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@midatbest don’t give bunny any ideas he’s at peace now with dating out of his life as I’m sure he realizes he’s in his late 30s now and aging so he should just serve the country and travel with his unmarried Virgo sister

didn't y'all have a falling out back then cause he accused you of flirting with him and fondling the neck of a bottle suggestively?

jokes aside, if both people are straight or one is unattractive I guess this kind of tension plays out differently, bullying and such
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yeah I've had high attraction to people I thought were physically grotesque (green relationships actually where they were more invested)

but if I'm honest with myself the attraction at the beginning referred to how at-ease I was with and intrigued by their personality presentation
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@midatbest don’t give bunny any ideas he’s at peace now with dating out of his life as I’m sure he realizes he’s in his late 30s now and aging so he should just serve the country and travel with his unmarried Virgo sister
didn't y'all have a falling out back then cause he accused you of flirting with him and fondling the neck of a bottle suggestively?
jokes aside, if both people are straight or one is unattractive I guess this kind of tension plays out differently, bullying and such
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That was such a long time ago

It’s cool beans now

See @midatbest if I can forgive le bunny you can let go of all the baron danglars from shekel gate 🤣
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I used to have screenshots of topes calling me an 11/10 in that show your pic thread where my pic got 60 likes. then after shekelgate when emhendo was lying about me in comments he said "ew dude"

brianafay called me nasty

cc said I'm premature aging

Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other

topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em

smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her

impulsv said some smart shit

^I don't forgive them lol
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@midatbest don’t give bunny any ideas he’s at peace now with dating out of his life as I’m sure he realizes he’s in his late 30s now and aging so he should just serve the country and travel with his unmarried Virgo sister
didn't y'all have a falling out back then cause he accused you of flirting with him and fondling the neck of a bottle suggestively?
jokes aside, if both people are straight or one is unattractive I guess this kind of tension plays out differently, bullying and such
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That was such a long time ago
It’s cool beans now
See @midatbest if I can forgive le bunny you can let go of all the baron danglars from shekel gate 🤣
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I used to have screenshots of topes calling me an 11/10 in that show your pic thread where my pic got 60 likes. then after shekelgate when emhendo was lying about me in comments he said "ew dude"
brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
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Cc says a lot of shit 🤣
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In her face 💅
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@midatbest don’t give bunny any ideas he’s at peace now with dating out of his life as I’m sure he realizes he’s in his late 30s now and aging so he should just serve the country and travel with his unmarried Virgo sister
didn't y'all have a falling out back then cause he accused you of flirting with him and fondling the neck of a bottle suggestively?
jokes aside, if both people are straight or one is unattractive I guess this kind of tension plays out differently, bullying and such
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That was such a long time ago
It’s cool beans now
See @midatbest if I can forgive le bunny you can let go of all the baron danglars from shekel gate 🤣
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I used to have screenshots of topes calling me an 11/10 in that show your pic thread where my pic got 60 likes. then after shekelgate when emhendo was lying about me in comments he said "ew dude"
brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
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Cc says a lot of shit 🤣
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In her face 💅
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you look like a lot of russian women, but I think your real phenotype is polono-lithuanian
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@midatbest don’t give bunny any ideas he’s at peace now with dating out of his life as I’m sure he realizes he’s in his late 30s now and aging so he should just serve the country and travel with his unmarried Virgo sister
didn't y'all have a falling out back then cause he accused you of flirting with him and fondling the neck of a bottle suggestively?
jokes aside, if both people are straight or one is unattractive I guess this kind of tension plays out differently, bullying and such
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That was such a long time ago
It’s cool beans now
See @midatbest if I can forgive le bunny you can let go of all the baron danglars from shekel gate 🤣
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I used to have screenshots of topes calling me an 11/10 in that show your pic thread where my pic got 60 likes. then after shekelgate when emhendo was lying about me in comments he said "ew dude"
brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
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Cc says a lot of shit 🤣
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In her face 💅
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you look like a lot of russian women, but I think your real phenotype is polono-lithuanian
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My 23&me results suck

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I only checked it in the first place because I wanted to see if I had any African ancestry to give me the bloodborne right to perform hoodoo lmao. Also wanted to see if I'm Ashkenazi (I'm not)

I appreciate your input though. Someone on TikTok said I look like a Slavic hooker
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@cuddlebear what’s my synastry with dory like? 05 07 84
where are you born and time
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Quezon City Philippines 5:02 PM
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this synastry is some soulmate tier shit
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Is he my liv Tyler?!
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it's more of a dracula vibe



corny, but I like that they showed haematids like if it was floating in the absinth
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol

Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book

She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.

