My boyfriend and I are always fighting and getting back together. Any advice would be helpful

Hi

I have a problem with my boyfriend. We fight a lot over stupid things and disagreements between us but we reconcile right away because our love is stronger than our fights.

Last night, for example, we had a small argument and my boyfriend didn't talk to me after that. This morning he told me to delete his number and forget about him. I thought it was over so I told him "Let's remain friends at least" and an hour later he started telling me how much he loves me and can't be without me. Now we're happy again!!!

The problem is that I don't feel secure in my relationship because we always have small fights and hours later we're happy again. I literally don't know what to expect tomorrow and if this romance will someday end. He says he doesn't see his life without me and neither can I. We're inseparable or something and I've never experienced this with other men. It's easy for me to break up and move on but I my boyfriend and I can't let go of each other. Even if we do, we'll be back together the next day.

How can I have more security in my relationship?

Just stop breaking up! It’s normal to go through lulls and frustration, but you gotta ride the waves.

Or don't get back together, and all your problems are solved. 😄

the fact that you guys are still together despite all the fights proves that both of you still love each other. Isnt that like the biggest security. You can fight and fight and fight and still be together...

Work on your communication.

We've been together for 4 months. It's not that we split but our fights make it seem like we're going to break up. It's weird because usually with other guys I would NOT give second chances. I'm proud and hate begging for love but with this guy is different. I forgive him easily because I just can't see myself without him.

I'm usually immature and can't forgive over small things. I'm surprised that I'm still with him in spite of everything.

Have I found my true love— What's the best way to make it last—

Leaving is the best thing you will ever do

If he says something you don't like, instead of disagreeing and turning around with you do this and you do that, actually consider his point of view. Figure out how to communicate what you want in a way that doesn't involve blaming, passive agression or defensiveness. Fights are usually just srupid misunderstandings so ask for clarification and try to understand what he's saying instead of getting mad or upset about it. Learn to communicate with each

if u keep breaking up over stupid things maybe you both have big egos. that’s where the change needs to happen otherwise youre just incompatible.

maybe u both need to be more comfortable with your alone time so u don’t cling to uncertain hope (“true love”)

Break it off forever you idiots.