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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.
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Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.
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You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.
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Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.
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I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.
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I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.
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Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.
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By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.





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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.
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No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.
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You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.

You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...
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Yep you're stoned.
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There is LITERALLY hundreds of studies and literature on the stigma of bisexual men stemming from the aids epidemic.

I know of of studies about homosexuals’ role in the AIDS epidemic not bisexuals

Links pls

Google it google wizard.

I thought you could quote some authors recommend some books even some MD links medical journals etc

Just name a few of those literally 00’s of studies be it either sociology studies or medical I don’t care, just share with us your authoritative sources
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.

You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...

Yep you're stoned.
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And your running out of excuses for your double standard.

"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.

You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...

Yep you're stoned.

And your running out of excuses for your double standard.

"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."
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And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?
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men are less likely to be monogamous, period, so then you just add the possibilities of being non monogamous, obviously, bisexual men have more possibilities as they might encounter men they fancy, and men are more likely to engage in sex than women, that part makes sense from a evolutionary perspective.

simple put a random man is more likely to cheat or be non-monogamous than a random woman, a random bisexual man would be more likely to cheat or be non-monogamous than a random straight man, you would find committed monogamous straight and bisexual men but is we are talking about statistic they are a couple that point that men are "the problem" as some would say.

But there's nothing to say this relationship is linear....that if a straight man is interested in 20% of a sample population, therefore, a bisexual man must be interested in 40% of the same sample.

I didn't say it was linear, but even 5% would mean one is more than the other, if you take a sample big enough the difference would be noticeable.

Yes but there's no direct correlation between variability and overall percentage when it comes to human attraction because "quality" isn't something you can hold constant in your probability calculation.

that's why we shouldn't take factors we can be certain about, the question only had 4 factors, I didn't take attraction as a factor, so if, AFAIK all surveys and the like say men cheat more on average, we assume both straight and bisexual men are more likely to cheat, now we take those 2, if bisexual men can cheat with other men, the odds should be higher in comparison as if only women where taken as it is for straight men, it would be so cuz bisexuals men can cheat with women equally as would a straight man, but can also cheat with men if they choose to.

please tell me if there something about that, you see implausible.

Well, I mean I would think that's a huge reason why people cheat...that the 3rd person is attractive. If you're purely considering from a choice perspective, the only probability then is only whether it occurs or not (binomial tree) because you are disregarding conditions of occurrence. If that's the case, even if a bisexual man has more temptations, the likelihood of occurrence is same as that of a straight man.
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right, but is difficult to know the individual reasons for cheating and stuff, so yes, I just took the most basic factor, the OP wasn't specific about much.

so I thought the likelihood of men cheating with women as X, so both straight and bisexual men are the same X% likely to cheat, but bisexual men add the likelihood to cheat with a man, lets say N% , so a straight man is X% likely to cheat while a bisexual man would be X% +N% likely to cheat, now I know is a ridiculous extrapolation (as you say, that shouldn't be linear), but I assume that even a 5% total as higher chances is still an good enough answer (for the factors I'm taking), so I told dazed my answer for the question.

I'm aware is useless stats when talking about one person, but I think if you take a big sample it would be noticeable.
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1. What roll do you believe attraction and emotions play in one's ability to be monogamous?

2. Which of the following do you believe is less likely to be monogamous based on your answer to #1?

a. Straight woman

b. Straight man

c. Bisexual woman

d. Bisexual man

e. All of the above have the same potential for monogamy


Firstly E. I'm answering this backwards so fuck it.

So to answer the first question people are either fucked or they aren't. It has nothing to do with sexuality. A person either loves and respects you as well as themselves, or they simply don't have the ability yet. Yet is a keyword because people have the ability to change other people. For better or worse.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.

You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...

Yep you're stoned.

And your running out of excuses for your double standard.

"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."

And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?
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I guess you finally realized where your reading comprehension failed you.
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1. Fear of jeopardizing the relationship with whom someone is attached to. Most importantly, it is a personal choice.

People like to blame biology for this behavior but at some point you are consciously choosing to indulge the desire. So again your choice.