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Omg I get email ads for sagging jowls and I know they're judging my pics or watching me through my camera 💀 gave me a whole complex
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book
She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.

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Omg I get email ads for sagging jowls and I know they're judging my pics or watching me through my camera 💀 gave me a whole complex
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I also noticed you now have a protruding pot belly during your short lived failed stripper days that would put an African to shame. I know aging is a sensitive topic for fire moons, prematurely nonetheless.
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@midatbest don’t give bunny any ideas he’s at peace now with dating out of his life as I’m sure he realizes he’s in his late 30s now and aging so he should just serve the country and travel with his unmarried Virgo sister
didn't y'all have a falling out back then cause he accused you of flirting with him and fondling the neck of a bottle suggestively?
jokes aside, if both people are straight or one is unattractive I guess this kind of tension plays out differently, bullying and such
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That was such a long time ago
It’s cool beans now
See @midatbest if I can forgive le bunny you can let go of all the baron danglars from shekel gate 🤣
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I used to have screenshots of topes calling me an 11/10 in that show your pic thread where my pic got 60 likes. then after shekelgate when emhendo was lying about me in comments he said "ew dude"
brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
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Those were brutal times. Can I ask, why you won’t forgive them, but you’ll forgive hydorah?

Also, I’ve been thinking about asking kittens for a truce even though he started it and should be the one asking. Do you think he’ll agree to it?
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kittens? yeah, hes bipolar about liking and disliking users, you just have to ride it out

you missed my apology/explanation thread last year. hydorah hid the shekelgate thread, he was clearly just hurt, and the following year he nominated me again for prettiest face although its obviously far from true but was incredibly appreciated by me, just caring and sweet actions in general. some other green flags in his posts that I saw over the years that kind of showed him validating something he had criticized me for in the thread. nice and genuine guy who found me interesting. unlike those people

the reason why I know all this is because I would routinely search for mentions of me over the yrs, whether I was doxed etc
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book
She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.
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Omg I get email ads for sagging jowls and I know they're judging my pics or watching me through my camera 💀 gave me a whole complex
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I also noticed you now have a protruding pot belly during your short lived failed stripper days that would put an African to shame. I know aging is a sensitive topic for fire moons, prematurely nonetheless.
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most definitely. I eat a lot of bacon. although I will say, that insult is really clutching at straws and evident of personal dislike. nitpicking. my body is no worse than almost any other woman's here. I'm in incredible shape.
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@kimboslice the trajectory of our synergy:

-I joined as ACsquarepluto, I believe you followed me and named me as one of your favorite posters. You definitely liked many of my posts and were in my inbox asking for readings.

-after a while you probably noticed my pathetic pickmeism and Aqua worship, deleted your PeanutPunch account, started kind of throwing shade, said I look like Kristen Wiig (echoed by ands and stardust nowadays so I shouldn't be offended)

-I come back as dragonhorsecvck and you just kind of made references to shekelgate, thinking I listen to vintage rock to entice old men, said DXP was the highlight of my life. nothing too bad

-now im back as midatbest and you were nice at times until you figured out I fucked up on discord, which is fair, but its something I admitted to myself, I have no victims here nor any criminal history as people can check on my local casenet. I'm open about my struggles and I dont think I come off as super full of my looks, so idk what's the point of beating that horse when it's already down.

must be your gemini placements. im not mean to you, nor anyone to deserve all the attention though. im not a danger to anyone in the world, especially here, and you know that. you're hurting an easy target fr.
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book
She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.
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Omg I get email ads for sagging jowls and I know they're judging my pics or watching me through my camera 💀 gave me a whole complex
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I also noticed you now have a protruding pot belly during your short lived failed stripper days that would put an African to shame. I know aging is a sensitive topic for fire moons, prematurely nonetheless.
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most definitely. I eat a lot of bacon. although I will say, that insult is really clutching at straws and evident of personal dislike. nitpicking. my body is no worse than almost any other woman's here. I'm in incredible shape.
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You’re skinny in a drug abuser kind of way, definitely not fit for 32. Your pot belly ruins your posture. Awkward shape. I’m sure it’s a combination of no exercise, lighting meth over a flaming barrel or a poor diet. That life style can catch up to someone in unflattering ways. Could be genetics too, how hot is your sister? Wonder if she is aging prematurely as well.

