Why Do Some Women Go After Taken Men? (Page 2)

Posted by xygeneration
Do you think its just you who he's creeping with?

shit i dunno lol, i dont own him. this is just some dude im sleeping with. i protect myself and handle business.

exactly, so whats your point?

Posted by xygeneration
Im saying, how can you trust a man who cheats?

im not that much invested.

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Wow chill, she hasn't shagged your beau, easy now!

well i could be if she aint doing the sucky sucky. who knows she could be girlfriend in question...

scandalous.

Nope, I'm all good. 🙂

As for doing the "sucky sucky".... well, happy to hear you found your calling in life. lmao.

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gurl..if you only knew. perfecting it is one of my passions.

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Wow chill, she hasn't shagged your beau, easy now!

well i could be if she aint doing the sucky sucky. who knows she could be girlfriend in question...

scandalous.

Nope, I'm all good. 🙂

As for doing the "sucky sucky".... well, happy to hear you found your calling in life. lmao.

gurl..if you only knew. perfecting it is one of my passions.

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the thought of a hot piece of sausage going into my ....well u know the rest.

Posted by xygeneration
So this doesn't affect you and the way you view relationships at all? You're not worried at all that you might be in that woman's shoes one day?

not really.

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Wow chill, she hasn't shagged your beau, easy now!

well i could be if she aint doing the sucky sucky. who knows she could be girlfriend in question...

scandalous.

Nope, I'm all good. 🙂

As for doing the "sucky sucky".... well, happy to hear you found your calling in life. lmao.

gurl..if you only knew. perfecting it is one of my passions.

the thought of a hot piece of sausage going into my ....well u know the rest.

Well in that case, why not just find one guy of your own, and make him very happy? Win win. 😛

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im not off the market. once i find a worthy suitor, i will end it.

3 years is a long time to the side woman. I hope you find what you're looking for DMV.

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Having had a failed marriage due to infidelity, no one can be stolen. It takes two.

If your partner is A) looking outside of the marriage/relationship or B) takes the opportunity to step outside the marriage/relationship and/or C) consents to anothers desire to sleep with them ... all this lies on your partner.

Some are notorius cheaters; however, the lot of most cheaters are lacking something in their relationship. It's just as easy for the person cheated ON to point fingers at everyone else. But very few of those same people cheated on fail look at themselves let alone ADMIT where they have lacked, slacked, let down, taken for granted, show no desire for their partner, or plainly don't give a shit because they believe it's a slam dunk sure thing that their partner is 'theirs'

It's not the cheated on person's fault, however it's never really just surface ... there's something more beyond the surface wrong in that relationship. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

*Very few people cheated on look at themselves

True cun, but it's never 'that' easy. So many other facets are to be considered, and most people won't jump ship until they KNOW they are safe somewhere else. It's a different tune when there's no guarantees with the person they cheated on their partner with, until that decision is made mutually between the lovers.

And, most people are selfish ... why give it all up when you can have everything fulfilled both between your partner and your lover.

Posted by OceanDeep
Having had a failed marriage due to infidelity, no one can be stolen. It takes two.

If your partner is A) looking outside of the marriage/relationship or B) takes the opportunity to step outside the marriage/relationship and/or C) consents to anothers desire to sleep with them ... all this lies on your partner.

Some are notorius cheaters; however, the lot of most cheaters are lacking something in their relationship. It's just as easy for the person cheated ON to point fingers at everyone else. But very few of those same people cheated on fail look at themselves let alone ADMIT where they have lacked, slacked, let down, taken for granted, show no desire for their partner, or plainly don't give a shit because they believe it's a slam dunk sure thing that their partner is 'theirs'

It's not the cheated on person's fault, however it's never really just surface ... there's something more beyond the surface wrong in that relationship. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

This is exactly why I don't see why people are so hard on DMV. She's not the one in the committed relationship. However, I can see why people would have a problem with it.

