What if your partner stopped having sex with you? (Page 2)

Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV
for example, i know a guy who wouldnt have sex with his gf because he didnt want to have sex everyday. so when HE deemed them ready to have sex they would. So she was always at his mercy. even with oral, he wouldnt reciprocate unless he deemed it special, yet he wanted it when he asked for it, whereas she would get denied.

so she would try to be on her best behavior 24/7 to increase her chances of getting laid. she would make more concessions for him and bend over backwards to increase her chances.

thus, the punishment reward system.

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That sounds like an excerpt from 50 Shades....wtf?

Posted by tiziani

I also learnt that curry chicken peas and rice turns me into a borderline rapist for the night so it's whatever. The more you live the more you find out about your body. I have a serious issue with putting spice in my food. Then I just want to conquer her and have no concept of time.

😆

Posted by brianafay
And may it be the last 90 day dry spell

It's my wish for you, haha

lawdee. Well, at least I will be tight.

Morning Phoenix

Posted by DMV
Morning Phoenix

Hey sweets 🙂

Just making my way through your thread.

Posted by tiziani

Honestly when things are great, it's not a reflection on the woman.

When things are dry, it's not a reflection on the woman.

Has very little to do with what she says, does, etc.

It's all about where he is in his life....

Hmmm. So basically, it's his world and she's just living in it? A woman would like to feel and know she has some impact on her man's mood and motivation to some degree. At least I would.

This type of set up lacks inspiration.

If your man doesn't want to have sex with you constantly then it means he isn't as attracted to you anymore, which probably mean you either gained weight or he found a side chick to fufill his needs

It's suddenly clear why you've had so much success in relationships

It's fucking hilarious to me how people's first response is always the female is not doing something right and/or he has a sidepiece if the guy doesn't feel like fucking 24-7 ...yet it's just normal when a woman doesn't want to to fuck 24-7.

People make me want feel like a feminist.

Such simple pathetic minds

Posted by brianafay
It's suddenly clear why you've had so much success in relationships

Your attempt at sarcasm is actually the truth for me since I'm getting married in July to a woman i've been with since 2005..

God bless

Posted by DAMEN VI
If your man doesn't want to have sex with you constantly then it means he isn't as attracted to you anymore, which probably mean you either gained weight or he found a side chick to fufill his needs

i agree. i wouldnt want to shag something i didnt find attractive.

congrats on your pending nuptials.

Thank you both DMV and Brianafay

im scared to google zimmer frame while at work.

ahhh lol

i can relate to the weight thingy. If i met a guy who worked out and had a six pack, id expect to see at least a 4 pack every year. maintain. if he gets a keg, im not sexin that.

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
I'd still fuck my man if he gained a little weight.

When Brad got with Angelina she was hot and then he went through a depressed phase where she lost a lot of weight and wasn't looking so good. I'm gonna love my mate through it all til they come out of that funk and get their shit back together.

what if they never got their shit back together?

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
I wasn't going to mention this because it's about my friend but he confided in me that he's not excited about having sex with his gf anymore. It's not because she's not physically attractive...they both go to the gym every day. She has a super tight body and a nice big butt and he basically said he just wants to go sleep with a curvy plumper woman

I can see how losing the body you fell in love with could be the cause of not wanting sex but it's not always the case.

so kinda what Damien was talking about. his ideal changed.

All people get uglier and wrinklier and fatter as time goes on. We get old.

If that bothers you to the point where you don't know if you could still love that person ...maybe long term relationships aren't for you and you are better off playing in the single pool for life

(That was not directed at anyone...just in general)

Tizzy that is completely different...you can't love someone that doesn't love themselves it's exhausting and unfruitful

I see that as more reason to build something that outlasts those things

*shrugs*

Also I'm scared shitless of getting old so your last post makes me want to throw up lol

Funny you mention back hair...my Libra did not have this problem when we first started dating but as he's gotten older he is getting it up on his shoulders...he calls it his "bat wings" and asks me to wax it all the time for him...good thing his drive is lower...time for a sidepiece!!