What’s the connection with Sag/Gemini?

I have never dated a Gemini male, although one tried to get me to date him. It would’ve been fun but he was way too old lol. Great stimulating conversations though!

I have had so many Gemini female friends though. They piss me off when they tell me what to do seriously! But they always seem to come back. One is a friend for 17 years! Boy we’ve been through it.. the good & the bad, the ups & downs, and cutting off the friendship only to reconnect a couple of years later. Another just asked me to hang out on 4th of July. We definitely have fun and great conversations but I think it must be deeper than that. I’m seriously bad at initiating. Leo’s & Gemini’s seem to have no problem 😂😂 and they both talk a lot 🤪

So tell me your impression of the Gem/Sag connection…

I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

I like Geminis a lot, but the men can have a hard time adulting. But if you can find a responsible one, who has their shit together, it's good.

If you're bad at initiating, then a Gemini is for you. You barely have to do anything because they love the chase. It's mostly about having, fun, loving them and reciprocation.

As long as they have this, it's easy to keep them.

I don't know what else to add, read their actions more then their words. If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot.

They are consistent and loyal and show great vulnerability in relationships.

What type of things don't work for you in dating? You mention that you've dated some signs but you don't talk too much about what goes wrong.

Haha! "If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot." - this can be SO true of Sag also. They will be completely blunt and Gemini is able to take it. When things hurt us, we don't dwell on it and I think the same can be said of Saggi's.

I find them loyal, and not a lot of rules like I have to call them all the time. We can stay out of touch and reconnect right back where we left off. I always have fun with Sag because they are truly up for anything. Very spontaneous and adventurous! I haven't dated one which is interesting so I'm just basing this on my Sag female friends.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

@saggurl88 knows too much about us!

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

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I wasn't reading up on you! LMAO YOU WISH!! Hahahaha! 😛

I was with a Gemini for a long time, I know the ins and outs.

You have a Sag wifey, you should know us well too.

Why don't you give her some insight on how we are to you.

Most people don't understand how a sag can be when we are inside of a relationship. They just know how we are when we are noncommittal.

Hearing it from a Gemini man can be helpful.

You always have plenty to say, so drop some knowledge! 😄

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

I love Virgos for a while and then they start to get a bit critical or bossy and I then deliberately set them off by doing stuff that irritates their pedantic, perfectionist nature and then it's countdown to detonation

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THIS is always a good time! 😆 I love seeing this, I think this what what confuses a lot of people about Geminis, but I find it funny as hell.

People need to learn how to sink to a Geminis level and have some fun.

Good times all around!

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Haha! "If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot." - this can be SO true of Sag also. They will be completely blunt and Gemini is able to take it. When things hurt us, we don't dwell on it and I think the same can be said of Saggi's.

I think more people need to have some guts and just say things in a truthful way. Maybe they can be confused because of how sensitive Geminis seem.

I love that you guys don't even get affected half the time when someone says something a little harsh or rude. It's like they never even said it and you just carryon like normal. The resiliency Geminis have when they love someone is an amazing quality.

But a person is still able to get out what they need to say, you hear it, accept it, brush it off, and move on to better times.

It's almost too easy.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

I like Geminis a lot, but the men can have a hard time adulting. But if you can find a responsible one, who has their shit together, it's good.

If you're bad at initiating, then a Gemini is for you. You barely have to do anything because they love the chase. It's mostly about having, fun, loving them and reciprocation.

As long as they have this, it's easy to keep them.

I don't know what else to add, read their actions more then their words. If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot.

They are consistent and loyal and show great vulnerability in relationships.

What type of things don't work for you in dating? You mention that you've dated some signs but you don't talk too much about what goes wrong.

Lol the long term friend IS bossy and gets hurt if you don’t take her advice 😂😂 her getting hurt when I didn’t do everything she told me to do because she knew best .. her feelings got hurt & she blocked me for 2 years!!!! She has a cancer moon btw. She is floored that I forgave her btw.. but she came back cuz I’m the kind person. I may say things bluntly but my actions are here I am with open arms.. she a leader & people follow. Used to be a personal trainer and now is selling/influencing wellness. She now talks to me differently, asking instead of telling & we are back to great friends again. Because I don’t follow anymore, I’m stronger than that. We have both had a lot of growth. The 2nd friend that is possible on the bossiness. I think you just have to ignore it. It’s just irritating when I say oh I did this & and it’s a big rant on how I was wrong and how I should’ve done something 🙄🙄🙄 I want to say whatever but I’m keeping my mouth shut these days.. change the conversation.

