I think it's funny as shit that this guy even makes this thread, in which he is insinuating that he, himself, must be of higher respect of women, since it offends him that men are disrespectful of women using sex as this tool of disrespect .... yet ......
... in the very phrase he uses is more disrespectful than the act.
Women don't want to be banged. This guy thinks of an intimate situation with a female and his mind regards it as "banging" ... which means he is one of those disrespectful men because by wording it the way he does, it alludes to him believing that it's perfectly ok to bang a woman he does respect and I assure you ...
.. it's NEVER ok to bang a woman you respect.
The author of this thread is a disrespectul man in the very way he views the treatment of a woman's giving of herself to her man.
You may or may not be referring to negging, and guys neg because they have low self esteems and need to keep the woman below them or she'll leave and find someone better.
I agree insecure women will keep returning but there is a quote that goes.."treat them mean, keep them keen."