Lonely AF

Am I the only Sag that feels alone all of the time? I should be optimistic and energetic and whatnot, but for a long time now I have felt as if I am sliding down a spiral... most of the people I know are passed on, including my parents, grandparents, best friend...and everyone else seems to either shut me out completely or just don't get me anymore. No friends remain to talk to. I don't feel like myself and have been very depressed. Maybe something is wrong with me? Maybe I am cursed or poisoned? I am so terrified that my man will give up on me and find someone better. He is a Leo with cancer moon. lately, I have been feeling the famous urge to run. Battling internally. so afraid. So confused, and so sad. Sag sun, sag Venus, sag Jupiter, gem moon, cap mars. So I guess I have lost my way. Can I ever get it back? Can any sags relate? Am I all alone?

I have a Sagi friend of 15 years who has many times ovee the yeara complained of feeling lonely in relationships. You need to figure out what will bring you fulfillment. Post your whole chart? Or at least all of your placements with houses?

i would say you're probably not the only one who feels this way. because it's my understanding that there are many, many more Sagittarius ♐ out there, so surely you can't possibly be the only one experiencing this...

-Jack

Posted by Skybluerose
Am I the only Sag that feels alone all of the time? I should be optimistic and energetic and whatnot, but for a long time now I have felt as if I am sliding down a spiral... most of the people I know are passed on, including my parents, grandparents, best friend...and everyone else seems to either shut me out completely or just don't get me anymore. No friends remain to talk to. I don't feel like myself and have been very depressed. Maybe something is wrong with me? Maybe I am cursed or poisoned? I am so terrified that my man will give up on me and find someone better. He is a Leo with cancer moon. lately, I have been feeling the famous urge to run. Battling internally. so afraid. So confused, and so sad. Sag sun, sag Venus, sag Jupiter, gem moon, cap mars. So I guess I have lost my way. Can I ever get it back? Can any sags relate? Am I all alone?

I'm not a Sagittarius but there's gotta be something you can dwell on that's positive.

If you keep thinking like that.

Would you want to be around you...everyone is dead...I'm depressed...life is unaltering.

You're alive and have a guy that loves you...doesn't sound like you're hurt for food shelter or the basic necessities.

Try to reinvent yourself. Maybe think back to your youth and think about things you want to try or do or experience or taste...that you never have.

Doesn't have to be extreme. Could be a new hobby besides astrology.

A dance class maybe. Volunteer somewhere maybe.

Saggy's need so much attention that's hard to fulfill, bringing an empty feeling. Work on meditation...

Although some are actually very shy and reclusive

Yes. All of this. My Taurus bff passed away. My scorpio bff has cut me off (as my Daddy passed) BC she thought I told a secret when I didn't. Yes I do need nature. No I wouldn't want to be around me and yes I do need attention. I need to feel like people like being around me. Like they enjoy my presence, and I don't even enjoy that anymore. Yes I feel left out and ignored. My man tries, and I appreciate him. I do, but I am still unhappy. And that makes me feel guilty. I wish I could run away. I want to go off on an adventure and find excitement and fun and.... more of a reason for living than to just work everyday. But I don't know where to start, and I am terrified of losing the tiny bit I have left if I make the wrong move. I feel like the king in a chess game surrounded in checkmate. I feel like I'm suffocating. Maybe I just need a shrink. Meditation has been something I've been thinking of lately. I'm just lost, I guess. Hoping to find a kindred spirit that remembers how they found themselves. Like Brittany Spears shaving her head and talking in a foreign accent.

Sun-sag

Moon-gem

Asc-virgo

Jupiter-scorp

Sat-scorp

Uranus-sag

Neptune-sag

Pluto-libra

Mars- cap

But I don't want to lose the internal struggle that we sags are famous for... running away. I'm ready to face it...but what is IT? Loneliness? And how do I face THAT without running way and being alone?

i ran to mexico. I needed that shyt. I was about to lose my mind!

Posted by CAPLOCKSAID
I still run away time to time.

You learn to find yourself by embracing who you are whether good or bad...own it.

Love yourself including your flaws.

Because every person is different...it means we're all uniquely beautiful.

When someone loves us when we know our own imperfections, it can make us feel insecure because we feel unworthy or undeserving.

Dear Stranger,

Everybody deserves to be loved...including you. So don't push away those who care for you.

And to the people who ignore you...believe me. You'll be better without them.

Yes...^^^^

This is the perfect time to explore self healing. No one's gonna do it for you. We've all been there in some way shape or form though.

Let these things that have happened unexpectedly make you stronger and more understanding and loving yourself and others that are still in your life rooting for you.

You will find your way. Take the love you have and miss from your bff that passed and share some of that with your guy and your coworkers or whoever is in your life that you care about.

Leo with cancer moon you sayeh? We don't give up on people 🤗

You're good.

I also have depression so at this stage my advice is allow yourself to feel like crap. It's not a crime.

you can and will get through it x

Great question.. what exactly are we aiming at with our arrows displayed in our "logo" or what is it that we are running to..? Or who??

Enlighten me.. after dating a sag.. and me being one. It's like we can become obsessed with something, and run away when it's beginning to consume us a little too much.

Posted by wagtail
Leo with cancer moon you sayeh? We don't give up on people 🤗

You're good.

