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Why Males Can Be Indecisive About Commitment in Astrology
In astrology, males may appear wishy-washy about commitment due to Mercury or Venus influences, which affect communication and love styles. These planetary positions can cause uncertainty or hesitation in expressing long-term intentions, especially if influenced by mutable signs. Understanding individual charts can clarify these tendencies and improve relationship dynamics.
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
That's not very nice. We are just easily expendable commodities.
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.That's not very nice. We are just easily expendable commodities.
not passing judgment, just answering why we like that. and by we i mean men. but mostly aqua men 😄
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I see you trying to push that dagger in a little harder with each comment. You'd like me to suffer slow death.
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
This is 100% true. Now with social media and all the dating apps, men don’t want to settle very easily because there’s so many options. I do have this problem. I was always looking for someone better and not settling or giving some guys a chance. But then eventually both men and women meet someone worth the plunge. Took me 7.5 years....
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.
Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.This is 100% true. Now with social media and all the dating apps, men don’t want to settle very easily because there’s so many options. I do have this problem. I was always looking for someone better and not settling or giving some guys a chance. But then eventually both men and women meet someone worth the plunge. Took me 7.5 years....
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Nd the individual that viewed you as an easily expendable commodity, really wasn't shit.
Posted by LibWman
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Find you a man who dun’t do social media 
Posted by LibWman
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Find you a man who dun’t do social media
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I abhor social media. Any man who indulges in it must vacate the inner most realms of my vicinity.
Any man who indulges in it must vacate the inner most realms of my vicinity.
Sounds like a hateful crotch tbh. 😂😂😂
Any man who indulges in it must vacate the inner most realms of my vicinity.
Sounds like a hateful crotch tbh. 😂😂😂
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I am a crotch.
Because they don't need to
Women make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
Posted by MyStarsShine
Because they don't need toWomen make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
I really very much like your response. When shall we be exchanging our nuptial vows?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Because they don't need toWomen make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
I really very much like your response. When shall we be exchanging our nuptial vows?
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Thank you, but i have decided not to enter into the matrimonial prison again
So sorry 🙂
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
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How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
is that really true - if it is - LOL
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
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Because it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
With all due to respect, I have eyes.
Not all experiences require you to be the person in question for you to understand the circumstances.
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Thank you. This is why I will find you and marry you one day.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
Because it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.
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100% false mindset you have there.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
With all due to respect, I have eyes.
Not all experiences require you to be the person in question for you to understand the circumstances.
Thank you. This is why I will find you and marry you one day.
With all due respect, I'm not a man.
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But I still remember those pictures and I do love you bae.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
Because it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.
100% false mindset you have there.
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But that's ok.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
Because it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.
100% false mindset you have there.
But that's ok.
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No it's NOT OK.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
How'd you know?
With all due respect. You are not a man.
Because it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.
100% false mindset you have there.
But that's ok.
No it's NOT OK.
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But I'm content though.
Posted by LibWman
Why are males so wishy washy when it comes to real commitment.Compare and contrast.
They haven't matured into men yet.
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
🤣🤣
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.🤣🤣
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Hmm disappointed in him.
Because men are not nice. They are nasty. They will always hurt you. They make bad fathers and hurt their kids. They are selfish. They are shallow...and that is just the beginning of it.
Posted by LibWman
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
The way I see it is if I’m going to spend the rest of my life with this guy he better be everything I want and need. I don’t date for sex or companionship. I date for marriage.
Posted by AerialView
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.Men commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
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True that
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.🤣🤣
Hmm disappointed in him.
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It's kinda true & kinda not true .. there are plenty of women out here & sometimes the grass is greener, in some situations, unfortunately .. he could have worded that better lol
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.🤣🤣
Hmm disappointed in him.
It's kinda true & kinda not true .. there are plenty of women out here & sometimes the grass is greener, in some situations, unfortunately .. he could have worded that better lol
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If she is a whore or a horse.
If she is a whore or a horse.
not really, no. you d be surprised. but you ll have to be a man to understand. which you aren't. ergo, you don't understand.
