Ladies when is the right time to ask the question (Page 2)

Posted by CreativeCap

This is not a fwb. If he Is taking her to Paris for Valentine’s Day and introducing her to his friends, he is courting/ dating her. That is how it should be. Once the two of them get to know each other better, it can blossom into a committed romantic relationship.

I don’t understand why people are saying that you should rush into exclusivity. That’s a little desperate imo. I like to date and feel the person out first. I want to know what I am getting into before making a commitment. It takes time to get to know the person. Rushing into these types of situations, often leaves somebody disappointed or heartbroken. As long as both of you are working towards the same goals and have an understanding that eventually some months down the line that dating will grow into something more.

People on here want him to just be using me as a FWB so bad, so bitter for no reason😂

I agree.. sometimes I want to feel that security but I do want to see that there is a future for the both of us.

Posted by CreativeCap

This is not a fwb. If he Is taking her to Paris for Valentine’s Day and introducing her to his friends, he is courting/ dating her. That is how it should be. Once the two of them get to know each other better, it can blossom into a committed romantic relationship.

I don’t understand why people are saying that you should rush into exclusivity. That’s a little desperate imo. I like to date and feel the person out first. I want to know what I am getting into before making a commitment. It takes time to get to know the person. Rushing into these types of situations, often leaves somebody disappointed or heartbroken. As long as both of you are working towards the same goals and have an understanding that eventually some months down the line that dating will grow into something more.

People on here want him to just be using me as a FWB so bad, so bitter for no reason😂

I agree.. sometimes I want to feel that security but I do want to see that there is a future for the both of us.

Posted by CreativeCap

This is not a fwb. If he Is taking her to Paris for Valentine’s Day and introducing her to his friends, he is courting/ dating her. That is how it should be. Once the two of them get to know each other better, it can blossom into a committed romantic relationship.

I don’t understand why people are saying that you should rush into exclusivity. That’s a little desperate imo. I like to date and feel the person out first. I want to know what I am getting into before making a commitment. It takes time to get to know the person. Rushing into these types of situations, often leaves somebody disappointed or heartbroken. As long as both of you are working towards the same goals and have an understanding that eventually some months down the line that dating will grow into something more.

you prove the point that this is a personal decision and not a one-size-fits-all-sleep-with-him-on-the-third-date kind of rules situation.

you feel it is desperate, others may like to prioritise how they spend their time and with whom.

but then you say "As long as both of you are working towards the same goals and have an understanding that eventually some months down the line that dating will grow into something more." in this sense you are setting out your terms. you are requiring a conversation. how can you be sure you have "an understanding" without first identifying what that understanding is and then seeking alignment?