This wasn’t about dating someone actually.. I was just curious lol. But since you asked, I have done a metric ton of growth since my divorce. When I see unhealthy behavior, enabling, codependent I’m out. I’ve been there & I'm not going back to that situation. Also I’m very independent, nice, kind etc & some people think that means they can mold me & walk on me and that’s a NO. So I’m out. I tend to attract emotionally unavailable guys ugh & I’m not doing that anymore either. I used to try to help them, but I’m thinking of me these days. Not online dating cuz I always meet the same types.. lonely, need help or just want sex. I’ve gotten a lot stronger & am good with me. If I meet someone who is on the healthy side and we click, that would be cool.

Oh & on Gemini’s loyal? All the female Gems I know cheat. They don’t seem to have a lot of boundaries. Just what I’ve noticed.

However I am a great responder lol. I do better with people who initiate but who can adjust to care about what I want too.

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Haha! "If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot." - this can be SO true of Sag also. They will be completely blunt and Gemini is able to take it. When things hurt us, we don't dwell on it and I think the same can be said of Saggi's.

I find them loyal, and not a lot of rules like I have to call them all the time. We can stay out of touch and reconnect right back where we left off. I always have fun with Sag because they are truly up for anything. Very spontaneous and adventurous! I haven't dated one which is interesting so I'm just basing this on my Sag female friends.

That’s funny I just have Gem female friends & never dated a male one. So true on the reconnect. It’s like this friend & mine were pathmates for years then had to back away from each other & back together after lots of growth. It really is a great friendship. The other asked me if I wanted to go hiking to a waterfall on the 4th.. haha she knows I love that shit. I used to invite her but she could never go. That was pre-Covid.

pretty common where i'm from and volatile

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

I wasn't reading up on you! LMAO YOU WISH!! Hahahaha! 😛

I was with a Gemini for a long time, I know the ins and outs.

You have a Sag wifey, you should know us well too.

Why don't you give her some insight on how we are to you.

Most people don't understand how a sag can be when we are inside of a relationship. They just know how we are when we are noncommittal.

Hearing it from a Gemini man can be helpful.

You always have plenty to say, so drop some knowledge! 😄

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Oh yeah I know a lot about Sagittarius women in relationships no doubt. I just don't know how to put most of them in words correctly as I'm not good with that sort of thing. Yeah I know. Hard to believe a Gemini sun moon and mercury ain't good with words. All I can say is that they are loyal people that will no matter what will look after you and stick with you thru thick and thin once committed. And they are good in bed I tell you what. Now you don't want me to get to the bad parts. Of course every signs got some bads.

And um yeah I know you wasn't reading up on me that was just a figure of speech. So I can only speculate your Gemini you was with for a long time was exactly like me.

I'm a male Gemini rising. I feel more like a Gemini than I do an Aries (my sun sign).

Geminis would never purposely hurt an innocent person unless. At the same time, Gemini's can be vindictive in a very witty and hurtful way. If you can't play back with me, I am not interested in you. I need someone to keep the conversation going. I want someone who can drink wine and be in stitches with me. Sagittarius women are great about this.

The problem with Sag women is everyone wants their attention. When you are in a relationship with them, you see their true self. The behind closed doors Sag is a lot different than the dinner party Sag. Gemini's, being the twins, understand this.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

I like Geminis a lot, but the men can have a hard time adulting. But if you can find a responsible one, who has their shit together, it's good.

If you're bad at initiating, then a Gemini is for you. You barely have to do anything because they love the chase. It's mostly about having, fun, loving them and reciprocation.

As long as they have this, it's easy to keep them.

I don't know what else to add, read their actions more then their words. If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot.

They are consistent and loyal and show great vulnerability in relationships.

