The law of attraction and relationships...

I have just read the book The Secret! Hummmm very interesting.. I would like to know has anyone experienced the law of attraction? And do you think it works on relationships?

Posted by xxoommmxxoo
R u pisco?

Yes I am a Pisces and I saw the magic when i picked up the secret. I am in love with this Libra but we arent on good terms. Hoping to be soon!

Posted by CluelessCancer
My Libra coworker swears by it.

Why is that? What did your co worker say about it?

Posted by Crustacea
I don't believe in the law of attraction within relationships.
When it comes to people I noticed people tend to go towards who they admire and want to be like not actual like-minded individuals. It tends to take a conscious effort to find and be amongst people on the same level with self.

Leaders tend to attract followers not a group of other leaders.
It's possible to but that will actually take more "work".

I believe that also but I must admit I tried it on my Libra for just a little while and it seemed to be working. But I must admit I didnt try hard. As soon as he made me mad I was like the hell with him. Gave up real quick!

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Posted by xxoommmxxoo
R u pisco?

Yes I am a Pisces and I saw the magic when i picked up the secret. I am in love with this Libra but we arent on good terms. Hoping to be soon!

I think the magic would be better for relationships. For honoring your partner and,practicing gratitude for them

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Oh wow now that was beautifully put! Thats a great way to look at it!

Posted by CluelessCancer
Hold up, you want a Libra? I'm out of this thread.

c ya.

LOL! WHYYYYYY—?? BUT HELL I MAY ALREADY KNOW! THEY CAN BE PURE ASSHOLES!

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Damn I feel like a total buzz kill tonight. But I'm sorry people the law of attraction is bullshit. Try it out for yourselves. It sounds good but that's about it.

No buzz kill Lol.. But I kind of believe in it. Still learning about it though

Posted by JenLove
I love the Secret and I definitely believe in the law of attraction! I didn't finish reading the book but, I absolutely love the documentary! Ever since I became aware of it a few years ago I've practiced it and I must say it does work, with relationships and with everything else. It has changed my perspective and my life in such a positive way.

Always remember that your negative thoughts also become a reality if you don't know how to block them out. It's a bit harder with relationships because the both of you have to be on the same frequency which is not the easiest thing of course because you're dealing with two different individuals. The best thing you can do is visualize, that is by far the most effective way to manifest anything. Sometimes things take a long time to happen and sometimes it only takes a few minutes. It works for me all the time. Goodluck 🙂

Awwww thank you love! I am now way more aware of my negative thoughts now! I am going to try it again on my relationship. I really love this guy but he just doesnt want to act right! He was loving,giving and understanding in the beginning but now we are just not on good terms. It feels like he has just lost interest. but everytime I ask the universe for a sign whether I should move on or not, I kidd you not something weird happens right away involving him!

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Damn I feel like a total buzz kill tonight. But I'm sorry people the law of attraction is bullshit. Try it out for yourselves. It sounds good but that's about it.

No buzz kill Lol.. But I kind of believe in it. Still learning about it though

Definitely worth a try. I hope it works better for you. I tried it with all my little heart. You ever seen "Bedazzle" with Brandon Frasier? I think the law of attraction works similarly. You get what you want, but its always in some messed up way. The gurus of the Secret...research them. o_O

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I haven't seen bedazzle yet. But I do know what happened to James Earl Ray one of the secret writers. It was a story about him on Dateline called the deadly retreat. He supposedly led people in a desert and encouraged them to endure the torture of the heat inside of a sweat lodge. A few people died during this course and he was tried in court for their murders. I don't know what happended in the end though.

Posted by starlover
It works for me. I find you have to be very clear as to what you want (be careful of what you ask for). If you are unsure, it wont come to you

I am clear that I want him but when I feel sad that things aren't how they use to be. I get frustrated and try to forget about him. So I am hoping im not sending mixed signals out in the universe.

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Posted by MissD312
I have just read the book The Secret! Hummmm very interesting.. I would like to know has anyone experienced the law of attraction? And do you think it works on relationships?

i wish i wrote this book! it's like peddling those worms that are pulled by a nylon string to children!

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Lol what do you mean??

