Is this cute Sag into me??

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Confusedgemini80
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7 Years

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Hi Sagittarius men, need some advice on this cute Sagittarius colleague of mine.. We are very close because he is new to my country and I take good care of him when he just reached. In fact he does have 2 friends from his country in our company but he still became very close to me. He would sometimes ask me for coffee break and he will start telling me alot of interesting things. I did noticed that he only ask me out for coffee breaks and not other female colleagues otherwise he will ask other male colleagues out for breaks. Recently, we have more new colleagues coming onboard and as part of my job I will assist all new employees, so I tend to spend less alone time with him. And I’ve also been quite close with a male consultant and we became real close friends, we will hang out for breaks sometimes and I caught him looking at us both when we return. I realised few days ago he started to touch me more, like the other day I was asking him about some work stuff and he started teasing me on work related and then hold me by my arm sort of like stroking in office. And when I’m laughing with another colleague he would turn to look at me and will join in our conversation. We were having dinner the other night and I was sitting with another new colleague and we had lots of conversation and when we leave the restaurant, he opened the door for me and as I walk out the door he sorta held my back. I catch myself staring at him and noticing him alot. And whenever our eyes met he would smile to me and hold his gaze while I feel shy and look away. Whenever I come into the office in the morning, and when I walk past his table his face will brighten up as he wave to me. I’m not sure what all of these signs mean or is he just being friendly and don’t wanna lose me as a close friend. I am trying my best to not read too much in it as I don’t wanna get too deep if it’s just nothing at all. Hope someone can enlighten me on this.
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Pandora101
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OP, you yourself flirt a lot, so maybe he is just the same

Edit: you are not with him 24/7

two mutables flirting a lot with everybody - surprise 🙂

I think if he is from another country, he appreciates the time you gave him and ease the "pain" getting into a new company setting and have some friends for light joking

even if he does make a move, I would remember: romance in a workplace is a very tricky one and can end very ugly...

how long he is staying in your country? or is he relocated for infinite for this position? maybe he has a girlfriend at home.... what do you want to or not want to get "too deep" into? coffee breaks? holding doors?
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Confusedgemini80
@Confusedgemini80
7 Years

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@ Pandora101, I feel the special treatment from him and it’s confusing. Or maybe you are right we are both flirting with each other. As a Gemini, I can be a real flirt especially when I like someone and I do like him. Well, I don’t wanna fall too deep is what I really meant, and I don’t want it to be unrequited love. He is a divorced and he kept emphasizing he’s single the other day, well I don’t wanna read too deep into it and I really appreciate everyone’s advice. I will just let it be, tiring to be guessing it all. 🙂