Can’t really say anything about the other women here, haven’t seen them in fishnets. Your case is just more apparent and easy to critique.
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My life is nothing but exercise lol. Can't drive. Lifted for a living for 2 years. You're blind if you ain't noticed my arms and overall muscle tone. I don't use meth. Hatin weirdo. Also grew up in ballet= excellent posture. I wonder what 32 year old stunning women are in your circle
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@kimboslice the trajectory of our synergy:

-I joined as ACsquarepluto, I believe you followed me and named me as one of your favorite posters. You definitely liked many of my posts and were in my inbox asking for readings.

-after a while you probably noticed my pathetic pickmeism and Aqua worship, deleted your PeanutPunch account, started kind of throwing shade, said I look like Kristen Wiig (echoed by ands and stardust nowadays so I shouldn't be offended)

-I come back as dragonhorsecvck and you just kind of made references to shekelgate, thinking I listen to vintage rock to entice old men, said DXP was the highlight of my life. nothing too bad

-now im back as midatbest and you were nice at times until you figured out I fucked up on discord, which is fair, but its something I admitted to myself, I have no victims here nor any criminal history as people can check on my local casenet. I'm open about my struggles and I dont think I come off as super full of my looks, so idk what's the point of beating that horse when it's already down.

must be your gemini placements. im not mean to you, nor anyone to deserve all the attention though. im not a danger to anyone in the world, especially here, and you know that. you're hurting an easy target fr.


Haha oh wow forgot about my PeanutPunch username, don’t even think you were around those days. Never noticed you 😅

As for the rest I’m not reading alladat.

Sorry that happened or I’m happy for you I guess.
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book
She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.
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Omg I get email ads for sagging jowls and I know they're judging my pics or watching me through my camera 💀 gave me a whole complex
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I also noticed you now have a protruding pot belly during your short lived failed stripper days that would put an African to shame. I know aging is a sensitive topic for fire moons, prematurely nonetheless.
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most definitely. I eat a lot of bacon. although I will say, that insult is really clutching at straws and evident of personal dislike. nitpicking. my body is no worse than almost any other woman's here. I'm in incredible shape.
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You’re skinny in a drug abuser kind of way, definitely not fit for 32. Your pot belly ruins your posture. Awkward shape. I’m sure it’s a combination of no exercise, lighting meth over a flaming barrel or a poor diet. That life style can catch up to someone in unflattering ways. Could be genetics too, how hot is your sister? Wonder if she is aging prematurely as well.
Can’t really say anything about the other women here, haven’t seen them in fishnets. Your case is just more apparent and easy to critique.
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My life is nothing but exercise lol. Can't drive. Lifted for a living for 2 years. You're blind if you ain't noticed my arms and overall muscle tone. I don't use meth. Hatin weirdo
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I knew this would be a sensitive topic for you, you can add me to your burn book just don’t pull an Adam Lanza on us.
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@kimboslice this is my sister

She was 27, I was 29
If it convinces you I don't just sit, eat, and smoke meth every day 🤷‍♀️

What the hell happened to you between age 29-32

I think I remember the reading you gave me back when I was 20. Might have been on my Dewritos account. You were innocuously offering readings and I queued up for one.
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I might just be unphotogenic man. I often hear I look like a dog by women who see my pic then they meet me and change their mind. Also I stopped taking ephedrine to stay skinny around 31, started suffering from tachycardia, gained 20 lbs

The difference between you and the others in my burn book is you are fixated w me, and I suspect it's a racially charged thing, like I'm some spoiled white bitch who deserves worse treatment

Count on me to an hero within 13 years when my cat dies. I'm out when she is. Also, are you planning on being a dad when you're this cruel?
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@kimboslice this is my sister