I also have depression so at this stage my advice is allow yourself to feel like crap. It's not a crime.

you can and will get through it x

Cancer moons DO NOT give up on the people they love.

allow him to be there 4 you.

Posted by Skybluerose
Yes. All of this. My Taurus bff passed away. My scorpio bff has cut me off (as my Daddy passed) BC she thought I told a secret when I didn't. Yes I do need nature. No I wouldn't want to be around me and yes I do need attention. I need to feel like people like being around me. Like they enjoy my presence, and I don't even enjoy that anymore. Yes I feel left out and ignored. My man tries, and I appreciate him. I do, but I am still unhappy. And that makes me feel guilty. I wish I could run away. I want to go off on an adventure and find excitement and fun and.... more of a reason for living than to just work everyday. But I don't know where to start, and I am terrified of losing the tiny bit I have left if I make the wrong move. I feel like the king in a chess game surrounded in checkmate. I feel like I'm suffocating. Maybe I just need a shrink. Meditation has been something I've been thinking of lately. I'm just lost, I guess. Hoping to find a kindred spirit that remembers how they found themselves. Like Brittany Spears shaving her head and talking in a foreign accent.

Sun-sag

Moon-gem

Asc-virgo

Jupiter-scorp

Sat-scorp

Uranus-sag

Neptune-sag

Pluto-libra

Mars- cap

This kinda sounds like Gemini moon restlessness. I could not be happy within myself and my relationship til I got to a place i was happy physically. moving to northern California has done a lot for my outlook on life. I feel like i live in a place where I fit in better and am better accepted. I can legally get the medicine I need also which improves my outlook on life. there are many things to do here outdoors and in if you like. plenty to walk to or take public transport. the last place I lived had a lot of "backwards" thinking and i simply could not be happy there no matter what i tried. my point is go where you are happy. make yourself happy so you can live happily with someone else. one day tho you must challenge yourself to lay your roots somewhere if settling down is the end game. doesn't mean that has to happen now but it's something to think about down the line.

the man you choose is loving someone you aren't. Until you know and portray who you really are you won't feel satisfied and loved

I completely understand what you are talking about. While I do have family and a few friends left in my life, they are all essentially too far away to be a constant presence in it. Because I ran away....

I'm also trying to discover my life's purpose but I'm afraid to make any radical decisions right now, and risk losing the small comforts I still do have.

On top of all of that my family has been going through a very difficult time for the past year, and it has caused some problems between some of us, and it's exhausting worrying over everything all the time. Which makes me just want to run away again.

I'd prefer to blame all of this on Saturn in Sag, but if it is, then I don't know if I can make it to Dec 2017.

I've been going out on hikes as often as possible, and when we have warm nights I've been going out for night drives, with the windows down, these things make me feel alive again.

I've also discovered some poems and writings by Charlotte Eriksson, Something about the way she writes seems to speak to me. Here's one that seems appropriate:

"Great growth comes from loneliness. You have time to develop, dwell in your own mind and go a bit mad. All great people are a bit mad. That’s good to remember. Don’t escape it.

Great growth comes from time spent in foreign lands, watching foreign people with foreign cultures. It makes you forget about your own land and race and town for a while. Great growth also comes from rooting yourself into one place from time to time. Unpack your bags, get a nice bed, a book shelf, some friends. Learn to show up, keep in touch, stick around.

Growth comes in all sort of forms and shapes, everywhere at all times, and it’s yours to take and consume. Do what ought to be done. Here and now, to get you somewhere — anywhere."

- Charlotte Eriksson, a new era

I just wanna say thanks to everyone for your words and compassion. I think it helps to know that there are others who get it. My Hunny is great and I know I'm lucky to have him. He just doesn't seem to get it sometimes. Like we communicate differently or something. I'll keep trying to talk to him and take some of your suggestions. There are a lot of hobbies I've been wanting to try lately but I guess I've been using depression as an excuse to not have the energy. I'm definitely going to take it one day at a time. A step today. A step tomorrow. And eventually I'll find myself again. Thanks

We are with you saggi. Some of us arent brave enough to say that we're hurting. You took the first step.

As another Sagi who has been there ...I agree with what others have said... you need to make yourself busier.

I've always been happiest in life when I have very little spare time. The rest falls into place from there.

Hang in there 🙂

Posted by DMV
i ran to mexico. I needed that shyt. I was about to lose my mind!

She couldn't afford a bus ticket. So she ran.... ALLLLLLLL the way there... and after about 5 minutes in Mexico, she ran ALLLLLLLL the way back.

She could have just run back in forth in somebody's house and gotten the same effect.

Sags can be very peculiar in their quest for.....? in search of.....?

I feel that way sometimes. I thinks it's because of the daily routine and so often in my family and friends relationships I find myself giving the advice. Everytime I reach out I get nothing. If I need family help all the sudden there's something terribly wrong and they want to know what's really going on like it's some kind of conspiracy or something. Most of the time all we need is someone to stfu and listen and we give ourselves the advice. I just trashed all expectations. I don't trust people. I trust people to do what they always do. I keep rolling on. Making new friends faster than old friends let me down. Just keep it going. That's what I do now.

I don't really fell lonely I just fell meh with people. That's probably bc I'm very independent.