Is it hard for a Sagittarius to commit?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Klh1203 on Sunday, June 14, 2020 and has 17 replies.

Do Sagittarians Find It Hard to Commit

Sagittarians may find commitment challenging due to their love for freedom and adventure. However, they can commit when they find a partner who respects their independence and shares their values. Understanding their need for growth and exploration helps foster deeper connections and commitment over time.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Someone who is committed to us. If you are unsure, we get unsure.

Taking things day by day is what’s best when you deal with a Sag. And don’t try to make them jealous.

They will stop taking you seriously if you talk about how many guys you date. You will get placed into a category to be played with only.

You can date whoever you want, i just wouldn’t advise telling the guy unless he asks.

A sag will date around until he/she is committed.

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@PuzzlePieces
7 Years1,000+ Posts

No. It needs to be with right person though. If the situation isn’t good for me, later dude..

What do you mean committing? Marriage or bf/gf?

The biggest thing is having no doubts.. but they must be loyal, and I’m just very comfortable around them and we enjoy life aka have fun together. Marriage is a bit more complicated.

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@ozzzy
11 Years500+ Posts

Yes, it is hard for me to commit, I like my freedom the most. But, if the girl is giving me a lot of freedom, and is attractive, plus treats me well, and we get really along, well, it may last...but who knows how much, hahaha. If she starts talking about marriage, or when she plans to have kids or is jealous, it will not last for sure, lmao.

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9 YearsPisces

Posted by Basorexia

From what I've seen so far, Sag guys will commit initially but eventually will get bored in the long run... And then 👀

I’ve noticed this too😂 this is why I’m not giving this sag moon guy a chance he’s very much a sag even though he’s a Virgo and he’s telling me he wants a relationship but then he tells me he’s bored of the girls he’s currently dating lmao I am just keeping him as a friend

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I've never had an issue w commitment, but, I like to be free to do as I please whether married, or not. In example, if I want to go to my homegirls house and spend the weekend, I should be able to do so w very lil questions asked. Or if I want to go on a trip, that should be okay too. Just as I believe that my partner should hang out w the boys etc, too. In all things I want to be true to myself. So, commitment is nice but I don't want a clingy man joined to my hip, or an insecure, jealous, needy man. Very, very unattractive traits. I honestly don't even want a man living w me 🤷 All in all, I'm very honest and loyal, so if I feel that my partner is equal in those areas, I may do my own thing but ultimately I'm all his.

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Posted by Klh1203

Posted by Basorexia

From what I've seen so far, Sag guys will commit initially but eventually will get bored in the long run... And then 👀

I’ve noticed this too😂 this is why I’m not giving this sag moon guy a chance he’s very much a sag even though he’s a Virgo and he’s telling me he wants a relationship but then he tells me he’s bored of the girls he’s currently dating lmao I am just keeping him as a friend

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I do ♥️ sag moon though. 🙈

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It needs to be with right person though. If the situation isn’t good for me, later dude..

What do you mean committing? Marriage or bf/gf?

The biggest thing is having no doubts.. but they must be loyal, and I’m just very comfortable around them and we enjoy life aka have fun together. Marriage is a bit more complicated.

What would you need from them in order to marry them?

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7 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It needs to be with right person though. If the situation isn’t good for me, later dude..

What do you mean committing? Marriage or bf/gf?

The biggest thing is having no doubts.. but they must be loyal, and I’m just very comfortable around them and we enjoy life aka have fun together. Marriage is a bit more complicated.

What would you need from them in order to marry them?

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I’ve been married twice. I don’t know that I really thought that much about what I needed the first time.. it was stupid & we were too young.

The second time .. I just couldn’t imagine ever being without him. I wanted babies with him and it was just a natural step. But we didn’t rush into it either.. we were together 3 1/2 years before marriage and lived together 2 years of that. Together a total of 20 years.

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6 Years

Posted by PuzzlePieces

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It needs to be with right person though. If the situation isn’t good for me, later dude..

What do you mean committing? Marriage or bf/gf?

The biggest thing is having no doubts.. but they must be loyal, and I’m just very comfortable around them and we enjoy life aka have fun together. Marriage is a bit more complicated.

What would you need from them in order to marry them?

I’ve been married twice. I don’t know that I really thought that much about what I needed the first time.. it was stupid & we were too young.

The second time .. I just couldn’t imagine ever being without him. I wanted babies with him and it was just a natural step. But we didn’t rush into it either.. we were together 3 1/2 years before marriage and lived together 2 years of that. Together a total of 20 years.

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So you're still with him?

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@PuzzlePieces
7 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It needs to be with right person though. If the situation isn’t good for me, later dude..

What do you mean committing? Marriage or bf/gf?

The biggest thing is having no doubts.. but they must be loyal, and I’m just very comfortable around them and we enjoy life aka have fun together. Marriage is a bit more complicated.

What would you need from them in order to marry them?

I’ve been married twice. I don’t know that I really thought that much about what I needed the first time.. it was stupid & we were too young.

The second time .. I just couldn’t imagine ever being without him. I wanted babies with him and it was just a natural step. But we didn’t rush into it either.. we were together 3 1/2 years before marriage and lived together 2 years of that. Together a total of 20 years.

So you're still with him?

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No we got divorced 8 years ago. Babies are 24 & 19 now. I still couldn’t imagine being without him when I left.

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6 Years

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It needs to be with right person though. If the situation isn’t good for me, later dude..

What do you mean committing? Marriage or bf/gf?

The biggest thing is having no doubts.. but they must be loyal, and I’m just very comfortable around them and we enjoy life aka have fun together. Marriage is a bit more complicated.

What would you need from them in order to marry them?

I’ve been married twice. I don’t know that I really thought that much about what I needed the first time.. it was stupid & we were too young.

The second time .. I just couldn’t imagine ever being without him. I wanted babies with him and it was just a natural step. But we didn’t rush into it either.. we were together 3 1/2 years before marriage and lived together 2 years of that. Together a total of 20 years.

So you're still with him?

No we got divorced 8 years ago. Babies are 24 & 19 now. I still couldn’t imagine being without him when I left.

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What made you leave? I'm sorry if I'm asking too much. You're free to not answer 🙂

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

No. It needs to be with right person though. If the situation isn’t good for me, later dude..

What do you mean committing? Marriage or bf/gf?

The biggest thing is having no doubts.. but they must be loyal, and I’m just very comfortable around them and we enjoy life aka have fun together. Marriage is a bit more complicated.

What would you need from them in order to marry them?

I’ve been married twice. I don’t know that I really thought that much about what I needed the first time.. it was stupid & we were too young.

The second time .. I just couldn’t imagine ever being without him. I wanted babies with him and it was just a natural step. But we didn’t rush into it either.. we were together 3 1/2 years before marriage and lived together 2 years of that. Together a total of 20 years.

So you're still with him?

No we got divorced 8 years ago. Babies are 24 & 19 now. I still couldn’t imagine being without him when I left.

What made you leave? I'm sorry if I'm asking too much. You're free to not answer 🙂

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It’s very complicated. Issues could not be resolved that had become big problems.