Old way women vs today

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I am a foreign to US but for 25 years proud citizen of USA and wouldn’t have it another way if I had to!

So you know...I treat my man old fashion way when women had been...another mother who take care of their babies after they grow up!

I am seriously giving it a thought...maybe NOT having a woman in man’s life making them being an assholes because they are feeling...not having breakfast in bed like a...Disaster!!!

Lol
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Posted by Gemitati

So you know...I treat my man old fashion way when women had been...another mother who take care of their babies after they grow up!


You also complained about your ex husband treating you like a nurse, maid, and cook for the last few decades of your marriage. Now you are training the Aries to view you the same.

So the uninvited lecture on why your better than younger women when it comes to your relationship approach is pretty funny tbh.
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I am a foreign to US but for 25 years proud citizen of USA and wouldn’t have it another way if I had to!

So you know...I treat my man old fashion way when women had been...another mother who take care of their babies after they grow up!

I am seriously giving it a thought...maybe NOT having a woman in man’s life making them being an assholes because they are feeling...not having breakfast in bed like a...Disaster!!!

Lol

let´s discuss ......eastern european vs. western world women .....pros/cons.

go!
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I don’t think it’s even that anymore. Women everywhere becoming less motherly and more ‘he’ll make his own breakfast’ type.

So kids are seeing it and vicious circle started.

At the beginning Aries gave me a speech...

Do you think it’s EASY after we did everything ourselves - woman comes in and makes me coffee and walking the dog and cooking a full meal?

I was laughing saying that they have to live in this ‘horror’ for a few days until I am gone...

He still never asks me for the refill of his coffee. So I have to watch! 😂

HOWEVER my exes new wife from Wasyern Europe doesn’t do SHIT! And he is suffering.

What I am saying is that there is no more of where women from. It’s just what they are feeling.

My aunt had never been very cooked.

I was 12 and she was 28 when I thought her how to deal with while chicken...

My point is...people need to show care to their partners. And I don’t want to hear ‘I did and he still am asshole’...

It’s not because you cooked - it’s because you married an asshole! 🤷‍♀️
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Posted by Gemitati

So you know...I treat my man old fashion way when women had been...another mother who take care of their babies after they grow up!

You also complained about your ex husband treating you like a nurse, maid, and cook for the last few decades of your marriage. Now you are training the Aries to view you the same.

So the uninvited lecture on why your better than younger women when it comes to your relationship approach is pretty funny tbh.
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You just like to shit all over everything like a dog who isn’t housebroken at age it’s too late to train...

I loved to spoil my ex. He just took it all 100% in without resiprocating anything back. No appreciation whatsoever.

Do you get it, dumbass?

Aries will never become this because he is the MAN and he isn’t lazy ass. But he is sure enjoying LTC...
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Gemitati, you crack me up as always 🙂

I love shopping, cooking, preparing the table, serving food and spoiling someone! What I don't love, is to be taken advantage of. To give, and never to receive the same in return. And I'm not satisfied with flashes in the pan either...from a man who "isn't lazy", so he offers to do something once in a blue moon.

There is a simple solution: taking turns. I'd buy the food, cook, wash and clean for exactly one week. He'd be doing the same for the next week. I don't mind if he's feeding me cheese on toast, as long as he makes an effort. I can tolerate some degree of disorder as well.

I think this is the best way if you want to spoil and be spoilt. To appreciate and be appreciated.



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Posted by Gemitati

I am a foreign to US but for 25 years proud citizen of USA and wouldn’t have it another way if I had to!

So you know...I treat my man old fashion way when women had been...another mother who take care of their babies after they grow up!

I am seriously giving it a thought...maybe NOT having a woman in man’s life making them being an assholes because they are feeling...not having breakfast in bed like a...Disaster!!!

Lol

let´s discuss ......eastern european vs. western world women .....pros/cons.

go!

I don’t think it’s even that anymore. Women everywhere becoming less motherly and more ‘he’ll make his own breakfast’ type.

So kids are seeing it and vicious circle started.

At the beginning Aries gave me a speech...

Do you think it’s EASY after we did everything ourselves - woman comes in and makes me coffee and walking the dog and cooking a full meal?

I was laughing saying that they have to live in this ‘horror’ for a few days until I am gone...

He still never asks me for the refill of his coffee. So I have to watch! 😂

HOWEVER my exes new wife from Wasyern Europe doesn’t do SHIT! And he is suffering.

What I am saying is that there is no more of where women from. It’s just what they are feeling.

My aunt had never been very cooked.

I was 12 and she was 28 when I thought her how to deal with while chicken...

My point is...people need to show care to their partners. And I don’t want to hear ‘I did and he still am asshole’...

It’s not because you cooked - it’s because you married an asshole! 🤷‍♀️

hahaha. was mr. aries a bit surprised 😄 well, if you are not used to being cared for (spoiled), can you imagine what thoughts might be going through that persons head?

i understand your points, though. and personally, i don´t mind structures, hierarchies or roles - as they are an important foundation in a relationship. i see difficulties arise if it´s very one-sided; or taken advantage of. everything should be in balance. and the roles clearly defined. and it´s what both partners want.

i was raised eastern european style .....and as much as there is to praise about it, there is just as much to criticize.

imo political correctness and social media and all those other influences has brought on a lot of the confusion that is going on nowdays in relationships. also kids growing up in a single parent household with no immediate family around them.

i could go on and on ....
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Exactly! As long as I do my part I don’t want to beg for man to do his.

There is funny and true joke I love

It’s no need to remind man every 6 months to do what he promised...lol

To add to this...but he wants to eat every day!

😂😂😂