Sssupes
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How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
Posted by SssupesOh wow...even requested a different server or waitress. That's too much.
This Cap has been amazing, until last night.
We went on a double date with my oldest and dearest friend and her husband last night (both amazing people). Everything started off just fine until we got to the nice and upscale bar. Our waitress was very pretty and then the Caps insecurities started to show. Absolutely nothing happened that would be considered flirting. After she brought us our drinks the Cap requested a different server/waitress. I was beyond floored.
On the way home she was even saying my friend was flirty/too chatty with me! I've known my friend for 30+ years. Plus, her husband Was there and we get along great and talked most of the night.
Such a disappointment. Don't think I can handle the jealousy. Hopefully she can fix this
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.
Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.
Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.
Posted by LadyNeptuneOnly 3
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
Posted by CocoKatNah, I'm not gonna talk to her about it. In my experience, this is her own battle to fight and bringing it up only makes things worse
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.
Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.
Posted by SuperMercurial
Stop trying to change someone whose only fault is that they desire too hard
Where in what I said indicated I wanted to change her?
Posted by Sssupesyou must not like her all that much if its easier to break it off then it is to bring it up and try and have her work on it.Posted by CocoKatNah, I'm not gonna talk to her about it. In my experience, this is her own battle to fight and bringing it up only makes things worse
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.
Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.click to expand
Posted by SssupesAre we talking 3 beers or 3 cocktails? Also is she really petitePosted by LadyNeptuneOnly 3
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?click to expand
Posted by SuperMercurialWhy don't you suck my fucking cock with your insulting ass. GTFOH
So I'm talking to a fkn retard. Just give me her moon sign so I can leave. Is she a virgo moon? Do caps with virgo moons exist?
LOL @ Stupes
I suppose your version of a "nice and upscale bar" would be the local Hooters.
Your story smells like bullshit.
I suppose your version of a "nice and upscale bar" would be the local Hooters.
Your story smells like bullshit.
Posted by CocoKatI'm not breaking anything off as of yet.Posted by Sssupesyou must not like her all that much if its easier to break it off then it is to bring it up and try and have her work on it.Posted by CocoKatNah, I'm not gonna talk to her about it. In my experience, this is her own battle to fight and bringing it up only makes things worse
Asking for a different waitress??how embarrassing and unexpected for a Capricorn.
Whatever you do, you should talk to her about her behavior and put your foot down if you want to continue.click to expand
Posted by WynterHaha!
LOL @ Stupes
I suppose your version of a "nice and upscale bar" would be the local Hooters.
Your story smells like bullshit.
Posted by LadyNeptuneCocktails. Martinis. She wasn't drunk. She's not petitePosted by SssupesAre we talking 3 beers or 3 cocktails? Also is she really petitePosted by LadyNeptuneOnly 3
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?click to expand
Posted by SssupesFixed
This Cap has been amazing, I'm lucky to know her.
We went on a double date with my twinkie-eating beer-guzzling bar buddies. Everything started off just fine until we got to Hooters. Our waitress was very pretty and I began flirting outrageously until the Cap became fed up with my boorish behavior. Absolutely nothing happened that would be considered flirting, besides my slapping the Hooters chicks ass and grabbing at her titties.
Posted by WynterI gotta say that I love your sense of humor. Pretty funnyPosted by SssupesFixed
This Cap has been amazing, I'm lucky to know her.
We went on a double date with my twinkie-eating beer-guzzling bar buddies. Everything started off just fine until we got to Hooters. Our waitress was very pretty and I began flirting outrageously until the Cap became fed up with my boorish behavior. Absolutely nothing happened that would be considered flirting, besides my slapping the Hooters chicks ass and grabbing at her titties.click to expand
Posted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Venus in Aqua
Posted by CTFUNo, I didn't ask. That would start drama and ruin date nightPosted by CTFU
@Sssupes, did you ask your date why she requested a different waitress,
or are you making assumptions?
why you no answer lolclick to expand
Posted by Sssupeswell her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.Posted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Venus in Aquaclick to expand
some nice sextiles there too.
