dannmann1992
@dannmann1992
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Posted by nightowlSo if this was one of your friends telling you this story , giving you an update on his situation you wouldn’t think he posted the snap of the girl on purpose?Posted by vanballmoosbecause he made this post. Jus to prove to himself how he moved on. In reality looks like he got his heart broken
Hold how did OP do it on purpose? Just because you show a girl in a snap doesn’t mean anything except showing he’s moved onclick to expand
Posted by nightowlI didn’t send it to her. We just follow each other on social media. Thanks for being the only to understand that I didn’t do it on purpose lol.Posted by vanballmoosNo but if he sent it to his ex thats probably on purpose. Are they friends idk, doesnt sound like op moved onPosted by nightowlSo if this was one of your friends telling you this story , giving you an update on his situation you wouldn’t think he posted the snap of the girl on purpose?Posted by vanballmoos
Hold how did OP do it on purpose? Just because you show a girl in a snap doesn’t mean anything except showing he’s moved on
because he made this post. Jus to prove to himself how he moved on. In reality looks like he got his heart broken
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Posted by LibraMudraI enjoy your face.
Wow
Posted by LibraMudraWhat?
Wow

Posted by dannmann1992She bae.Posted by LibraMudraWhat?
Wow
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Posted by nightowlThere's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.Posted by LDM90She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
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Posted by LDM90Yea I do.Posted by nightowlThere's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.Posted by LDM90She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.
Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.
He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?click to expand
Posted by LDM90I couldn't agree more with this, the topic alone screams, "I'm hurt and I just want everyone to know it feels good to make her think I moved on by posting my plate of food while out on a date and being sure to accidently capture my "hot date" knowing my ex that I just professed my love to can see this. She broke up with me because she couldn't deal with the arguing so now she just has to deal with me rubbing every attempt to move on in her face."
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
Posted by dannmann1992Have you been looking/liking any of her stuff?Posted by LDM90Yea I do.Posted by nightowlThere's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.Posted by LDM90She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.
Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.
He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?click to expand
Posted by PayMeek_NoMindRight. Even if he never made a post and was my friend and told me yea last time we talked a few weeks ago I said this is hard for me then he told me about the date and the snap I would still see right through it.Posted by LDM90I couldn't agree more with this, the topic alone screams, "I'm hurt and I just want everyone to know it feels good to make her think I moved on by posting my plate of food while out on a date and being sure to accidently capture my "hot date" knowing my ex that I just professed my love to can see this. She broke up with me because she couldn't deal with the arguing so now she just has to deal with me rubbing every attempt to move on in her face."
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
Hopefully she blocks you on all social media, her phone and your text go straight to her spam and you run into her being real happy with someone else (not that fake crap you posted on snap.)click to expand
Posted by LDM90Yea I have. I liked a post of hers a week ago.Posted by dannmann1992Have you been looking/liking any of her stuff?Posted by LDM90Yea I do.Posted by nightowlThere's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.Posted by LDM90She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.
Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.
He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?
If so, are you still doing even after your last i loved you blah blah blah text?
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Posted by nightowlYou clearly don't know what you're talking about. Everyone else on this thread can see through OP's bs. You have no idea if they're going to get back together or not, you're not him or her. So you sit down.
I hate angry posts just blindly insulting. 😂 for real. Its your freedom of choice what you put on there. He's commenting on her comment. Completely ignoring the fact that she broke up with him and wishes him well. He goes out with someone new and posts on social media. It gets her attention.
People eventually got to move on. They are not together anymore and..even then they are not getting back together. So sit down.
Posted by LDM90+1Posted by nightowlThere's nothing wrong with posting on social media-that's what it's for. However, he is using as a tool to hurt her feelings. People who are trying to move on, and I mean genuinely move on, don't feel the need to flaunt it.Posted by LDM90She was the one who broke up with him and he just posted on social media. I dont see the problem, he trying to move on and she wished him well. You wouldnt think he would be hurt by the breakup too
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you want
The fact that he sent a ?, then responded to her, and sent her another message where he was clearly still trying to have some dialogue indicates that he's not moving on. He is trying to manipulate the situation. The ex wished him well and he decided to say 'as a precedent it's not wise to talk about what is or isn't going on im my life'.........but she didn't ask. Again, that's him still trying to have some kind of conversation.
Everyhing OP has done, from saying I'm happy I've moved on (which clearly wasn't true), then according to him 'blowing her up' with messages, to even his last messages, has been to manipulate the situation. So it wouldn't be a far stretch that he manipulated the post.
He hasn't moved on. If I put money on it he still is all on her social media even right now. Are you OP?click to expand

Posted by Pandora101Great insight. I think the difference between OP and the ex (based on what we know) is he is intentionally trying to hurt her in a spiteful way after she did her mea culpa. OP is taking the immaturity and hurting way overboard.
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction
immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.
(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)
she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?
then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."
manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?
this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up
if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think
OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)
Posted by Pandora101Me
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction
immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.
