Maybe I'm Overreacting? (Page 2)

Hey!
Focusing on the now and acting versus yesterday and the thinking....

Did you do the damn thing yet, L? 😛

That's exactly why I'm asking!

Do the damn thing already so we can shoot the shit about it 😛

Thanks VH and Eden.

No, I havent done the damn thing yet! LOL!!!

I am waiting to do it in person. I haven't seen him this week. He will be over on New Year's Eve and I will talk to him about it sometime this weekend.

I agree with P, in that I don't think he had any ill intent. You showed him where the key was, and he used it to surprise you with a thoughtful gift. If he were up to no good, why would he even tell you about it in the first place?


I would bet that if you liked him more, it wouldn't have been much of a problem. I'm assuming the fact that you're already turned off by him in a lot of ways, only makes this situation seem worse than what it really is.

Posted by MsPisces.
I agree with P, in that I don't think he had any ill intent. You showed him where the key was, and he used it to surprise you with a thoughtful gift. If he were up to no good, why would he even tell you about it in the first place?


I would bet that if you liked him more, it wouldn't have been much of a problem. I'm assuming the fact that you're already turned off by him in a lot of ways, only makes this situation seem worse than what it really is.

I KNOW he didnt have an ill intent. That's not really my issue. I just felt that my privacy was violated, not that he was there doing anything malicious. However, it did occur to me that if he's done it once than how many times has he done it before? I guess it's just that I feel like my home is my personal safety zone, my haven of serenity, my private space and personally I PREFER to know when it's being occupied by someone who doesnt reside there. Know what I mean?

There is a some truth in the latter part of your statement as well. I am already having some issues with the relationship, but I am trying to work through them.. I guess since me needing space was part of the issue this little incident was magnified by it's nature.

LOL @ Winterborn!!!

Thanks Mr. Nice. I understand what you mean. Let me give a bit more info here.

He knows where the key is only because on his B-Day he was getting off work earlier than me and I had a stop to make on my way home from work. He works 5 mins from my house and lives an hour outside of town. I was taking him out to dinner in an area about 25 mins from my house (in the opposite direction from his) for his birthday and then meeting some friends after for drinks. So, him going home after work would've been ridiculous and he was going to arrive at my house by about 45 mins to an hour before me. I told him that if no one was there to let him in, call me and I will tell you where the spare key is. So, he did and I did. This was a one time occurrence, although he stays overnight at my house quite often (less as of lately as per my request) and I have left him there a time or two for short periods of time to run errands or go to meetings. But, I do have roommates and more often then not, someone else is there as well.

I know that honesty is the best policy and I know that I have to let him know how I feel about it, so I am. You are right about one thing, I am a bit too trusting of others and I am always trying to be nice. It's a fault of mine when it comes to relationships. I just don't do the mean girl very well. I don't like hurting people. It's something I need to work on. My friend wants me to read the book "Why Men Marry Bitches" because she says I need to stop being so nice!! LOL!! Oh well!

Just curious though, why do you think I should be single?

Posted by Mr Nice
The really need an edit function on this site instead of me hiding my typo errors.

I so AGREE!!!

But, I read your post and I got it. I think, anyway! LOL

As Ms P says...if you liked this guy more there wouldn't be an issue with him invading your space.

i could not see the negative in this gesture if I truely loved or was falling in love with a man..

Maybe you need to assess your relationship with him seriously before getting any further into it, if you want to be nice... this could be the start of a list of negative feelings you have for this guy, so maybe you do need timeout to reflect on what you really want!

Thanks Sweets. You're both right to a degree. I am definitely not in LOVE with him, nor am I falling in LOVE with him right now. It's very early on in the relationship. Love is an extremely deep and serious feeling for me. I don't fall in love easily nor do I frivolously use that expression. I do LIKE him very much and enjoy spending time with him, however I do crave my space. Even during my marriage, my husband and I did most everything together and were best friends, however we managed to maintain our own separate activities with our friends and ourselves in a very harmonious way.

