I’m a Scorpio & I’m crushing on a Sagittarius. Help?

*i am also posting this in the scorpio forum*

Him:

Sun - Sag

Moon - Leo

Mercury - Cap

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Leo

Jupiter - Cancer

Saturn - Virgo

Uranus - Scorpio

Neptune - Sag

Pluto - Libra

Lilith - Gemini

Asc. Node - Libra

Chiron - Taurus

Ceres - Sagittarius

Pallas - Scorpio

Juno - Sagittarius

Vesta - Scorpio

 

Me:

Sun - Scorpio

Moon - Sag

Mercury - Sag

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Gemini

Jupiter - Leo

Saturn - Cap

Uranus - Cap

Neptune - Cap

Pluto - Scorpio

Lilith - Sag

Asc. Node - Aqua

Chiron - Cancer

Ceres - Libra

Pallas - Virgo

Juno - Sagittarius

I have a huge crush on this guy at work, let’s call him Bryan. He is in a higher position than me so we don’t ever work together. Something about him makes me very attracted(I don’t mean physically) to him. Don’t get me wrong - I find him very attractive(I love his smile), I just feel drawn to him. Why him? I honestly don’t know because I don’t really know him that well. Bryan is very reserved guy but through small talk about Netflix I found out that he has a great sense of humor.

I’ve noticed that when I deliberately ignore him(when I feel like I’m not getting attention from him. I’m a Scorpio after all), I see more of him & he’ll initiate more.

A coworker(who I hang out with - Bryan knows that) told me that Bryan brought my name up quite a few times when they were at an office dinner. The next time Bryan and I see each other, I am with a friend leaving the office & we bump into him. They have a conversation, that I have nothing to contribute to, but while they are having a conversation, he looks at me. A lot. I made sure to look at him and smile back. He looked at me so much so that when my friend & I were walking away her jaw was dropped & she said “He wasn’t looking at me!” The next day, with the help of some confidence, I asked if he had my number. I’ve never done that before and it was the most vulnerable I’ve felt in a very long time. It it payed off! He doesn’t initiate texts and that frustrates me because that same friend, who was at the dinner with him, also told me that when they were at lunch, Bryan asked him questions about me. This lunch happened after the dinner & after we exchanged numbers.

To be fair, when I text him, he does engage. However, why ask about me when you have my number?! I ask questions all the time so I feel like I’m making it known that I am open to talking.

Long story short: In my opinion, we have a push-pull thing going on.

What are his motives??

I should note: I’ll never approach him about any of this because I’m a Scorpio.

He has alot of fire, so if he wants you, he will come

I have his love sign placements and I had to know my ex Scorpio was actually interested to make a move.

You Scorpios back track too much, but he will come for you if you actually show some interest in him. Playing coy and pretending not to like a sag when you do, will get you no where with him. He will date others and keep you on the back burner while he's doing it. Even if he is really into you. You have to give some, to get some 🙂

No advice but an entertaining read. Keep us posted 🙂

Posted by saggurl88

I have his love sign placements and I had to know my ex Scorpio was actually interested to make a move.

You Scorpios back track too much, but he will come for you if you actually show some interest in him. Playing coy and pretending not to like a sag when you do, will get you no where with him. He will date others and keep you on the back burner while he's doing it. Even if he is really into you. You have to give some, to get some 🙂

In my head(& this could very well be my issue), if I’m initiated our texts(we don’t text often but I always start them).. doesn’t that let the other person know that we want to talk to them??

Also, I’m a Leo Rising. I forgot to include that in the chart.

Also, I’m a Leo Rising. Forgot to include that in my post.

He’s a Sag sun & Leo Moon but he’s sooo reserved. I wonder if maybe he has a watery Rising??

Posted by Davidking

Posted by saggurl88

I have his love sign placements and I had to know my ex Scorpio was actually interested to make a move.

You Scorpios back track too much, but he will come for you if you actually show some interest in him. Playing coy and pretending not to like a sag when you do, will get you no where with him. He will date others and keep you on the back burner while he's doing it. Even if he is really into you. You have to give some, to get some 🙂

In my head(& this could very well be my issue), if I’m initiated our texts(we don’t text often but I always start them).. doesn’t that let the other person know that we want to talk to them??

Also, I’m a Leo Rising. I forgot to include that in the chart.

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Not really. Do you flirt?

And he has a Leo moon, which means you're gonna need to seek him out most of the time. As long as he is responding, then keep doing it. You're a Scorpio, you have no shame in your game 😛 Chase and then once he sees your interest, he will chase back.

And engage in person, this is the best way. Flirt in person so he can be interested once you text. If there isn't much flirty exchange in person though and he doesn't respond to texts then he probably just sees you as a friend.

Looks pretty compatible

Posted by Sag898

Looks pretty compatible

Do you mind explaing why?

Posted by Amour

Don't worry the cops are on their way!

Hahah why do you say that?