(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)
she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?
then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."
manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?
this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up
if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think
OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)
Posted by Pandora101Me
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction
immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.
(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)
she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?
then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."
manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?
this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up
if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think
OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)
Posted by FknNerd??
Okiedokie.
Posted by FknNerdSpeaking of which, could you please explain our charts? I'm still learning.Posted by dannmann1992?_?Posted by FknNerd??
Okiedokie.
I bet we'd get into an awesome fight with that chart of yours. I feel your aggression through your question marks.click to expand
Posted by Pandora101I agree with part of what you are saying which is the obvious immature way they are dealing with their break-up and possible make-up. Him being spiteful is by far worst than her trying to be happy for him moving on even though she really isn't. She did say she is not happy for him to move on so I don't see how that is manipulative if she clearly stated hey im not happy you moved on but I'll try to be happy for ya since I love you that much. That's a real statement ppl feel that every day for someone they have broken up with what makes that manipulative.
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction
immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.
(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)
she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?
then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."
manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?
this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up
if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think
OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)
Posted by PayMeek_NoMindIn some twisted way I think the reason why they're handling their breakup so poorly is because they're still so much love there between them and they both still want to be with each other-thus making it that much harder. Plus, from the sounds of it sounds like nothing truly bad happened to cause their breakup, just stupid arguments which aslo makes it really hard for a breakup.Posted by Pandora101I agree with part of what you are saying which is the obvious immature way they are dealing with their break-up and possible make-up. Him being spiteful is by far worst than her trying to be happy for him moving on even though she really isn't. She did say she is not happy for him to move on so I don't see how that is manipulative if she clearly stated hey im not happy you moved on but I'll try to be happy for ya since I love you that much. That's a real statement ppl feel that every day for someone they have broken up with what makes that manipulative.
Yeah, its obvious the OP did it on purpose. And he got a reaction
immature or not, its not worse then what she is doing.
(we dont know the whole story, so I just go but what he posted)
she broke up with him, then in 2 weeks time wanted to get back together. isnt it immature?
then, when she saw the post, she reacted "A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me."
manipulative text, evidently she is not happy for him to "moving on"..... why react if she is not interested anymore?
this situation is just very sad, both of them suffering, and doing all the things what is usual after a hard break-up (like blowing up her phone, then acting indifferent and lying about moving on, posting a provocative picture on social media) = there is really no easy way out from a very hurtful break-up
if they both still love each other, it can be maybe worked out, but not immediately.... it will take months I think
OP, what are your signs and other planets? (like moon, venus, mars...)
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Posted by DreamyboyWere you OP's shoes or the ex's shoes? Why'd you do it?Posted by LDM90Plus one. I did this before
OP, I find your post funny.
Your ex isn’t stupid and neither are we. 9.9/10 you posted that on purpose hoping she’d look at it to hurt her feelings and or illicit a response. Who says a few before it’s hard for me and blows up their ex after they say they’re “happy and moved on” (lies) then post another chick while on a date only a few weeks after all that stuff you said. If you wanted to snap your food fine, but you purposely put that girl in your snap. People who are moving on don’t flaunt it. People tend not to put another person on their social media until they’re officially together.
Don’t be so immature OP.
Then the girl wishes you well and you think she’s trying to get info out of your dating life...uhhh what? She didn’t ask for any information. Sounds like you were mad she wasn’t devasted liked you hope. Instead it backfired with her wishing you well. Then you responded to her. Someone who is really done/moved on would’ve ignored her message or said thanks you too to her well wishes.
You haven’t moved on. You’re trying to hurt her. All this pointing to you still want her. Grow some balls. Stop being immature and work it out because it’s clear that’s what you wantclick to expand
Posted by dannmann1992Go back and read my first response. That'll tell you why.
I don’t understand why everyone keeps thinking that I want to still be with her…
Yes, I made a post, but outside of that I don’t see why you all still think I want to date her.
Posted by LDM90You can not be over an ex and still be interested in someone new.Posted by dannmann1992Go back and read my first response. That'll tell you why.
I don’t understand why everyone keeps thinking that I want to still be with her…
Yes, I made a post, but outside of that I don’t see why you all still think I want to date her.
Also, it's obvious you're not interested in this girl. Time to cut bait.click to expand
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Ex broke up with a month ago because she was tired of the arguing. Tried to get back with me 2 weeks later. Turned her away and said I was happy and moved on. I’ll admit I told kind of blew up her phone still venting about the breakup. 3 weeks ago I messaged her saying this was hard for me. Anyways had this really hot date set up last night.I snapped a video of my plate of food with the caption ‘Argentinian food’ and then you could see the hot date in the video.
A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I’ve moved on but if that’s what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me. Sent her a ?. She said I’m referring to your new date. Told her I’m sorry. Loved you her very much but we just couldn’t stop arguing and weren’t working. Then sent her another text saying as a precedent it isn’t wise for me to say what is or isn’t going on in my dating life.
Feels good to finally be moving on.