Signs you've got a Sagittarius guy hooked? (Page 2)

Ok. So he texted me back and he was indeed busy. We are meeting up tomorrow. Should I lie and tell him I'm still on that dating site and found some guys attractive? I want to play hard to get. He has a lot of girls in his social network that bombard and flirt with him. I want to be different from them.

How can I seduce him? Do you think he wants to be friends or more?

By seducing, I mean like holding hands, kissing, etc. So far I have been myself. I think I am insecure due to the fact I have been rejected by every single person I tried to talk to back when I was younger, and I hate that feeling. But I also don't want to be clingy. I know in the past, I have played games especially with that Scorpio who just destroyed the both of us in the end. All he ever cared about was winning.

Studying away all my teen years, I never really had time to socialize but I am thinking of changing that while I am still at college, but am engineering degree is tough, I guess. I just don't want to sound too available to him and he thinks I'm easy.

I thought guys liked the chase?

To make a long story short, we hit it off at the first date and he planned for a second one. There was a lot of innocent flirting here and there. Nick (not real name) had genuine interest in what I had to say, asked me a lot of questions about my life, family and hobbies. We laughed nearly all the time and he did most of the talking and never took out his phone except for showing me some things. Nick also laughed at my lame dumb blond jokes even though I could feel that he did not really like it. Since I am going back home for a few weeks, he seemed worried about me not coming back and asked for every detail to clarify things. When I told him I was gonna come back, he seemed very relieved.



A lot of girls came up to Nick and flirted with him, and I decided to test him a bit. Told him I gotta bin my drink and he disengaged from the girls and followed me right to the bin where I finished and binned it. Took 30min to finish and he still stood by me, never checking his phone or talking to other girls! We had fun for the rest of the night, but I think I fucked it all up.



I thought he was a player (since there was so many girls coming onto him and it was hardly possible for him to not be one) I told him everybody cheats on everyone and it was unrealistic not to think so. Nick told me in a relationship there has to be trust and it was more than fine to commit if he found the right person. I felt really bad for saying that and realized indeed I was deeply insecure. I tried to cover up the wrong move and agreed with him adding my statements. We ended up laughing and having a great time in the end before I said I needed to go. I left and he asked me whether I was gonna give him a hug or not. I hugged Nick and it lingered on for so long before I said goodbye. Also said the reason why I was on a dating site was to find friends but would take things further from there if it all worked out.

Not sure if he is still interested in me or demoted me to friendship material. Does he think I may not act the same way or only see him as a friend?

He even gave me a copy of his band CD. But the thing is, today when I thanked him for his time, and how awesome he was with not just a pretty face, he said it was how he is. He told me he would catch up with me as soon as I get back. How could I keep him from losing interest over these weeks I am away from him? I don't want to come off too clingy.