Posted by greylatern

Posted by Davidking

*i am also posting this in the scorpio forum*

Him:

Sun - Sag

Moon - Leo

Mercury - Cap

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Leo

Jupiter - Cancer

Saturn - Virgo

Uranus - Scorpio

Neptune - Sag

Pluto - Libra

Lilith - Gemini

Asc. Node - Libra

Chiron - Taurus

Ceres - Sagittarius

Pallas - Scorpio

Juno - Sagittarius

Vesta - Scorpio

 

Me:

Sun - Scorpio

Moon - Sag

Mercury - Sag

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Gemini

Jupiter - Leo

Saturn - Cap

Uranus - Cap

Neptune - Cap

Pluto - Scorpio

Lilith - Sag

Asc. Node - Aqua

Chiron - Cancer

Ceres - Libra

Pallas - Virgo

Juno - Sagittarius

I have a huge crush on this guy at work, let’s call him Bryan. He is in a higher position than me so we don’t ever work together. Something about him makes me very attracted(I don’t mean physically) to him. Don’t get me wrong - I find him very attractive(I love his smile), I just feel drawn to him. Why him? I honestly don’t know because I don’t really know him that well. Bryan is very reserved guy but through small talk about Netflix I found out that he has a great sense of humor.

I’ve noticed that when I deliberately ignore him(when I feel like I’m not getting attention from him. I’m a Scorpio after all), I see more of him & he’ll initiate more.

A coworker(who I hang out with - Bryan knows that) told me that Bryan brought my name up quite a few times when they were at an office dinner. The next time Bryan and I see each other, I am with a friend leaving the office & we bump into him. They have a conversation, that I have nothing to contribute to, but while they are having a conversation, he looks at me. A lot. I made sure to look at him and smile back. He looked at me so much so that when my friend & I were walking away her jaw was dropped & she said “He wasn’t looking at me!” The next day, with the help of some confidence, I asked if he had my number. I’ve never done that before and it was the most vulnerable I’ve felt in a very long time. It it payed off! He doesn’t initiate texts and that frustrates me because that same friend, who was at the dinner with him, also told me that when they were at lunch, Bryan asked him questions about me. This lunch happened after the dinner & after we exchanged numbers.

To be fair, when I text him, he does engage. However, why ask about me when you have my number?! I ask questions all the time so I feel like I’m making it known that I am open to talking.

Long story short: In my opinion, we have a push-pull thing going on.

What are his motives??

I should note: I’ll never approach him about any of this because I’m a Scorpio.

Nice synastry!

It's the optics. Work is work. With the current "me too" stuff and work edict/ethics he will not make the first move without clear invitation. He is a superior. Hmm how did you get his birth time?

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No, can’t ask that without having it be weird Lol

I’m very much a beginner.. what’s synastry? You see it with us?

Posted by greylatern

Posted by Davidking

Posted by greylatern

Posted by Davidking

*i am also posting this in the scorpio forum*

Him:

Sun - Sag

Moon - Leo

Mercury - Cap

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Leo

Jupiter - Cancer

Saturn - Virgo

Uranus - Scorpio

Neptune - Sag

Pluto - Libra

Lilith - Gemini

Asc. Node - Libra

Chiron - Taurus

Ceres - Sagittarius

Pallas - Scorpio

Juno - Sagittarius

Vesta - Scorpio

 

Me:

Sun - Scorpio

Moon - Sag

Mercury - Sag

Venus - Scorpio

Mars - Gemini

Jupiter - Leo

Saturn - Cap

Uranus - Cap

Neptune - Cap

Pluto - Scorpio

Lilith - Sag

Asc. Node - Aqua

Chiron - Cancer

Ceres - Libra

Pallas - Virgo

Juno - Sagittarius

I have a huge crush on this guy at work, let’s call him Bryan. He is in a higher position than me so we don’t ever work together. Something about him makes me very attracted(I don’t mean physically) to him. Don’t get me wrong - I find him very attractive(I love his smile), I just feel drawn to him. Why him? I honestly don’t know because I don’t really know him that well. Bryan is very reserved guy but through small talk about Netflix I found out that he has a great sense of humor.

I’ve noticed that when I deliberately ignore him(when I feel like I’m not getting attention from him. I’m a Scorpio after all), I see more of him & he’ll initiate more.

A coworker(who I hang out with - Bryan knows that) told me that Bryan brought my name up quite a few times when they were at an office dinner. The next time Bryan and I see each other, I am with a friend leaving the office & we bump into him. They have a conversation, that I have nothing to contribute to, but while they are having a conversation, he looks at me. A lot. I made sure to look at him and smile back. He looked at me so much so that when my friend & I were walking away her jaw was dropped & she said “He wasn’t looking at me!” The next day, with the help of some confidence, I asked if he had my number. I’ve never done that before and it was the most vulnerable I’ve felt in a very long time. It it payed off! He doesn’t initiate texts and that frustrates me because that same friend, who was at the dinner with him, also told me that when they were at lunch, Bryan asked him questions about me. This lunch happened after the dinner & after we exchanged numbers.

To be fair, when I text him, he does engage. However, why ask about me when you have my number?! I ask questions all the time so I feel like I’m making it known that I am open to talking.

Long story short: In my opinion, we have a push-pull thing going on.

What are his motives??

I should note: I’ll never approach him about any of this because I’m a Scorpio.

Nice synastry!

It's the optics. Work is work. With the current "me too" stuff and work edict/ethics he will not make the first move without clear invitation. He is a superior. Hmm how did you get his birth time?

No, can’t ask that without having it be weird Lol

I’m very much a beginner.. what’s synastry? You see it with us?

Connections. It would be better with a picture. From a actual chart. Moon moves fast. A Virgo moon is going to act differently then a Leo. the closer the angle the more likely it is.

Honestly though, your focusing on the wrong part of my statement :-)

Yes he is interested lol

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Thanks for keeping me on track! Lol & for even responding!