I'm pissed @ #$*%^&!!!

I've been dreaming away of Sag for the past couple of days. There was an instant when I missed him badly and as telepathic as we seem to each other, I discovered he had sent an email very same time around. Then I remembered I didn't want to start up this 'Groundhog Day' again and decided to just let it slip. Few hours later, I see a friends invite on my FB. He had deleted and blocked me earlier this year. I was reluctant accepting his invite. Then, he probably thought I didn't see his invite and wrote an email.

It took me major struggle, shall-I, shall-I-NOTs and self arm-twisting, but then I don't know what the hell got into me .... [I WANT TO SHOUT OUT LOUD NOW!]... I hate when I get this soft-spot and the poking on my will. Anyhow, I accepted him 😢

Today I discovered he has put privacy limitations to his FB personalized JUST for ME!!! What a damn compliment!

So he has limited my access to his photos and his posts. I have the "privilege" to read about 'Your Heighness' on how the public can view him. He has ALL his 4000 fans (who are "friend" status) who can see what he posts, but I am priviledged to limitation should make me feel HOW—

sorry for my language but...

Why the fuck did he add me in first place?

What the hell does he want from me?

I'M PISSED! Moreso at myself that I have fallen AGAIN victim to his little games. Now small things started bugging me. This man I so admire... and I don't even know anymore what I admire about him... it is diminishing. As a Scorpio I can tag along for long. I allow him to be, but this has started bothering me now.

on the contrary...

am I over-reacting?

you should call him up and give him hell

Posted by FUM
on the contrary...

am I over-reacting?

HEY love

OMG, he is acting like a fucking DICK! WHATS the fucking point of his stupid games. He is making me rage so god only knows how you feel. I would be spitting feathers.

It seems as though he has given you limited access cause he wants to flirt with chicks, not allow you to know what he's upto blah blah blah

He has added you right. I (personally) would just delete him. Out of sight out of mind. What does he think he is going to achieve by behaving that way?

For you to want him more? Make you question what the fuck he is up to?

Don't beat yourself up about falling back into his game. Just take yourself out of the game and take your power back.

Obviously Scorps and Sags behave different when things like this happen but that's just what I would do. He sounds like child and needs to grow the fuck up and realize a TRUE GOOD WOMAN.

Hope you're OK fum *hugs* 🙂

It's not even an issue. Just leave him to his own devices. If he wanted you to get riled up, he won't have that satisfaction. And if it is just a privacy thing, you don't need to care why he appears to be shutting you out.

That's his business...don't make it yours

Posted by FUM


Today I discovered he has put privacy limitations to his FB personalized JUST for ME!!! What a damn compliment!

LMFAO!!

what did he say in the email fum?

let me just say that saggis are not this "caring" about getting back at someone unless they have some personal planets in scorpio. i dont remember if yours does or not.

if he doesnt, then he doesnt give a shit and you and a few other girls were given limited accces.
if he does, then he just simply getting back at you for some shit you probably did to him...just desserts.

i think you should embrace the "game" and start playing. you wouldnt be so upset if you didnt care even a lil bit. if he is getting back at you, he still cares.

Thanks 🙂 I truly appreciate your comments. Last night I was furious. Today I'm thinking what my next step should be. I shouldn't be even spending such time and energy to worry about his behaviour, but I get affected by him.

Posted by RamenPancakes
Probably doesn't trust you well enough yet? But I see you are allowing yourself to fall for his apparent 'games' and allowing yourself to work yourself over it. Ignore whatever his motives are and just make yourself independent of his ways. Don't let this get to you.

@Ramen

my Aries daughter suggested same. She blamed me for taking his actions seriously. It's hard to do, but eventually, I may reach a point when it won't matter. That time will mean there is no return.

Posted by DMV
you should call him up and give him hell

I wrote him right away to make him aware that I am aware of what he is doing. For now I am waiting for a response, but I can hardly hold myself back from deleting this guy and just completely give this 'romance' a full stop.