2. E.

Don't get me wrong it can be rough some times especially when your young. I have always considered one of the milestones of maturity was recognizing our biological drives and having self-control and awareness in this area.

Also emotional, love, and other forms of attachment work just like that a attachment. Helps get through the stressful times. This why I believe the number one reasons for devorce are what they are.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.

You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...

Yep you're stoned.

And your running out of excuses for your double standard.

"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."

And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?

I guess you finally realized where your reading comprehension failed you.
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.

You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...

Yep you're stoned.

And your running out of excuses for your double standard.

"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."

And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?
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The stigma of bisexual men stemmed from the idea that gay men spread HIV.

Women would not date bisexual men because they were afraid that their partners would sleep with gay men and they would contract HIV unknowingly.

@LadyNeptune

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=14619297

https://www.hivplusmag.com/stigma/2019/9/19/bisexual-men-arent-spreading-hiv

“I have had women suggest that because I am bisexual, I spread HIV,” says Khafre Kujichagulia Abif, a 49-year-old married bisexual man, writer, and Atlanta-based activist who is HIV-positive. (Abif is also a contributor to Plus magazine).

The theory is so pervasive that many bisexual activists can’t even recall the first time they heard it: Bisexual men are responsible for "infecting" their female partners with HIV. In essence, the theory argues, men who have sex with men and women must have a higher likelihood of contracting HIV, and because they have sex with women, they are more likely to infect heterosexual women, who would otherwise be unlikely to come into contact with the virus."

#notallwomen

Assuming all women are biphobic because of a handful of encounters is silly. Stop shaming people for their sexual and dating preferences Mr. I will fuck men but not date them.

This is a common occurrence in the LGBTQ community. I figured you'd know this given how you flaunt your gay bff on dxp all the time.

Homophobia is a common occurrence.

But should gay men assume all straight men are homophobic because they encountered a few that are? Of course not.

And lol @ flaunt. I have a friends who are gay. Get over it.

You assumed all Trump supporters were stupid and racist. Funny how your logic changes depending on whom you're talking to.

Show me where I said ALL trump supporters are both stupid and racists. Mr. I have the receipts.

You are set on victimizing yourself here out of boredom, butt hurt, idk.

But if you won't address why you view men as good enough to fuck but not good enough to date then you really have no footing to shame women for not wanting to date bisexual men.

Pot meet kettle.

I've already addressed why I don't date men. I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection.

I don't really care.

My point is the reason someone chooses to date or not date someone is personal and subjective.

Unless someone comes out and says, point blank, I choose not to date bisexual men because I fear getting HIV/aids from them... you look like an ass asserting that ALL women have this reasoning.

Rejection is a universal human condition. We all have our dose of it.

Read this convo back..

I said the stigma STEMMED FROM.. Not that all women have that reasoning. Hence why I asked if you were stoned.

By that same logic how can you know you will NEVER develop an emotional relationship with any man. Is that not a stigma STEMMING from the limited encounters you've experienced with SOME men, not all.

No. That's me understanding MY sexuality. It has nothing to do with any perceived behavior, whether ignorant or educated, of another individual.

Keep trying though.

You literally said that it had nothing to do with sex/sexuality but rather emotional connection.

Read this convo back...

Yep you're stoned.

And your running out of excuses for your double standard.

"I have no emotional connection to men and sex is not that important to me. However.. I do want a life partner, and for me.. that needs to include an emotional connection."

And that has to do with their behavior, how exactly?

@LadyNeptune
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if you define attachment as an emotion then that one is fundamental.

and for 2 is: d. Bisexual man

Emotion has little to do with commitment. IMO

well is your opinion, but attachment theory between adults is a subject with a considerable literature, all human bonding is being researched in a variety of ways.

From what I hear from bi men (2) is the sex between 2 men are off the charts and a woman could never compete with the energy they bring to each other in a sexual relationship. I like to hear from bi women on this too.

the amount of relationships that describe "dissatisfaction" as a reason for breaking up is too much to ignore.

Can you expand on why bisexual men are less likely to be monogamous compared to straight men?
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