She was 27, I was 29
If it convinces you I don't just sit, eat, and smoke meth every day 🤷‍♀️
What the hell happened to you between age 29-32
I think I remember the reading you gave me back when I was 20. Might have been on my Dewritos account. You were innocuously offering readings and I queued up for one.
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I might just be unphotogenic man. I often hear I look like a dog by women who see my pic then they meet me and change my mind. Also I stopped taking ephedrine to stay skinny around 31, started suffering from trachycardia, gained 20 lbs
The difference between you and the others in my burn book is you are fixated w me, and I suspect it's a racially charged thing, like I'm some spoiled white bitch who deserves worse treatment
Count on me to an hero within 13 years when my cat dies. I'm out when she is. Also, are you planning on being a dad when you're this cruel?
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You've got the feminine hate thing going on. My coworker had it and I didn't really see it as obvious with anyone else although there are degrees to it.

It's basically you are partially blind to the feminine energies at play, which is why they gang up on you. Feminine can also be men. When you grasp your feminine power then they settle down. It's like that Simpsons episode where Lisa discovers how bullies react by pheromones, except it's not pheromones, it's energy.
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thank you so much man. I know❤️
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@kimboslice this is my sister

She was 27, I was 29
If it convinces you I don't just sit, eat, and smoke meth every day 🤷‍♀️
What the hell happened to you between age 29-32
I think I remember the reading you gave me back when I was 20. Might have been on my Dewritos account. You were innocuously offering readings and I queued up for one.
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I might just be unphotogenic man. I often hear I look like a dog by women who see my pic then they meet me and change my mind. Also I stopped taking ephedrine to stay skinny around 31, started suffering from tachycardia, gained 20 lbs
The difference between you and the others in my burn book is you are fixated w me, and I suspect it's a racially charged thing, like I'm some spoiled white bitch who deserves worse treatment
Count on me to an hero within 13 years when my cat dies. I'm out when she is. Also, are you planning on being a dad when you're this cruel?
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Kimbo already has a Leo daughter 🤣

When he was a wee cancer man he was like I miss muh daughter so much in the comments section 😭
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I don’t have kids 🤣

Why did you also lie about not carrying a phone around, how do you take pics of Rocket or gym equipment you never use? lmao
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@kimboslice this is my sister

She was 27, I was 29
If it convinces you I don't just sit, eat, and smoke meth every day 🤷‍♀️
What the hell happened to you between age 29-32
I think I remember the reading you gave me back when I was 20. Might have been on my Dewritos account. You were innocuously offering readings and I queued up for one.
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I might just be unphotogenic man. I often hear I look like a dog by women who see my pic then they meet me and change my mind. Also I stopped taking ephedrine to stay skinny around 31, started suffering from tachycardia, gained 20 lbs
The difference between you and the others in my burn book is you are fixated w me, and I suspect it's a racially charged thing, like I'm some spoiled white bitch who deserves worse treatment
Count on me to an hero within 13 years when my cat dies. I'm out when she is. Also, are you planning on being a dad when you're this cruel?
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Kimbo already has a Leo daughter 🤣

When he was a wee cancer man he was like I miss muh daughter so much in the comments section 😭
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https://geneu.xyz/phenotype that was the phenotype-ai assignation site btw I think
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@kimboslice this is my sister

She was 27, I was 29
If it convinces you I don't just sit, eat, and smoke meth every day 🤷‍♀️
What the hell happened to you between age 29-32
I think I remember the reading you gave me back when I was 20. Might have been on my Dewritos account. You were innocuously offering readings and I queued up for one.
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I might just be unphotogenic man. I often hear I look like a dog by women who see my pic then they meet me and change my mind. Also I stopped taking ephedrine to stay skinny around 31, started suffering from tachycardia, gained 20 lbs
The difference between you and the others in my burn book is you are fixated w me, and I suspect it's a racially charged thing, like I'm some spoiled white bitch who deserves worse treatment
Count on me to an hero within 13 years when my cat dies. I'm out when she is. Also, are you planning on being a dad when you're this cruel?
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Kimbo already has a Leo daughter 🤣
When he was a wee cancer man he was like I miss muh daughter so much in the comments section 😭
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https://geneu.xyz/phenotype that was the phenotype-ai assignation site btw I think
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I think it only works on whites 😅