What type of things don't work for you in dating? You mention that you've dated some signs but you don't talk too much about what goes wrong.

Bro chill! You’re just trying to get in my good side. You knew I would read this

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Will all the Gemini men in the room please take a seat! 😛 Your number will be called shortly! Ha!

@PuzzlePieces - "She now talks to me differently, asking instead of telling & we are back to great friends again. Because I don’t follow anymore, I’m stronger than that." - I'm glad you stood up to her. Gemini's will walk the hell all over you if we find you are weak. I have actually stopped myself from doing that anymore. If you are direct, we can absolutely respect that. Maybe not in the moment, but certainly afterward. I've learned and evolved from my earlier toxic ways. Bossiness and controlling being one of them. I've seen the consequences of that and have let it go.

btw - I don't cheat. My Cancer moon will not allow me to be happy that way.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

I like Geminis a lot, but the men can have a hard time adulting. But if you can find a responsible one, who has their shit together, it's good.

If you're bad at initiating, then a Gemini is for you. You barely have to do anything because they love the chase. It's mostly about having, fun, loving them and reciprocation.

As long as they have this, it's easy to keep them.

I don't know what else to add, read their actions more then their words. If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot.

They are consistent and loyal and show great vulnerability in relationships.

What type of things don't work for you in dating? You mention that you've dated some signs but you don't talk too much about what goes wrong.

Lol the long term friend IS bossy and gets hurt if you don’t take her advice 😂😂 her getting hurt when I didn’t do everything she told me to do because she knew best .. her feelings got hurt & she blocked me for 2 years!!!! She has a cancer moon btw. She is floored that I forgave her btw.. but she came back cuz I’m the kind person. I may say things bluntly but my actions are here I am with open arms.. she a leader & people follow. Used to be a personal trainer and now is selling/influencing wellness. She now talks to me differently, asking instead of telling & we are back to great friends again. Because I don’t follow anymore, I’m stronger than that. We have both had a lot of growth. The 2nd friend that is possible on the bossiness. I think you just have to ignore it. It’s just irritating when I say oh I did this & and it’s a big rant on how I was wrong and how I should’ve done something 🙄🙄🙄 I want to say whatever but I’m keeping my mouth shut these days.. change the conversation.

This wasn’t about dating someone actually.. I was just curious lol. But since you asked, I have done a metric ton of growth since my divorce. When I see unhealthy behavior, enabling, codependent I’m out. I’ve been there & I'm not going back to that situation. Also I’m very independent, nice, kind etc & some people think that means they can mold me & walk on me and that’s a NO. So I’m out. I tend to attract emotionally unavailable guys ugh & I’m not doing that anymore either. I used to try to help them, but I’m thinking of me these days. Not online dating cuz I always meet the same types.. lonely, need help or just want sex. I’ve gotten a lot stronger & am good with me. If I meet someone who is on the healthy side and we click, that would be cool.

Oh & on Gemini’s loyal? All the female Gems I know cheat. They don’t seem to have a lot of boundaries. Just what I’ve noticed.

However I am a great responder lol. I do better with people who initiate but who can adjust to care about what I want too.

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I only have knowledge when it comes to dating so I couldn't help with the friendship side when dealing with women. I stick to myself and don't have a huge circle of female friends, because I don't keep up with women like they need me to. I can be too much of a loner to keep very extroverted friends.

I do a lot that can exclude people, and women can get hurt by this, but I don't want to be bothered sometimes. I can be selfish with my time and energy. I mostly am only up for good times and women can come to think of me as selfish cause I don't want to listen to their problems if they are constantly calling me with bad news.

You mentioned never dating one, so I just wrote what I knew about them.

As for cheating, like with every sign, people will do it. I don't think it's a sign thing.

I agree with the dating sites. LOL People seriously forget to just be friends first and get to know one another. Everyone seems to have such high expectations. Like chill, relax, we got time!

