sagjttarius giving me what I want

So as most know i'm in an open relationship however my Sagittarius gf took it to a level of breaking my trust. She would do things without my knowing and not that she couldn't do everything its just since we're in an open relationship she would feel like its her right to do whatever she wants without me knowing. Open relationships have rules so that the actual relationship didn't end. My gf was my first ex of over 10 years ago. She has drove me crazy in the last 3 months of living together. My question is Sagittarius women, how do you want a whole relationship with someone your not willing to try to keep?

Huh? From thought to paper didn't translate too well. I'm not quite sure what you're trying to ask.

I'm a Sag female so I can answer if the question was in clearer context.

Posted by saggurl88

Huh? From thought to paper didn't translate too well. I'm not quite sure what you're trying to ask.

I'm a Sag female so I can answer if the question was in clearer context.

ok so basically my gf and I have an open relationship. She wasn't considerate in letting me know before hand of some of the things that she would do. She has fucked a person that shes been seeing consistently however we both said we weren't ready for that type of intimacy. So I ended up finding out that she in fact had sex with person. She told me she wasn't ok with me having sex with anyone after she did. I been trying to break it off with her but considering the fact i'm living with her its hard to actually be single and to move on from this while living together. I don't wanna keep getting hurt by her selfish acts however she now decided after weeks of hurt to give me what I want which is a closed relationship until I can learn to trust her again. so my question is how does one claim they want a relationship with someone that doesn't trust them? shes adamant about being with me but prior she would say how she doesn't wanna lose her freedom. I haven't stopped her prior and don't want to but shes super inconsiderate in anything she does. No thought of how I would feel comes to mind. She just apologizes later.

So you wanted an open relationship, she agreed, and now your mad she fucked someone else?

Open relationship isn’t for you then.

Time to be honest with yourself.

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you wanted an open relationship, she agreed, and now your mad she fucked someone else?

Open relationship isn’t for you then.

Time to be honest with yourself.

actually u missed the fact that she told me one thing and it became another. but most people will assume that I can't handle it and if your a Sagittarius u too have the fucked up mentality of you can do whatever you want even if your in a relationship... selfish shit

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you wanted an open relationship, she agreed, and now your mad she fucked someone else?

Open relationship isn’t for you then.

Time to be honest with yourself.

This.

Go with the Taurus friend you slept with

Sag people are pretty selfish. We pretty much will do what we want. I'm not really sure what the trust issue is if you guys were already in an open relationship, as well as even needing to tell the other when/who you guys are having sex with, if it's open. You guys don't seem to be in much of a relationship at all. It seems more like her screwing you in the meantime of her looking for a real relationship.

But I can only guess. I deal with an ex that I use for sex while I date around, so I'm basing it off my own experience.

What are you actually wanting out of this?

What’s the ‘rules’ of open relashionships?

And how is open different from just fucking around?

What makes it ‘relashionships’ if both people involved having whatever relashionships they want with other people?

Let me get this straight.

Y’all were in an open relationship.

You decided to be completely honest.

She realizes after having sex she didn’t like what she was doing and didn’t want you to have an open one.

She then decides after you complain to have a closed one.

Sounds like she ran out the gate and lapped you 🤷🏾‍♂️.

Other than not openly communicating, why would you want to know if your girl is having sex with another guy if it’s open

Oh hey honey...i got a facial an hour ago... come give me a hug and kiss hello?

Rules change all the time. You are emotionally attached and your feelings are hurt.

Was it selfish ... yep. Hell I ran around sloring and not speaking about it. You shouldn’t give sags free reign. We will push it.