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People should never take a relationship seriously (Page 2)
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Posted by ramfishtwins
Posted by ianthefish
Posted by ramfishtwins
Posted by ianthefish
Posted by spica
Posted by ianthefish
Posted by spica
More like, getting tired of not being able to get out of a relationship that sucks.
why cant you get out of a relationship? he got you chained to the bed? 😄
Tsk tsk...
i was actually serious about my question.... not the chained up part, that was just for dramatic humor...
if you dont want to answer thats fine too..
I think I understand what she's saying. I'm in a similar situation. When you are with someone for so long and invested so much, it's hard to let go and start new. Throw in the fact that you still love them...
Maybe that's not what she's saying, but that's what I'm saying!
do you stay or do you go? how long is so long?
My so long is 10 years. It's really hard to know what's best to do.
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Yes, ten years, huh? Wow..
Wow is right...
It's a tough situation. I was 18 when we first started dating. So, that's why I can completely relate to your original post.
I would say 25. But your on point.
The principle of lust isnt hard to understand do what u feel......feel until the end...
The principle of lust is burned into ur mind do what u want do until u find....love 🙂
20's are the best time to fall in love with a soulmate. People in their twenties don't have loads of baggage and hang ups about exes. If youre sitting moping around about someone then you need to move on. But if youre in a loving relationship then enjoy it. What's the point of putting the perfect love off until a certain age?
Posted by cappy~go~luckytoo
20's are the best time to fall in love with a soulmate. People in their twenties don't have loads of baggage and hang ups about exes. If youre sitting moping around about someone then you need to move on. But if youre in a loving relationship then enjoy it. What's the point of putting the perfect love off until a certain age?
This is great as long as you are aware MOST people change from their early twenties to their late twenties and into their thirties. Who you and your mate were at say 23 will most likely not be who you are at age 30. If you can grow and change together in harmony, than great. If not, it can be a very difficult and confusion transition. I'm a different person at 28 then I was at 18 when my husband and I first fell in love. I think people have illusions if they think they will always have the same type of love and be the same type of person year after year. Also, there is NO perfect love.
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What ranfishtwins said is pretty spot on.
Plus said person is my soulmate. It's close to impossible to let go of your soulmate; like an infinity curve (x-y axis). If I manage to let go of him, I think I have defied destiny.