I’m getting a lot of Native American and that is definitely not mine 🤣

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omg 🤣🤣😂
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book
She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.
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Omg I get email ads for sagging jowls and I know they're judging my pics or watching me through my camera 💀 gave me a whole complex
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I also noticed you now have a protruding pot belly during your short lived failed stripper days that would put an African to shame. I know aging is a sensitive topic for fire moons, prematurely nonetheless.
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most definitely. I eat a lot of bacon. although I will say, that insult is really clutching at straws and evident of personal dislike. nitpicking. my body is no worse than almost any other woman's here. I'm in incredible shape.
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not to mention both of y'all live in the country with some of the highest rate of obesity in the world lmaooo. Your body is extremely good and that "protrusion" looks like a uterus bulge because your midsection is really lean. And if you're 5'1 that means you're much leaner since more height allows for more excess weight to go unnoticed. Not glazing here, just being objective

y'all gotta run an attraction score so we can be sure
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I know you're not glazing, he's praised worse-looking people and is criticizing my looks because of personality flaws he finds in me such as racism and my recent hobby of sneak-dissing inactive female users. but some of them he doesn't realize are still active. he shared some valid critiques and opinions he may truly hold, but looking like I don't exercise is insane 🤣

my diet is trash though and I've noticed the less you eat/fat you have, the more fit you look. when I started weight training a ton and even running (putting serious stress on my muscles), my hunger spiked and I looked fatter and somewhat more sloppy, ironically. ands said a long time ago that otter-bodies do nothing but nap lol. it is also heartbreaking that all of his critiques can be attributed to my weight gain following quitting a nearly decade-long habit of taking asthma medication as an appetite suppressant which destroyed my heart, and now he thinks I fell off and look like a slovenly methhead. upon quitting the meth ingredient 💀 what people want to see is the opposite of what they say. classic case of saying "what a disciplined and healthy" anorexic person. this is what I asked for as someone who likes to cam to feel attractive, and share my "art" but insists on dms closed. I need thicker skin

I can't get sevenreflections to open but Kimbo was born between June 26th-29th 1996. I would go with the 27th. I'm curious to see the findings because his fascination with me goes back to my spawn-time here. usually the sign preceding its semisextile has the upper hand. for now I shall look at our composite
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kimbo & I have multiple planet opposition & square in our composite (as well as a grand trine)

astrowin synastry score is -26.59. using my timeanddate secondary-ascendant method, if he were born on the 27th in the central standard time zone, his rx Venus and Mars would fall in the 7th and his sun would fall in the 8th. Makes a lot of sense. Mars in 7th is combative with others. Karens, of sorts
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im June 13 1992 btw, cloudy, in case you're curious. id ask yours but I can probably figure it out from your age and placements

That’s a monkey year right? You’re Teena’s age too
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yeah, when I came Squishy was using June 12 1992 as her birthday of choice due to desirable placements and I remember in my first birthday thread she tried to drown it off the front page by spam-responding to other threads because I think I had shared too much information about my chart conflictual with her claims. then nano resurrected my thread like the angel she is. I feel nothing like my chart and am a sham of a fiery gemini 🤣
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im June 13 1992 btw, cloudy, in case you're curious. id ask yours but I can probably figure it out from your age and placements
That’s a monkey year right? You’re Teena’s age too
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yeah, when I came Squishy was using June 12 1992 as her birthday of choice due to desirable placements and I remember in my first birthday thread she tried to drown it off the front page by spam-responding to other threads because I think I had shared too much information about my chart conflictual with her claims. then nano resurrected my thread like the angel she is. I feel nothing like my chart and am a sham of a fiery gemini 🤣
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When did squishy leave? 🤣 was she chased out with pitch forks?
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it was before shekelgate but I think she came back in seleukos' dms several times
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kimbo & I have multiple planet opposition & square in our composite (as well as a grand trine)

astrowin synastry score is -26.59. using my timeanddate secondary-ascendant method, if he were born on the 27th in the central standard time zone, his rx Venus and Mars would fall in the 7th and his sun would fall in the 8th. Makes a lot of sense. Mars in 7th is combative with others. Karens, of sorts


You’re obsessed 🥀

My birthday isn’t on the 27th, your presumptuous nature got ahead of you yet again. I got a free chart reading out of this sperg out session. Basset Hounds really are amusing dogs lol.
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Did you @midatbest @cuddlebear notice any patterns when it comes to couples in open relationships relating to this method?