Posted by SagChick411

Posted by FUM
on the contrary...

am I over-reacting?

HEY love

OMG, he is acting like a fucking DICK! WHATS the fucking point of his stupid games. He is making me rage so god only knows how you feel. I would be spitting feathers.

It seems as though he has given you limited access cause he wants to flirt with chicks, not allow you to know what he's upto blah blah blah

He has added you right. I (personally) would just delete him. Out of sight out of mind. What does he think he is going to achieve by behaving that way?

For you to want him more? Make you question what the fuck he is up to?

Don't beat yourself up about falling back into his game. Just take yourself out of the game and take your power back.

Obviously Scorps and Sags behave different when things like this happen but that's just what I would do. He sounds like child and needs to grow the fuck up and realize a TRUE GOOD WOMAN.

Hope you're OK fum *hugs* 🙂

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@SagChick baby... squeeze hugs 🙂

I was laughing at your expression 'spitting feathers' LOL

I'd agree with the 'chicks', but it's his professional site. He is very concerned with keeping strictly professional attitude. Why he limited my access to viewing is because I told him in one of my last emails that I used to see his discussions with his friends, which gave me opportunity of knowing him better. It was a positive comment. I was explaining of why FB has importance for me. I keep contact with relative and friends who live in different parts of the world. FB is opportunity of knowing him better.

Anyhow, obviously he doesn't want me to know him better. He just carried out something he knew bothered me, but he put up a wall again.

I feel insulted and hurt that he would show interest, but continues keeping distance. I don't need to be controlled. I need to be trusted, which obviously is not happening.

Posted by nimbue
It's not even an issue. Just leave him to his own devices. If he wanted you to get riled up, he won't have that satisfaction. And if it is just a privacy thing, you don't need to care why he appears to be shutting you out.

That's his business...don't make it yours

you are very right, nimbue lol are you Aries?

for me things are black or white. I don't wish to waste my time with someone who plays privacy games. He either trusts me or he doesn't. If he doesn't, why would I trust HIM? He should be out for me.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
what did he say in the email fum?

Hi sweety...

He is not a man of many words He wrote, I added you FUM 🙂 with a smiley face.

So he has limited my access to his photos and his posts. I have the "privilege" to read about 'Your Heighness' on how the public can view him. He has ALL his 4000 fans (who are "friend" status) who can see what he posts, but I am priviledged to limitation should make me feel HOW—

nice to know scorpios cant stand secrets. i honestly dont see what the big deal is. i hide people from pics and posts and it isnt that serious.

you just want full access into his life.

Posted by DMV
let me just say that saggis are not this "caring" about getting back at someone unless they have some personal planets in scorpio. i dont remember if yours does or not.

if he doesnt, then he doesnt give a shit and you and a few other girls were given limited accces.
if he does, then he just simply getting back at you for some shit you probably did to him...just desserts.

i think you should embrace the "game" and start playing. you wouldnt be so upset if you didnt care even a lil bit. if he is getting back at you, he still cares.

DMV, love

you know... I do believe he is honest. It is possible he does same to some other girls although I doubt it. There are ladies on there who keep complimenting him, but he ignores them. I already suggested... those women are quite good looking, why don't you just take the easy way. Why don't you have sex withthem. I'm not for you. They are willing. So I'm not showing ANY sign of jealousy, which would be absurd. Not that I don't feel jealous at times, but I would never ever reflect that onto him. He said, he knows me... I'm familiar ::rolling eyes::

Ones I posted a comment on his Tibet page which was complimenting. The only part which was suggestive was that I know him in person. He deleted it. When I asked why he deleted my comment, he said, "you were my lover!".

I'd play a game with him, but I truly don't want to, DMV.

