
LadyNeptune
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.click to expand

Posted by aquarius_man_Posted by _Dazed
There is LITERALLY hundreds of studies and literature on the stigma of bisexual men stemming from the aids epidemic.
I know of of studies about homosexualsâ role in the AIDS epidemic not bisexuals
Links plsclick to expand

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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.
You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.
Read this convo back...click to expand

Posted by aquarius_man_Posted by _DazedPosted by aquarius_man_Posted by _Dazed
There is LITERALLY hundreds of studies and literature on the stigma of bisexual men stemming from the aids epidemic.
I know of of studies about homosexualsâ role in the AIDS epidemic not bisexuals
Links pls
Google it google wizard.
I thought you could quote some authors recommend some books even some MD links medical journals etc
Just name a few of those literally 00âs of studies be it either sociology studies or medical I donât care, just share with us your authoritative sourcesclick to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.
You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.
Read this convo back...
Yep you're stoned.click to expand

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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.
You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.
Read this convo back...
Yep you're stoned.
And your running out of excuses for your double standard.
"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."click to expand

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men are less likely to be monogamous, period, so then you just add the possibilities of being non monogamous, obviously, bisexual men have more possibilities as they might encounter men they fancy, and men are more likely to engage in sex than women, that part makes sense from a evolutionary perspective.
simple put a random man is more likely to cheat or be non-monogamous than a random woman, a random bisexual man would be more likely to cheat or be non-monogamous than a random straight man, you would find committed monogamous straight and bisexual men but is we are talking about statistic they are a couple that point that men are "the problem" as some would say.
But there's nothing to say this relationship is linear....that if a straight man is interested in 20% of a sample population, therefore, a bisexual man must be interested in 40% of the same sample.
I didn't say it was linear, but even 5% would mean one is more than the other, if you take a sample big enough the difference would be noticeable.
Yes but there's no direct correlation between variability and overall percentage when it comes to human attraction because "quality" isn't something you can hold constant in your probability calculation.
that's why we shouldn't take factors we can be certain about, the question only had 4 factors, I didn't take attraction as a factor, so if, AFAIK all surveys and the like say men cheat more on average, we assume both straight and bisexual men are more likely to cheat, now we take those 2, if bisexual men can cheat with other men, the odds should be higher in comparison as if only women where taken as it is for straight men, it would be so cuz bisexuals men can cheat with women equally as would a straight man, but can also cheat with men if they choose to.
please tell me if there something about that, you see implausible.
Well, I mean I would think that's a huge reason why people cheat...that the 3rd person is attractive. If you're purely considering from a choice perspective, the only probability then is only whether it occurs or not (binomial tree) because you are disregarding conditions of occurrence. If that's the case, even if a bisexual man has more temptations, the likelihood of occurrence is same as that of a straight man.click to expand


Posted by _Dazed
1. What roll do you believe attraction and emotions play in one's ability to be monogamous?
2. Which of the following do you believe is less likely to be monogamous based on your answer to #1?
a. Straight woman
b. Straight man
c. Bisexual woman
d. Bisexual man
e. All of the above have the same potential for monogamy

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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.
You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.
Read this convo back...
Yep you're stoned.
And your running out of excuses for your double standard.
"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."
And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?click to expand


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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.
You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.
Read this convo back...
Yep you're stoned.
And your running out of excuses for your double standard.
"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."
And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?
I guess you finally realized where your reading comprehension failed you.click to expand

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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.
You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.
Read this convo back...
Yep you're stoned.
And your running out of excuses for your double standard.
"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."
And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by _DazedPosted by _Dazed
The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.
Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.
@LadyNeptune
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297
https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv
âI have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,â says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).
The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists canât even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."
#notallwomen
Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.
This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.
You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.
But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.
Pot meet kettle.
I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
I don't really care.
My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.
Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.
Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
Read this convo back..
I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.
Keep trying though.
You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.
Read this convo back...
Yep you're stoned.
And your running out of excuses for your double standard.
"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."
And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?
@LadyNeptuneclick to expand
Posted by _DazedPosted by EndlessPosted by Moon_RiverPosted by Endless
if you define attachment as an emotion then that one is fundamental.
and for 2 is: d. Bisexual man
Emotion has little to do with commitment. IMO
well is your opinion, but attachment theory between adults is a subject with a considerable literature, all human bonding is being researched in a variety of ways.
From what I hear from bi men (2) is the sex between 2 men are off the charts and a woman could never compete with the energy they bring to each other in a sexual relationship. I like to hear from bi women on this too.
the amount of relationships that describe "dissatisfaction" as a reason for breaking up is too much to ignore.
Can you expand on why bisexual men are less likely to be monogamous compared to straight men?click to expand

Posted by bmoon8
@_Dazed
Since you identify as bisexual, do you find yourself attracted to âmanlyâ looking women? I did not come up with this, but can you please answer the question?
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Homophobia is a common occurrence.
But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.
And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.