It's true!! Women love sensitive men :) (Page 2)

Posted by Torro
I also strongly dislike the "skinny jean wearing pierced up dudes" (and pierced/tattooed men in general. Especially skinny.), but he has to be kind, sweet, gentle and strong (both mentally and physically). By physically I don't mean layers of six-packs, but strongly built, so when he holds me I feel safe and sound. He has to have style and old school romance in his soul, be someone who would show me the little tokens of affection, not huge public displays of love. Bring me a flower or two, take me cruising, moonlight swimming, open me doors to his car, stuff like that. I admit that he has to be what I consider handsome, take care about his looks and look good in a suit 😛 I just can't find overweight people physically attractive, so I don't think that he could be overweight. I wouldn't mind a little tummy though, I think it's cute. Has to be taller than me, but not so much that I have to stand on a chair to kiss him. Elegant. Talkative and social, a music lover so he can join me on a concert or two. And by mentally strong, he has to know his principles, stand up for himself and for those he loves, have his life in control, not be a cry-baby that breaks down over every little thing. If and when he does break down eventually, and we all do, I would always be there for him, and he would always be there for me. In those moments he could cry and rage in front of me, or dig in to his work, I would never leave him hanging. Even though he has to be protective over me, he will have to learn to trust me and give me freedom, because that's something that I can't go without. I play the "badass role" in a relationship, so it's easier for me to project the "finer" qualities to my SO. That's how I see it. And I can't stand aggressiveness, has to be harmonious, but somehow norm-breaking. Sweet dreams.

Surprised by how much it fits with my criterias of having the 'perfect man'. Dont you agree that these type of man, are hard to find nowadays?

Posted by Torro
@libra22 God yes. Sometimes I wish for someone to put me in a 40s/50s movie, line up the men and be like "Take your pick." But I just KNOW that there are still some lurking around 😉 You'll find them when you don't look for them, maybe in the most unusual places... But certainly not on the internet. I just can't imagine finding a man like that on some chatroom or forum or something like that (he has better things to do) haha 😛

They for sure are not on some forum or online dating site. They are out there doing negotiations and doing business, working their *** off to make sure his future family lives a very good life. Plus, they are older people. Certainly they are not someone in their 20's or early 30's. I wouldnt mind getting married to someone who will be older than me and will be a real man. Do you? Whats your preference? Younger or Older guys?

Posted by libra22

Posted by Torro
I also strongly dislike the "skinny jean wearing pierced up dudes" (and pierced/tattooed men in general. Especially skinny.), but he has to be kind, sweet, gentle and strong (both mentally and physically). By physically I don't mean layers of six-packs, but strongly built, so when he holds me I feel safe and sound. He has to have style and old school romance in his soul, be someone who would show me the little tokens of affection, not huge public displays of love. Bring me a flower or two, take me cruising, moonlight swimming, open me doors to his car, stuff like that. I admit that he has to be what I consider handsome, take care about his looks and look good in a suit 😛 I just can't find overweight people physically attractive, so I don't think that he could be overweight. I wouldn't mind a little tummy though, I think it's cute. Has to be taller than me, but not so much that I have to stand on a chair to kiss him. Elegant. Talkative and social, a music lover so he can join me on a concert or two. And by mentally strong, he has to know his principles, stand up for himself and for those he loves, have his life in control, not be a cry-baby that breaks down over every little thing. If and when he does break down eventually, and we all do, I would always be there for him, and he would always be there for me. In those moments he could cry and rage in front of me, or dig in to his work, I would never leave him hanging. Even though he has to be protective over me, he will have to learn to trust me and give me freedom, because that's something that I can't go without. I play the "badass role" in a relationship, so it's easier for me to project the "finer" qualities to my SO. That's how I see it. And I can't stand aggressiveness, has to be harmonious, but somehow norm-breaking. Sweet dreams.

Surprised by how much it fits with my criterias of having the 'perfect man'. Dont you agree that these type of man, are hard to find nowadays?

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Not really hard to find and they are on forums and dating site because with all that hard work when will they have time to go "out" 😉

@ Beautiful Soul,

Do you know any? LOL I have never tried online dating site. Anyone any experience with it?

Posted by libra22
@ Beautiful Soul,

Do you know any? LOL I have never tried online dating site. Anyone any experience with it?

Me. I tried dating sites but to no avail.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by libra22
@ Beautiful Soul,

Do you know any? LOL I have never tried online dating site. Anyone any experience with it?

Me. I tried dating sites but to no avail.

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which one lady? match.com?

Posted by RealTalk

Posted by DMV
i cant date a broke dude.

I don't think ANY woman can date a broke dude. I don't give a damn what they say. Who wants to date a loser? Please I wouldn't even want to fuck 1. He would totally turn me off.

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I'm dating a Broke Dude 🙂 but he's so far removed from being a loser that its not even measurable. The "wealth" he shares with me is the wealth of his love, care and respect. He couldn't buy me enough dinners, jewels, gifts if we lived forever to even come near matching the value of that.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by libra22
@ Beautiful Soul,

Do you know any? LOL I have never tried online dating site. Anyone any experience with it?

Me. I tried dating sites but to no avail.

which one lady? match.com?

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Lol, I'm a guy. Yeah, match.com

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Awww thank you RealTalk I like you too, feisty gal! 😄 I feel honored 🙂

🙂

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Posted by DMV
i cant date a broke dude.

I don't think ANY woman can date a broke dude. I don't give a damn what they say. Who wants to date a loser? Please I wouldn't even want to fuck 1. He would totally turn me off.

i can if he is on the come up. he must have a tangible plan to move up and be actively working on it. ie mogul in the making 🙂

Well duh! Of course silly 😛 he has to be about something. Have goals, a plan...you know, not a bum.

did someone say bum? *spank✨

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Lol, I just lurrrrrve a good spanking!!! Yowwwwwwwwwww!!!!!

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Posted by DMV
i cant date a broke dude.

I don't think ANY woman can date a broke dude. I don't give a damn what they say. Who wants to date a loser? Please I wouldn't even want to fuck 1. He would totally turn me off.

I'm dating a Broke Dude 🙂 but he's so far removed from being a loser that its not even measurable. The "wealth" he shares with me is the wealth of his love, care and respect. He couldn't buy me enough dinners, jewels, gifts if we lived forever to even come near matching the value of that.

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Pockets like rabbit ears eh?

Good topic and I love errbody's comments but @DMV I just have to say I love your bluntness!! Yea for me I cannot handle a sensitive man because I will dominate that ass and it will be a turn off....I will get bored and move on 😢

Not ASS...AS in BOOTY! I meant me dominating him as a person lmao 🙂 that was a good one, but yea he wouldnt want me to do that either smh! It's been a long work day 🙂

glad it's over, now back to the subject!!! hahaha