is the size of a baby and I just cant do it"

That is very traumatic for someone young.

I really wish there was a show where they could put special effects makeup on a girl to have them look like a guy. And then go out and approach and date women.

I think women would have a better understanding of what men struggle with in regards to approaching and dating.

I am trying again, but I do wonder if I am a fool given most women are size queens

If I was a guy, I’d be a male whore, trying to run through girls or trying to convince them that my small size would be perfect for their ass or mouth. Women are beautiful, I would love to see what they looked like naked and how they react to me touching them.

Just get out there and start dating again. Confidence is seriously all that’s needed. Women can smell weakness and insecurities and it’s a turn off.

Watch videos on YouTube about fake confidence when dating to get yourself familiar with it. Fake confidence will lead to real confidence.

Our body image (men and women) and self-esteem tend to influence the other so I don't know that I agree with the "fake confidence" suggestion. I think to attempt to is to suppress genuine emotions.

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He needs to push himself to let go of his insecurities and fears. If he doesn't know how to be confident, he can check out some videos and practice it until it feels real and then becomes real. Pushing boundaries so that confidence replaces his insecure thoughts. Anyone overcoming any type of fear or insecurity, just has built a tolerance and confidence for it. They know it will be alright.

Yes it takes a lot of work to over come it but that's a great way to exercise your brain. Sitting inside of an insecurity is the easiest part. Insecurities are meant to be worked through.

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Enrique Iglesias has a 3 inch penis, a hot wife, and 3 kids

😂 Where did you hear that?

he talks about his small penis a lot. All the time

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5.5"

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/news/a24623/cosmo-guy-enrique-iglesias/

@saggigurl -

I do want to express my thanks for your suggestions and helpfulness. I do appreciate that and dont want that to get lost in translation.

As far as approaching, its not about "confidence" its called I dont want to go to jail. You have to be very careful with cold approaching women in this day and age even if it is done in a respectful way.

When you are approaching women, you run the risk of them getting the police on you, or shaming you to other people when you leave.

Even if you take a hint and walk away. I remember one time I approached a girl who I thought may be interested very friendly but quickly picked up through tone and body language that she wasnt.

I respectfully ejected myself from the conversation and wished her a good day. As I am walking away I then hear her say to someone she had this "creepy" guy approach her

To rewind I was friendly and smiled kept the conversation banal that was it And I ejected from her when I caught hint of disinterest.

But to her still I was somehow "creepy" Womens words carry power and can travel fast as everyone can somehow know each other in social circles. Basically the next girl you approach could be a friend of the girl who rejected you in the first place.

I stopped approaching during the day after that. Too much of a risk in getting creep shamed. Im not opposed to approaching during the day provided the girl is super direct with her interest.

Addressing an earlier point you made of going on a dating app and annoucing my v-card

Again while your suggestion is well-intentioned, realistically it comes off creepy and serial killerish to most women due to my age.

Most women will be scared off due to my status at my age thinking I may be the long lost son of Buffalo Bill. Or think it is fake like others on here.

Also I dont take good pictures either I look bad in pictures but better in person

My only hope now is going out at night to the bars as an approach may be rejected but is expected. I hate approaching in bars as it is so degrading.

I am actually going out tonight to see if I actually have a girl approach for once given the day it is today. Probably not. And I will have to gauge interest.

All my friends are spending today with their girlfriends or boyfriends. So I will be lone wolfing it tonight. Not sure if that is a good idea because a guy by himself at a bar can give off a serial killer vibe

Ironically all the girls Ive dated either approached me or I met through friends. But in the last couple of years I've only been approached 6 different times by women. Cold approaching has never worked ever for me. But I dont have a choice given that the girls that live here are more reserved

We'll see what happens but I'll probably go home to lesbian porn more than likely

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Enrique Iglesias has a 3 inch penis, a hot wife, and 3 kids

😂 Where did you hear that?

he talks about his small penis a lot. All the time

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It's perfect for all holes!

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@saggigurl -

I do want to express my thanks for your suggestions and helpfulness. I do appreciate that and dont want that to get lost in translation.

As far as approaching, its not about "confidence" its called I dont want to go to jail. You have to be very careful with cold approaching women in this day and age even if it is done in a respectful way.

When you are approaching women, you run the risk of them getting the police on you, or shaming you to other people when you leave.

Even if you take a hint and walk away. I remember one time I approached a girl who I thought may be interested very friendly but quickly picked up through tone and body language that she wasnt.

I respectfully ejected myself from the conversation and wished her a good day. As I am walking away I then hear her say to someone she had this "creepy" guy approach her

To rewind I was friendly and smiled kept the conversation banal that was it And I ejected from her when I caught hint of disinterest.

But to her still I was somehow "creepy" Womens words carry power and can travel fast as everyone can somehow know each other in social circles. Basically the next girl you approach could be a friend of the girl who rejected you in the first place.