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@PuzzlePieces - "She now talks to me differently, asking instead of telling & we are back to great friends again. Because I don’t follow anymore, I’m stronger than that." - I'm glad you stood up to her. Gemini's will walk the hell all over you if we find you are weak. I have actually stopped myself from doing that anymore. If you are direct, we can absolutely respect that. Maybe not in the moment, but certainly afterward. I've learned and evolved from my earlier toxic ways. Bossiness and controlling being one of them. I've seen the consequences of that and have let it go.

btw - I don't cheat. My Cancer moon will not allow me to be happy that way.

We were fighting for two years prior to the break in the friendship. The break was not made easily. It was when I backed up to take space for myself, because I needed it. That’s definitely what happened not in the moment, but later. After some bad shit happened to her & she had to re-evaluate her behavior.

Good to hear on the not cheating. I have never understood why people cheat. For me, I leave first.

The Gemini men I know are really good guys. All of them!

I know I've said it before but we are LOOKING for those boundaries. We push and push (consciously or not) until we smack into something that stops us. I can respect someone who calls me on my own bad behaviour.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

I like Geminis a lot, but the men can have a hard time adulting. But if you can find a responsible one, who has their shit together, it's good.

If you're bad at initiating, then a Gemini is for you. You barely have to do anything because they love the chase. It's mostly about having, fun, loving them and reciprocation.

As long as they have this, it's easy to keep them.

I don't know what else to add, read their actions more then their words. If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot.

They are consistent and loyal and show great vulnerability in relationships.

What type of things don't work for you in dating? You mention that you've dated some signs but you don't talk too much about what goes wrong.

Lol the long term friend IS bossy and gets hurt if you don’t take her advice 😂😂 her getting hurt when I didn’t do everything she told me to do because she knew best .. her feelings got hurt & she blocked me for 2 years!!!! She has a cancer moon btw. She is floored that I forgave her btw.. but she came back cuz I’m the kind person. I may say things bluntly but my actions are here I am with open arms.. she a leader & people follow. Used to be a personal trainer and now is selling/influencing wellness. She now talks to me differently, asking instead of telling & we are back to great friends again. Because I don’t follow anymore, I’m stronger than that. We have both had a lot of growth. The 2nd friend that is possible on the bossiness. I think you just have to ignore it. It’s just irritating when I say oh I did this & and it’s a big rant on how I was wrong and how I should’ve done something 🙄🙄🙄 I want to say whatever but I’m keeping my mouth shut these days.. change the conversation.

This wasn’t about dating someone actually.. I was just curious lol. But since you asked, I have done a metric ton of growth since my divorce. When I see unhealthy behavior, enabling, codependent I’m out. I’ve been there & I'm not going back to that situation. Also I’m very independent, nice, kind etc & some people think that means they can mold me & walk on me and that’s a NO. So I’m out. I tend to attract emotionally unavailable guys ugh & I’m not doing that anymore either. I used to try to help them, but I’m thinking of me these days. Not online dating cuz I always meet the same types.. lonely, need help or just want sex. I’ve gotten a lot stronger & am good with me. If I meet someone who is on the healthy side and we click, that would be cool.

Oh & on Gemini’s loyal? All the female Gems I know cheat. They don’t seem to have a lot of boundaries. Just what I’ve noticed.

However I am a great responder lol. I do better with people who initiate but who can adjust to care about what I want too.

I only have knowledge when it comes to dating so I couldn't help with the friendship side when dealing with women. I stick to myself and don't have a huge circle of female friends, because I don't keep up with women like they need me to. I can be too much of a loner to keep very extroverted friends.

I do a lot that can exclude people, and women can get hurt by this, but I don't want to be bothered sometimes. I can be selfish with my time and energy. I mostly am only up for good times and women can come to think of me as selfish cause I don't want to listen to their problems if they are constantly calling me with bad news.

You mentioned never dating one, so I just wrote what I knew about them.

As for cheating, like with every sign, people will do it. I don't think it's a sign thing.

I agree with the dating sites. LOL People seriously forget to just be friends first and get to know one another. Everyone seems to have such high expectations. Like chill, relax, we got time!

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I’m kinda the same with friends. I just don’t do small talk but I love to go out & have fun. So maybe 2 sides of me lol. I’m a little too intense for some people but other people love that. You’re totally right on the cheating.. every sign. It’s really the person & how they handle things.

