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My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
She's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •
it may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! haha
I don't put my foot down like that. She's not a kid, she's a grown ass woman. She is who she is and I am who I am.
It's the Venus in Aquarius that is making her act like this.
Unpredictable, emotional outbursts of jealousy and insecurity. Definitely Aquarius
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She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
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My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
She's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •
it may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! haha
I don't put my foot down like that. She's not a kid, she's a grown ass woman. She is who she is and I am who I am.
It's the Venus in Aquarius that is making her act like this.
Unpredictable, emotional outbursts of jealousy and insecurity. Definitely Aquarius
She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
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yes, its obvious shes trying hard to not seem weak and she asked for another waitress, thats her defense mechanism thats how she takes control of the situation so that her jealousy doesn't take over her. You should talk to her about this or reassure her you dont have eyes for anyone else.
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She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
Yes, it's possible.
It depends on the rest of her chart but, I believe it has more to do with her moon sign mixed with the drinks she had. Also we don't know the whole story since we're just hearing it from your point of view, you could have done something that bothered her that you just didn't notice or maybe you didn't do anything like you said.
Only she knows how she felt at that moment which is why you should talk to her about it but, you don't want to go that route so I guess you'll just have to deal with it if/when it happens again and let the chips fall where they may.
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We were there for like 3mins. Literally sat down, ordered drinks and when she came back with them she asked for a different server. Nothing was said other than the drink order.
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She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
Yes, it's possible.
It depends on the rest of her chart but, I believe it has more to do with her moon sign mixed with the drinks she had. Also we don't know the whole story since we're just hearing it from your point of view, you could have done something that bothered her that you just didn't notice or maybe you didn't do anything like you said.
Only she knows how she felt at that moment which is why you should talk to her about it but, you don't want to go that route so I guess you'll just have to deal with it if/when it happens again and let the chips fall where they may.
We were there for like 3mins. Literally sat down, ordered drinks and when she came back with them she asked for a different server. Nothing was said other than the drink order.
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We're ACTION oriented, words don't mean anything if they're not backed up. So you must've done something out of the norm. You did notice the waitress was attractive, maybe she noticed you noticed by some gesture you made.
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She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
Yes, it's possible.
It depends on the rest of her chart but, I believe it has more to do with her moon sign mixed with the drinks she had. Also we don't know the whole story since we're just hearing it from your point of view, you could have done something that bothered her that you just didn't notice or maybe you didn't do anything like you said.
Only she knows how she felt at that moment which is why you should talk to her about it but, you don't want to go that route so I guess you'll just have to deal with it if/when it happens again and let the chips fall where they may.
We were there for like 3mins. Literally sat down, ordered drinks and when she came back with them she asked for a different server. Nothing was said other than the drink order.
We're ACTION oriented, words don't mean anything if they're not backed up.
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Sitting down and looking at a beer selection is actions? Plus, looking up to say I'll have the 20oz Shiner is actions? Come on now
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She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
Yes, it's possible.
It depends on the rest of her chart but, I believe it has more to do with her moon sign mixed with the drinks she had. Also we don't know the whole story since we're just hearing it from your point of view, you could have done something that bothered her that you just didn't notice or maybe you didn't do anything like you said.
Only she knows how she felt at that moment which is why you should talk to her about it but, you don't want to go that route so I guess you'll just have to deal with it if/when it happens again and let the chips fall where they may.
We were there for like 3mins. Literally sat down, ordered drinks and when she came back with them she asked for a different server. Nothing was said other than the drink order.
We're ACTION oriented, words don't mean anything if they're not backed up.
Sitting down and looking at a beer selection is actions? Plus, looking up to say I'll have the 20oz Shiner is actions? Come on now
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I'm just trying to help, again, it could be her aries moon, they want to be #1 always. If you in some way, had shown some bit of interest.. not in ordering your drinks, but maybe she felt a vibe or saw a big smile, or a gleam in your eyes, etc. I don't know, I wasn't there.