I stopped approaching during the day after that. Too much of a risk in getting creep shamed. Im not opposed to approaching during the day provided the girl is super direct with her interest.

Addressing an earlier point you made of going on a dating app and annoucing my v-card

Again while your suggestion is well-intentioned, realistically it comes off creepy and serial killerish to most women due to my age.

Most women will be scared off due to my status at my age thinking I may be the long lost son of Buffalo Bill. Or think it is fake like others on here.

Also I dont take good pictures either I look bad in pictures but better in person

My only hope now is going out at night to the bars as an approach may be rejected but is expected. I hate approaching in bars as it is so degrading.

I am actually going out tonight to see if I actually have a girl approach for once given the day it is today. Probably not. And I will have to gauge interest.

All my friends are spending today with their girlfriends or boyfriends. So I will be lone wolfing it tonight. Not sure if that is a good idea because a guy by himself at a bar can give off a serial killer vibe

Ironically all the girls Ive dated either approached me or I met through friends. But in the last couple of years I've only been approached 6 different times by women. Cold approaching has never worked ever for me. But I dont have a choice given that the girls that live here are more reserved

We'll see what happens but I'll probably go home to lesbian porn more than likely

If you are cold approaching girls and have a creepy vibe to you, then your social skills are not up to par. There is an awkward, uneasiness in your approach that women can see, sense or "feel".

I understand things can be hard. I seriously don't have any idea how hard because I've never had to deal with being a man with these issues.

I'm not telling you to walk up to girls and tell them you want to date and have sex. Things should start off casually. But you need to work on your approach with women, do one thing at a time. Women want to feel comfortable in a mans presence.

The approach and your age has nothing to do with the app because there will be some women that would be willing to try. You are making excuses, which is your right, if it's something that doesn't appeal to you. I don't know if you are from the US or not. It seems like you are in a country that doesn't have much sexual expression and along with that you would need to adjust how you do things.

Honestly even cold approaching will be an issue in another country if you run the risk of police being involved.

You just need to get out there and have more women approach you. It's happened before, so the more exposure that you get, the more it can happen.

I'm not sure what else I can say, but good luck to you and I hope it works out! I know I can be pretty abrasive with the way I talk, forgive me if you aren't in America, this type of thing isn't a big deal here.

I smiled and was friendly in my tone and demeanor. I left when I got the signal she wasnt into it

There was nothing else I could have done differently To be clear, I am not saying my approach doesnt need work there is always room for improvement. But anyone else seeing it could see I was being friendly and social. T

And walked away when she hinted she didnt really want to talk. This girl was high leveling scamming. Because she changed her tone of voice completely and exagerrated when saying that im "creepy" stuff to the friend.

Some girls in my city will pull that move to get personal validation and attention as well from their friends. Cause I told this story to a friend who lives here too.

He had the same thing happen to him. Quick facts - Ive seen him flirt with women before and be successful. He is good looking, friendly and has more of an outgoing personality than me.

But in that instance he was just helping a girl who tripped and dropped a bunch of her stuff which included papers. Not hitting on her.

She said "no i've got it" in a very dismissive rude tone of voice. He wrote it off as her having a bad day. Then after he told me this a few weeks late he went to a mutual female friend of ours social gathering. She saw him and within minutes started telling our female friend a different story saying he was trying to get with her.

This girl wasnt even his type (he likes redheads she's a blonde) even our female friend knew she was lying and jokingly called her out on it

To reaffirm, I know not all women do this, but the problem is that you never know when approaching if you have a mature or immature person to deal with. The risk is too high on a social level

I hate approaching in bars and clubs, but at least it is expected and you wont be run out of town for doing it unlike in the daytime where I live.

I am starting to wonder if I should move to somewhere like Brazil or Ireland where women are friendly and dont mind approaching or actively approach instead of the games.

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by Black-Mamba

Enrique Iglesias has a 3 inch penis, a hot wife, and 3 kids

😂 Where did you hear that?

he talks about his small penis a lot. All the time

5.5"

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/news/a24623/cosmo-guy-enrique-iglesias/

The guy says he can't find extra small condoms. 5'5 my ass

he also says he can't go past 8 minutes

Enrique passes herpes to his fans in concert

Like every other Taurus performer

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He also does blurry dick porn

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ALSO,

I will kill you if you're a troll and made me write all this for nothing. ❤️ I know where you live 🤡

LMAO this is why you’re easily one of my favorite DXPers 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️

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🥰🥰😂😂😂😂👅

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Posted by Portishead99

@saggigurl -

I do want to express my thanks for your suggestions and helpfulness. I do appreciate that and dont want that to get lost in translation.

As far as approaching, its not about "confidence" its called I dont want to go to jail. You have to be very careful with cold approaching women in this day and age even if it is done in a respectful way.