I will admit, I fell a bit quickly in my last relationship (Mr. Pisces). We said the words too soon (even though he said them first and I did feel it) so I try to remain very aware of this. I think I should've moved slower in that relationship, so I'm trying to learn from my experiences and not repeat past mistakes. It was a long distance relationship so SPACE wasn't an issue and I liked that. He too was very SPACE conscientious, so I think that's why we clicked so quickly. I also believe that the distance may have been an "emotional crutch" (so to speak) for me. No fear of being completely caged in or having someone constantly in my "space". That is probably why I allowed myself the emotional freedom with him more quickly. Funny thing is, the demise of our relationship was the physical distance. Kinda ironic, huh? LOL.

I'm not an emotionally needy kinda girl to the degree that I want you there ALL the time when it comes to my relationships. If it works, it works..... go do your thing and I'll do mine and we'll get together when we can. I have a lot going on in my life and need the time to nurture my friendships and my emotional well-being. So, I need someone who feels the same. It's frustrating for me because of my desire to please people, therefore I stress myself out over it. It's MY issue, I know and I have to work on it. Like Mr. Nice said, I just need to wisen up a bit about it. I definitely do not want to turn into the ice maiden. That's not even an option for me! I'm a work in progress!! LOL!!

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Even during my marriage, my husband and I did most everything together and were best friends, however we managed to maintain our own separate activities with our friends and ourselves in a very harmonious way.

I personally believe that is the healthy route. I am not one of those who believes one person can fulfill everything for you. I'm not talking about cheating on a significant other; I mean, having outside interests and friends...it's healthy and normal. That's why people have different friends. There is a friend for every season (so to speak). Obviously if you are in a monogamous relationship, you can't have 4 or 5 men/women who make up a total person 🙂; hence the reason that maintaining friendships is so important to foster a healthy relationship with your partner. Again, that's just how I feel.

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
He too was very SPACE conscientious, so I think that's why we clicked so quickly. I also believe that the distance may have been an "emotional crutch" (so to speak) for me. No fear of being completely caged in or having someone constantly in my "space". That is probably why I allowed myself the emotional freedom with him more quickly. Funny thing is, the demise of our relationship was the physical distance. Kinda ironic, huh? LOL.

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Damned if you don't and damned if you do...I guess that's why we have to be careful for what we ask for. I too crave a lot of space. Even when I am butthead over heels in love; I like MY time to just do whatever the hell I want to do, and I know guys like their time and space too.

You two have only been seeing one another a few months, so I don't think there is anything wrong with the fact that the "ILY's" haven't fallen from your lips. Everybody falls in love in their own timeframe, and it can't be rushed, because if it is, it just rings false.

I'm not an emotionally needy kinda girl to the degree that I want you there ALL the time when it comes to my relationships. If it works, it works..... go do your thing and I'll do mine and we'll get together when we can. I have a lot going on in my life and need the time to nurture my friendships and my emotional well-being. So, I need someone who feels the same.


I'm enjoying being single now but I lost myself in my marriage...I hope to be more like you when I find someone, I admire this quality in you...you'll work out what you want from this Saggy guy and how to put it to him without sending him into the cold fraze...I hope.

Good luck LL 🙂

Posted by sweethearts

I'm enjoying being single now but I lost myself in my marriage...I hope to be more like you when I find someone, I admire this quality in you...you'll work out what you want from this Saggy guy and how to put it to him without sending him into the cold fraze...I hope.

Good luck LL 🙂

Thank you so much Sweets. It's really nice to hear someone say something like that to me. Trust me, it hasn't been an easy road to navigate and I still get lost ALL the time it seems. I too lost myself in my marriage, I think we all fall into that trap from time to time... or at least a lot of us. What has helped me the most through all of it was and still is my friendships. I guess this is why it's so important to me to continue to maintain them and nurture them. I have a fantastic network of people in my life. I am so blessed in that respect. Even my living situation has and still is an important piece of that puzzle. Maybe that's why I got so upset over this whole thing. My current roommate is going through a divorce and is recently separated from her husband. My neighbor and one of my best friends is also a divorcee and my best friend of 16 years divorced her husband the year before I did, so we all have that in common. I never want to upset or make things less than pleasant for any of these people in my life, so I try really hard to respect their time and space.