From what you're describing though, a Cap wouldn't normally get mad or request a new server.
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She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
Yes, it's possible.
It depends on the rest of her chart but, I believe it has more to do with her moon sign mixed with the drinks she had. Also we don't know the whole story since we're just hearing it from your point of view, you could have done something that bothered her that you just didn't notice or maybe you didn't do anything like you said.
Only she knows how she felt at that moment which is why you should talk to her about it but, you don't want to go that route so I guess you'll just have to deal with it if/when it happens again and let the chips fall where they may.
We were there for like 3mins. Literally sat down, ordered drinks and when she came back with them she asked for a different server. Nothing was said other than the drink order.
We're ACTION oriented, words don't mean anything if they're not backed up.
Sitting down and looking at a beer selection is actions? Plus, looking up to say I'll have the 20oz Shiner is actions? Come on now
I'm just trying to help, again, it could be her aries moon, they want to be #1 always. If you in some way, had shown some bit of interest.. not in ordering your drinks, but maybe she felt a vibe or saw a big smile, or a gleam in your eyes, etc. I don't know, I wasn't there.
From what you're describing though, a Cap wouldn't normally get mad or request a new server.
-1 for that like.
Capricorn women are controlling, insecure and jealous. So yes this is how they would act. It won't be dramatic maybe more subtle and calm, but please do not put this above them.
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I've never been controlling, too jealous (yes I've gotten jealous) or insecure, (yes I've got my own insecurities but I usually very comfident,in fact people try to control me. But I'm still young yet so there's still some hope. Maybe too much air in my chart tgaf about things like that.
Aries causes scenes, so her being discrete, yes that was the cap in her.
@Sssupes - weren't you married to a Cap before, did she ever do this
@greentea.........yes I was and no she didnt
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@greentea.........yes I was and no she didnt
Yup, it's her aries moon then, gotta be #1...
I'm a Cap with aqua venus too...libra moon though, I wouldn't have done that. I've gone to places like Hooter or places with show girls with guys I've dated or had relationships with and we'd both chat up the attractive women. I've never acted that way. EVER!!
I don't think you can blame it on a placement, but I could be wrong.
I do know of a very feisty grown Cap woman...she's actually been in physical alterations (more than one) and she is an Aries moon and Aqua Venus, but it's still hard to blame it on a moon sign.
She(Cap with Aries moon) dated a Cap male(who was married to a Cap) and the Cap ex wife would come around and the Aries moon Cap would physically attack her. Like she opened her car door once and fought her in the car.
But still, Its hard to say it's the moon lol.
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I don't think you can blame it on a placement, but I could be wrong.I do know of a very feisty grown Cap woman...she's actually been in physical alterations (more than one) and she is an Aries moon and Aqua Venus, but it's still hard to blame it on a moon sign.
She(Cap with Aries moon) dated a Cap male(who was married to a Cap) and the Cap ex wife would come around and the Aries moon Cap would physically attack her. Like she opened her car door once and fought her in the car.
But still, Its hard to say it's the moon lol.
Lmao!!
Kristin Cavallari is an Aries Moon Cap, and her ex Brody(Leo) talks about how he met her while she was fighting. It's the beginning of the video.
Welp, Ssupes...she just may be hiding a temper now that I'm thinking about it. If it appears again then....
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Kristin Cavallari is an Aries Moon Cap, and her ex Brody(Leo) talks about how he met her while she was fighting. It's the beginning of the video.
Welp, Ssupes...she just may be hiding a temper now that I'm thinking about it. If it appears again then....
If she does it again she will be kicking rocks
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@greentea.........yes I was and no she didnt
Yup, it's her aries moon then, gotta be #1...
I'm a Cap with aqua venus too...libra moon though, I wouldn't have done that. I've gone to places like Hooter or places with show girls with guys I've dated or had relationships with and we'd both chat up the attractive women. I've never acted that way. EVER!!
For all those who believe Capricorn women are angels
https://zodiacrealm7.wordpress.com/2013/07/09/capricorn-woman-profile/
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Lol!