When you are approaching women, you run the risk of them getting the police on you, or shaming you to other people when you leave.

Even if you take a hint and walk away. I remember one time I approached a girl who I thought may be interested very friendly but quickly picked up through tone and body language that she wasnt.

I respectfully ejected myself from the conversation and wished her a good day. As I am walking away I then hear her say to someone she had this "creepy" guy approach her

To rewind I was friendly and smiled kept the conversation banal that was it And I ejected from her when I caught hint of disinterest.

But to her still I was somehow "creepy" Womens words carry power and can travel fast as everyone can somehow know each other in social circles. Basically the next girl you approach could be a friend of the girl who rejected you in the first place.

I stopped approaching during the day after that. Too much of a risk in getting creep shamed. Im not opposed to approaching during the day provided the girl is super direct with her interest.

Addressing an earlier point you made of going on a dating app and annoucing my v-card

Again while your suggestion is well-intentioned, realistically it comes off creepy and serial killerish to most women due to my age.

Most women will be scared off due to my status at my age thinking I may be the long lost son of Buffalo Bill. Or think it is fake like others on here.

Also I dont take good pictures either I look bad in pictures but better in person

My only hope now is going out at night to the bars as an approach may be rejected but is expected. I hate approaching in bars as it is so degrading.

I am actually going out tonight to see if I actually have a girl approach for once given the day it is today. Probably not. And I will have to gauge interest.

All my friends are spending today with their girlfriends or boyfriends. So I will be lone wolfing it tonight. Not sure if that is a good idea because a guy by himself at a bar can give off a serial killer vibe

Ironically all the girls Ive dated either approached me or I met through friends. But in the last couple of years I've only been approached 6 different times by women. Cold approaching has never worked ever for me. But I dont have a choice given that the girls that live here are more reserved

We'll see what happens but I'll probably go home to lesbian porn more than likely

If you are cold approaching girls and have a creepy vibe to you, then your social skills are not up to par. There is an awkward, uneasiness in your approach that women can see, sense or "feel".

I understand things can be hard. I seriously don't have any idea how hard because I've never had to deal with being a man with these issues.

I'm not telling you to walk up to girls and tell them you want to date and have sex. Things should start off casually. But you need to work on your approach with women, do one thing at a time. Women want to feel comfortable in a mans presence.

The approach and your age has nothing to do with the app because there will be some women that would be willing to try. You are making excuses, which is your right, if it's something that doesn't appeal to you. I don't know if you are from the US or not. It seems like you are in a country that doesn't have much sexual expression and along with that you would need to adjust how you do things.

Honestly even cold approaching will be an issue in another country if you run the risk of police being involved.

You just need to get out there and have more women approach you. It's happened before, so the more exposure that you get, the more it can happen.

I'm not sure what else I can say, but good luck to you and I hope it works out! I know I can be pretty abrasive with the way I talk, forgive me if you aren't in America, this type of thing isn't a big deal here.

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@saggigurl -

I do want to express my thanks for your suggestions and helpfulness. I do appreciate that and dont want that to get lost in translation.

As far as approaching, its not about "confidence" its called I dont want to go to jail. You have to be very careful with cold approaching women in this day and age even if it is done in a respectful way.

When you are approaching women, you run the risk of them getting the police on you, or shaming you to other people when you leave.

Even if you take a hint and walk away. I remember one time I approached a girl who I thought may be interested very friendly but quickly picked up through tone and body language that she wasnt.

I respectfully ejected myself from the conversation and wished her a good day. As I am walking away I then hear her say to someone she had this "creepy" guy approach her

To rewind I was friendly and smiled kept the conversation banal that was it And I ejected from her when I caught hint of disinterest.

But to her still I was somehow "creepy" Womens words carry power and can travel fast as everyone can somehow know each other in social circles. Basically the next girl you approach could be a friend of the girl who rejected you in the first place.

I stopped approaching during the day after that. Too much of a risk in getting creep shamed. Im not opposed to approaching during the day provided the girl is super direct with her interest.

Addressing an earlier point you made of going on a dating app and annoucing my v-card

Again while your suggestion is well-intentioned, realistically it comes off creepy and serial killerish to most women due to my age.

Most women will be scared off due to my status at my age thinking I may be the long lost son of Buffalo Bill. Or think it is fake like others on here.

Also I dont take good pictures either I look bad in pictures but better in person

My only hope now is going out at night to the bars as an approach may be rejected but is expected. I hate approaching in bars as it is so degrading.

I am actually going out tonight to see if I actually have a girl approach for once given the day it is today. Probably not. And I will have to gauge interest.