Things will fall into place for you in time. You will get where you need to be emotionally when your time is right. Hang in there girl! ((HUGS))

Alright... update! I know VH and USCTG were waiting for this! LOL!

So, I moved to spare key from it's original hiding spot and didn't tell the boyfriend. I figured that IF the situation presented itself and he was there without my knowledge it would present the opportunity for discussion. So, on Saturday I decided to go to a movie with my girlfriends and my Mom, this included both my sister and my roommate (my sister lives with me too so we were all together and the house was empty). Both he and his daughter were at my house for the weekend. He wanted to go hunting that afternoon and asked if I would mind if his daughter stayed with me for a short time. Since all the girls were going to a movie for some girl time, I was more than happy to take her with me. She joined my best friend's girls in an age appropriate movie. I knew that he would most likely beat me back to my house and I was sure this would present the access issue since he wasnt aware of where I hidden the key. I didnt hear from him throughout the movie and I texted him when we got out to let him know that we were going to grab a bite to eat and to go ahead and eat dinner without me. In the meantime, my sister had received a text from her boyfriend asking if he could go to the house and wait for her until she got back from the movie. She asked both me and our roommate if we minded that he go in and we both said no problem.

A bit later, my sister's bf advised her that they were both at the house. Hmmmm...... at this point, I'm thinking that my sister's bf had let him in since I didnt get a text about the key. So, I didnt think much more about it. Later that evening, he brought up the fact that I had moved the key and commented that he liked to never had found it. WHAT!!!!— Instead of texting me, he just searched until he found it!!! I was infuriated!!!! So, I took the opportunity to tell him at this time that I would appreciate it if he would let me know when he is at my home without me. I told him that I have a bit of a problem with NOT knowing when someone is in my home. I knew he would probably have to be there for a while without me, but wanted to know when those situations presented themselves. I was very nice about it and didnt make a huge deal out of it and kept the conversation very brief without going into much detail, so it wasn't dramatic or anything. He agreed and said "okay, no problem" and that was that. Situation resolved. At least I hope so!

Posted by WinterBorn
Wow, all those other people traipsing in and out of your house, no wonder he may have felt ok using the "hidden" key, leaving that gift on your bed.

Funny thing about (most) Sagis...when we are told that we are not welcome in your life in any way (and if it comes as a unexpected surprise/shock) we??re pretty much gone. (perhaps not immediately in this case, but you can expect him to begin to show you a cooler attitude which will probably offend you)

You??ve knocked him down to a less important place in your life - he gets it now.

Beginning of the end, IMO.

Thanks Winter. Maybe this came off wrong, but no one "traipses" in and out of my house other than the people that live there and in this case AND only on occassion my sister's boyfriend (and NOT without our permission). HE gets it and it doesn't offend him at all (he's an Aries btw). I never told Sagi that he wasn't welcome. On the contrary, I actually told him he was welcome, but I would prefer the common curtesy of knowing if he is going to be inside my home. I don't really think that is too much to ask for, but obviously some people do not think the same as me. I know HE felt "ok" leaving the gift or he wouldn't have done it. I only want my private space to be respected as much as possible. I am trying to respect the other members of my household as well.

It won't offend me if he shows me a cooler attitude. We've only been dating for a little over two months and I don't particularly think that is an extended amount of time in which to advocate total access to everything in my life or his. We are committed to one another in the respect that we are not dating others, but come on..... not EVERYTHING is up for complete and total exposure at this juncture. We don't even tell one another that we LOVE each other. I'm not there yet nor will I be for some time to come.