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Kristin Cavallari is an Aries Moon Cap, and her ex Brody(Leo) talks about how he met her while she was fighting. It's the beginning of the video.
Welp, Ssupes...she just may be hiding a temper now that I'm thinking about it. If it appears again then....
If she does it again she will be kicking rocks
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I think you should take cheeky advice and talk to her. She could have a point by mentioning her acting up if she's blindsided.
Posted by AriesLove
If Aries moon has a issue you will know it. They are not passive aggressive they are aggressive.Your Capricorn dates controlling and bossy nature took over the night!
I'm not sure requesting another waitress is considered passive, but I could be wrong.
Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
Damn
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I had a best friend growing up who was a Capricorn woman. Her and her boyfriend just broke up and she moved out of the apartment.She went back to the apartment after moving out pretending she had left something behind. She went late late at night, used her old key and found her ex boyfriend laid in the bed with his new girlfriend. She knew he was talking to someone else so it should not have been a surprise. She just wanted to see it for herself.
She got so angry grabbed a kitchen knife and attacked her ex boyfriend. Unfortunately he beat her down so bad. Gave her a busted lip, black eye, she needed stitches. He was wanted for an arrest after that. Everybody kept asking her why she went over there. She said she flipped when she saw them in bed with his arm around her like they had just finished having sex.
What was the Cap feelings after the situation?
That's crazy, and something I would absolutely never do, but honestly..I would be hurt if I had an ex that gave me a black eye and busted lip, even if I did enter his apartment and attack him with a knife.
Does the ex hate her?
I met a Leo who dated a Cap and said she was h@ll on wheels.
Sending a shout out to the fools who came up with excuses for the woman because of her astrological make up.
There's no excuse for this behavior. If it was a man...there would be a whole different tone to this conversation.
I think he is correct in observing...
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If Aries moon has a issue you will know it. They are not passive aggressive they are aggressive.Your Capricorn dates controlling and bossy nature took over the night!
I'm not sure requesting another waitress is considered passive, but I could be wrong.
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That's a pretty bold move imo.
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If Aries moon has a issue you will know it. They are not passive aggressive they are aggressive.Your Capricorn dates controlling and bossy nature took over the night!
I'm not sure requesting another waitress is considered passive, but I could be wrong.
That's a pretty bold move imo.
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That's what I thought, but what do I know lol.
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Sending a shout out to the fools who came up with excuses for the woman because of her astrological make up.There's no excuse for this behavior. If it was a man...there would be a whole different tone to this conversation.
I think he is correct in observing...
This is an astrology site is it not? Lol. You gotta always blame something!!
Otherwise, and this might be a long shot ...but maybe he should talk to people who actually know both of them.
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My cap friend is like this, we're at different ends of the spectrum, makes me wonder about the rest of her chart.
Aries Moon
Venus in Aqua
well her aries moon trine your ascedent, moon & sun and her venus opposite your sun. If you can make it work sounds like a good match. Caps are one of the few signs that go together well with leo outside the fire or air element.
She's been pretty cool. No real complaints so far other than this. •
it may have been awful & embarrassing, but at least you know she cares. Tbh the aries moons I know are pretty blatent like this. If you don't put your foot down, things will get even more fiery the next time she that jealousy comes up. Just don't play with it! haha
I don't put my foot down like that. She's not a kid, she's a grown ass woman. She is who she is and I am who I am.
That's not working through an issue but keeping score m ur out without ever giving the other the benifit of the doubt or opportunity to correct herself.
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How am I keeping score? I don't see that or feel that way. How am I not giving her the benefit of the doubt? I mean, I didn't take her home and kick her to the curb. I hope it don't happen again because she's actually been pretty cool.
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Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
This is like date #30.
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She definitely hasn't been that way, at all. She's been very stable. Could she just be hiding it?
Yes, it's possible.
