angelo72
@angelo72
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Give her an ultimatum: her phone or yourself.
I think you need to ask her if you can see her phone. Offer her yours to view as well. When something doesn't smell right, it stinks.
What made you even want to marry her in the first place since clearly she never finished grieving properly? I refuse to believe people suddenly change after marriage. I’m sure you had a really good idea of what you were getting yourself into.
Would you try couples counseling/marriage guidance?
Did your wife have any bereavement counselling after her husband passed?
Did your wife have any bereavement counselling after her husband passed?
Posted by 51R60Posted by Mission2Venus
Love will make you do crazy things
The things I do for love.
More of a fixed venus trope though.click to expand
What was your former username?
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
What was your courtship like? How long before you two got married?
She needs to get grief counseling if she’s still avoiding anything that reminds her of death. That’s unhealthy, it’s a natural part of life that everyone has to come to terms with at some point. She is missing her opportunity for growth by avoidance. And you are enabling her by not recommending therapy of some sort. Sure it’s thoughtful in a way that you let her choose the movies, but it’s just flat out enabling her to continue a behavior that’s holding her back. It doesn’t sound like y’all communicate very well at all on top of that.
I know grief and I also know being pushed into a relationship before you are ready. I know I flat out said I didn’t know when I’d be over my ex, and yet was still pushed into a relationship that ended up dying because we could not meet each other’s needs. You both sound unhappy so it’s time for space and/or couple’s therapy! If you don’t spend much time apart, try giving her some time and space to miss you!! And even if you don’t have much time together, the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder could help you if you left her to her own devices for a while. I think it would provide clarity if nothing else.
I know grief and I also know being pushed into a relationship before you are ready. I know I flat out said I didn’t know when I’d be over my ex, and yet was still pushed into a relationship that ended up dying because we could not meet each other’s needs. You both sound unhappy so it’s time for space and/or couple’s therapy! If you don’t spend much time apart, try giving her some time and space to miss you!! And even if you don’t have much time together, the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder could help you if you left her to her own devices for a while. I think it would provide clarity if nothing else.
Posted by WarAngel
The relationship is effectively over. She didn't grieve properly and is still hanging on to issues that are deeply embedded which technically aren't your problem to fix.
She's not going to change, until she wants to do it herself. Pushing her from your end is not going to do it.
As one man speaking to another, find your balls and walk out that door. The only hang up I have is whether you have biological children with this woman, that's the case, report back here first.
She's effectively dragging you behind her by your own dick.
100% what I wanted to say but then saw you said it!
Get packing! She is not interested anymore. And most likely having somebody to text and talk in the he shower.
The end!
Posted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminist liberal ass all over! Yeah! He is guilty. And she is a saint! No! She has somebody else.
Posted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminist liberal ass all over! Yeah! He is guilty. And she is a saint! No! She has somebody else.click to expand
You are a cheater, so of course you think she has somebody else cause that's how you act in your own interpersonal relationships. Own it. Don't project onto others.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminist liberal ass all over! Yeah! He is guilty. And she is a saint! No! She has somebody else.
You are a cheater, so of course you think she has somebody else cause that's how you act in your own interpersonal relationships. Own it. Don't project onto others.click to expand
And you are single oversit…spinster…whatever else…so YOU believe people in being single is ‘choice’! 😂😂😂😂
Posted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminist liberal ass all over! Yeah! He is guilty. And she is a saint! No! She has somebody else.
You are a cheater, so of course you think she has somebody else cause that's how you act in your own interpersonal relationships. Own it. Don't project onto others.
And you are single oversit…spinster…whatever else…so YOU believe people in being single is ‘choice’! 😂😂😂😂click to expand
I believe that serial cheaters always project and accuse others of cheating. Projection is strong with them. Thanks for strengthening that belief.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminist liberal ass all over! Yeah! He is guilty. And she is a saint! No! She has somebody else.
You are a cheater, so of course you think she has somebody else cause that's how you act in your own interpersonal relationships. Own it. Don't project onto others.
And you are single oversit…spinster…whatever else…so YOU believe people in being single is ‘choice’! 😂😂😂😂
I believe that serial cheaters always project and accuse others of cheating. Projection is strong with them. Thanks for strengthening that belief.click to expand
Triggered? Yes. And like the one who had BEEN married I CAN give an opinion on relationships better than someone who can NOT make some friggin man who is t even rich TO PROPOSE!
So whom are we going g to listen? Me who had been and done it all or you who is basically in the way to SPCA for more pups and kittens?
Posted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminist liberal ass all over! Yeah! He is guilty. And she is a saint! No! She has somebody else.