But, hey... that's why I posted with the question of "Maybe I'm Overreacting?" Simply put, maybe I am. Obviously in some opinions I am and in others I am not. That's why I love DXP. 🙂

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I guess I understand where you are coming from,but I have to be honest.....it would definitely hurt my feelings.and like Winny said of Sag's,I would cool way off or most likely just leave you alone altogether.but that's the difference between Leo's and whatever the hell I am.... 😄

LOL Bella! Well, I wouldnt mind him cooling off a little anyway. Especially since he is so comfortable with being in my house! He hasnt left me alone so, Im banking it didnt turn him off too much.

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I guess I understand where you are coming from,but I have to be honest.....it would definitely hurt my feelings.and like Winny said of Sag's,I would cool way off or most likely just leave you alone altogether.but that's the difference between Leo's and whatever the hell I am.... 😄

I get what you are saying Bella about it hurting your feelings, BUT that would be if it (the key) was extended to me, but then it was taken away. Someone having a spare key and then moving it, wouldn't upset me, because I likely wouldn't have been in the situation that LeoLady's boyfriend was in, because I wouldn't have gone into the house in the first place without seeking permission first. That's where the difference is to me. If someone gave me a key, but then took it back, then I may be butt hurt, but in this given scenario...it wouldn't have happened, because I wouldn't have been in this situation going into someone's house.

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Well this may actually be a blessing in disguise then.maybe this will slow him down a little for you......

Yes, very true.

Posted by USCTaurusGal

I get what you are saying Bella about it hurting your feelings, BUT that would be if it (the key) was extended to me, but then it was taken away. Someone having a spare key and then moving it, wouldn't upset me, because I likely wouldn't have been in the situation that LeoLady's boyfriend was in, because I wouldn't have gone into the house in the first place without seeking permission first. That's where the difference is to me. If someone gave me a key, but then took it back, then I may be butt hurt, but in this given scenario...it wouldn't have happened, because I wouldn't have been in this situation going into someone's house.

I can understand Bella as well. I agree with you both here and see valid points. Actually, I tried to generalize the situation and NOT make it all about him. I had previously expressed openly amongst my roommates while he was present, how I didnt like the location of the key anymore and that it should be moved in order to make it less accessible to anyone who might be aware that we keep it there. We had a roommate prior to the current one and she knew where it was too. SO, I dont think he took it personally and that was kinda what I was going for, even though the scenario definitely included his actions. I expressed how it made me feel NOT knowing when people were there and didnt focus entirely on him. So, point is, he now knows how I feel about it and hopefully he will respect that in the future. I think he will. He's very mature and very respectful of my needs.

Posted by XFoosMe
If talking openly about how you feel about something cools him off....so be it. The only other option was to ignore your own feelings and I think that would wind up doing more harm than you nicely telling him how you felt and asking him to respect that.

Agreed. Despite how it may sound, I really am trying to make this work. But, I am trying to set my boundaries as well so that I can be comfortable in moving forward. I encourage him to set his own boundaries and I respect and listen to whatever issue he may bring to the table. I know this may all sound a bit dramatic to some, but DXP is my venting spot. It allows me anonymity and I get the luxury of many different opinions. I do try to see each perspective. We dont all think alike so it helps to hear other's opinions and offers me a different point of view.

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

...WHAT!!!!— Instead of texting me, he just searched until he found it!!! I was infuriated!!!!...

Hahahah sorry but I couldn't help but laugh. Your master plan, FOILED ONCE AGAIN!

He's a big boy....he'll get over it. And if he doesn't, well that tells you something about him.

Posted by VirgoHero

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

...WHAT!!!!— Instead of texting me, he just searched until he found it!!! I was infuriated!!!!...

Hahahah sorry but I couldn't help but laugh. Your master plan, FOILED ONCE AGAIN!

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HA HA HA HA!!! Aren't you just so freaking funny!!!! LOL!!!

Posted by VirgoHero
He's a big boy....he'll get over it. And if he doesn't, well that tells you something about him.

True!