Ive always felt like theres something off in the dynamics of those types of relationships, energetically. Im wondering if the numbers reflect that too


The throuple I was part of last fall where she booted me from the dynamic.

Him & her (primary couple):

Green/Madonna relationship, he is a victim

total connections- 19

his investment- 42.11%

hers- 31.58%

mutual- 26.32%

his attraction- 2.51

hers- 2.52

her self-esteem is higher than his.

him x me:

Purple/peacock relationship

total connections- 17

his investment- 35.29%

mine- 52.94%

mutual- 11.76%

my attraction- 2.47

his- 2.74

his self-esteem is higher.

her x me:

blue/I walk her like a dog

total connections- 16

her investment- 50%

mine- 31.25%

mutual- 18.75%

both of our attractions- 3.98

her self-esteem is higher.

a different throuple of sorts I got roped into back in 2019-

him x her:

red/green relationship

total connections- 31

his investment- 75%

hers- 16.67%

mutual- 8.33%

his attraction- 3.29%

hers- 3.34%

Her self-esteem is higher.

Him x me:

Red relationship, I am the victim

His investment- 17.65%

Mine- 64.71%

Mutual- 17.65%

His attraction- 3.11

Mine- 3.21

My self-esteem is higher.

Her x me:

Can't find it yet but she was green with me with higher self-esteem

My old friend and his gorgeous ex-wife who roped him into allowing her a harem:

total connections-25

his investment- 60%

hers- 20%

mutual- 20%

his attraction- 3.06

hers- 3.28

her self-esteem is higher
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kimbo & I have multiple planet opposition & square in our composite (as well as a grand trine)
astrowin synastry score is -26.59. using my timeanddate secondary-ascendant method, if he were born on the 27th in the central standard time zone, his rx Venus and Mars would fall in the 7th and his sun would fall in the 8th. Makes a lot of sense. Mars in 7th is combative with others. Karens, of sorts

You’re obsessed 🥀

My birthday isn’t on the 27th, your presumptuous nature got ahead of you yet again. I got a free chart reading out of this sperg out session. Basset Hounds really are amusing dogs lol.
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Talk to someone you like

a little birdie told me you're halal, did my talk of bacon trigger you last night?

(also by being such a know-it-all, you played right into our hands and weeded your birthday possibilities from 4 to 3. in fact, that might narrow it down to just the 28th)
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kimbo & I have multiple planet opposition & square in our composite (as well as a grand trine)
astrowin synastry score is -26.59. using my timeanddate secondary-ascendant method, if he were born on the 27th in the central standard time zone, his rx Venus and Mars would fall in the 7th and his sun would fall in the 8th. Makes a lot of sense. Mars in 7th is combative with others. Karens, of sorts
You’re obsessed 🥀
My birthday isn’t on the 27th, your presumptuous nature got ahead of you yet again. I got a free chart reading out of this sperg out session. Basset Hounds really are amusing dogs lol.
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Talk to someone you like

a little birdie told me you're halal, did my talk of bacon trigger you last night?
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I thought that Basset Hounds were supposed to have a good sense of smell, you keep sniffing out the wrong information 😆

We can blame it on whichever pill you forgot to take this morning.
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@KimboSlice just give mid your birthday jfc it’s not that serious no one is that good at astrology here anyway 🤷‍♂️


Squishy, we need you back to put all of us astro laymen in our place!

he probably is so smart that he fooled me into believing the 27th isn't his birthday. evidence: "I just got a free reading out of this spergfest". so I got some placements right. maybe the scorpio asc
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kimbo & I have multiple planet opposition & square in our composite (as well as a grand trine)
astrowin synastry score is -26.59. using my timeanddate secondary-ascendant method, if he were born on the 27th in the central standard time zone, his rx Venus and Mars would fall in the 7th and his sun would fall in the 8th. Makes a lot of sense. Mars in 7th is combative with others. Karens, of sorts
You’re obsessed 🥀
My birthday isn’t on the 27th, your presumptuous nature got ahead of you yet again. I got a free chart reading out of this sperg out session. Basset Hounds really are amusing dogs lol.
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Talk to someone you like
a little birdie told me you're halal, did my talk of bacon trigger you last night?
(also by being such a know-it-all, you played right into our hands and weeded your birthday possibilities from 4 to 3. in fact, that might narrow it down to just the 28th)
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if you knew his moon sign then you're really quite smart since there's only two possibilities and he just excluded one of them