It depends on the rest of her chart but, I believe it has more to do with her moon sign mixed with the drinks she had. Also we don't know the whole story since we're just hearing it from your point of view, you could have done something that bothered her that you just didn't notice or maybe you didn't do anything like you said.
Only she knows how she felt at that moment which is why you should talk to her about it but, you don't want to go that route so I guess you'll just have to deal with it if/when it happens again and let the chips fall where they may.
We were there for like 3mins. Literally sat down, ordered drinks and when she came back with them she asked for a different server. Nothing was said other than the drink order.
Probably a silly question, did it have anything to do with the service, waitress's attitude, or her being overly friendly towards you?
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Don't see how. All she did was ask what we wanted to drink and brought it to us.
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Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
This is like date #30.
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Oh okay. But maybe you weren't showing her sincere comfort or she has an underlying insecurity because you're cute and thinks people might come between you yall. Or everyone has an insecurity and needs to be worked out if it should be worked out with each other in the long run.
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Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
This is like date #30.
Oh okay. But maybe you weren't showing her sincere comfort or she has an underlying insecurity because you're cute and thinks people might come between you yall. Or everyone has an insecurity and needs to be worked out if it should be worked out with each other in the long run.
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Haha! You said I was cute! œ
In all honesty, she had no reason to be or feel insecure. We were there so she could be introduced to my most trusted and longest friendship. If she's truly that insecure that a waitress would scare her, I don't want her then. I like strong and secure women.
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Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
This is like date #30.
Oh okay. But maybe you weren't showing her sincere comfort or she has an underlying insecurity because you're cute and thinks people might come between you yall. Or everyone has an insecurity and needs to be worked out if it should be worked out with each other in the long run.
Haha! You said I was cute! œ
In all honesty, she had no reason to be or feel insecure. We were there so she could be introduced to my most trusted and longest friendship. If she's truly that insecure that a waitress would scare her, I don't want her then. I like strong and secure women.
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Well other than this nothing else has been wrong? Right?
It's been 30 dates and it should be valid to determine what yall want out of each other or what direction yall are going in or out?
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Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
This is like date #30.
Oh okay. But maybe you weren't showing her sincere comfort or she has an underlying insecurity because you're cute and thinks people might come between you yall. Or everyone has an insecurity and needs to be worked out if it should be worked out with each other in the long run.
Haha! You said I was cute! œ
In all honesty, she had no reason to be or feel insecure. We were there so she could be introduced to my most trusted and longest friendship. If she's truly that insecure that a waitress would scare her, I don't want her then. I like strong and secure women.
Well other than this nothing else has been wrong? Right?
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Nothing major at all. Well, other than she's wanting to move very fast in the relationship. I did have to tell her to ask me before she just makes plans. She booked a cruise for August and then said my half is $ 950. Like whuuuuuut
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Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
This is like date #30.
Oh okay. But maybe you weren't showing her sincere comfort or she has an underlying insecurity because you're cute and thinks people might come between you yall. Or everyone has an insecurity and needs to be worked out if it should be worked out with each other in the long run.
Haha! You said I was cute! œ
In all honesty, she had no reason to be or feel insecure. We were there so she could be introduced to my most trusted and longest friendship. If she's truly that insecure that a waitress would scare her, I don't want her then. I like strong and secure women.
Well other than this nothing else has been wrong? Right?
Nothing major at all. Well, other than she's wanting to move very fast in the relationship. I did have to tell her to ask me before she just makes plans. She booked a cruise for August and then said my half is $ 950. Like whuuuuuut
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Okay in 30 dates there has been some trust issues and jumping way too fast into a relationship. Yeah that's some issues. But that trip she planned out are you going? What if she does it again on this trip? What if you just say let's take it slow and see where it goes like normally. What's the rush?
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Yeah but I'll be damn if I am out on a date and get this creepy vibes from my date that he could be a flirt and how you act in front of me could determine the outcome. Because no one should feel jealous or anything like that unless a person is given a reason to especially on a first date.
This is like date #30.
