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Would you give a cheater another chance?
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Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
Yay or nay?
That nasty bitch cheated on you on top of being nasty bitch and you want to give her a chance?
Why don’t you let her do anything and buy yourself costume of a doormat? Post pictures.
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
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That’s clearly a cheaters way of passing the Buck… never your fault, always your partners!
Yay or nay?
That nasty bitch cheated on you on top of being nasty bitch and you want to give her a chance?
Why don’t you let her do anything and buy yourself costume of a doormat? Post pictures.
You're also being a nasty bitch in making that comment.
If the poor dude was cheated on, you could be a bit fkn kinder or just simply keep nasty comments to yourself. Daymn
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First of all I AM a Nasty Bitch and I didn’t take it as my name because I wanted you to figure it out yourself.
Second of all ‘dude’ seemed overly confident, smart and self sufficient dude. He did say he went to dump the bitch for being such and IF he told the truth - cheating or not should not had made a difference because he WENT TO DUMP HER!
So what happened?
And you know what? That hurt feelings is for soy boys, metros and gender confused.
If you think he needs advocate - you don’t do him a favor. Now he is cheated on weak ass who need a public defender dude. Not cool.
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
That’s clearly a cheaters way of passing the Buck… never your fault, always your partners!
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Not true. But it is very narrow minded to say it’s one person’s fault.
We used to ask a kid who was hit: what did you DO MTFKER - BEFORE - they hit you? See! No you don’t!
And to all ass hurt who had been cheated on!
Men: women don’t cheat on men who satisfy us!
Women: men don’t cheat on women IF they KNOW it’ll be a first and last time! They cheat IF they know you won’t stay after you find out!
Surprised?
P.S. you aren’t as good in a sack as you THINK you are.
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
That’s clearly a cheaters way of passing the Buck… never your fault, always your partners!
Not true. But it is very narrow minded to say it’s one person’s fault.
We used to ask a kid who was hit: what did you DO MTFKER - BEFORE - they hit you? See! No you don’t!
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You’re just looking for an argument… seen you around the boards. You can play on your own… I’m not hitting back.
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
That’s clearly a cheaters way of passing the Buck… never your fault, always your partners!
Not true. But it is very narrow minded to say it’s one person’s fault.
We used to ask a kid who was hit: what did you DO MTFKER - BEFORE - they hit you? See! No you don’t!
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Actually… this smells of Gemitate!
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
That’s clearly a cheaters way of passing the Buck… never your fault, always your partners!
Not true. But it is very narrow minded to say it’s one person’s fault.
We used to ask a kid who was hit: what did you DO MTFKER - BEFORE - they hit you? See! No you don’t!
You’re just looking for an argument… seen you around the boards. You can play on your own… I’m not hitting back.
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Yeah. Can’t stand hit - get off my ass - or is it the kitchen? 🤔
P.S. if you could argue - you would. Don’t kid yourself.
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
That’s clearly a cheaters way of passing the Buck… never your fault, always your partners!
Not true. But it is very narrow minded to say it’s one person’s fault.
We used to ask a kid who was hit: what did you DO MTFKER - BEFORE - they hit you? See! No you don’t!
Actually… this smells of Gemitate!
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You’ve missed the memo? Hi! That’s meee👻
No i wouldn’t
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
I was very curious of your age and was surprised it didn’t take much to figure out 😛
no i probably wouldn’t but if there’s like no concrete evidence of them cheating, then you really can’t do much about it...:/
i’d rather just get dumped than be cheated on though lol i told s/o many years ago “if you ever want to cheat, please just dump me first lol”
Yay or nay?
That nasty bitch cheated on you on top of being nasty bitch and you want to give her a chance?
Why don’t you let her do anything and buy yourself costume of a doormat? Post pictures.
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—? Im single and this was a random question.
Depends.
If the cheater is a wife then first divorce her and then fuck her like a stupid doll later.
If the cheater is not a wife, then keep fucking her like a stupid doll.
In any case, there is no going back.
Yay or nay?
That nasty bitch cheated on you on top of being nasty bitch and you want to give her a chance?
Why don’t you let her do anything and buy yourself costume of a doormat? Post pictures.
—? Im single and this was a random question.
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Well, last night you announcing going to break up with no good bitch.
So it was only logical to assume you made ‘follow up’ post. If it’s not about you - I am very glad because you sounded much smarter than that. Right? 👍
Yay or nay?
That nasty bitch cheated on you on top of being nasty bitch and you want to give her a chance?
Why don’t you let her do anything and buy yourself costume of a doormat? Post pictures.
—? Im single and this was a random question.
Well, last night you announcing going to break up with no good bitch.