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his moon is Scorpio but im unsure if he could've been born late on the 26th or early on the 29th. but it could be he's pulling a chess move and the 27th or 28th is in fact his birthday. I wouldn't doubt it
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@KimboSlice just give mid your birthday jfc it’s not that serious no one is that good at astrology here anyway 🤷‍♂️
Squishy, we need you back to put all of us astro laymen in our place!
he probably is so smart that he fooled me into believing the 27th is his birthday. evidence: "I just got a free reading out of this spergfest". so I got some placements right. maybe the scorpio asc
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Idk even I question how well squishy can read and if it really even is accurate

I think sun signs is good enough knowledge maybe moon sac deeper than that idk

It’s a decent party trick when I have to (the horror) have conversations with my buddies’ wives
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no way, you gotta go full iQ on them. gotta watch out for Chiron conjunctions, nemesis, Juno, swindle, echo, Aphrodite, everything on mychristianpsychic really 💀
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@KimboSlice just give mid your birthday jfc it’s not that serious no one is that good at astrology here anyway 🤷‍♂️


Some people are secretive and don't like to reveal stuff like that. I made the biggest mistake of a lifetime giving away my info because it only came back to me as an attack when yall girl emhendo did just that to me. How and why would anybody wanna try to align and make amends with someone like emhendo the violent criminal is absolutely beyond my shadow of a goddamn belief.
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@KimboSlice just give mid your birthday jfc it’s not that serious no one is that good at astrology here anyway 🤷‍♂️
Squishy, we need you back to put all of us astro laymen in our place!
he probably is so smart that he fooled me into believing the 27th is his birthday. evidence: "I just got a free reading out of this spergfest". so I got some placements right. maybe the scorpio asc
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Idk even I question how well squishy can read and if it really even is accurate
I think sun signs is good enough knowledge maybe moon sac deeper than that idk
It’s a decent party trick when I have to (the horror) have conversations with my buddies’ wives
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no way, you gotta go full iQ on them. gotta watch out for Chiron conjunctions, nemesis, Juno, swindle, echo, Aphrodite, everything on mychristianpsychic really 💀
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Ami Anne I remember her 🤣
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She is hilarious. I got a "who's the better romantic option" reading from her in '22 about the sexy Pisces Josh I posted who aka_xy fell in love with and the 5'2 Scorpio dude. (Neither were gonna pick me regardless) But what was hilarious was how wet she got over that same pic of Josh.

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Even Scorpio catching strays 💀

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Then I paid for another reading about this hot 52 year old taken Taurus coworker I liked and she never got back to me again 💀
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Also I stopped taking ephedrine to stay skinny around 31

Probably the best thing you did, you were unhealthy slim and I think that had an effect on your mental health. You sound a lot more healthy now than back in the time.

I noticed your belly in the stripper pics, but I attributed it to your short size. It's the first thing I noticed in your youtube vid, I saw the signs and Iwas like "damn was she always that short?" You're very short and therefore you have a healthy body for a person that size. Having a slim tummy is unrealistic at that height. Your abdomen is short vertically, you have a similar body type to the little asian leo girl who posts on the front page.

The jawls don't appear in all the pics, and it's better to have an expressive face that make jawls when you laugh than try to look like a boring barbie doll.
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Also I stopped taking ephedrine to stay skinny around 31

Probably the best thing you did, you were unhealthy slim and I think that had an effect on your mental health. You sound a lot more healthy now than back in the time.

I noticed your belly in the stripper pics, but I attributed it to your short size. It's the first thing I noticed in your youtube vid, I saw the signs and Iwas like "damn was she always that short?" You're very short and therefore you have a healthy body for a person that size. Having a slim tummy is unrealistic at that height. Your abdomen is short vertically, you have a similar body type to the little asian leo girl who posts on the front page.