All my friends are spending today with their girlfriends or boyfriends. So I will be lone wolfing it tonight. Not sure if that is a good idea because a guy by himself at a bar can give off a serial killer vibe

Ironically all the girls Ive dated either approached me or I met through friends. But in the last couple of years I've only been approached 6 different times by women. Cold approaching has never worked ever for me. But I dont have a choice given that the girls that live here are more reserved

We'll see what happens but I'll probably go home to lesbian porn more than likely

If you are cold approaching girls and have a creepy vibe to you, then your social skills are not up to par. There is an awkward, uneasiness in your approach that women can see, sense or "feel".

I understand things can be hard. I seriously don't have any idea how hard because I've never had to deal with being a man with these issues.

I'm not telling you to walk up to girls and tell them you want to date and have sex. Things should start off casually. But you need to work on your approach with women, do one thing at a time. Women want to feel comfortable in a mans presence.

The approach and your age has nothing to do with the app because there will be some women that would be willing to try. You are making excuses, which is your right, if it's something that doesn't appeal to you. I don't know if you are from the US or not. It seems like you are in a country that doesn't have much sexual expression and along with that you would need to adjust how you do things.

Honestly even cold approaching will be an issue in another country if you run the risk of police being involved.

You just need to get out there and have more women approach you. It's happened before, so the more exposure that you get, the more it can happen.

I'm not sure what else I can say, but good luck to you and I hope it works out! I know I can be pretty abrasive with the way I talk, forgive me if you aren't in America, this type of thing isn't a big deal here.

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Did I miss something? Did he say he was a Sag?

I don’t think Sag men stay virgins for a long time, no fire sign does for that matter. And Sag can brush off things and try again pretty easily because of how optimistic we are.

You are pretty funny with the Sag men perceptions though. But you find them boring, self absorbed, gold digging, and cheap. 😜

20 years is too long to hold one to one experience.

I’ve heard of guys with ED just getting really good on going down on a girl instead, I don’t know.

I would defo defo use escorts to get experience and confidence up, age 40 man.. it’s code red. I think I heard in America, 5% of men die without having sex.. not sure if it was a joke, but are they never curious about what sex is?

I would visit Prague, or Amsterdam, Germany, Romania, Slovakia, Bulgaria etc.. just move away.. change your mind set.. visit some places where sex with attractive women is everywhere...

Hey all hope your weekend was good.

First off, I wanted to make something clear, I would never tell a woman my virgin status. Size status, yes potentially. But not the V-Card one.

If you want a non christian type girl thinking you are some sort of sociopath, telling her you are a 40 year old virgin will definitely do the trick. I know how to scam off my lack of experience by just telling her that its been years since Ive been physically intimate with a woman so I may be rusty. That is the best way to go I think.

Looking at the size of the vagina via oral can help me see if there is a chance she would be open to my size. If its big, give her a happy ending with the tongue. Then cut it off saying it wont work because I'm a virgin. That should guarantee me getting nexted. If that doesnt work for me just tell her Im packing a flintstones di-k 2 inches long and growing. She'll be outta there faster than Sonic the hedgehog.

I went out this weekend and pretty much wont go out at night to meet women again unless I am at a social gathering. Too degrading and makes me feel like an idiot

I think I am going to relocate to Vegas or Florida just based from what I've heard about if a girl likes you she is a little more direct in her signals or verbal Plus there are more early 30 somethings there. In my experience 30 somethings play less games when it comes to dating unlike 20 somethings.

At this point if I even lose my virginity that works for me if I end up having bad luck with dating from then on. I dont need a relationship to make me happy. Im fine by myself

@Slippery -

Not sure that would make a difference as I have fair-skin and cant tan. Im not fat, I have a slender frame. I've been lucky to attract pretty girls who dont need beefcake for them to be attracted.

@Littlestar -

I agree most women my age would be brutal and next me quick. That is why my v card status will remain a secret. Not all women are, but there is a still a bunch who are judgmental and would panic I would turn into a stage five clinger because we knocked boots.

Which is bs because I need a mental connection to fall in love. I may like someone a little more if the sex is good. But love? nah..

@Raakac-

Trust me I am back on the bike but dating is hard when everyone uses dating apps and think if you approach in a friendly way, you are going to kill them.

Cant do dating apps as I take horrible pics due to my fair skin. Camera is not my friend at all.

Im focused on leaving here in late april to improve my dating odds by going somewhere else. its not the only reason Im leaving to reassure you.

Im stuck in a job I hate and cant leave due to the job market not being good where I live.

Am saving money and unless a miracle happens by late april will split town.

Even if I do find another job the dating situation has to get better if it does not then I will definitely leave

Forgot to add something people throw the word creepy around too much with men.

Are there creepy dudes approaching women? Of course, but half of the time, (AGAIN NOT ALL) I hear women describe the situation and the dude wasnt being creepy

He was introverted and nervous and they either lack the emotional maturity to understand it, or dont care and just want to tell that story to get validation from their friends

I know there are dudes who come across scary in approaching but not all the time