Sagittarius Guy... Here we go again

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byfelicity
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7 Years

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Hi everybody

Looking for advice or opinions about my “Friendship” with a Sagittarius.

We meet in 2018, we started as a friends with a a really good and strong friendship, he was my rock when I needed. However we changed to be FWB, always was a back and forth Situation when every time he noticed me catching feelings he ran away. Finally in February I told him that I love him but that I didn’t want stick around anymore with the back and Forth situation, everything he said was “Im sorry if I hurt you, It wasn’t my intention”.

I moved on, it was hard I cried a lot but it was my fault because he always was honest. Three weeks ago he called me again, telling me that he wanted me back, as FWB but that he understood that I wasn’t willing to be again in the Back and forth Situation, so this time he want us to see each other 2 or 3 times a week. Now that I have no feelings (Romantically) he have been so so so caring with me.

Why is he back and this time trying to make it up to me? Everything I ask him to do, he do it.

Thanks in advance
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@byfelicity
7 Years

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Posted by DMV

What’s your exact question?

If you have no romantic feelings, seems like a cut n dry FWB situation. 🧐

I guess keep him around till you find someone you have romantic feelings for.


Why is back and this time trying to make it up to me? Everything I ask him to do, he just go and do it.

No, I don’t have feelings but I do care about him and I don’t lose him as a friend this time.
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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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Hes back for sex. You already said that he wanted you back as a FWB...

Not just any FWB, this guy wants 2-3 days of benefits instead of the one day a week.

Make sure you’re getting what YOU want out of the situation at all times because he sure is getting exactly what he wants. Make sure YOUR sexual needs are met as well.

Sag men when the vibes are right will want to

Be friends with their lovers. He’s also making sure his routine of 2-3 days a week stays intact by being nice and agreeable.

Look from his perspective, a girl who he had a FWB with caught feelings. So he bounced to give her some breathing room. Create some space. He never said he didn’t like the passion between you two. He probably sat on the couch, horny, bored and remembered this girl who he liked and had sexy times with. But, she may be mad and not wanna mess with him.

So he acknowledges the rules of engagement from the beginning with you. I just want a FWB. Now there’s no room for confusion on your part is what he’s thinking. He forgets that women form bonds and his “bored” behavior of hooking up with you could still confuse you.