She broke up with me. Now she's being nosey. Feels good to be moving on.

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Man I was so in love with this girl. First person I ever thought about marriage with, kids, wanted to live together, all that good stuff.

Ex broke up with a month ago because she was tired of the arguing. Tried to get back with me 2 weeks later. Turned her away and said I was happy and moved on. I’ll admit I told kind of blew up her phone still venting about the breakup. 3 weeks ago I messaged her saying this was hard for me. Anyways had this really hot date set up last night.I snapped a video of my plate of food with the caption ‘Argentinian food’ and then you could see the hot date in the video.

A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me. Sent her a ?. She said I’m referring to your new date. Told her I’m sorry. Loved you her very much but we just couldn’t stop arguing and weren’t working. Then sent her another text saying as a precedent it isn’t wise for me to say what is or isn’t going on in my dating life.

Feels good to finally be moving on.
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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
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Hold how did OP do it on purpose? Just because you show a girl in a snap doesn’t mean anything except showing he’s moved on
because he made this post. Jus to prove to himself how he moved on. In reality looks like he got his heart broken
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So if this was one of your friends telling you this story , giving you an update on his situation you wouldn’t think he posted the snap of the girl on purpose?
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Hold how did OP do it on purpose? Just because you show a girl in a snap doesn’t mean anything except showing he’s moved on


because he made this post. Jus to prove to himself how he moved on. In reality looks like he got his heart broken
So if this was one of your friends telling you this story , giving you an update on his situation you wouldn’t think he posted the snap of the girl on purpose?


No but if he sent it to his ex thats probably on purpose. Are they friends idk, doesnt sound like op moved on

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I didn’t send it to her. We just follow each other on social media. Thanks for being the only to understand that I didn’t do it on purpose lol.
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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too

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There's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.

The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.

Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.

He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?
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dannmann1992
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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too


There's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.

The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.

Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.

He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?
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Yea I do.
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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
I couldn't agree more with this, the topic alone screams, "I'm hurt and I just want everyone to know it feels good to make her think I moved on by posting my plate of food while out on a date and being sure to accidently capture my "hot date" knowing my ex that I just professed my love to can see this. She broke up with me because she couldn't deal with the arguing so now she just has to deal with me rubbing every attempt to move on in her face."

Hopefully she blocks you on all social media, her phone and your text go straight to her spam and you run into her being real happy with someone else (not that fake crap you posted on snap.)
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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too


There's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.

The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.

Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.

He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?
Yea I do.
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Have you been looking/liking any of her stuff?

If so, are you still doing even after your last i loved you blah blah blah text?
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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
I couldn't agree more with this, the topic alone screams, "I'm hurt and I just want everyone to know it feels good to make her think I moved on by posting my plate of food while out on a date and being sure to accidently capture my "hot date" knowing my ex that I just professed my love to can see this. She broke up with me because she couldn't deal with the arguing so now she just has to deal with me rubbing every attempt to move on in her face."

Hopefully she blocks you on all social media, her phone and your text go straight to her spam and you run into her being real happy with someone else (not that fake crap you posted on snap.)
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Right. Even if he never made a post and was my friend and told me yea last time we talked a few weeks ago I said this is hard for me then he told me about the date and the snap I would still see right through it.

Post or not with real love, like they had where they talked about marriage and kids, you don’t go from that to putting another chick on social media unless you never cared for that person to begin with. So you’re left with option B) it was done on purpose. Love just doesn’t work that way in a matter of a few weeks or a month.

We didn’t need a post to know he’s spiteful and immature 😅

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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too


There's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.

The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.

Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.

He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?
Yea I do.
Have you been looking/liking any of her stuff?

If so, are you still doing even after your last i loved you blah blah blah text?

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Yea I have. I liked a post of hers a week ago.

And yes, I looked her stuff last night.
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Posted by nightowl
I hate angry posts just blindly insulting. 😂 for real. Its your freedom of choice what you put on there. He's commenting on her comment. Completely ignoring the fact that she broke up with him and wishes him well. He goes out with someone new and posts on social media. It gets her attention.