Posted by chopstickcharmer
i'm just not into visualization. what's your jupiter?

u know that furry worm a guy at the mall sells? it's attached to a piece of nylon so it's like he moves in and out of a glass and thru his hand? ...and u buy one and realize that yeah there is a string attached to that worm and u can't make it move as good as him so u have a crap toy now?

Oh ok! I get it lol wow at the way your mind works! I am sorry to say I really don't know my Jupiter. I know i am a March 12th Pisces thats all I know about signs pretty much

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It works for me. I find you have to be very clear as to what you want (be careful of what you ask for). If you are unsure, it wont come to you

I am clear that I want him but when I feel sad that things aren't how they use to be. I get frustrated and try to forget about him. So I am hoping im not sending mixed signals out in the universe.

Hmmm i think you need to take some time out and become very clear before you can attract anything very positive in your life. Also it's about timing. It wont come to you unless its ready to. I had a one year hiatus from r/ships before i got involved in a functional one

Visualisation is effective but only if you are able to see *clearly*

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I think you are so right. I do need time to just let the break up run its course before putting any wants into the universe. Being that my feelings are so back and forth.

Posted by starlover
...after the year was up, i wrote a wish list and slept with it under my pillow...it took about 7 days or so to meet him

😉

Wow 7days! You are giving me hope 🙂 I can't wait for my heart to soon heal so that I may move on.

It's a series of books from Rhonda Byrnes, The power, The magic and The secret.
got the secret but I just can't finish the 28 days whatever, I suck on that! Some say I should read the power first then magic last is the secret, I can't finish the the secret book so how can I read all 3?!? I found it good though, teaches me to be more grateful for everything 🙂

Try The Alchemist by Paulo Coehlo 🙂

YOU WILL HAVE TO ASK SOME OF THE WOMEN ON HERE THEY LOV TO HATE ME.

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Posted by xxoommmxxoo
R u pisco?

Yes I am a Pisces and I saw the magic when i picked up the secret. I am in love with this Libra but we arent on good terms. Hoping to be soon!

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MissD ... you weren't being asked if you are a Pisces ... you were being asked if you are a former member here who deleted, named Pisco

On Topic ..... yes, I believe in LOA

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Posted by chopstickcharmer
i'm just not into visualization. what's your jupiter?

u know that furry worm a guy at the mall sells? it's attached to a piece of nylon so it's like he moves in and out of a glass and thru his hand? ...and u buy one and realize that yeah there is a string attached to that worm and u can't make it move as good as him so u have a crap toy now?

Oh ok! I get it lol wow at the way your mind works! I am sorry to say I really don't know my Jupiter. I know i am a March 12th Pisces thats all I know about signs pretty much

oh ur a pisces. figures. my mom buys these chocolate gold bars and she like to keep them on her desk. when i go to her office i eat them and throw away the box and she's like that was for my visualization lulz! do u have pinterest?

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Lol yes I have pinterest i am addicted to pinterest!!!

Posted by virgosagscorpio
It's a series of books from Rhonda Byrnes, The power, The magic and The secret.
got the secret but I just can't finish the 28 days whatever, I suck on that! Some say I should read the power first then magic last is the secret, I can't finish the the secret book so how can I read all 3?!? I found it good though, teaches me to be more grateful for everything 🙂

Try The Alchemist by Paulo Coehlo 🙂

Thats true I am learning to be grateful of everything as well. I didnt realize how blessed I was until I read the secret and started Thanking God for everything by name! I am very blessed 🙂

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...after the year was up, i wrote a wish list and slept with it under my pillow...it took about 7 days or so to meet him

😉

Wow 7days! You are giving me hope 🙂 I can't wait for my heart to soon heal so that I may move on.

*Healing* is the key and also not to be too desperate to meet someone ~ start to have a relationship with yourself before even thinking of engaging with others ~ it doesnt work else?

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True I recently asked for a sign to see if I should move on. Lets just say I got the sign loud and clear! I am now ready to start healing. I now know where I am heading and it what direction.

Posted by chopstickcharmer
i am more likely to read outliers.

I read that the Outliers were the top two reads for both Jay Z and Russell Simmons!

Posted by starlover
^^ Did you ever read *Noddy* ?

What's that about?? Never heard of this book.