Posted by CocoKatShe's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •Posted by Sssupeswell her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.Posted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Venus in Aquaclick to expand
Posted by Sssupesit may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! hahaPosted by CocoKatShe's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •Posted by Sssupeswell her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.Posted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
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Posted by ForeverlovemeWe have a Capricorn friend in our group of friends and the guys get really excited when he comes back into town but in about a week all the guys are ready for him to go back lol. He is such a sweet guy but the guys describe his as draining and overly sensitive. I suppose caps are pretty draining as ive heard from a few peoplePosted by SssupesOh I meant with my friend for her and I to be so different, but thanks for clarifying. That behavior can get drainingPosted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
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You are dating a Cap? Are you the one that was married to a Cap before? I could be wrong.
Posted by Vixen2This is my concern and will be a deal breaker for me. I'm waiting to see if this is an isolated incident or will be a repeated thing.Posted by SssupesWow!! only 3 drinks....requesting a different waitress...and a Venus Aqua....how frigging bizarrePosted by LadyNeptuneCocktails. Martinis. She wasn't drunk. She's not petitePosted by SssupesAre we talking 3 beers or 3 cocktails? Also is she really petitePosted by LadyNeptuneOnly 3
How many drinks did she have over the course of the night?
That is waaaaay overboard of you ask me...
So unwarranted from your side of the story!
How unfortunate...
I mean....are you going to have to deal with that everytime you go out...one has to wonderclick to expand
Posted by lnana04Yes I was. Everyone is different!
You are dating a Cap? Are you the one that was married to a Cap before? I could be wrong.
Posted by CocoKatI don't put my foot down like that. She's not a kid, she's a grown ass woman. She is who she is and I am who I am.Posted by Sssupesit may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! hahaPosted by CocoKatShe's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •Posted by Sssupeswell her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.Posted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Venus in Aquaclick to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoI'm a Cap, and I talked to my Cap friend yesterday. Hadn't talked to her in a long while. She irritated me to no end...just all kind of wrong and offensive comments about my family, as I hers is perfect. We are going to clash big time if it happens again. She's reached her limit that quick with me.Posted by ForeverlovemeWe have a Capricorn friend in our group of friends and the guys get really excited when he comes back into town but in about a week all the guys are ready for him to go back lol. He is such a sweet guy but the guys describe his as draining and overly sensitive. I suppose caps are pretty draining as ive heard from a few peoplePosted by SssupesOh I meant with my friend for her and I to be so different, but thanks for clarifying. That behavior can get drainingPosted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Venus in Aquaclick to expand
When she came down the last time we were all happy to see her, but that was over in about two hours....no lie.
I don't know how people deal with some Caps to be 100% honest.
Posted by SssupesI'm not agreeing with her behavior but she may not be aware of how it affects you. If you don't put up a boundary she will keep doing it cause she thinks it works. If you let her know how she is coming across you help her and you help the relationship and you give her room to improve.Posted by CocoKatI don't put my foot down like that. She's not a kid, she's a grown ass woman. She is who she is and I am who I am.Posted by Sssupesit may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! hahaPosted by CocoKatShe's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •Posted by Sssupeswell her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.Posted by ForeverlovemeAries Moon
My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Venus in Aquaclick to expand
Posted by SssupesOf course. It just seems your experience was one that would make you write off the sign.Posted by lnana04Yes I was. Everyone is different!
You are dating a Cap? Are you the one that was married to a Cap before? I could be wrong.click to expand
Her issues could be more with how you interact with women and she's not confronting it. Idk.
Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
Posted by Vixen2Aww, thanks
@Inana04 I was reading some of your posts from 4 years ago lastnight. Just go ogling shit and dxp came up....you have great insight on Caps 😉
Posted by cheekyfaerieI might but very doubtful
As a former server, I've encountered women like that. It's not a pretty picture.
I'd say something tho. As politely as possible. Ask her what's up. Otherwise, you're gonna get your ass chewed out when you break up with her and she thought everything was fine. It's not trying to change her, it's giving her a fighting chance instead of allowing her to feel snowed.
Did she know the server?
Posted by cheekyfaerieI'm sure the confused look on my face and my friends faces spoke volumes. However, we just ignored it and carried on with laughingPosted by SssupesAlright, but you know as well as I do how much Caps like to be made to feel stupid.Posted by cheekyfaerieI might but very doubtful
As a former server, I've encountered women like that. It's not a pretty picture.