You are a cheater, so of course you think she has somebody else cause that's how you act in your own interpersonal relationships. Own it. Don't project onto others.
And you are single oversit…spinster…whatever else…so YOU believe people in being single is ‘choice’! 😂😂😂😂
I believe that serial cheaters always project and accuse others of cheating. Projection is strong with them. Thanks for strengthening that belief.
Triggered? Yes. And like the one who had BEEN married I CAN give an opinion on relationships better than someone who can NOT make some friggin man who is t even rich TO PROPOSE!
So whom are we going g to listen? Me who had been and done it all or you who is basically in the way to SPCA for more pups and kittens?click to expand
If having a failed marriage where you cheated for years is brag worthy to you, *slow clap.
I'm not that invested in who listens to me... another projection of yours?
Sounds like OP was the rebound guy after the death of her husband and now they are married. She probably married him so she wouldn't be lonely. Her first husband was probably the love of her life and now she's settling.
I don't think she is cheating on him physically since he hadn't mentioned her going out.... but that doesn't mean she isn't emotionally cheating on him with someone she met on the internet.
If that isn't the case then it sounds like they might need some space. I can't imagine having to work with my husband at home everyday like that and never get away from him. I'd feel like I was in prison with him as my warden. I'd probably go hide in the bathroom for an hour too.
As far as not wanting to watch things about death I completly understand that. I get triggered by certain shows about death since my sister passed away. But it hasn't even been a year for me since that happened so it's still pretty fresh.
I don't think she is cheating on him physically since he hadn't mentioned her going out.... but that doesn't mean she isn't emotionally cheating on him with someone she met on the internet.
If that isn't the case then it sounds like they might need some space. I can't imagine having to work with my husband at home everyday like that and never get away from him. I'd feel like I was in prison with him as my warden. I'd probably go hide in the bathroom for an hour too.
As far as not wanting to watch things about death I completly understand that. I get triggered by certain shows about death since my sister passed away. But it hasn't even been a year for me since that happened so it's still pretty fresh.
Posted by -CapriquariusPosted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
There is sense in that, but I also belive she needs proper grieving done, propably including therapy. I'm wondering how it happened that they got married. Did he was pushing her until it happened or she thought it would help her forget?click to expand
Aside from a footnote, op doesn't elaborate on her grief process. Assumptions aside, what he has a problem with is her using her own cell phone, length of time in the bathroom, and unwillingness to do what he wants when he wants it. All very controlling red flags and indicates deep seated insecurity at best, controlling narcissism at worst.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
I have a different take then the majority.
I think your behavior is actually pretty controlling, selfish, and clingy.
As someone who primarily works from home it can be challenging to switch from work mode to relax mode. I see nothing wrong with her wanting to spend longer in the bathroom. Your timing her showers, really? Controlling!!
She's around you all day during work, seems like she can only escape you by running to the bathroom. Reminds me of those stressed mom memes where they retreat to the toilet to cry and snack cause their kids are up their ass 24/7.
You also come off as very selfish when it comes to the tv compromise. She actually has a legit reason for avoiding watching things with death. She wants a more lighthearted vibe. But because you like that genre you are upset with her and blame the watching of reruns on her... even though you say you just want to spend time with her. Well she is spending time with you but it still isn't enough. Where is the empathy?
You seem controlling af to be mad that she is on her phone during the week evening hours. Especially if she uses her phone for work, that is truly some cray cray. Is it born out of insecurity?
Personally I think it is unreasonable for you to be so hyper focused on her phone use. It seems unreasonable to me that you are pushing activities on her when she communicates she is not interested.
Your relationship would benefit from giving each other some space. Working from home, around each other 24/7, timing her in the bathroom, getting mad she doesn't want to watch what you want and do what you want, creeping on her texting, starting arguments with her cause she's not in the mood to fuck. This is all really toxic behavior on your part. Your actively pushing her away by being clingy, controlling, and unreasonable.
Get a hobby. Make some friends. Have a life outside of your relationship. She will be much more attracted to you when your not so needy and dependent on her for attention. I am tired just reading this. I can only imagine how she feels.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminist liberal ass all over! Yeah! He is guilty. And she is a saint! No! She has somebody else.
You are a cheater, so of course you think she has somebody else cause that's how you act in your own interpersonal relationships. Own it. Don't project onto others.
And you are single oversit…spinster…whatever else…so YOU believe people in being single is ‘choice’! 😂😂😂😂
I believe that serial cheaters always project and accuse others of cheating. Projection is strong with them. Thanks for strengthening that belief.