Yeah, I never claimed to be a master at planning! But, at least he surprised me YET AGAIN, RIGHT?!! LOL!

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I think what it is ,is you both feel different levels of closeness.that's why I'm playing the devil's advocate on his side.you know me,I'm old fashioned and out of date with regards to love and sex anyway....but it does enable me to see maybe how he feels a little.sex is being shared,quite a bit of time is being shared,family is involved.....to him it is probably (as it would be to me)a deeper relationship than it is for you,and he just did not realize that until now.some of us tend to just open up and go with the flow.....and some of us(you,you,YOU!!!! lol) don't.he I would now feel untrusted,embarrassed and unde-appreciated....but I'm a chick full of water,so take that with a grain of salt 😉
but regardless....things will be different now I would thiiiiiink,so there ya go.

Yes, Bella you may be absolutely correct. I do see his side and thank you for giving me a different perspective on the matter. I always respect your opinion because although it is sometimes different from mine, you always deliver it repectfully and objectively. You are right about me in your response above. I probably havent opened up as much as he may have thought that I have or as much as he has. I was a bit apprehensive in meeting his daughter, but I did it just the same and maybe I should've taken the initiative to delay that step but I didnt. I went with the flow on that and maybe I shouldn't have allowed that to happen so early in the relationship. Another reason why I'm trying to be gentle with how I handle certain things. He has been single much longer than I have and is probably more eager to settle down than I am at this point. I take responsibility for my actions here. I know I have things to improve upon. I really am trying to adjust. I am!!! LOL!

lol


So, you move the key without telling him .... only to think about communicating with him AFTER-THE-FACT.


And of course, you knew he would need entry to the home because you had his daughter .... but, instead of being a big girl and actually telling him, you know communicating with him about it like a grown up .. you decide to test him, to see how he is going to get in your home.



What a bitch .. seriously.


Thankfully, this is about a Sag ... so, soon you will know what it's like to be tossed aside, and well deserved to be so, since you act like a juvenile, rather than an adult with this relationship.

Posted by P-Angel
lol

So, you move the key without telling him .... only to think about communicating with him AFTER-THE-FACT.

And of course, you knew he would need entry to the home because you had his daughter .... but, instead of being a big girl and actually telling him, you know communicating with him about it like a grown up .. you decide to test him, to see how he is going to get in your home.

What a bitch .. seriously.

Thankfully, this is about a Sag ... so, soon you will know what it's like to be tossed aside, and well deserved to be so, since you act like a juvenile, rather than an adult with this relationship.

I knew I'd see you in here! Yes, you are right... LOL!

I find you so amusing. Thank you for contribution.

Tell me P, why do you feel that it is a requirement to tell someone who does not live with me where my key is? Just curious as to what your answer is to this one? Because we have been dating for a mere two months, he now deserves to have COMPELTE and TOTAL access to every single corner of my life? We are NOT married. He didn't NEED entry to my home. He has his own home and his hunting lease is just a few miles from his home, not mine.

And furthermore, it wasn't a TEST. I can move my key whenever I desire and do not NEED to tell anyone. It wasn't to see HOW he would get into my home, it was a matter of KNOWING that he was entering and with my permission (and my roommates') to do so.

You really don't get this, do you? I find it hard to understand why you CAN'T comprehend that my issue here is one of simple knowledge about WHEN and WHY someone will be entering MY home. Just because I allowed him to enter it on a prior occassion by disclosing the location of the key because I was trying to accomodate him, DOES NOT convey complete and total unsolicited and impermissible access to my home at ANY given time.

And when he decides to TOSS me aside... so be it. Relationships do end and on many occassions, there are reasons for it.

So, FUCK YOU, YOU MISERABLE BITCH. *finger*

And yes, I'm now lowering myself to calling you a derogatory name (and giving you the finger) because this is about the third time you have done so to me, and therefore well deserved to be so. Hope that's juvenile enough for you! 😉 And if not, maybe adding the smiley will help with that!