Lol totally about dating sites!!!! Everyone is in such a hurry. Let’s get to know each other, and just cuz I’m friendly doesn’t mean I’m into you. I am a nice person.. go figure 🤷‍♀️

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

I like Geminis a lot, but the men can have a hard time adulting. But if you can find a responsible one, who has their shit together, it's good.

If you're bad at initiating, then a Gemini is for you. You barely have to do anything because they love the chase. It's mostly about having, fun, loving them and reciprocation.

As long as they have this, it's easy to keep them.

I don't know what else to add, read their actions more then their words. If words are gonna hurt your feelings, then they aren't for you because they play with words a lot.

They are consistent and loyal and show great vulnerability in relationships.

What type of things don't work for you in dating? You mention that you've dated some signs but you don't talk too much about what goes wrong.

Bro chill! You’re just trying to get in my good side. You knew I would read this

Will all the Gemini men in the room please take a seat! 😛 Your number will be called shortly! Ha!

I think we're so fucking shocked to hear from someone who seems to like Gemini men and get how they work

All you usually hear is "I don't like Geminis" or "Why is this Gemini being a Gemini?"

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I just know how to give good belly rubs and butter you guys up lmao

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

I love Virgos for a while and then they start to get a bit critical or bossy and I then deliberately set them off by doing stuff that irritates their pedantic, perfectionist nature and then it's countdown to detonation

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This is what Sagittarius women is for. They can handle us. I would advise a Sagittarius and Scorpio women for us gem dudes that likes to play. But just beware of the November Scorpio women. Those are the ones are like spitting cobras. Spit venom in your eyes and ask questions later.

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I'm a male Gemini rising. I feel more like a Gemini than I do an Aries (my sun sign).

Geminis would never purposely hurt an innocent person unless. At the same time, Gemini's can be vindictive in a very witty and hurtful way. If you can't play back with me, I am not interested in you. I need someone to keep the conversation going. I want someone who can drink wine and be in stitches with me. Sagittarius women are great about this.

The problem with Sag women is everyone wants their attention. When you are in a relationship with them, you see their true self. The behind closed doors Sag is a lot different than the dinner party Sag. Gemini's, being the twins, understand this.

So many don't see how Sag or Gem can be inside of a relationship. They only see the façade of how we are socially. I actually like that about our signs. Only the ones who matter most get to see all sides of us.

Like Charlize Theron said of her ex sag, even after it was over-

"I don't think I could have imagined a love like that. I've been in love before, But have I ever been with somebody who I really, truly felt had my back and was my best friend? No, not until Stuart"

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

I love Virgos for a while and then they start to get a bit critical or bossy and I then deliberately set them off by doing stuff that irritates their pedantic, perfectionist nature and then it's countdown to detonation

This is what Sagittarius women is for. They can handle us. I would advise a Sagittarius and Scorpio women for us gem dudes that likes to play. But just beware of the November Scorpio women. Those are the ones are like spitting cobras. Spit venom in your eyes and ask questions later.

Scorpios tend to hate me but I agree with the Sag part 😆

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You see I got a lot of dark aspects. I wanna believe this why Scorpio women likes following me around like a puppy. My dark intense presence don't scare them away like I scare most other signs away. You might not have that aura.

I just can't with the November Scorpio women. I worked with one many moons ago and she was a really sweet person. We actually became good friends but not in a love connection playful kinda way. They don't go for that from Gemini men. She's nice until you push her far enough like my Sagittarius boss once did. And that was the biggest mistake he ever made in his lifetime.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

I love Virgos for a while and then they start to get a bit critical or bossy and I then deliberately set them off by doing stuff that irritates their pedantic, perfectionist nature and then it's countdown to detonation

This is what Sagittarius women is for. They can handle us. I would advise a Sagittarius and Scorpio women for us gem dudes that likes to play. But just beware of the November Scorpio women. Those are the ones are like spitting cobras. Spit venom in your eyes and ask questions later.

Scorpios tend to hate me but I agree with the Sag part 😆

You see I got a lot of dark aspects. I wanna believe this why Scorpio women likes following me around like a puppy. My dark intense presence don't scare them away like I scare most other signs away. You might not have that aura.