Triggered? Yes. And like the one who had BEEN married I CAN give an opinion on relationships better than someone who can NOT make some friggin man who is t even rich TO PROPOSE!
So whom are we going g to listen? Me who had been and done it all or you who is basically in the way to SPCA for more pups and kittens?
If having a failed marriage where you cheated for years is brag worthy to you, *slow clap.
I'm not that invested in who listens to me... another projection of yours?click to expand
And you are investing so much energy into my past - it is definitely an indication of you being hurt and unable letting go. If you ever walked on your soul mate mating with another soul - maybe it is because you weren’t giving him what he was looking for and not because he was a serial cheater. But no! You are cold but great (in your head) Right?
Just forget your past and move on.
You KNOW I am going to be giving my opinion because women who texting a lot to other people and spending time mourning their past all have one thing in common. They aren’t giving shit about their men. You know that! So quit airing my dirty laundry that had been washed and in order when yours are packed and sit there and every time you pass that pile - it hit you in the face and you can’t LET GO and remembering me. Stop. It’s old and annoying. Throw YOUR PAST AWAY!
I am totally ok with mine. So is everybody around me. You? Not so much.
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A man proposed to a woman.
Woman say no
Man proses to another woman
Woman says yes
It was messy and uncomfortable to watch.
However, I’m sure there have been countless times where I was not someone’s first choice fo
What are you giving your SO this year? I don’t celebrate it but I still want to make it special. Share yours if you got/did anything, looking for ideas lol.
I want to know am I in the wrong for dating the Aries while being in a friendship with the Gemini as this is what the gemini told me we was she told me for months we aren't together when I was trying to confirm a relationship with her and we are only frie
Is it normal for Aquarius to be hot and cold then just be so on point for a couple days it’s surprising? When I say that I mean communication on point and starting to show more emotions. Can anyone elaborate?
Let me preface this post with the fact that I am NOT cheating on or with anyone. I am currently single, but just questioning and possibly reevaluating my view on monogamy. I grew up being given a black and white view on it: cheating is bad and the cheater
So I had a message on new years eve from the Gem two text messages and 1 message on WhatsApp obviously hoping I got the message.
She text me saying Happy New year, 😊 I wish you the best year for 2022.
So I replied saying thank you same to ypu but my p
I got into a thing with my friend. Long story short. I dropped him as a friend for my betterment to over him because I have feelings and he is seeing someone. I didn’t like how things ended. Should I try to reach out? Partly some of this is my fault. I do
It’s Christmas Eve here in Australia 6:30pm, we’ll hit Christmas before most of you.
Have an awesome Christmas Day with your families, stay safe and hope you all get what you wish for.
🎅🎁💝
So me and a buddy are going to a new years party in LA. He mentioned it in passing to a female friend who then wanted to come along with another of her friends and share a room with us.
I've only met the female friend a few times. But she does drink an
I have been married for roughly 3 years now.
It has been challenging on many fronts.
My wife lost her husband a few years before we met so I know that she is still working through some things.
Over the course of the 3 years one of the main challenges for me is time spent together.
She does not like to talk with me about life as it relates to us so I never really know "where she is."
We both work from home and our pattern has become work, eat, watch some TV and then sleep.
I would push to have other activities such as movies, outdoor activities, etc.
Most of the time she would make excuses or flat out say she wasn't interested.
A recurring theme with her is that she doesn't like anything reminding of her of death so action movies, movies revolving around the death, death of a loved one, hostpitals, comedy with language, etc are not options.
So I've gotten to the point that I just ask her what she wants to watch because my choices tend fall in those categories.
The only issue with that is she has a hard time finding anything so we up just watching whatever is on, typically reruns, and then the whole day gets away from us.
Our physical relationship has also been non-existant with multiple arguments resulting.
The main point being that she doesn't seem to want to make time for us.
So I finally kind of felt pressure to try and see what was going on behind the scenes.
I decided to go through the Verizon bill because she spends a lot of time on her cell phone.
What I noticed is that all throughout the day she is sending/receiving texts.
Some are to a family member, but there are many that I can't identify.
The times of texts some time go well into the evening when I would typically be expecting her to devote some time to us.
And she has a pattern where she will go into the bathroom to take a shower, but will spend approx. an hour on her phone prior to actually taking the shower.
When I question her on the long period of time she says she mainly likes to relax her mind during that time.
I guess my issue is that we don't really have a life beyond the few hours of TV after work and even then she is reaching for the phone...
I feel like this is not right that all this time is spent texting and then what I get at the end of the day is someone who is just ready to go to sleep.
I'm trying to practice patience given what she has been through, but I'm struggling with what is reasonable to expect from the marriage.