Ladies!! You want to KNOW if your man is REALLY into you? Ask him this!

Posted by LonerLoop
It's not easy to come across a real gentleman, these days.

All I can do is to just use my head and create one in my own world. A hero that looks like Liam Hemsworth will do me good. Ahhhh... LOL

Posted by K_1018
Hmmm good point

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by K_1018
Hmmm good point

Haha well if you ask a man a question he is not prepared for I believe you will get a genuine response whether verbally or non verbally.

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Posted by Moonbutter
Ladies... Dont look at the "I love you" as the litmus test, instead ask him this. Ask him if you make him happy. We all want to be with someone who makes us happier, right? So I discovered that's what was missing from my relationships I never heard that "you make me happier" I just heard " I love you" and where did that get me? Yes, a one-way ticket to single town. It took a guy to straight up just tell me " you make me happy" to realize this is what we should be looking for. And I'm not talking sex, we never had sex he just likes who I am as a person and that makes him happier. And ladies, once they say that you will see in their actions. So ask your man this and watch his reaction. If he hesitates or looks uncomfortable then cut him loose and be available for the man who will find happiness just being with you, as a person which is not replaceable 🙂

Posted by Damnata
So I took this topic's advice and went and asked him.

His reply was "No, because women are trouble. When you're by yourself..the highs aren't as high...but the lows are never really low. It's a state of ease/peacefulness/contentment as opposed to an emotional roller coaster"

Now what?

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Posted by LonerLoop
It's not easy to come across a real gentleman, these days.

All I can do is to just use my head and create one in my own world. A hero that looks like Liam Hemsworth will do me good. Ahhhh... LOL

You know, I have come to this conclusion based on my own experiences and just recently having met a man who is a commitmentphobe but he's the one telling everyone he's my bf and backing up everything in actions. He's showing me and telling me I make him a happier man and no sex! What a concept! But really sex blurs those lines fit everyone and creates confusion and heartbreak where it could have been avoided.

Do you think he's for real? What sign is he? I don't know. I am afraid of all this talks when it comes to men.

They can actually manipulate you. They might do things like that today and be something else tomorrow.

I hope he really mean what he said else I am gonna kill him for you!

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Posted by Damnata
So I took this topic's advice and went and asked him.

His reply was "No, because women are trouble. When you're by yourself..the highs aren't as high...but the lows are never really low. It's a state of ease/peacefulness/contentment as opposed to an emotional roller coaster"

Now what?

Wow... That's kinda telling... He has issues with women? Are you happy with him?

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Posted by Damnata
So I took this topic's advice and went and asked him.

His reply was "No, because women are trouble. When you're by yourself..the highs aren't as high...but the lows are never really low. It's a state of ease/peacefulness/contentment as opposed to an emotional roller coaster"

Now what?

Wow... That's kinda telling... He has issues with women? Are you happy with him?

How would you interpret that?

I am, yeah.



Dang girl ... I would ask what he meant by that. Like what does he mean he gets more of a high by being with someone?

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Posted by LonerLoop

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Posted by LonerLoop
It's not easy to come across a real gentleman, these days.

All I can do is to just use my head and create one in my own world. A hero that looks like Liam Hemsworth will do me good. Ahhhh... LOL

You know, I have come to this conclusion based on my own experiences and just recently having met a man who is a commitmentphobe but he's the one telling everyone he's my bf and backing up everything in actions. He's showing me and telling me I make him a happier man and no sex! What a concept! But really sex blurs those lines fit everyone and creates confusion and heartbreak where it could have been avoided.

Do you think he's for real? What sign is he? I don't know. I am afraid of all this talks when it comes to men.

They can actually manipulate you. They might do things like that today and be something else tomorrow.

I hope he really mean what he said else I am gonna kill him for you!

He's Aries... He's for real.

Cool! Okay all the best to you sweetheart. 🙂

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Posted by Moonbutter
Yes, but really the difference between a man feeling happiness with you and just happy to be with you is night and day.

Posted by notsosure
Doesn´t matter.

I dated a guy for a long time who kept telling me how happy I made him and that things were way better after he met me. Didn´t want to be my boyfriend still.

If you question it all the time, love ain´t there.

