Signs that he is seeing other girls than me

We been seeing each other and texting everyday for almost 2 months plus. He brought me to see his best friend and some family member too ( but not the parents )

Im just wondering if he is just seeing/texting me only or he is also doing the same to other girls. I don’t mind he text other girls casually cause I do the same too but absolutely not the same way I text him.

He been reporting to me and also sent me pic of whom he hanging out sometimes. We hang out twice a week. He just brought me to his best friend birthday celebration last night. We also always have morning and goodnight text.

What is the signs that he is seeing other girls?

Where are you from? I want to make sure we arent seeing the same guy LOL

It looks like everything is going really well. Just relax and enjoy it.

If you want to know where he stands just ask him, that normally works 😊

Posted by yw
We been seeing each other and texting everyday for almost 2 months plus. He brought me to see his best friend and some family member too ( but not the parents )

Im just wondering if he is just seeing/texting me only or he is also doing the same to other girls. I don’t mind he text other girls casually cause I do the same too but absolutely not the same way I text him.

He been reporting to me and also sent me pic of whom he hanging out sometimes. We hang out twice a week. He just brought me to his best friend birthday celebration last night. We also always have morning and goodnight text.

What is the signs that he is seeing other girls?

Ask him where the relationship is heading.

Have you discussed exclusivity? Until you do you need to assume he is talking, dating, fucking other women.

But to answer your question...

1. Only see him during the week, prime date nights (fri-sat) given to another girl.

2. Doesn't pick up your calls during certain times you KNOW he's off work. If its consistent he could be with the gf/wifee.

3. Has Tinder, POF, etc. on his phone.

Posted by Timon
Just ask him?

Thinking of maybe asking him indirectly

Posted by LadyNeptune
But to answer your question...

1. Only see him during the week, prime date nights (fri-sat) given to another girl.

2. Doesn't pick up your calls during certain times you KNOW he's off work. If its consistent he could be with the gf/wifee.

3. Has Tinder, POF, etc. on his phone.

We usually meet once at weekend, once on weekday. But thanks for you advices! 🙂

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Posted by Timon
Just ask him?

Thinking of maybe asking him indirectly

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“Just out of curiosity, how many other hoes you fuckin?” –Me to shawties I done had strong connections with

Posted by Miaou
Unless one of you locks it down..the possibility is always there...of seeing other people.

Have a talk with him...you obviously want more and maybe he does too..

I'd say meeting his friends...meeting some family of his...usually these are good signs .. 🙂

Something bothering you?

Am not sure if he is on the same page with me now, but sometimes he act like my bf. Asking me who am I going to drink with, am I still out and double texting me.

We just had a small argue last weekend as he brought me to his best friend bday party but I was quite high and being touchy and too friendly to his friend, and I also wasn’t staying nearby him.

I think I annoyed him a bit 😢

Posted by Brittnie
Where are you from? I want to make sure we arent seeing the same guy LOL

Hahaha way far from you I think. Am at Asian country. No worries 🙂

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Posted by Miaou
Unless one of you locks it down..the possibility is always there...of seeing other people.

Have a talk with him...you obviously want more and maybe he does too..

I'd say meeting his friends...meeting some family of his...usually these are good signs .. 🙂

Something bothering you?

Am not sure if he is on the same page with me now, but sometimes he act like my bf. Asking me who am I going to drink with, am I still out and double texting me.

We just had a small argue last weekend as he brought me to his best friend bday party but I was quite high and being touchy and too friendly to his friend, and I also wasn’t staying nearby him.

I think I annoyed him a bit 😢

Im sorry but you may have blown it now. Because seems to me he has reason not to trust you. You have a little argument and you grab other men?? His friend—? Sorry Honey that ain't wright

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We didn’t argue before the mess. It was after the night.

A guy who wants commitment will tell you he’s your bf because he doesn’t want anyone else to have you. Because he’s not saying that, it’s likely he is talking to other girls. And the fact that you are suspicious about it, also indicates he might be. Do tell us why you have these suspicions.

No such signs for that. Stop being paranoid to your man.

If a guy constantly leaves his phone around you/ not trying to hide anything when showing you a video or photos on it... he’s open but it’s still kinda early in the dating for you guys. Just see if he’s censoring, hiding info or what he’s saying... watch out for lame excuses and make sure you don’t let on that you are so keen to him yet.

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Posted by Miaou
Unless one of you locks it down..the possibility is always there...of seeing other people.

Have a talk with him...you obviously want more and maybe he does too..

I'd say meeting his friends...meeting some family of his...usually these are good signs .. 🙂

Something bothering you?

Am not sure if he is on the same page with me now, but sometimes he act like my bf. Asking me who am I going to drink with, am I still out and double texting me.

We just had a small argue last weekend as he brought me to his best friend bday party but I was quite high and being touchy and too friendly to his friend, and I also wasn’t staying nearby him.

I think I annoyed him a bit 😢

You're worried he's seeing other girls but you got touchy-feely with his friend? 😐

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When am drunk I like to hug ppl, no intention to do what, is like am seeing them as bro and didn’t keep a distance from them.

Posted by Lunarmaiden82
I think you are stressing this way too much. And by doing so you are creating what you don't want. Men, are not all scumbags, if you already question his loyalty then i wonder if you have trust issues or low self confidence and Honey that's never attractive. He has given you no reason to doubt him.

Taking you to family affairs is a huge thing. Don't underestimate that.

Does he bring other girls to his family? No?

Then stop it. And certainly don't ask if he is fucking other girls. It's not only rude, keep your own standards always and if you ask this so early on he might take it as if you think of him as a jerk. No man wants to hear that

I guess am way too into him and I kinda lose myself. I never act like this before. Thanks for advice, guess am gonna go one step backward and do my own thing. Is it better ?

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I think you are stressing this way too much. And by doing so you are creating what you don't want. Men, are not all scumbags, if you already question his loyalty then i wonder if you have trust issues or low self confidence and Honey that's never attractive. He has given you no reason to doubt him.

Taking you to family affairs is a huge thing. Don't underestimate that.

Does he bring other girls to his family? No?

Then stop it. And certainly don't ask if he is fucking other girls. It's not only rude, keep your own standards always and if you ask this so early on he might take it as if you think of him as a jerk. No man wants to hear that

I guess am way too into him and I kinda lose myself. I never act like this before. Thanks for advice, guess am gonna go one step backward and do my own thing. Is it better ?

You dont have to do a step backwards but you should stop being paranoïd. You should have a talk about boundaries though. Cause you are stressing about his loyalty but yet... Your boundaries are different from his. If he doesn't like you hugging his buddy's then clearly i don't see any reason for you to assume he isn't serious with you. To be honest i wonder if you talk at all much. Haven't you gotten to know each other first— I mean.... I would know the boundaries of the guy im into. I know them of my crush now. Let alone someone i'll be dating. Maybe actual conversations is a first step for guys. Taking a step back is not good. But Yeah i would stop hugging his buddy's. In this stage wouldn't you rather hug him

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After I have been told that, I apologise and promises it won’t happen again but it need time too. His msg seems cool after that and even ignore my msg last night. Today he replied me saying he is busy and sorry for the late reply. Can I take it as a good thing ?

I don’t know how should I react to him now. Talk about it ? Or just let it be and control myself next time ?