Your knowledge in reading charts is phenomenal. I can never figure how you remember all the details. I value your view on his chart. I hope you don't mind having a look please, DMV. Also pls keep in mind I don't know his birth hour, so his moon is guess work). Thank you so much 🙂

Sun Sagittarius
Moon Pisces
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Leo
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Libra

Posted by DMV
So he has limited my access to his photos and his posts. I have the "privilege" to read about 'Your Heighness' on how the public can view him. He has ALL his 4000 fans (who are "friend" status) who can see what he posts, but I am priviledged to limitation should make me feel HOW—

nice to know scorpios cant stand secrets. i honestly dont see what the big deal is. i hide people from pics and posts and it isnt that serious.

you just want full access into his life.

LOL funny. I don't see it that way, but my Aries daughter told me same. Yes I'm curious about him. He is curious about my life too. I don't mind.

He took me off his friend's list.

That's my clue!

Posted by FUM

Posted by DMV
let me just say that saggis are not this "caring" about getting back at someone unless they have some personal planets in scorpio. i dont remember if yours does or not.

if he doesnt, then he doesnt give a shit and you and a few other girls were given limited accces.
if he does, then he just simply getting back at you for some shit you probably did to him...just desserts.

i think you should embrace the "game" and start playing. you wouldnt be so upset if you didnt care even a lil bit. if he is getting back at you, he still cares.

DMV, love

you know... I do believe he is honest. It is possible he does same to some other girls although I doubt it. There are ladies on there who keep complimenting him, but he ignores them. I already suggested... those women are quite good looking, why don't you just take the easy way. Why don't you have sex withthem. I'm not for you. They are willing. So I'm not showing ANY sign of jealousy, which would be absurd. Not that I don't feel jealous at times, but I would never ever reflect that onto him. He said, he knows me... I'm familiar ::rolling eyes::

Ones I posted a comment on his Tibet page which was complimenting. The only part which was suggestive was that I know him in person. He deleted it. When I asked why he deleted my comment, he said, "you were my lover!".

I'd play a game with him, but I truly don't want to, DMV.

Your knowledge in reading charts is phenomenal. I can never figure how you remember all the details. I value your view on his chart. I hope you don't mind having a look please, DMV. Also pls keep in mind I don't know his birth hour, so his moon is guess work). Thank you so much 🙂

Sun Sagittarius
Moon Pisces
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Leo
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Libra

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no disrespect to anybody that has a venus in sag placement, but these guys DO NOT settle down with one women. you may be his gf, but strong chances are, your not the only one trying to be the only one.

ive dealt with quite a few of these guys, they all of side dishes. seriously, if your into monogamy..good for you, cause they aint!

mars in leo requires way to much hand holding and ass kissin for my liking.

^ Yep

Shit like this is why I don't even mess with Facebook.

Posted by Wynter
Shit like this is why I don't even mess with Facebook.

word people grow facebook muscles and everyone thinks theyre a celebrity and theyre attention seekers.

+billions dmv

fum..do you regret accepting his request? i've wondered what i would do if a certain leo knobhead who blocked me did an about face like that. i'm pretty sure i would ignore the request and hope he called me instead or at least emailed. sending a friend request is so flippant and doesn't really tell you much about what he's after.

btw..i hate to be a pedant but the expression 'spitting feathers' usually means you're really thirsty.

maybe he is scared.
oh hell.. what do I know?
Moon in pisces...
yummie 😄 😄 😄

haha 😄

((hugs))

I'm actually pretty upset tonight.

No.

It's the crossroads one reaches. I can handle good-byes. It usually is the story behind a living time that gets into one's bones. It really digs. There is poem a by W. H. Auden, "Stop all the clocks."

I'm just disappointed.

I blocked him. First time ever. I never had ended things with him. It was always him, but I took things with a grain of salt. My disappointment is rather aimed on myself. I had such faith.

@EISREGEN -- the rain of ice... I gave him all benefits.