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Posted by Sssupes
Just because I'm happy with you dosent mean I'm gonna stay. I gotta see a future. You can be an amazing woman and make me happy but just not be the one I can love. Then again, I can love you and not stay either.

what would make you stay?

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Posted by Moonbutter
Dang girl ... I would ask what he meant by that. Like what does he mean he gets more of a high by being with someone?

Posted by VenusAquarius
My understanding of my own spirituality, astrology, and psychology has helped me successfully navigate my relationships.

Accept that nothing is forever.

One of the reasons for my happiness in being divorced was I wouldn't have to face his death or mine. I wanted to die alone. I'm amazed that he still wants this journey to death.

I woke up from a nightmare of him dying. In such a Virgo-like response to console me, he grabbed his tablet and went over the insurance policy and other beneficiary documents with me. I was confused and speechless. But, that's my Virgo.... I just hugged him, kissed his forehead (we don't like to kiss), and laughed.

Posted by Moonbutter
Ladies... Dont look at the "I love you" as the litmus test, instead ask him this. Ask him if you make him happy. We all want to be with someone who makes us happier, right? So I discovered that's what was missing from my relationships I never heard that "you make me happier" I just heard " I love you" and where did that get me? Yes, a one-way ticket to single town. It took a guy to straight up just tell me " you make me happy" to realize this is what we should be looking for. And I'm not talking sex, we never had sex he just likes who I am as a person and that makes him happier. And ladies, once they say that you will see in their actions. So ask your man this and watch his reaction. If he hesitates or looks uncomfortable then cut him loose and be available for the man who will find happiness just being with you, as a person which is not replaceable 🙂

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Posted by Impulsv
I see an issue with someone depending on U for their happiness.

I think it's an American thing.

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Posted by Impulsv
I see an issue with someone depending on U for their happiness.

I think it's an American thing.

The hell it is.

Just stop with the "it's an American thing"

Don't you think we get bashed on enough here? 😭 why you hate us Tiz?!?!

😛

My streak of labelling things "an American thing" is at an end!

Foiled by Sag Moons once again.

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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
Mine says I give him headaches.. Then proceeded to smile and say Nah you make me happy.

I believe he meant it though with the headaches. Sad times lol

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
Mine says I give him headaches.. Then proceeded to smile and say Nah you make me happy.

I believe he meant it though with the headaches. Sad times lol

I'd say this is a more positive reaction tbh. If a guy is teasing you like that, he's got soft squishy feelings for you haha.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Btw, I get what you mean by doing this OP. Relationships should be a complement to your life and if who you're with ADDS to current, healthy happiness, then yeah, they should make you even happier.

Posted by libraqueen
My fiancé tells me this all the time without me having to ask. Lmao this isn't thread worthy..smh. No offense.

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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
Mine says I give him headaches.. Then proceeded to smile and say Nah you make me happy.

I believe he meant it though with the headaches. Sad times lol

I'd say this is a more positive reaction tbh. If a guy is teasing you like that, he's got soft squishy feelings for you haha.

Lol I was joking, my fiancé is a triple Virgo. It's his way of being affectionate.

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Posted by libraqueen
My fiancé tells me this all the time without me having to ask. Lmao this isn't thread worthy..smh. No offense.

Haha that's rich coming from someone like you ms "libraqueen" wow u are selfish. Just because YOU didn't find value in it doesn't mean others did not. Wake up, the world does not revolve around you.

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Posted by libraqueen
My fiancé tells me this all the time without me having to ask. Lmao this isn't thread worthy..smh. No offense.

Haha that's rich coming from someone like you ms "libraqueen" wow u are selfish. Just because YOU didn't find value in it doesn't mean others did not. Wake up, the world does not revolve around you.

Don't mind the cuntbucket. She's not worth the response, m'dear. She's 12 and still has a lot of growing up to do, that much is painfully obvious in her posts.

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Posted by libraqueen
My fiancé tells me this all the time without me having to ask. Lmao this isn't thread worthy..smh. No offense.

Haha that's rich coming from someone like you ms "libraqueen" wow u are selfish. Just because YOU didn't find value in it doesn't mean others did not. Wake up, the world does not revolve around you.

You get offended pretty easily huh? Others may have found value, I did not. So I voiced my opinion. Thanks

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Just asked him this.

He said, "You make me mad...*pregnant pause...mad happy".

Is he a Gemini?

:-p

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