So it was only logical to assume you made ‘follow up’ post. If it’s not about you - I am very glad because you sounded much smarter than that. Right? 👍
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Wasnt last night it was a couple nights ago. We wasnt dating we was friends with benefits and she wanted more. Imma end it there cuz tbh you on some other shit now. But thats expected on the internet. But jesus you on 10
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
I was very curious of your age and was surprised it didn’t take much to figure out 😛
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I am curious to know why you are so curious about me? 🥰
No I definitely wouldn't. I know how it feels to be cheated on. I've done the cheating with a leo girl for a cancer many years ago. Of course you can imagine what happen after getting caught cheating. Imma let you guess. As for me cheating my greedy ass wanted all both of them.
Depends.
If the cheater is a wife then first divorce her and then fuck her like a stupid doll later.
If the cheater is not a wife, then keep fucking her like a stupid doll.
In any case, there is no going back.
Spoken like a true Capricorn gentleman.
No. I wouldnt necessarily hate them though. Then again it all depends. If I wasn't giving her attention or fucking her anymore I couldn't really blame her for cheating. If I felt like I was doing everything in my power to make her happy and secure then she cheated, I might lose control of the situation.
No. I wouldnt necessarily hate them though. Then again it all depends. If I wasn't giving her attention or fucking her anymore I couldn't really blame her for cheating. If I felt like I was doing everything in my power to make her happy and secure then she cheated, I might lose control of the situation.
Is there ever a scenario when a Leo guy would hate you?
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
I was very curious of your age and was surprised it didn’t take much to figure out 😛
I am curious to know why you are so curious about me? 🥰
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You’re a Gemini with a Leo moon, naturally your presence is loud and I like knowing age ranges of posters when reading their posts/insights. You’re just a few years younger than my mommy xD
No. I wouldnt necessarily hate them though. Then again it all depends. If I wasn't giving her attention or fucking her anymore I couldn't really blame her for cheating. If I felt like I was doing everything in my power to make her happy and secure then she cheated, I might lose control of the situation.
Is there ever a scenario when a Leo guy would hate you?
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I'm sure if I fucked a Leo mans wife or something he wouldn't be too happy about it. Leo men go one of two ways. Either they leave quietly because the drama isn't worth looking bad, or they lose control and make themselves look bad lol.
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
I was very curious of your age and was surprised it didn’t take much to figure out 😛
I am curious to know why you are so curious about me? 🥰
You’re a Gemini with a Leo moon, naturally your presence is loud and I like knowing age ranges of posters when reading their posts/insights. You’re just a few years younger than my mommy xD
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That’s wonderful to know 🤗
I am here for you anytime babes and if your dad decides to go polygamy route, I can recommend someone for him 😜
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
I was very curious of your age and was surprised it didn’t take much to figure out 😛
I am curious to know why you are so curious about me? 🥰
You’re a Gemini with a Leo moon, naturally your presence is loud and I like knowing age ranges of posters when reading their posts/insights. You’re just a few years younger than my mommy xD
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Naturally, my presence commands attention. Something you obvious lack but desperately need, despite supposedly being happily married xD
No. I wouldnt necessarily hate them though. Then again it all depends. If I wasn't giving her attention or fucking her anymore I couldn't really blame her for cheating. If I felt like I was doing everything in my power to make her happy and secure then she cheated, I might lose control of the situation.
Is there ever a scenario when a Leo guy would hate you?
I'm sure if I fucked a Leo mans wife or something he wouldn't be too happy about it. Leo men go one of two ways. Either they leave quietly because the drama isn't worth looking bad, or they lose control and make themselves look bad lol.
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I would love to see that second scenario 😛
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
I was very curious of your age and was surprised it didn’t take much to figure out 😛
I am curious to know why you are so curious about me? 🥰
You’re a Gemini with a Leo moon, naturally your presence is loud and I like knowing age ranges of posters when reading their posts/insights. You’re just a few years younger than my mommy xD
That’s wonderful to know 🤗
I am here for you anytime babes and if your dad decides to go polygamy route, I can recommend someone for him 😜
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I wouldn’t mind a cool dxp mama to take me under her wings 😁
Hahahah God no, that neighbor sent my parents MORE FOOD yesterday. They are starting to seriously concern me *shifty eyes*
Never.