People eventually got to move on. They are not together anymore and..even then they are not getting back together. So sit down.


You clearly don't know what you're talking about. Everyone else on this thread can see through OP's bs. You have no idea if they're going to get back together or not, you're not him or her. So you sit down.
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OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too


There's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.

The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.

Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.

He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?
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Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction

immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.

(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)

she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?

then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."

manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?

this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up

if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think

OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)
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Posted by Pandora101
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction

immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.

(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)

she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?

then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."

manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?

this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up

if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think

OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)


Great insight. I think the difference between OP and the ex (based on what we know) is he is intentionally trying to hurt her in a spiteful way after she did her mea culpa. OP is taking the immaturity and hurting way overboard.

But either way it's really sad. They both still really love each other and it's obvious they *both* still want to be together (rather OP wants to admit it or not) but there's too much bullshit in the way now. I agree that'll it take months for it all to settle down. Maybe I'm just a huge believer in love but I think they'll find their way back to each other (if OP hasn't pushed away his ex for good). Love like this just isn't over in this kind of way.
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Posted by Pandora101
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction

immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.

(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)

she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?

then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."

manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?

this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up

if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think

OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)


Me

Sun: Taurus

Moon: Taurus

Venus: Cancer

Mars: Cancer

Her

Sun: Leo

Moon: Taurus

Venus: Virgo

Mars: Cancer
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Posted by Pandora101
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction

immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.

(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)

she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?

then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."

manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?

this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up

if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think

OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)


Me

Sun: Taurus

Moon: Taurus

Venus: Cancer

Mars: Cancer

Her

Sun: Leo

Moon: Taurus

Venus: Virgo

Mars: Cancer
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PayMeek_NoMind
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Posted by Pandora101
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction

immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.

(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)

she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?

then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."

manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?

this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up

if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think

OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)


I agree with part of what you are saying which is the obvious immature way they are dealing with their break-up and possible make-up. Him being spiteful is by far worst than her trying to be happy for him moving on even though she really isn't. She did say she is not happy for him to move on so I don't see how that is manipulative if she clearly stated hey im not happy you moved on but I'll try to be happy for ya since I love you that much. That's a real statement ppl feel that every day for someone they have broken up with what makes that manipulative.
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Posted by Pandora101
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction

immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.

(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)

she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?

then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."

manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?

this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up

if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think

OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)


I agree with part of what you are saying which is the obvious immature way they are dealing with their break-up and possible make-up. Him being spiteful is by far worst than her trying to be happy for him moving on even though she really isn't. She did say she is not happy for him to move on so I don't see how that is manipulative if she clearly stated hey im not happy you moved on but I'll try to be happy for ya since I love you that much. That's a real statement ppl feel that every day for someone they have broken up with what makes that manipulative.
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In some twisted way I think the reason why they're handling their breakup so poorly is because they're still so much love there between them and they both still want to be with each other-thus making it that much harder. Plus, from the sounds of it sounds like nothing truly bad happened to cause their breakup, just stupid arguments which aslo makes it really hard for a breakup.
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missmissy
@missmissy
9 Years

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Posted by LDM90
OP, I find your post funny.

Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.

Don’t be so immature OP.

Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.

You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
Plus one. I did this before
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Were you OP's shoes or the ex's shoes? Why'd you do it?

Care to share you story? This has really piqued my interest lol, plus I think maybe hearing your story might help OP since it doesn't seem like he quite gets it.
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dannmann1992
@dannmann1992
10 Years

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Posted by dannmann1992
I don’t understand why everyone keeps thinking that I want to still be with her…

Yes, I made a post, but outside of that I don’t see why you all still think I want to date her.
Go back and read my first response. That'll tell you why.

Also, it's obvious you're not interested in this girl. Time to cut bait.
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You can not be over an ex and still be interested in someone new.