Posted by Mr Nice
I guess P-angel got told off. lol, LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved you dont need to justify your reason for doing so, people will always find fault in everything we say and do.

Ha. I'm sure P will see it differently. LOL.

Thanks, you are SO right! That will always exist, but I did open it up for discussion so obviously I feel some need to explain myself or at least respond to the inquiries and/or comments. Honestly, I don't like being rude and I have NEVER just outright called anyone any derogatory names on here (other than in good humor) but I also don't have a problem stating my piece. I welcome ALL differences of opinion and comments on the topic. It's just a shame that people have to be so damn rude and result to immature name calling. Yes, I know, I did it too... but sometimes you have to respond to people with like behavior in order to communicate effectively and sometimes even that doesn't work. I can refrain when necessary, but only for so long! LOL!

Posted by scorpio_chic

agreed. I don't understand why people reply to the grumpy old woman. There's nothing wrong with sharing opinions, that's what these boards are for but she makes it a point to go out of her way to try to insult people. She acts like a child starving for attention so she acts out & shows her ass. She should consider finding a new hobby. I'm sure she has some grandchildren running around or something...

You don't owe her any explanations Leolady. You're only giving her what she wants by getting worked up.. just ignore the bitch & let her continue to make an ass of herself.

Thanks SC. You are so totally right about her attitude, I couldn't agree more about the sharing of opinions without the insults that you speak of. I know getting me worked up is what she wants and I have never responded to her when she has posted her obnoxious opinions in other's threads, but this time I felt compelled to do so. Blame it on the full moon, IDK!! LOL!! Oh well, I may have given her what she wanted, but I also did what I wanted too. And I feel good about it. 🙂

I found a really long time ago, if you don't take her seriously, she actually starts to grow on you a little.
I find her posts quite amusing. She's so enlightened, and we're all poor lost souls. LOL


😉

I thought I could be arrogant. She takes it to a whole other level.

Posted by brianafay
I found a really long time ago, if you don't take her seriously, she actually starts to grow on you a little.
I find her posts quite amusing. She's so enlightened, and we're all poor lost souls. LOL


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LOL Bri! I know. I feel the same way about her. Honestly, I find her amusing too and I don't always disagree with her opinion, I just felt that she was being rude and I don't take well to being called names repeatedly, so... there ya go. I let a LOT of stuff roll off my back, but every once in a while, not so much. I'm a really friendly person with NO enemies (that I'm aware of anyway). Hell, I'm even friendly with people I have had past issues with. I've always felt that life is too short to hold grudges and if you do, be prepared to only be disappointed in yourself. But, I'm not a push over either and I will fight back when insulted without much thought about it. Guess it's all the fire in me mixed with all that air, just makes me have no qualms about speaking my mind! I'm civil with you, if you're civil with me. No problem!

" ... dating for a mere two months, he now deserves to have COMPELTE and TOTAL access to every single corner of my life?"


Who said anything about complete and total access to every single corner of your life?

Oh .. you did.

The overly dramatic Leo, who by nature is compelled to take everything over the top .... imagine that?

You would say I don't understand ... when in reality, you would consider this ..



"COMPELTE and TOTAL access to every single corner of my life"



... it's just a key, Dramatic Leo Lady ... and you would process it as complete and total access to every single corner of your life?

You said those words .. not me .. I was merely talking about the key, and your giving him knowledge of it's whereabouts for entering your home.


No wonder you have to make this molehill into a mountain .... no wonder you cannot grasp the simple concept that you actually gave him the non-verbal single that it was alright to enter your home ..... because to you this means = total and complete access to every corner of your life.



You gave him signals .... and then freak out when he processes this signal according to his own perception ....

... and you carry this miniscule thing up to such a hieght, that you would infer it is every corner of your life that he would take complete and total access to without your permission.


And you actually think it's me. ** laughs**




Oh, the drama for our Leo's .. I guess it has to be there .. how else are they suppose to live?

Yes, P.... dramatic Leo indeed, what can I say? Don't deny it, I embrace it.... it's fantastic! LMAO!