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
I was very curious of your age and was surprised it didn’t take much to figure out 😛
I am curious to know why you are so curious about me? 🥰
You’re a Gemini with a Leo moon, naturally your presence is loud and I like knowing age ranges of posters when reading their posts/insights. You’re just a few years younger than my mommy xD
Naturally, my presence commands attention. Something you obvious lack but desperately need, despite supposedly being happily married xD
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Whoa huge tone change from your previous reply. First of all, yes I’m grateful for being happily married. In fact I’m so beyond blessed that sometimes I honestly don’t know what to do with myself. I get really overwhelmed. It’s really weird. It’s like getting something that you want but then retreating from it. I am working on that because I don’t want to turn it into self-sabotage. Nearly majority of the time I use dxp is when I’m wasting time at work looking for distractions. Thanks for your curiosity, let me know if you want more insight!
No… cheaters don’t change and that’s from experience and being cheated on creates a whole lot of insecurities that are now part of the relationship
That’s BS. You always forget that some people cheat because their partners neglecting them.
Not often but sometimes cheating is way of staying together to get kids trough school and pay mortgage off.
That’s clearly a cheaters way of passing the Buck… never your fault, always your partners!
Not true. But it is very narrow minded to say it’s one person’s fault.
We used to ask a kid who was hit: what did you DO MTFKER - BEFORE - they hit you? See! No you don’t!
Actually… this smells of Gemitate!
You’ve missed the memo? Hi! That’s meee👻
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Ha not here enough to see it… but your style is exclusively yours. Welcome back… I’m sure you’re going to ruffle some more feathers and entertain others 😝
i did and he just cheated again
hoe gonna hoe
i did and he just cheated again
hoe gonna hoe
What you did was stupid.
i did and he just cheated again
hoe gonna hoe
What you did was stupid.
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i know
it sucks
I can forgive. But second chances are earned, not freely given.
Depends on what the act is and what I consider cheating.
Full on sex with kissing- nope.
Depends on what the act is and what I consider cheating.
Full on sex with kissing- nope.
Eating is cheating.
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If a guy can get a stranger to go down on him, sometimes I think of it as something a "hoe" would do lol
My man eating a woman is definitely cheating because it's in his mouth, but for some reason I will give a hall pass and try again if his dick landed in a girls mouth that he randomly met and had no more communication with.
I expect the same kindness in return if mine lands in someone's mouth after I find out 😆
Nah. Cheating is like a rot that once in, eats away and hollows out the relationship. That said, I feel like people that have been together for a long time probably need to talk about ways to keep it interesting.
I believe everyone deserves a second chance but it’s a no for infidelity. Unfortunately, if trust and respect is hit, then it’s gonna take a lot of time and effort to recover that. Life is too short and time too precious to waste on recovering something as fragile as trust that your partner risked just like that.
No. I wouldnt necessarily hate them though. Then again it all depends. If I wasn't giving her attention or fucking her anymore I couldn't really blame her for cheating. If I felt like I was doing everything in my power to make her happy and secure then she cheated, I might lose control of the situation.
Is there ever a scenario when a Leo guy would hate you?
I'm sure if I fucked a Leo mans wife or something he wouldn't be too happy about it. Leo men go one of two ways. Either they leave quietly because the drama isn't worth looking bad, or they lose control and make themselves look bad lol.
I would love to see that second scenario 😛
You want to see Leo man’s drama . Trust me it is too much to handle
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I’d still love to see it. Because they are like a slow burning fire, almost too controlled.
Have you witnessed it? If you did, how was it?
I came dangerously close. Once, only once.
No. I wouldnt necessarily hate them though. Then again it all depends. If I wasn't giving her attention or fucking her anymore I couldn't really blame her for cheating. If I felt like I was doing everything in my power to make her happy and secure then she cheated, I might lose control of the situation.
Is there ever a scenario when a Leo guy would hate you?
I'm sure if I fucked a Leo mans wife or something he wouldn't be too happy about it. Leo men go one of two ways. Either they leave quietly because the drama isn't worth looking bad, or they lose control and make themselves look bad lol.
I would love to see that second scenario 😛
You want to see Leo man’s drama . Trust me it is too much to handle
I’d still love to see it. Because they are like a slow burning fire, almost too controlled.
Have you witnessed it? If you did, how was it?
I came dangerously close. Once, only once.
Yes I have seen lot of it. It’s like a volcano and only way out is running far away. In my case even trying to calm did not work , forget about giving back. I did both . The very next day it’s calm . I now stay away , next day I give it back or in instalments 😂. Sometimes when it’s hurt me too much then I stop talking till he doesn’t start to calm my lasting anger .
One thing is for sure when that drama mode is on , no amount of logical reasoning with them works.
I have learned to appreciate peace so much more after being with a Leo man.
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Are you still with one?
No. I wouldnt necessarily hate them though. Then again it all depends. If I wasn't giving her attention or fucking her anymore I couldn't really blame her for cheating. If I felt like I was doing everything in my power to make her happy and secure then she cheated, I might lose control of the situation.
