Psychology of relationship patterns.

A quick video on human behavior and the brain in short summaries. I know the root of most problems people post about on here can be identified in these statements made. See how many of these you can relate too🙃

The robot voice made this video really difficult to get through.

Posted by GenXgem

Here are some tips how to keep a man satisfied:

1.) keep him fed

2.) give good head/good sex/never say no to him

3.) don’t talk too much

I’m sure if I did all of the above, 99% issues of my own relationship “issues” would be immediately solved and he would live happily ever after. Why give $ 300 per hour to some psychologist? 🤔

The video was not about relationship issues or keeping a man satisfied.

Posted by GenXgem

Here are some tips how to keep a man satisfied:

1.) keep him fed

2.) give good head/good sex/never say no to him

3.) don’t talk too much

I’m sure if I did all of the above, 99% issues of my own relationship “issues” would be immediately solved and he would live happily ever after. Why give $ 300 per hour to some psychologist? 🤔

It mentions and eludes to many interesting mechanics of the human brain. Through conscious awareness of said mechanics, you can change what you want to change without paying said hourly fees🙃

There was many topic mentioned in said video. The fact you latched onto that one implies you have something going on in that department.

You just ink blotted yourself dear.

Posted by GenXgem

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by GenXgem

Here are some tips how to keep a man satisfied:

1.) keep him fed

2.) give good head/good sex/never say no to him

3.) don’t talk too much

I’m sure if I did all of the above, 99% issues of my own relationship “issues” would be immediately solved and he would live happily ever after. Why give $ 300 per hour to some psychologist? 🤔

It mentions and eludes to many interesting mechanics of the human brain. Through conscious awareness of said mechanics, you can change what you want to change without paying said hourly fees🙃

There was many topic mentioned in said video. The fact you latched onto that one implies you have something going on in that department.

You just ink blotted yourself dear.

Nah, I’m good pal. I’ve functioned 40 something years the way I am and I’m sure I will never change. Whoever likes it can take me as I am and who doesn’t? Oh well. We don’t have to be friends nor lovers.

I’m sorry that I didn’t like your theory but I’m sure it may work for some people! 🙂

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Not a theory this time. It works and it's success rate depends on the motivation. Undoing and relearning patterns of behavior on your own is by no means easy.

We have a tendance to stick with what is familiar despite the effect being counter productive to our goals😁

We do this because we consider it "safe".

How does that saying go? "The devil we know..."🤣

poop magnet?

Posted by MadTwins80

I thought it was kind of interesting . Spoken in layman terms but that's not a bad thing although it gives it a bit less credence

Realising that you probably are not as good a judge of someone's emotions and motivations as you think you are is a good point and the general misunderstanding between people

Also like how you approach people who are upset/angry/sad by hearing them and not saying "at least.." and undermining/

not accepting their feelings in that way

There's someone I know who gets REALLY despondent about world issues/the environment/wars etc and I used to tell her like "never mind" , "don't worry so much about it" that kind of thing - I was actually trying to ease her but it didn't go down too well. I didn't understand why she would let her own day be ruined by what's going on in the world but now I'm learning to accept she really feels that way rather than trying to pull her out of it

I still struggle with this myself. The impulse to tackle the problem to make them feel better or cheer them up, is rather strong. Sometimes that isn't what they are wanting, rather affirmation or simply venting😑

Posted by GenXgem

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by GenXgem

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by GenXgem

Here are some tips how to keep a man satisfied:

1.) keep him fed

2.) give good head/good sex/never say no to him

3.) don’t talk too much

I’m sure if I did all of the above, 99% issues of my own relationship “issues” would be immediately solved and he would live happily ever after. Why give $ 300 per hour to some psychologist? 🤔

It mentions and eludes to many interesting mechanics of the human brain. Through conscious awareness of said mechanics, you can change what you want to change without paying said hourly fees🙃

There was many topic mentioned in said video. The fact you latched onto that one implies you have something going on in that department.

You just ink blotted yourself dear.

Nah, I’m good pal. I’ve functioned 40 something years the way I am and I’m sure I will never change. Whoever likes it can take me as I am and who doesn’t? Oh well. We don’t have to be friends nor lovers.

I’m sorry that I didn’t like your theory but I’m sure it may work for some people! 🙂

Not a theory this time. It works and it's success rate depends on the motivation. Undoing and relearning patterns of behavior on your own is by no means easy.

We have a tendance to stick with what is familiar despite the effect being counter productive to our goals😁

We do this because we consider it "safe".

How does that saying go? "The devil we know..."🤣

I have no motivation nor incentive nor desire to change. Changing my mind is going to be difficult but keep trying Mr.PhD of psychology.

People are creatures of habit and habits don’t change. Not only do we follow what is safe, we follow what is proven to work for us.

And I didn’t know what you were talking about in that last part, so I had to Google some of it. And I still don’t know 🙇‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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I just made a observation and prompted you for input.No interest in changing you. You're self aware, what you want to do is all on you.

Lets just call it curiosity. Not trying to change your mind. More like pick at it🤓

Posted by GenXgem

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by GenXgem

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by GenXgem

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by GenXgem

Here are some tips how to keep a man satisfied:

1.) keep him fed

2.) give good head/good sex/never say no to him

3.) don’t talk too much

I’m sure if I did all of the above, 99% issues of my own relationship “issues” would be immediately solved and he would live happily ever after. Why give $ 300 per hour to some psychologist? 🤔

It mentions and eludes to many interesting mechanics of the human brain. Through conscious awareness of said mechanics, you can change what you want to change without paying said hourly fees🙃

There was many topic mentioned in said video. The fact you latched onto that one implies you have something going on in that department.

You just ink blotted yourself dear.

Nah, I’m good pal. I’ve functioned 40 something years the way I am and I’m sure I will never change. Whoever likes it can take me as I am and who doesn’t? Oh well. We don’t have to be friends nor lovers.

I’m sorry that I didn’t like your theory but I’m sure it may work for some people! 🙂

Not a theory this time. It works and it's success rate depends on the motivation. Undoing and relearning patterns of behavior on your own is by no means easy.

We have a tendance to stick with what is familiar despite the effect being counter productive to our goals😁

We do this because we consider it "safe".

How does that saying go? "The devil we know..."🤣

I have no motivation nor incentive nor desire to change. Changing my mind is going to be difficult but keep trying Mr.PhD of psychology.

People are creatures of habit and habits don’t change. Not only do we follow what is safe, we follow what is proven to work for us.

And I didn’t know what you were talking about in that last part, so I had to Google some of it. And I still don’t know 🙇‍♀️🤷‍♀️

I just made a observation and prompted you for input.No interest in changing you. You're self aware, what you want to do is all on you.

Lets just call it curiosity. Not trying to change your mind. More like pick at it🤓

Fine. I will listen to it again and get back to you with less stubborn and harsh input. After all, Gemini loves to learn. Maybe I will even learn some new things. I didn’t know what ink-blotting means, I had to Google it lol!

But only because of your own non-combative and cool approach. You are disarming 😊

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😘