It's a key to my home, = key to MY private space. I don't expect you to understand about physical space as you being a Pisces.... your space is not that of the physical sort... more of the mind.... since you live inside your thoughts and your dreams. It's a common issue that we seem to have isnt it? Leo/Pisces = lack of understanding of one another's psyche which results in misunderstanding and miscommunication. Simple as that, and I'm sure you will respond with the comment that YOU understand my psyche just fine since you are a Pisces and you possess this uncanny ability. There is good reason why most Leo/Pisces relationships dont seem to work out and this is just another example. They can make for great debates, but never really any clarity is obtained by either party. And don't get me wrong I have great respect for my Pisces friends... love them dearly.

It's only been made into a mountain with you on here. My place to vent and solicit opinions, of which I welcome. It wasn't made into a mountain with him. We have moved past this obstacle and he understands and respects my feelings. One great thing about this relationship, he listens and processes whatever I feel I need to discuss without taking offense to it. I am coming to learn this more and more with each issue that arises. Isn't that what a relationship is supposed to be about? Learning and growing? That's what I'm trying to do and by addressing issues and working through them that is what is happening. I've admitted that I have much to learn and many faults.... as do we all. At least I'm willing to work through them and address them. IMO, this is what adults do.

We are doing fine and he is still here and I will continue to address MY issues. Thanks for your input. It was much appreciated and very entertaining. I'm sure I am enlightened by it. 🙂

I'm sure it's just as you say, because what else can it be?

It could never be anything else .... EVER.

We mustn't ever forget that, can we?

It is exactly as you say ... there is no other side to it, not even when there is another spark of life that shared the events.


*** we bow to you blessed one ***
*** he tells me to thank you for speaking for him in his abense and convincing P-Angel that your perspective is his and will always be ****


Amen

LOL @ Bells and LadyBug!

Hmmm....... Yeah..... I have nothing. WOW!!! Im not sure I even understand any of that gibberish.


It appears as if P is the enlightened one as per her own post and apparantly my Sag as well. He thanks you, btw. LMAO!

*stands as P bows at feet*


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She's fucking lost her mind. I'm no longer entertained.

GTFO

Posted by brianafay
She's fucking lost her mind. I'm no longer entertained.

GTFO

LMAO!!! I hear ya. Im not sure WTF is up!

WELL P just a little message for you:

if you think everyone is so lost, hopeless, selfish, ignorant, etc...if you really hate everyone and everything THAT much.
Just do yourself (and not to mention, everyone else) a really huge favor: GET THE FUCK OUT

Not saying you should off yourself...but maybe not the worst solution imaginable...I'M JUST SAYING. :/


You spewing your negativity and hatefulness all over everyone and everything is so fucking unattractive and so far from amusing at this point.
You take everything way too far. & I'm not sure what your goal is, exactly, but you just fucking suck.

I pity those involved with you. Sincerely, I do.








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LMAO Bri! I hear ya. I never could understand why someone would continue to frequent an area or place when they obviously have such distaste for it or the people there. I mean, why bother? Just don't participate.

But, I guess maybe it's their only form of stimulation or maybe an outlet for their own personal demons. It's just unfortunate that other's become a victim of their darkness. It makes for uncomfortable situations for those who have better intentions. IDK.... It's just fucking ridiculous though!

And I'm the one the craves Drama? Not so much. LOL!

& I almost feel disappointed I even bothered with that...but you know, not really.
Because you should know...although you always pissed people off with your opinions, I think many could usually appreciate it because it offered a different perspective. But as of late...you don't even make sense...your opinions are worthless. Not even a little insightful.
It's quite obvious that your goal at this point is simply to be contradictory, and even more so to be nasty and put others down and tell them how stupid and worthless you think they are. All I can say is I hope you feel good about yourself. Because you've done nothing productive.

