2008 Resolutions...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by SouthernT on Friday, December 21, 2007 and has 37 replies.

Effective Relationship Resolutions for 2008

Setting clear relationship goals in 2008 can strengthen connections and improve communication. Focus on honesty, quality time, and mutual understanding to build a healthier partnership. Resolutions like expressing appreciation and resolving conflicts constructively support long-term relationship growth.

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"Dating - Avoid Virgos Relationship - Avoid Virgos Marriage - Avoid Virgos"

I embrace and accept you the way that you are even though you have nothing positive to say and for some idiotic sadistic reason, you really get off on it. KISSES!::MUAH::

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@SouthernT
18 Years

We may be difficult at first, but once you get on the inside and get close to us, you'll love it. PROMISE. ๐Ÿ™‚

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"Antibling--->isn't that typical of most women though,or so they say(excluding Leos....) โ€”"

lol.. ๐Ÿ™‚

the point is to look at things that we "may" need to change within ourselves instead of taking it as an oppurtunity to point the finger at the other party.

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"Michael II--->I think if a man gets inside of any woman he'll love it."

yeah but the point is getting you guys inside of us and still having your repsect in the morning and the months to come.... ๐Ÿ™‚

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"ScorpioBehindYou--->I think if you make a resolution to not make any resolutions. You'll find it to be more fulfilling."

yeah I understand what you're saying, but I cant agree with you on this one. If a person's actions are not getting them the results that they want, then that means that they need to make personal changes to get what they want.

Alot people loose someone that they love because they refuse to make adjustments and compromise for the sake of BOTH individuals involved. Then later on, that same person is saying "shoulda... woulda... coulda..."

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"So ST...what are YOUR resolutions in those areas thenโ€”?
May I suggest avoiding Scorps until you can think with your intuitionโ€”?
Try Cancer instead...good ol mama's boy. Or even your polar opposite...a dreamy Pisces.
But please....please....dahling...don't wait a year.....kโ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”?"

I have nooo problem at all sharing and admiting my faults. No hang ups in that department.
My resolutions:

For at least 12 months, I vow to simply hang out with guys and not have ANY expectations and enjoy their friendships. Just have a good time and take life one day at a time. Part of my problem is this mental image that I have in my head of the end result that I want: Marriage and kids. I have this HUGE fear that it will never happen for me. In fact, that is my #1 fear in life and as a person. That no one will love me enough to want to marry me. (regardless of how much I know I love myself) And it shows through my actions with men. Next year, I will let go alot sooner and be more cut-throat about letting go of a situation. Won't stick around where I'm not wanted or needed. No expectations...No intentions. No feelings.

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"Try Cancer instead...good ol mama's boy. Or even your polar opposite...a dreamy Pisces."

My college sweetheart was a Cancer and we dated for 5 years. I love him to death. Still do. However, he was male-whore and still is. And he doesnt hesitate to share that imformation with me.

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"Aedimus--->I have many positive things to say. Just not for Virgos.
As for getting off on it, I think you should stick with half-guesses instead of full blown declarations. They look less unintelligible."

::CLAP....CLAP::.....do you want a cookie now? KISSES::MUAH::

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"Michael-->Of course you're going to work consistantly. Virgos do everything consistantly. Ba ba ba booring."

yep which makes us dependable. ๐Ÿ™‚

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

"I see you've been causing enough commotion for the both of us over here. LOL."

Moi? ๐Ÿ˜‰ What can I say? I must combat stupidity whenever I see it.

Now, let's SYNCHRONIZE SWATCHES!