Oh okay. But maybe you weren't showing her sincere comfort or she has an underlying insecurity because you're cute and thinks people might come between you yall. Or everyone has an insecurity and needs to be worked out if it should be worked out with each other in the long run.
Haha! You said I was cute! œ
In all honesty, she had no reason to be or feel insecure. We were there so she could be introduced to my most trusted and longest friendship. If she's truly that insecure that a waitress would scare her, I don't want her then. I like strong and secure women.
Well other than this nothing else has been wrong? Right?
Nothing major at all. Well, other than she's wanting to move very fast in the relationship. I did have to tell her to ask me before she just makes plans. She booked a cruise for August and then said my half is $ 950. Like whuuuuuut
Okay in 30 dates there has been some trust issues and jumping way too fast into a relationship. Yeah that's some issues. But that trip she planned out are you going? What if she does it again on this trip? What if you just say let's take it slow and see where it goes like normally. What's the rush?
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Until yesterday, there has been ZERO issues. Certainly no trust issues so don't feel the need to go there. Yes, I'm going on the trip.
Just go with your gut. You felt the need to make this thread? Perhaps she has some insecurities and she will work them out, perhaps she will throw the Pretty waiteress off the side of the cruise ship,.. because you're cute.
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Posted by CTFU@Sssupes, did you ask your date why she requested a different waitress,
or are you making assumptions?
why you no answer lol
No, I didn't ask. That would start drama, and ruin date night
Sending a shout out to all the dramatic fools who think
that requesting a different waitress without knowing why
must mean that the Cap is 'bizarre', 'embarrassing', 'overboard', 'over the top',
'emotional outbursts', ' extremely insecure' etc lol
I find it odd that 3 people didn't care to ask the Cap if anything was wrong.
Maybe the Cap knew the waitress and didn't want to create a scene.
The OP didn't want to start any drama with his date but he's certainly
doing a good job here lol
How can the OP not care to ask his date if anything was wrong?
Not even the next day?
Aren't two people supposed to be communicating when they're dating?
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Maybe you need the obvious stated (that something was wrong) but, us 3 intelligent people don't. How am I starting drama here? I asked a simple question and I have to answer all the sideline questions from fellow dxpers (like yourself).
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Just go with your gut. You felt the need to make this thread? Perhaps she has some insecurities and she will work them out, perhaps she will throw the Pretty waiteress off the side of the cruise ship,.. because you're cute.
Yea, I just wanted to see if that's what was up with caps. My bad.
CTFU makes a good point.
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Just go with your gut. You felt the need to make this thread? Perhaps she has some insecurities and she will work them out, perhaps she will throw the Pretty waiteress off the side of the cruise ship,.. because you're cute.Yea, I just wanted to see if that's what was up with caps. My bad.
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Hey, women get crazy. : )
I think you should bring it up bluntly. Her reaction says a lot. There are three ways to tell how a person is. How they deal with a flat tire, a dead cellphone and tangled Christmas lights.
People give off their true intentions in the worst of times. Thats when you see them. Good luck.
CTFU again makes an extremely good point.
I would definitely ask a person I was dating what's wrong if he reacted in a different way to something, especially if his reaction or behavior hasn't been displayed before.
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Posted by CTFU@Sssupes, did you ask your date why she requested a different waitress,
or are you making assumptions?
why you no answer lol
No, I didn't ask. That would start drama, and ruin date night
Sending a shout out to all the dramatic fools who think
that requesting a different waitress without knowing why
must mean that the Cap is 'bizarre', 'embarrassing', 'overboard', 'over the top',
'emotional outbursts', ' extremely insecure' etc lol
I find it odd that 3 people didn't care to ask the Cap if anything was wrong.
Maybe the Cap knew the waitress and didn't want to create a scene.
The OP didn't want to start any drama with his date but he's certainly
doing a good job here lol
How can the OP not care to ask his date if anything was wrong?
Not even the next day?
Aren't two people supposed to be communicating when they're dating?
Maybe you need the obvious stated (that something was wrong) but, us 3 intelligent people don't. How am I starting drama here? I asked a simple question and I have to answer all the sideline questions from fellow dxpers (like yourself).