Is there ever a scenario when a Leo guy would hate you?
I'm sure if I fucked a Leo mans wife or something he wouldn't be too happy about it. Leo men go one of two ways. Either they leave quietly because the drama isn't worth looking bad, or they lose control and make themselves look bad lol.
I would love to see that second scenario 😛
You want to see Leo man’s drama . Trust me it is too much to handle
I’d still love to see it. Because they are like a slow burning fire, almost too controlled.
Have you witnessed it? If you did, how was it?
I came dangerously close. Once, only once.
Yes I have seen lot of it. It’s like a volcano and only way out is running far away. In my case even trying to calm did not work , forget about giving back. I did both . The very next day it’s calm . I now stay away , next day I give it back or in instalments 😂. Sometimes when it’s hurt me too much then I stop talking till he doesn’t start to calm my lasting anger .
One thing is for sure when that drama mode is on , no amount of logical reasoning with them works.
I have learned to appreciate peace so much more after being with a Leo man.
Are you still with one?
Yes married to him . With him since 2009 (including dating him )
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The father of your child?
How does it affect your child? I grew up with a volatile fire sign father....it made me very nervous. I still cant be around anger. You must have the Patience of a saint, or in your case a Capricorn 😃.
I just couldn’t live that way....
Is he getting any help....anger management or therapy? I
wish my dad had .... i was terrified of his volcanic temper, such an unhealthy and horrible atmosphere for a child to live in 😞
Is he getting any help....anger management or therapy? I
wish my dad had .... i was terrified of his volcanic temper, such an unhealthy and horrible atmosphere for a child to live in 😞
I am actually surprised how sometime what we write is read it differently. ( disadvantage of not face to face interaction) because I wrote that with lighter thought in my head 😄. He doesn’t have anger issues.
He is quite a nice guy with stable , intelligent head on his shoulders. He is a very good father too. In fact he has been good with kids even before becoming a father.
I was so jealous of him when we first got together because everyone loved him as he is so amazing with people and I was the bitchy one 😖(but then that’s the trend of my life . People tend to like me more with time. )
When I spoke about drama I was talking more about reaction toward things . That reaction is not volatile necessarily.
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I understood you perfectly and I agree 100% about Leo men and anger. It’s not that type of a crazy, abusive anger. My Leo has NEVER, ever said a bad word to me or about me. I suffered insults and rage from Aries men, revenge and psychotic behavior from Scorpio men and mean and hurtful things from Cancer men. But Leo? No. Even after the worst fights and breakups, he was always super cool about it!
They are liked by almost everyone, they are charming and charismatic. They are a natural and great friends to have. They care too much about people and their own reputation to ruin it. It is not in their blood to be angry and mean. My Leo ex had capricorn mars so he controlled his anger quite well. Maybe there are angry Leos out there, but I don’t know any. Usually they are happy-go-lucky people. A ray of sunshine in the room 🌞
If anyone had a temper, that was me. I have a moon and mars in Leo ♌️ plus Gemini duality ♊️
Maybe? It would depend. The young me would say hell no, but the older me says maybe.
Quite the opposite for me, I wouldn't even forgive an insta text to another woman now. I was too forgiving in the past that led me to be walked on.
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This is interesting. I was unforgiving in my past and that lead to hurt feelings, unreasonably high expectations and lot of sleepless nights. Always worrying about that stuff.
These days I think guys have to worry about me doing that stuff, rather than other way around! Geminis you know, lol 😛
Is he getting any help....anger management or therapy? I
wish my dad had .... i was terrified of his volcanic temper, such an unhealthy and horrible atmosphere for a child to live in 😞
I am actually surprised how sometime what we write is read differently. ( disadvantage of not face to face interaction) because I wrote that with lighter thought in my head 😄. He doesn’t have anger issues.
He is quite a nice guy with stable , intelligent head on his shoulders. He is a very good father too. In fact he has been good with kids even before becoming a father.
I was so jealous of him when we first got together because everyone loved him as he is so amazing with people and I was the bitchy one 😖(but then that’s the trend of my life . People tend to like me more with time. )
When I spoke about drama I was talking more about reaction toward things . That reaction is not volatile necessarily.
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Sorry but when I read what you wrote “sometimes when it hurts me too much” and “volcanic”, I found that worrying...but you seem to have a handle on things
My Cap mum always made excuses for my dad’s scary outbursts and it always felt like she was minimizing his behaviour. Like with you, it hurt me and it carried on until I reached adulthood when I challenged him.
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Yay or nay?