The jawls don't appear in all the pics, and it's better to have an expressive face that make jawls when you laugh than try to look like a boring barbie doll.
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Thank you. I like what I look like too. It's nice just living and not counting calories. We all love you Dory. Thanks for joining our playpen and passing out binkies ♥️

Although im intimidated by that word "haematids" tbh
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol
Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book
She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.
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Omg I get email ads for sagging jowls and I know they're judging my pics or watching me through my camera 💀 gave me a whole complex
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I also noticed you now have a protruding pot belly during your short lived failed stripper days that would put an African to shame. I know aging is a sensitive topic for fire moons, prematurely nonetheless.
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most definitely. I eat a lot of bacon. although I will say, that insult is really clutching at straws and evident of personal dislike. nitpicking. my body is no worse than almost any other woman's here. I'm in incredible shape.
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None of those things he said about you are true, he’s just being rude
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brianafay called me nasty
cc said I'm premature aging
Arielle was on a warpath, she didn't say anything unforgivable but im sure we mutually dislike each other
topaz acted like I was making sock puppet accounts and so did saggurl, again not a huge deal but I wouldn't trust em
smidge said I talk weird, not a big deal but she's been kinda snobby toward me. rom said I'm weird as fuck. true but fuck her
impulsv said some smart shit
^I don't forgive them lol

Haha CC, legendary geeker in my book

She was right tbh, your face aged a lot more now. Your face hangs down like that cartoon dog Droopy.

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No it doesn’t
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@cuddlebear, were you by chance born on a Monday?

I'm not telling but you'll probably deduce everything from my sevenreflections scores
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thanks for the clue, blue

I won't bother you with this process anymore but it finally clicked that Mean Man was likely born the 26th, so we're the green dynamic that I hate, his attraction is 2.74 and his investment is almost double mine. & he's my victim

you and I are purple (from my end- if you were the patriarch) as im sure you've already realized. with high attraction, and I'm your victim

dont let Sancho deter you from believing. but your thread can take over now, valuable summations there
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If you're in a Madonna relationship, the power holder should have higher self-esteem than the other partner.
why?
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A woman won't suffer being considered the ugly housewife if her self-esteem is higher
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makes sense


do men make green women their housewives because the challenge is to make her more invested than he is?


and the challenge with purple women is to make her more attracted than he is?

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I don't think men who get into green relationships are very good people. esp if her self-esteem is lower. they want to be the trophy, have an "easy life", they believe strongly in conventional gender dynamics

the purple, I think they're just kind of thinking with their dicks, I don't mind being objectified myself (if compliments are involved)-- but another theory I have is that often people don't mind being used (to a degree) until the user ends the arrangement.

more socially savvy people than I understand men's need for challenge, my brain simply does not compute
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If you're in a Madonna relationship, the power holder should have higher self-esteem than the other partner.
why?
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A woman won't suffer being considered the ugly housewife if her self-esteem is higher
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makes sense

do men make green women their housewives because the challenge is to make her more invested than he is?

and the challenge with purple women is to make her more attracted than he is?
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I don't think men who get into green relationships are very good people. esp if her self-esteem is lower. they want to be the trophy, have an "easy life", they believe strongly in conventional gender dynamics

the purple, I think they're just kind of thinking with their dicks, I don't mind being objectified myself (if compliments are involved)-- but another theory I have is that often people don't mind being used (to a degree) until the user ends the arrangement.

more socially savvy people than I understand men's need for challenge, my brain simply does not compute
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it's strange because I think purple fits conventional gender dynamics way more than green, the woman is cherished for her looks and the man is being invested in (housework/pregnancy) as he provides for his trophy
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I was prepared to ramble about how lots of men carry religious sexual shame, ergo the madonna-whore complex: they think the hot woman who gives him a boner is a whore who can't be wifed. & was gonna illustrate the most egregious example of a young farm wife who hit the wall hard in 6 years (from a Louis Malle documentary of Glencoe, WS in the aftermath of WW2- hilarious movie, worth a watch. They have a theatre play called "Much Ado About Corn". But then I processed the couple & it turns out dynamics have nothing to do with objective attractiveness, only his perception (or his boner from her taking charge, in this case.)

Before:

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After:

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I think I was kinda harsh because she's still cute & wrinkle-free, just gained lots of weight & got a mullet. But the hilarious thing is that her cute Aqua husband (she's a Leo) is a year younger, a full point lower self-esteem, and they have the blue relationship 😂

That reminded me that although I kinda shipped you with Aquas, they are some of the most difficult to date & it's no wonder you've been hurt quite a bit if you deal with them a lot. To keep them as friends, you must have immense patience & nearly no emotional needs. Checks out for your luminaries I suppose.