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I was saying that in jest and being simplistic. I know there is a vast number of criterions BOTH women and men have which they'd liked met in order to feel satisfied and to engage in a long term commitment with another. But men are, from my extensive observations, far more superficial fickle and volatile.
Posted by GeminiGirl052388
We should read the book "Why Men Marry Bitches" ... it worked at least for me. The book just says stuff like you dont have to be the perfect girl (you dont have to be the nicest, the prettiest... but you have to be the most memorable). I used to think it was the men who is the problem. Later on I realized it takes 2 people to make it happen and make it work. Women cant be perfect. Theres always gonna be a better woman out there. Men can cheat and look for the greener pasteur despite being with a good woman. But in reality, do we actually want that kind of man that will make us feel inferior and we always have to compete for his attention? So if it doesnt work out then it is highly likely a mismatch in values, in interests, long-term plans. This is where the greener pasteur comes in. Men and women will be looking for a better match if certain aspects arent met by their current partners. Doesnt mean the other is inferior to the rest of the women available. It just doesnt match. It is what it is. Its either you are his greener pasteur or not.It really does take two hahahaha
Oh we women can be such nags hahaha
But i like this place... I can vent here and ask the stuff i better not say to him.... Then have people give their objective opinion.... So i can check my ass and calm down
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That is why I created the topic. It isn't specific to a situation I am facing. Just an open ended discussion.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
is that really true - if it is - LOL
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
The same can be said for the ladies.
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all that
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that doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lol
Posted by LibWman
Why are males so wishy washy when it comes to real commitment.Compare and contrast.
They are wishy washy cause you allow it. Seriously.
I haven't had any issues having dudes commit. Mostly cause I cut off the dudes not interested in relationships. And I can do that cause I don't let myself get emotionally involved without relationship terms in place.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
is that really true - if it is - LOL
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
The same can be said for the ladies.
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all that
that doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lol
I personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move on
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I'd give it 3 months and no more. That is as much as I am willing to be closer to death before I cut my losses and invest in something worthwhile.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
is that really true - if it is - LOL
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
The same can be said for the ladies.
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all that
that doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lol
I personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move on
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absolutely
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
is that really true - if it is - LOL
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
The same can be said for the ladies.
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all that
that doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lol
I personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move on
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and it just shouldn't be difficult - if it is, then it's over quickly for me - I don't do difficult
are you guys saying you should get married by 3, 4, 6 months of dating or that you should be an exclusive, ie not see other people, type of couple by then?
Posted by rabidtalker
are you guys saying you should get married by 3, 4, 6 months of dating or that you should be an exclusive, ie not see other people, type of couple by then?
Honeymooning in Barbados.
Posted by rabidtalker
are you guys saying you should get married by 3, 4, 6 months of dating or that you should be an exclusive, ie not see other people, type of couple by then?Honeymooning in Barbados.
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geez how about kona island instead, not everyone is rich
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
is that really true - if it is - LOL
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
The same can be said for the ladies.
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all that
that doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lol
I personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move on
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4-6 months is even too generous imo.
1-2 months is my cut off(assuming we see each other 1x per week).
Posted by MyStarsShine
Because they don't need toWomen make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
I can vouch for men here. They don't have it easy on social media.
It's matter if luck.
If you agree to 'date' someone from Sweden being in Netherlands - go ahead!
Phone sex is the only option. And if picture is fake - meeting could be costly nothing.
If you chose closer candidates - there other issues.
And I bet poster above could probably find someone quicker irl.
I think...
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
is that really true - if it is - LOL
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
The same can be said for the ladies.
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all that
that doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lol
I personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move on
4-6 months is even too generous imo.
1-2 months is my cut off(assuming we see each other 1x per week).
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So how many weeks per decade you are busy dating?
Posted by aquarius_man
@LibWman - what men fantasize about when they freshly out of a relationship. @clockwisee can confirm
Dirty men i wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Posted by aquarius_man
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.🤣🤣
you don t think so?
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Eh, depends on the situation lol
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Why are males so wishy washy when it comes to real commitment.
Compare and contrast.