You are the most tragically, wretchedly, vile bitch I've ever encountered.
Whoever touched you in your no-no place, or assaulted you, when you were young... well they owe the world an apology.
But you really need to let it go. Not only for everyone else's sake - but for your own. People like you, so full of negativity, often die of cancer. I

No one will miss you.







FUCK YOU

lol.....I'm done

LL♥

Sorry, this is in your thread.
How are you? Did you the Florida snow where you were??
My gparents in Brookesville got some flurries! I was shitting myself. I would have driven up there if I wasn't working.

Posted by brianafay
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Sorry, this is in your thread.
How are you? Did you the Florida snow where you were??
My gparents in Brookesville got some flurries! I was shitting myself. I would have driven up there if I wasn't working.

That was: did you see the Florida snow******

I'm all pissed off over here.
Fire signs, so fiery. Lol.

LOL, it's fine Bri. You know I don't care when a thread derail takes place. It's not at the top of my list of priorities to be too concerned with that! Besides, I couldn't agree more with your comments. I too have never had much of an opinion about P's posts and mostly they entertained me amused me and sometimes I even appreciated her perspective as you mentioned. Now, she's just been name calling and spewing vile hatred as you said. Not sure what's up, but oh well.

OMG! No snow here, but it's been freaking cold as balls!!!! The weather channel predicted flurries for last Thursday, but we didnt get any. It hasnt snowed here since 1989! It's been in the teens and 20's with highs reaching the upper 30's! Just ridiculous, I say!!! It's Florida FFS!!!!

Oh and to answer your OP (although you probably already figured this out) I think he's harmless.
We (Sags) are like little kids. We rarely mean any harm when we do dumb shit.
Not saying we aren't testy little fuckers to begin with, and we don't already think boundaries are meant to be crossed.

But you definitely need to have a sit down and and be SERIOUS about it. (I know it's hard for Leos)

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
LOL, it's fine Bri. You know I don't care when a thread derail takes place. It's not at the top of my list of priorities to be too concerned with that! Besides, I couldn't agree more with your comments. I too have never had much of an opinion about P's posts and mostly they entertained me amused me and sometimes I even appreciated her perspective as you mentioned. Now, she's just been name calling and spewing vile hatred as you said. Not sure what's up, but oh well.

OMG! No snow here, but it's been freaking cold as balls!!!! The weather channel predicted flurries for last Thursday, but we didnt get any. It hasnt snowed here since 1989! It's been in the teens and 20's with highs reaching the upper 30's! Just ridiculous, I say!!! It's Florida FFS!!!!

Lol yeah, fuck her. I hope she chokes on it. 😄


But ANYWAYS I know! It's 30 degrees here today too. FTW
& my heat took a crap on me last night too. It was on when I went to sleep (had it set at 69 - nothing outrageous.)
When I woke up, it was so cold...I cried. Hahaha. I'm such a baby. But it sucks bad enough waking up at 6am...and then for it to be 40-something degrees in my house! Nuhuh I live in Florida for a reason, hello.

Posted by brianafay
Oh and to answer your OP (although you probably already figured this out) I think he's harmless.
We (Sags) are like little kids. We rarely mean any harm when we do dumb shit.
Not saying we aren't testy little fuckers to begin with, and we don't already think boundaries are meant to be crossed.

But you definitely need to have a sit down and and be SERIOUS about it. (I know it's hard for Leos)

Thanks girl. Yeah, I know it was harmless. He is a sweetheart, but you know we all have our boundaries, no matter what the differences. You are so right, it's hard for a Leo (or at least me) to have to be serious about something at the risk of upsetting someone we care about for sure. But, it's been done now and we are good.

One thing for sure in this relationship, I'm learning that I can pretty much discuss ANY of my concerns with him without him judging me. We've both been in relationships where we felt we had to walk on egg shells and neither of us want to have to be this way again, so we agreed that we will discuss any and all of our concerns with one another as objectively as possible. It's been a good experience for me thus far.

Aw 🙂
I'm glad. I think Leos and Saggis are meant to be. I don't care what anyone else says. They'll figure it out one day. Ha