I just can't with the November Scorpio women. I worked with one many moons ago and she was a really sweet person. We actually became good friends but not in a love connection playful kinda way. They don't go for that from Gemini men. She's nice until you push her far enough like my Sagittarius boss once did. And that was the biggest mistake he ever made in his lifetime.

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Ha that’s my daughter 😂 She gets a little testy with her Saggie boss, and he so knows when to back off. Lol. She has dated two Libras and another Scorpio, no Gemini though. But she will bend over backwards until she feels like you have betrayed her, and then omfg.

It seems that this question is more pointed toward other Sag girls that dated Gemini men than it is for Sag men and Gemini women because you need perspective from a women's angle.

Anyway, I am currently dating a Gemini woman, and she is born on the same day and month as my college Gemini friend that I was inseparable with; it was an easy-going connection from the start, that still lasts, and although college friend was in a committed relationship with Cancer guy, and loved him, she was willing to cheat on him I could tell. She was so into me, saying how smart and handsome I am. Even openly asking me in a flirty way when I will kiss her?

She wanted me to kiss her, but I didn't. Even tho I would hold my hand on her knee, squeezing it, and things like that, she would laugh and blush.

As I've said, the current Gemini woman is born on the same day and month, an easy-going connection from the start, and great chemistry. Since we kissed, she is texting me so often, asking many questions, calling me on the phone, planning things that include me, etc. Effortless.

I also have a Gemini male friend, he is very good at seducing girls, but he becomes such a wimp when he falls in love. Too romantic, showering with gifts, too naive, and then they dump him. He is then crushed for days and weeks. Although, whenever he was one year into the relationship, even tho he loved those girls, he cheated on the side, just pure sex. Now he kinda gave up on something long-term. I don't see him uploading pics with girls as he did before, even avoid those topics.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

I love Virgos for a while and then they start to get a bit critical or bossy and I then deliberately set them off by doing stuff that irritates their pedantic, perfectionist nature and then it's countdown to detonation

This is what Sagittarius women is for. They can handle us. I would advise a Sagittarius and Scorpio women for us gem dudes that likes to play. But just beware of the November Scorpio women. Those are the ones are like spitting cobras. Spit venom in your eyes and ask questions later.

Scorpios tend to hate me but I agree with the Sag part 😆

You see I got a lot of dark aspects. I wanna believe this why Scorpio women likes following me around like a puppy. My dark intense presence don't scare them away like I scare most other signs away. You might not have that aura.

I just can't with the November Scorpio women. I worked with one many moons ago and she was a really sweet person. We actually became good friends but not in a love connection playful kinda way. They don't go for that from Gemini men. She's nice until you push her far enough like my Sagittarius boss once did. And that was the biggest mistake he ever made in his lifetime.

Ha that’s my daughter 😂 She gets a little testy with her Saggie boss, and he so knows when to back off. Lol. She has dated two Libras and another Scorpio, no Gemini though. But she will bend over backwards until she feels like you have betrayed her, and then omfg.

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Goes to show you don't cross those Nov Scorpio women. That Scorpio lady been gone beat the shit out our sag boss and I wasn't gonna intervene either cus that would serve him right.

I can tell you what it's like with mars.

A sag and gem are planning a trip to the coast. The Sag is browsing the different sights at the coast. The Gem is browsing the stops to the coast.

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It seems that this question is more pointed toward other Sag girls that dated Gemini men than it is for Sag men and Gemini women because you need perspective from a women's angle.

Anyway, I am currently dating a Gemini woman, and she is born on the same day and month as my college Gemini friend that I was inseparable with; it was an easy-going connection from the start, that still lasts, and although college friend was in a committed relationship with Cancer guy, and loved him, she was willing to cheat on him I could tell. She was so into me, saying how smart and handsome I am. Even openly asking me in a flirty way when I will kiss her?

She wanted me to kiss her, but I didn't. Even tho I would hold my hand on her knee, squeezing it, and things like that, she would laugh and blush.