Clearly something was wrong, yet 'three intelligent' people sitting at the same table
were not curious to ask the Cap if anything was wrong? Hmmm
You've gone out with her 30 times and you don't care to ask her why?
If you want to the know the answer ask the Cap.
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It helps if you read the post instead of spewing deflection.
What are you afraid of? Just ask her.
I noticed, you mentioned that she said something about your close friend seeming a bit flirtatious with you, that she didnt like that...but she never mentioned anything about the waitress on the drive home. If she didn't mention anything about that part, perhaps the reasoning behind her requesting a new server, wasn't what you thought.
So why don't you just ask her, instead of acting like it never happened, and everything is all fine and dandy.
Posted by Greentea
What are you afraid of? Just ask her.I noticed, you mentioned that she said something about your close friend seeming a bit flirtatious with you, that she didnt like that...but she never mentioned anything about the waitress on the drive home. If she didn't mention anything about that part, perhaps the reasoning behind her requesting a new server, wasn't what you thought.
So why don't you just ask her, instead of acting like it never happened, and everything is all fine and dandy.
I'm not afraid of anything.
Posted by CTFUI also find it odd that the Cap requested a new server
with no explanation...
sitting at table with three intelligent people. lol
I know that she felt insecure but I don't know why. I bent her over the kitchen table an hour earlier.
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Greentea
What are you afraid of? Just ask her.I noticed, you mentioned that she said something about your close friend seeming a bit flirtatious with you, that she didnt like that...but she never mentioned anything about the waitress on the drive home. If she didn't mention anything about that part, perhaps the reasoning behind her requesting a new server, wasn't what you thought.
So why don't you just ask her, instead of acting like it never happened, and everything is all fine and dandy.
I'm not afraid of anything.
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Then ask her, maybe you'll have a good fight, and you can make up by bending her over the kitchen table again. 🙂
if you are unable or unwilling to talk to her about it like an adult and it looks like she also had a communication difficulty with you, it's like you both are expecting each other to read minds. good sex can only go so far. good luck.
Woah Ssupes you're dating a Cap!
Firstly- fucking AWESOME such a frikken good combo.
Secondly, pertaining specifically to your query- in my view this is exactly where things break down between Leo and Cap.
Communication... It's such a great connection 90% of the time you're both on the same page and things can move fairly quickly that way.
But after a couple of months it feels like you've been married for 10years! And then I started to realise that that tiny 10% of the time we weren't meshing in social situations etc was because I was trying to mind read. And Cap wasn't thinking what I thought Cap was thinking...
It really needs to be hashed out, it's so easy to let this slide but I don't think it's too late to ask her why she requested a different server tbh
Even if it does bring up something about an insecurity it gives you both an opportunity to talk it out.
Which is good 🙂 anyways good luck - you sound pretty happy here I think it's great x
Posted by SuperMercurial
I think turning the whole thing into a 3 therapists 1 Capricorn situation would go badly but Idk.
What in the actual fuck are you talking about? I've asked you already to please go away as you are offering zero input. You are acting like I'm attacking the Cap. I like the Cap you jackass
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Posted by Wynter
LOL @ StupesI suppose your version of a "nice and upscale bar" would be the local Hooters.
Your story smells like bullshit.
He is the last person that's going to come on here and make up a story for shits and giggles. I know his story is legitimate.
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Wynter is just being her normal self. I'm ignoring her.
I posted pics of what Elle did last night (daughter and not Ms DXP)
Posted by SuperMercurial
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by SuperMercurial
I think turning the whole thing into a 3 therapists 1 Capricorn situation would go badly but Idk.
What in the actual fuck are you talking about? I've asked you already to please go away as you are offering zero input. You are acting like I'm attacking the Cap. I like the Cap you jackass
I was responding to ctfu... fkn retard. Ffs its a holiday.
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Yea, that was my bad. I meant to quote him instead of you. Sowwwy
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