@Rox -- I think it would be too simple to say I regret accepting him. I think it was more of a last chance knowing the outcome. It's sad how we can desire a different outcome KNOWING just down there... some things just never change. I just so hoped this time my intuition was wrong.

the 'spitting feathers' lol 😄 I thank you so much for correcting my misconception. As a non-native to English language, I found it quite funny, but it also makes sense of how one would feel without moisture inbetween the palate and the tongue.

@DMV -- you make me laugh, girl. The connection between FB, growing muscles and celebrities is quite the visualization. The thought cracks me every time. So true! 😄


I blocked him off my FB. I never would want to hurt even a pinch of a Sag's sweet tender heart. I never ended things before with him. However, this time I did. And I wasn't very gentle with my words, but it was final. It may not mean anything to him. For me it does.

oh Wynter -- I didn't mean to ignore you. I lived in 3 different countries longterm before. Facebook is my connection to my loved ones. I get to know how they feel, what songs they like, what movies are tabloid and to their liking, when their children married, who has boyfriend, experimenting nail polish designs, yummy cakes, rock events and the list goes endless. I feel I stay in contact with my loved ones in my terms... or.. in OUR terms. As for Sag man FB is a different perspective on usage of the media. I hoped to learn about his little ways. It sure was innocent. I just wanted to know him better.

It depends on how one uses resources.

yeah fum...i use fb for the same reason...living in a different country to family. it's also great for other things such as a group my friend in spain has formed to raise funds for breast cancer charities. the whole thing is co-ordinated on fb. i'm doing a tandem skydive in september with the group...shitting myself thinking about it.

i also use fb for clients as network marketing is very effective.

i know you must be upset fum and it was obviously hard for you to block him but i think you did the right thing for you 🙂 i personally find sag men to be very controlling and selfish...almost like they want you so you should automatically want them back. unfortunately, that means having to be cruel to be kind for them to get the message. at least you just had to block him....i had to call the police and have him arrested, LOL!!!

Posted by FUM
I'm actually pretty upset tonight.

*hugs*

SHIT my Scorp has Venus in Sag. UHH OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Get some self respect and drop it. No guy respects a doormat who keeps taking him back, no matter how badly he treats you.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
yeah fum...i use fb for the same reason...living in a different country to family. it's also great for other things such as a group my friend in spain has formed to raise funds for breast cancer charities. the whole thing is co-ordinated on fb. i'm doing a tandem skydive in september with the group...shitting myself thinking about it.

i also use fb for clients as network marketing is very effective.

i know you must be upset fum and it was obviously hard for you to block him but i think you did the right thing for you 🙂 i personally find sag men to be very controlling and selfish...almost like they want you so you should automatically want them back. unfortunately, that means having to be cruel to be kind for them to get the message. at least you just had to block him....i had to call the police and have him arrested, LOL!!!

LOL so you had an obsessive Saggie yourself? but yeah... having to call the police is quite extreme and must have taken quite the consideration off you to take that step. I was tempted to block him before, because I could feel his anger/jealousy to some things he 'assumed'. I always hoped he understands my request to befriend him, and either attempts a step towards or just let things go.

This time, I felt quite offended with what he did.

Thank you, darling. Your words added humour to my decision. I don't think I will regret my decision.


In regard to your Leo, if he blocks you, then there probably is game involved. I dated a few Leos and I have best-friend among Leo. The one who really wants you, will be glued to you, even if you push him away all the time. What I like about Leo is his jolly warmth. I see myself trusting them in no time. So far, I trusted Leos the fastest. What I don't like is, as fast as they fall in love with you, they also tend to fall out of love as fast. Their unreliability. They like hearing their own voice and somehow I don't feel that sizzling chemistry for Leo. So as casual friends, they are good for me.

Posted by SagChick411

Posted by FUM
I'm actually pretty upset tonight.

*hugs*

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*hugs*, SagChick 😄

Are there any developments with your Scorp?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Get some self respect and drop it. No guy respects a doormat who keeps taking him back, no matter how badly he treats you.

that's dealt with.

I wrote him not to write or contact me again.