If a man is married it should be hands off. Otherwise all is fair in love and war. Whoever doesn't like it? *shrug* Personally I'm not going to be with anyone who has someone--I'm not getting intimate with someone "doing" someone else...

This Aries woman I know loves the challenge it presents... *shrug*

With some girls it's about competition; they want something that they can't have, and will do everything to get it. The guy is kind of like the end prize, and they don't care who they hurt along the way. They just want to win, and up their confidence. Some girls will steal guys away simply because they can. Maybe they are prettier or sexier than their girl is and so they tempt them. Whatever their little plan is, they just want to win.

Other cases are, they really do have feelings for the guy, and they seriously can't stand the thought of anyone else having them. In my opinion, it is very rude for a girl to try and break up a couple because you wouldn't want someone to do that to you and your boyfriend/husband, but like I said it's all about winning the prize. I guess it's just the girl who wants it most that will do everything to break them up.

Posted by OceanDeep
Having had a failed marriage due to infidelity, no one can be stolen. It takes two.

If your partner is A) looking outside of the marriage/relationship or B) takes the opportunity to step outside the marriage/relationship and/or C) consents to anothers desire to sleep with them ... all this lies on your partner.

Some are notorius cheaters; however, the lot of most cheaters are lacking something in their relationship. It's just as easy for the person cheated ON to point fingers at everyone else. But very few of those same people cheated on fail look at themselves let alone ADMIT where they have lacked, slacked, let down, taken for granted, show no desire for their partner, or plainly don't give a shit because they believe it's a slam dunk sure thing that their partner is 'theirs'

It's not the cheated on person's fault, however it's never really just surface ... there's something more beyond the surface wrong in that relationship. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

+1000

My ex cheated on my with a woman who wanted the kind of relationship we had (note HAD) and set her sights on him until she got him to cheat with her. After months of analyzing, I realize I wasn't giving him the excitement and drama he wanted (she is a drama queen) and that he most likely tired of the way I plan everything (he's a nonplanner) and how tight I am with money (I had to be, he was a spender) and that he thought I was argumentative (I thought it was healthy debates and tossing out opinions, never realized he thought because I didn't agree on politics for example that I was against him). I see that he thought I was cold and unemotional and I realize that we were just too different. This woman, after three years, is still with him although I don't think he's completely happy, but is happier than he was with me. (I think he misses the stability with me - he's a Gemini). Basically, my point is he wasn't happy and that's why he cheated. I had to take a good hard look at myself and see where I was at fault. It's not easier to do. It's easier to play the victim, but it's not mature and it doesn't help you grow as a person. I have learned lots that I can apply to my current relationship.

Oh, by the way, I am by NO MEANS taking the blame for him cheating. That's on him. I am just saying, I see why he did.

They only care about their wants over everything else. Pretty simple.

I have recently been approached by a married man with 2 small children, who are his whole world...firstly, he's not even thinking about blowing his family apart. All he is thinking is that he and his wife have lost the spark and it hasn't been there for years.

The real problem is that he doesn't think at all and he doesn't think he will get caught!

It's not all about what happens in the bedroom but also what happens outside of it...just mundane life and raising children, working etc

It's hard to keep that going indefinitely so if your partner is going to look elsewhere...I think it is in them to always have those cheating tendencies..

Posted by starlover
I want to *shake* these girls/women for going after another woman's man. I have seen so many times it backfiring on them

You get back what you give

Take some woman's man and in time, a man will be taken from you

Simple?

I personaly volunteer to help you *shake* this women.
And Inject a huge doze of respect.

Posted by truecap
I see it on the boards here a lot. Women interested in men who already have girlfriends or married men. Why go after a man that's already involved with someone else?

Is it the challenge? The fact that he must be a good man because someone else wants/has him? Do they not care? Do they have no moral standards? Do they like being homewreckers? Do they have little faith in the single, unattached men?

What is the attraction?

If the man isn't interested...who cares? These types of women who do behave this way speak volumes of their very desperate and pathetic character. (same for the men who behave this way)

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