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Posted by xxoommmxxoo
R u pisco?

Yes I am a Pisces and I saw the magic when i picked up the secret. I am in love with this Libra but we arent on good terms. Hoping to be soon!

MissD ... you weren't being asked if you are a Pisces ... you were being asked if you are a former member here who deleted, named Pisco

On Topic ..... yes, I believe in LOA

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OH!! LOL No I am not Pisco lol

If you think about it the ONE thing they say is key to turn yourvlife aroundv is LOVE, in order to love others you have to work on your self love, that would make a huge difference in your life, the other thing that has always worked for me is being GRATEFUL. When you are focused on all the good things you have in your life instead of complaining about everything, your outllook and attitude change and you start attracting positive people and experiences to your life.

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No. Never keep anyone around in any capacity who would steal from you. Those people need to be released back to the universe.

I also like this one from StarLover "*Healing* is the key and also not to be too desperate to meet someone ~ start to have a relationship with yourself before even thinking of engaging with others ~"

Apparently, I had a few more things to heal. I literally allowed a serious negativity out of my life today. It was physically releasing. I hope it stays gone. I hadn't realized I had to work on that before the start of the last relationship, which no matter what happens next was motivated by love and healing.

I am going to re-read those books too. I may have missed something the first time around. They're deceptively simple...

Posted by Dafna79
If you think about it the ONE thing they say is key to turn yourvlife aroundv is LOVE, in order to love others you have to work on your self love, that would make a huge difference in your life, the other thing that has always worked for me is being GRATEFUL. When you are focused on all the good things you have in your life instead of complaining about everything, your outllook and attitude change and you start attracting positive people and experiences to your life.

This is so true! Now that I look back I complained way more then I was appreciative. But not anymore! I am going to focus on the blessings and be grateful for the lessons!

Posted by CapriLady
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No. Never keep anyone around in any capacity who would steal from you. Those people need to be released back to the universe.

I also like this one from StarLover "*Healing* is the key and also not to be too desperate to meet someone ~ start to have a relationship with yourself before even thinking of engaging with others ~"

Apparently, I had a few more things to heal. I literally allowed a serious negativity out of my life today. It was physically releasing. I hope it stays gone. I hadn't realized I had to work on that before the start of the last relationship, which no matter what happens next was motivated by love and healing.

I am going to re-read those books too. I may have missed something the first time around. They're deceptively simple...

Yes yes reread those books i am going to do the same!

I can't wait to luxuriously flip through these pages tonight, after gym, sauna, and a bath 🙂 So good.

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^^ Did you ever read *Noddy* ?

What's that about?? Never heard of this book.

Noddy ~ One of my greatest healers lol. I used to read the books to my lad. As he grew older he would say *Noddy is shit* haha and recently when i found a little soft toy of Noddy and asked would i keep it, he said *Noddy is so gay* 😄

Noddy is my best kept *secret* till now ~~~ sharing ~~~ 😄

LOLOLO This is weird lol but cute

I used to watch noddy on tv and up to now whenever I got the chance to came across noddy, I still love watching it, am a kid at heart and remains that way lol!

She looks beautiful.

I was unfamiliar with the works of Noddy 🙂

Sun is shining.

Posted by starlover
Stunning looking lady!!

Glad to acquaint you with Noddy Cappy 🙂

Dull here, but i am happppy!!!

Fun weekend!! 😄

x

What picture are you guys referring to? Who posted a pic? Im lost lol

Posted by TaureanAries
Yes I believe in Law of Attraction...and yes I believe you can attract the right person to yourself. I said to the universe on day that I was ready to meet the right man after spending months saying "no relationships"...I even had a little list of a few things I wanted. It was about a week later I started conversing with this guy I met at a birthday party a few months before (and had disliked him then) over Facebook (yeah I know - ugh!) and the rest is history.

He is everything I wrote on my list right down to his beautiful brown eyes.

Wow funny thing is I met my Libra on facebook after ignoring all of his attempts for awhile. But I must say every message he sent me was so different from the rest. He stimulated my mind from day one! I don't know why but somehow my soul was drawn to him even after fighting it for so long. I figured he will see sooner or later that my love was true and genuine and maybe he will find his way back. But until then I have let him go.