As I've said, the current Gemini woman is born on the same day and month, an easy-going connection from the start, and great chemistry. Since we kissed, she is texting me so often, asking many questions, calling me on the phone, planning things that include me, etc. Effortless.

I also have a Gemini male friend, he is very good at seducing girls, but he becomes such a wimp when he falls in love. Too romantic, showering with gifts, too naive, and then they dump him. He is then crushed for days and weeks. Although, whenever he was one year into the relationship, even tho he loved those girls, he cheated on the side, just pure sex. Now he kinda gave up on something long-term. I don't see him uploading pics with girls as he did before, even avoid those topics.

I was interested in Gemini women/Sag men connection too. Especially after seeing a couple of you Sag guys mentioning the connection. Yes that seems to go with the lack of boundaries I’ve witnessed.. of course not all are like that. I have been friends with a couple of Gemini guys who had interest in me. But, i had none. Still was fun to hang out.

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I think there is a learning curve with Geminis, that people have to learn. They are playful and say things in such a way that it sounds like it's bossy, but really it's just for fun to see if you will do it.

And for this exact reason is why Gemini men and Virgo women don't mix. And the reason why from now on I stay quiet cus if I say anything people gone think I'm trying to be bossy.

Everything else you said is pretty spot on. I think you been reading up on Gemini men quite often. You really talkin bout me in your post.

I love Virgos for a while and then they start to get a bit critical or bossy and I then deliberately set them off by doing stuff that irritates their pedantic, perfectionist nature and then it's countdown to detonation

This is what Sagittarius women is for. They can handle us. I would advise a Sagittarius and Scorpio women for us gem dudes that likes to play. But just beware of the November Scorpio women. Those are the ones are like spitting cobras. Spit venom in your eyes and ask questions later.

Scorpios tend to hate me but I agree with the Sag part 😆

You see I got a lot of dark aspects. I wanna believe this why Scorpio women likes following me around like a puppy. My dark intense presence don't scare them away like I scare most other signs away. You might not have that aura.

I just can't with the November Scorpio women. I worked with one many moons ago and she was a really sweet person. We actually became good friends but not in a love connection playful kinda way. They don't go for that from Gemini men. She's nice until you push her far enough like my Sagittarius boss once did. And that was the biggest mistake he ever made in his lifetime.

Ha that’s my daughter 😂 She gets a little testy with her Saggie boss, and he so knows when to back off. Lol. She has dated two Libras and another Scorpio, no Gemini though. But she will bend over backwards until she feels like you have betrayed her, and then omfg.

Did she last longer with the Scorpio?

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She’s long relationship type. 2 years with Scorp, 3 years off & on with first Libra. 2nd Libra is new but they’ve been best friends for 2+ years. It’s the healthiest dynamic so far. She’s only 20.

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I have never dated a Gemini male, although one tried to get me to date him. It would’ve been fun but he was way too old lol. Great stimulating conversations though!

I have had so many Gemini female friends though. They piss me off when they tell me what to do seriously! But they always seem to come back. One is a friend for 17 years! Boy we’ve been through it.. the good & the bad, the ups & downs, and cutting off the friendship only to reconnect a couple of years later. Another just asked me to hang out on 4th of July. We definitely have fun and great conversations but I think it must be deeper than that. I’m seriously bad at initiating. Leo’s & Gemini’s seem to have no problem 😂😂 and they both talk a lot 🤪

So tell me your impression of the Gem/Sag connection…

My Sag F. bestie had a notorious reputation for ruining relationships or even the potential of one, all during the “honeymoon” stage. Longest relationship was two months with a Leo.

And all of a sudden she meets this Gem guy and they both stuck to each other like GLUE!!

It was long distance relationship but they made it work for about 6 months. Then pandemic hit, she got stuck in his country for a whole year and now she is still with him and inseparable with him!

I don’t know what it is, but she is less flaky with him, she played the least amount of games with him, she made the most effort for him, and sabotaged the least for him.

I am SO HAPPY for her 🥰😍😍🥰

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Interesting! Good to hear 🙂 I seem to be doing it backwards lol first I had long term relationships & now I’m not putting up with shit 😂

Recovery time for both is fast so less hurt feels. But all bets are off if you got fish moon lmao