I'd say something tho. As politely as possible. Ask her what's up. Otherwise, you're gonna get your ass chewed out when you break up with her and she thought everything was fine. It's not trying to change her, it's giving her a fighting chance instead of allowing her to feel snowed.
Don't envy you a bit tho. It's a hard thing to bring up without making her feel defensive. You're kinda screwed either way. Just know I'd value you trying to discuss an issue with me. Even if the convo didn't start out so great, there's something to be said for talking through it. Of course, I'm not the kinda woman who gets shitty with waitresses. •click to expand
Posted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
Anyways, bcuz caps are freaking awesome, I'm gonna blame it on her aries moon! Thanks! 🙂
Posted by Vixen2Were you next to ssupes at Hooters? 😛
@Inana04 I was reading some of your posts from 4 years ago lastnight. Just go ogling shit and dxp came up....you have great insight on Caps 😉
Posted by GreenteaThat's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 monthsPosted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
Posted by GreenteaI don't drink at all...scared, but seeing people say only three drinks? I would think that's a whole lot, but again, idk since I don't drink.Posted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
Posted by SssupesAlso, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.Posted by GreenteaThat's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 monthsPosted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
Posted by lnana04I don't drink much either, only when I go out and I usually only have a glass but there are a few occasions where I went all out and it wasn't good. 😢Posted by GreenteaI don't drink at all...scared, but seeing people say only three drinks? I would think that's a whole lot, but again, idk since I don't drink.Posted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
I went crazy cap, did some stupid sh!t. Oh well, that was in college.
Posted by GreenteaAll I did was order drinks.Posted by SssupesAlso, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.Posted by GreenteaThat's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 monthsPosted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
Posted by SssupesY'all very flirty though, and good looking. Its enough to drive even the softest of moons to jealousy. I stand by my statement of her aries moon bringing her to her boiling point tho. Just be fair with your lady, if she has her head screwed on right, she will value your honesty. Leo confidence is huge, especially for an earth sun.Posted by GreenteaAll I did was order drinks.Posted by SssupesAlso, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.Posted by GreenteaThat's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 monthsPosted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
Posted by SssupesWith a thousand watt smile...Posted by GreenteaAll I did was order drinks.Posted by SssupesAlso, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.Posted by GreenteaThat's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 monthsPosted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
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Posted by Montgomery😄 you know he did lol leos smile at everyone, it sucks when our partner thinks we are being flirty, we are just being a friendly leo...Posted by SssupesWith a thousand watt smile...Posted by GreenteaAll I did was order drinks.Posted by SssupesAlso, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.Posted by GreenteaThat's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 monthsPosted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
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Posted by MoonshineLeoI'm guilty, of course.
Posted by Montgomery😄 you know he did lol leos smile at everyone, it sucks when our partner thinks we are being flirty, we are just being a friendly leo...Posted by SssupesWith a thousand watt smile...
All I did was order drinks.
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If I'm really happy about who I'm with... it's worse-- it gets everywhere.
LEO Moons might understand, but apparently, it isn't our most appealing
character trait.
Posted by lnana04that's so true lolPosted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...click to expand
i don't get drunk i get bossy when i drink a bit too much lol not sure what her inner issue is lol
Posted by MontgomeryNah, I purposefully look away if she's hot like that. That smile comes naturally and ALWAYS causes issues. žPosted by SssupesWith a thousand watt smile...Posted by GreenteaAll I did was order drinks.Posted by SssupesAlso, leos are usually nice people, and can be flirtatious...and maybe you were being toooooo nice to this girl, and it rubbed her the wrong way.Posted by GreenteaThat's why I'm waiting to see if it happens again. I'm giving it a fair chance. She's a good person and I can't punt her over 1 thing in 3 monthsPosted by lnana04And she did have a few drinks in her... you know how that goes for us... we can get cray.Posted by Vixen2Girl, Caps dgaf. At least the Caps I know. Can be classy people and on the flip side say and do things that will make your mouth drop.
I'm still reeling over the requesting of another waitress. I'm no saint and have been jealous in the past but I'll be dammed if I ever allowed it to show...let alone in a group of people like that...
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Such a disappointment. Don't think I can handle the jealousy. Hopefully she can fix this